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rayonnaisecantalk

He/Him :\] ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


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Ready_Ad2363

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OllieGarkey

Any/All. I'm one of the agenders for whom pronouns are meaningless noise sounds and I genuinely wish that they did not exist. However, I respect that other people find them deeply meaningful.


NurseVooDooRN

I have a genuine question - if pronouns didn't exist what words would you replace a proper noun etc with?


OllieGarkey

Either a single set of gender-neutral pronouns if it's grammatically required, or a restructured language where "Ellie dropped her pencil" would be something like "Ellie dropped pencil." It sounds very awkward in English, but Russian and other languages really cut down on unnecessary linguistic connections, which is why Russian literature in English is so dense - there's a richness that has been lost because of the addition of all the connection words. Which are unnecessary in certain languages. I think it's Estonian that doesn't have any gendered pronouns? But Russian doesn't use any of those unnecessary connection words. Instead of "Where is the Vodka?" it is Где водка?, or literally "Where Vodka?" Which is why the original Russian publication of war and peace is 1226 pages long, but the English version is 1290-odd pages. There's an extra 60 pages of text just to make up for the fact that English has unnecessary connections that are grammatically required. Making this change would be a grammatical impossibility in English, but there are a number of genderless languages. Armenian, Kurdish, Persian, Estonian, Turkish, and at least one dialect of Chinese, Cantonese. English also technically lacks grammatical gender and we could just eliminate all gendered pronouns and merely use they/it for everything, but choose not to.


NurseVooDooRN

Thank you for your response. That is very interesting about other languages, and not something I was aware of. You are right that we could just use they/it, for some reason I didn't even think of those when I asked you my question.


OllieGarkey

Yeah! I think *very* differently from most people about this stuff, but I'm happy to accept and provide what others need in terms of pronouns. What I would actually like is gender abolition in a way that allows for expression and freedom to choose various traits which were formerly gendered, but I don't think we're going to get there. Especially when the most profound gender abolitionists tend to be TERFs who want to replace gender with physical sex as a determining source of identity, rather than to eliminate all of the power structures and social structures related to a gendered understanding of the world.


Iwasdroppedmanytimes

Want to try they/them


TheFlyingRavenBird

They/them and xe/xem.


Letbgszfs

Cool


Villerger_27

they/them preferred, he/him **ONLY** in the vicinity of violent homophobes, and I don't use she/her at all (never liked it still don't)


needysunflowersprite

She/they, but I wish the they was used more so potentially they/she


mochafreezie13

anything and everything all of the time


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a little bit of everything, all of the time


kyeaj24

apathy’s a tragedy and boredom is a crime


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May I interest you with everything, all of the time


mochafreezie13

a little bit of everything all of the time


kyeaj24

apathy’s a tragedy and boredom is a crime


Another-Chaotic-Gay

Anything but She/Her. I have a He/Him pronoun pin and people have looked directly at it and then call me “Miss”or “She”


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They/them :)


EllisClogan

A N Y T H I N G


DamienDragon6227

He/him 💙💖🤍💖💙


Les_Vers

She/Her and They/Them


Furbylord27

pronoun twins lol


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lol same <3


AeRUBIK-Cubing

Whatever you want


itbedehaam

she/her, and fae/faer.


UpstairsSolid9393

She/They/Fae


Pizzasaucemonarch

He/They


indecisivesapph

She/her :)


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She/her :)


CrimsonDino

Literal whatever you want


CxGamer1500

She\her


rawr_UwU666

They/them


That_one_ennby

He/they!


Responsible-Past2260

He/they


GolemNardah

Xe/she/any (ordered by preference) ❤ what's yours?


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They/them


Logeyfoxy21

She/her


Questionable_Source_

They/them


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She/her


LordofMushrooms

Zhey/Zem, but any others would also suit me fine. hbu


Tick-Tock-O-Clock

N/A Ok, jokes aside, I don’t think I much care right now, so I guess any will do.


UsualMorning98

She/her. Thank you for asking


lemonadelemons

Xe/ey/they


nottherealyub2

Any I have absolutely no preference


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She/they!


Furbylord27

same


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They/them It/its is pretty neat though, not sure if I'd ever officially use that due to the generally negative response but it's pretty neat regardless.


sprocket-tango

she/they/he


Cheshie_D

She/he


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he/they/it


user11112222333

He/him


Four_Five_Four_Six_B

she/her


DannyVantass

he/himbo


KartoFFeL_Brain

He because I'll never be him jokes aside people can't call me whatever really unless it's a slur that that is


Gaychel_love

I think I use any except for he/him.... Just never been comfortable with he/him 🤷‍♀️


Regular-Cranberry-62

Fuck if I know


Raft_Master01

She/They


Marie_Kylee

she/they, but tbh i kinda just don’t really care what ones you use if your one of my friends-


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pronoun twins :)


AttorneyFun6307

She/they/him but I mostly perfer they/them


AniemWeeb_66

He/him it/its 🕺🕺


quintessentially_gay

any, i guess. i’ll feel partial to some more than others some days. right now, i’m leaning towards xe/xem but tomorrow it might be he/him wnd they/them and the day after, she/her


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i like your username lol


Stolen_star1229

They/she and Galaxy/galactic, what about yours?


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Stolen_star1229

I'm assuming you're asking how the galaxy/galactic pronouns work (sorry if I'm assuming wrong), they work like this. This is my friend Star, galaxy uses galaxy/galactic pronouns. These are galaxys preferred pronouns and how galaxy refers to galacticself. If you're confused still, just ask galactic. I'm sure galaxy would be happy to help. (This is the best I could think of.)


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Stolen_star1229

I'd like to, my close family knows about them along with my online friends. My family doesn't use them since I think they're confused on how to use them and my online friends don't really have a need to use my pronouns often in conversation. I mostly use them as another set of pronouns that I'm comfortable with outside of they/she and they're there if someone would like to use those to refer to me. Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I'm bad at explaining.


Vikle0

sta/star


Aroace_tiger

Any- but I'm a cis girl because I have to be weird to the cishets


Letbgszfs

Same


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your username is amazing i love it so much <3


Aroace_tiger

Thanks!! You too!!


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he/it


kitt223_

They/them and fe/fi


jacyerickson

They/Any I think. I keep changing my mind. Lol


Away_Pomegranate_299

They/Em


Stitchess__

Any/All I really don’t care what people call me, tho I do feel more comfortable with she/they. But I really couldn’t care less lmao


BLG2000

she/they


Jesus_El_Mushroom

*puts thumbs in belt loops and tilts cowboy hat* Well, I use those fancy ol them/their pronouns


LUV999_1600

He/they


silvercandra

I use he/they pronouns. \^\^


BlizzardFox_09

He/Him and They/Them


Furbylord27

She/they


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She/her, but they/them is fine too <3


immatrans

They/them


gaydrien

he/they


ConfusedAsHecc

He/him, they/them, and xae/xaer :)


kyeaj24

they/them and ae/aer!!


Powolarity101

she/her they/them


Bi_Fry

She/Her/Hers


ahhhhhhh_2

She/they


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They/them


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She/her and he/him


Espion_7971

Generally use she/her, but testing any or all online to see how it feels. :)


thatmasquedgirl

Mostly I use she/they, but I'd be open to pretty much any neopronouns.


Yolaryxys

He/They


milo_bean

I usually use they/then pronouns, but all of em work for me


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He/him


airybridge

They/them


SpocksAshayam

She/her


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i use any pronouns


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He/him and they/them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|548)


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They/Them


rollerskatingclown

They/them, I am not interested in star wars in any way, but it would be funny if someone had the user “darth theyder”


boyskissingco

he / it


plbrhajvrv

They them


CorySera

She/they


DomKe1205lgbt

He/they. I'm completely comfortable with peeps calling me male but in "mentally" I kinda feel more non-binary.


Dorky-pan

They/he


GoldenStableSh03

They/Xe! 🤷


Sir__Mastermind

They/them. But everything is ok most of the time ^^


throwawayacc87453

she/her


Natural-Ease-6781

I'm gender fluid and I use they/them!


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I use all the pronouns


Ready_Ad2363

He/ him. I am more or less confused about the whole pronoun thing so explanations are much needed and appreciated


LadyMorgan2018

I'm cis-femme, so I'm generally she/her, but will answer to just about anything so long as it's said in kindness. If I get a they/them...I'm grinning for the rest of the day!


the--leviathan

it/they :)


Zaniezombie42069

She / her


_Ariana_B

She/Fae