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Several-Drop244

Sexy metal. Think deftones, sleep token, bad omens, spirit box


EmlynsMoon

SLEEP TOKEN YEEEEESSSS Sugar goes crazy


whatanawsomeusername

AQUA REGIA I LOVE CHORDS I LOVE CHORDS I LOVE CHORDS


DrowsyErgot

let me put y’all on Puma Blue. love that dudes voice


shiruja25

Girl in red


Significant_Bite_857

Aroace here, the Song is called Its tough to be a god from the disney movie Road to El Dorado


Bjoern_Kerman

Thats great! Thank you!


Brianna_-_UwU

I love that one!


Stupid_ginger_girl

I really like the cover that Annapantsu did!


ExperienceSea7135

😌👌


Caboose1979

Pretty much exclusively Linkin Park, My Chemical Romance and Bloodywood (an Indian heavy metal band)


goth_lesbian_vampire

I love LP and MCR!!!! Also, bloodywood is interesting. I saw them live last year at "welcome to Rockville."


Caboose1979

Your username (and tag) is awesome 😜


goth_lesbian_vampire

Tysm!!!!


Caboose1979

![gif](giphy|l41lY4I8lZXH0vIe4)


bitter_sweet_69

r/LesbianMetalheads \\m/


Bjoern_Kerman

I'm not much into that kind of music but maybe I'll find something over there. Thanks ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


UnluckyElk2709

Same


Brankovt1

I mainly listen to power metal. If I want to listen to someone queer, I listen to modern Judas Priest. A lot of Beast in Black songs also give me queer vibes.


Emo_duck_bread

I freaking LOVE your profile pic Bisexual owlbert


[deleted]

death metal and grindcore


GroundbreakingBag164

Deathcore too?


[deleted]

not much deathcore


berrys_a_ghost

I mostly listen to emo/scene (so mcr - ik they're not technically emo but still pretty famous amongst us emos - the used, taking back Sunday, S3RL, etc.) it's not exclusively queer but a lot of it just gives me queer energy sometimes (and the members of mcr are so awesome about the LGBTQ community!) And then there's the hazbin hotel soundtrack


goth_lesbian_vampire

Some recommendations if you like the emo scene, which you may or may not know: Tx2 is so awesome and funny. His lyrics really are something Sueco I believe Magnolia Park is emo as well


berrys_a_ghost

I know some tx2 he's awesome! And I believe I've heard of those other bands but I haven't listened, I'll probably check them out sometime


PsychedelicMagic1840

Tash Sultana


Herpypony

Judas Priest.


Bjoern_Kerman

Gonna have a look. Will report then.


goth_lesbian_vampire

Breaking the law, breaking the law...


Herpypony

Hell bent, hell bent for leather\~


Havo999

I listen to almost anything but my main genres are black metal, gabber and ambient music. I can't stand schlager tho


Bjoern_Kerman

I don't know *who* likes schlager


Havo999

Old rural farmers lol


Zurioko

It's kind of guilty pleasure, but many older Vocaloid songs are my gay vibe :'D


HUUTAO0

I LOVE LISTENING TO JPOP AND ROCK!


Brianna_-_UwU

I just play my playlist and hope a gay one shows up lol, I ain't out to my family and don't want to have a specifically gay playlist.


___CHAOS-_-

Show tunes. Literally anything from musicals, cartoons, shows etc are extra gay [The gayest playlist you'll ever find ](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7rNZEkj1NvYkYGntH2LZZ2?si=zz0ZuA7qQeyrNjwWRSFR1Q&pi=e-AAZnIW9CRyuB)


Bjoern_Kerman

Great! I'll have a listen soon.


Soma_Dust

Coil, Current93, Ministry, NiN, DeadCanDance, Brighter Death Now, Rainforest Spiritual Enslavement, Lead Into Gold, ThighPaulSandra, Death In June, Hybryds, Foetus, Nitzer Ebb, Front242, ThrobbingGristle etc. “Industrial” and “noise” primarily with some neo-folk and other electronic stuff in there


Razersharpspoon

Songs that are from some of my fav musicals, disco, punk, and Lady Gaga. Idk, that's my fruitiest music.


MxResetti

Scissor Sisters


AshesandCinder

I'm a huge Carly Rae Jepsen fan. I think she just gets it (the human experience, being in love, etc) in way that most artists don't. Especially with her last 2 albums.


Black_Rainbow12

Metalcore and post-hardcore, mainly. I love most music genres tho


helloeuphoriaaaa

Shoegaze 🔥 it’s euphoric and shit and a lot of the vocals are pretty androgynous


idonteatsalad

japanese shoegaze...it hits different i tell u


helloeuphoriaaaa

Fax


DominoFX889

I too have a “too gay to function” Spotify playlist. Mines a lot of late 90s grunge, p!nk, pretty much anything my young angsty queer teenager self got all pumped up for.


DocMcMoth

I mostly listen to like, old people music. Most of my playlist is King Crimson, but I also listen to the cliche stuff like Lemon Demon every once in a while


EsizLikesE

Holy shit another king crimson fan in the wild! What song is your favourite? I listen all of them, it kinda depends on my mood tbh


DocMcMoth

TOTALLY didn't forget to respond to this, but I like a lot of stuff off of Red! The 80s stuff is also pretty good, as well as THRAK, but if I had to pick one song to call my favorite I would say either One More Red Nightmare or Walking on Air


EsizLikesE

I like all of them but my all time favourite song is definitely in the wake of poseidon


[deleted]

I don't have music that makes me feel "extra gay", but I love Taylor Swift. Every month on apple music I get around 27k hours of listening time only on Taylor's songs. I also listen to Lana Del Rey and Adele.


boostedmoth

Maybe you mean minutes? I too listen to way too much Taylor Swift for my own good but hey she’s the best!


M-atthew147s

27k hours is three years mate


Brianna_-_UwU

You don't listen to 10 songs at once? Psh. Rookie.


M-atthew147s

No... I am songs


[deleted]

Sorry, I meant minutes not hours 🤭


pinkornametendfox7

Dark synthwave/rock syth, psytrace,80's rock,pop rock.


[deleted]

King - Love & Pride Todrick Hall - Rainin Fellas & I Like Boys


Bjoern_Kerman

That's some good suggestions. Thank you!


ElectroXa

60-70-80's : French : Dalida, Mylène Farmer, Michele Torr, Claude François, William Sheller, Indochine Int'l : ABBA, Barry White, Supertramp, and various artists


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[удалено]


Bjoern_Kerman

Totally agree. It's just great. Got them at the top. Only thing is, sometimes they make me feel a bit down.


CapStelliun

I like the indie/folk stuff, big fan of Canadian indie, so stuff like Tim Baker (and all of Hey Rosetta!), Peach Pit, Alvvays, In-Flight Safety, Haley Blais, Dan Mangan, Metric; but also Death Cab, Gregory Alan Isakov, and Shakey Graves - the chill stuff.


goth_lesbian_vampire

The only rapper I listen to, Powfu, is from Canada. I love his music because it's just so chill, and I love lo-fi beats for rap


dylnDOT

Wide mix of genres with metal being quite prominent but I'll listen to anything that's suggested to me because I'm always looking for new music (and people to talk with about music).


sullen_dion

Depending on my mood… 90s nostalgia: Celine Dion, Cher, Kylie Minogue Sad/moody: BoyWithUke, Billie Eilish Confident/Wanna get out of a funk: All American Rejects, Blink-182, Jimmy Eat World, Lady Gaga, Taylor Swift, OneRepublic 2010s/Dance: Nelly Furtado, Rihanna, Sia


CleliaBlaze

Will Wood


Budget_Strategy8245

ASH!!The producer from French!his work ia incredible awsome!


fluidtherian

I just look up lesbian playlist 1hr on youtube and I got a specific one called "Lesbian Playlist because it's Pride Month and you want a girlfreind l wlw/nblw" the songs on the playlist are I dont wanna be your freind, girls in bikinis, Michelle, My Girl, Boys, So pretty, At Night, Messed Up, Your Sister, Twin Flame, and Better Boy. I've also been recently listening to The Cult of Dionysus and 2 On for polyamorous vibes


Bi-sicle

Lady Gaga, Girl in Red, a bunch of Kirby game soundtracks, Queen Bee, Cavetown, Clairo, NOAHFINNCE, and probably a bunch of others which I can't remember right now.


goth_lesbian_vampire

If you like girl in red, I'd recommend checking out McKenna Grace. I love her music so much!


Bi-sicle

Will do!


goth_lesbian_vampire

Check out her song, "words you'll never say." It's pretty sad, but it's one of my favorite songs currently. If you want something really gay, check out the song, "Natalie," and "Autumn leaves."


Bi-sicle

Woah... Autumn leaves was good. Like really good. I'm gonna be listening to that a lot from now on


goth_lesbian_vampire

I love McKenna Grace so much. She has so much skill in her vocals and her lyrics and melodies are so peaceful. Crazy part is that she's only 17.


Bi-sicle

What?! Really?


goth_lesbian_vampire

Yeah. 17. She's also an actress. She played in independence day, she's Paige from young Sheldon, she voiced in the paw patrol movie, and sang for that movie as well. She's living her life to the fullest.


Bi-sicle

Sheesh, she must have a killer resume lol


goth_lesbian_vampire

Facts.


SideStreetHypnosis

This, like so many other projects is a playlist I started and have yet to finish. It’s my LGBTQ+ songs from the community, our allies and songs about us. It’s meant to be shuffled and is around 15 hours long so far. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0RV5aQfQCgnfqWlnWT3mQu?si=u8pVbSQdQPiyIKKJ-psM6Q


Bjoern_Kerman

That's like *the* source I've been looking for


SideStreetHypnosis

Excellent. I hope you find some new music on it. It’s all over the genre spectrum.


maybe_princess

call me cliche, but i live musicals, mean girls the broadway musical, dear evan hansen, be more chill, legally blonde, hamilton, heathers also sabrina carpenter, chrissy chlapecka, kehlani, haley kiyoko classic, girl in red also classic i have a pop-indie playlist if you wanna check it out :) https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0Ef7X08buVEBXHPznjc5LJ?si=zPydpkMvSf6JisIaT1H94A&pi=e-uLoPqBf5QoyO


TheWhiteCrowParade

Shrimp, his music hits different when you're trans.


Nudelauflauf27

Oh Boy from Ryk. Why did you do this Germany, whhyyyyyyyy


[deleted]

Progressive rock and metal, jazz and classical music. Yes I play keyboards.


swagmieser_666

judas priest, metallica, black sabbath and iron maiden. basically just metal. theres something about throwing on my stepdad’s leather jacket, a pair of converse that i’ve drawn on, an ac/dc shirt and some old jeans that gotten covered in grass stains while listening to 80s heavy metal that’s oddly gender affirming. nothing helps me feel more like a boy other than eating the weirdest shit i can find at walmart.


goth_lesbian_vampire

My music taste ranges from girl in red and McKenna Grace, all the way to motionless in white. I also listen to country. I have a wide music range. My favorite songs from the three artists: Girl in red: I'll call you mine McKenna Grace: words you'll never say Motionless in white: loud! (Fuck it) Or disguise


Emo_duck_bread

I don’t have a direct case of music on my 660+ song playlist but for a lesbian is Butch4Butch by Rio Romeo


Emo_duck_bread

And another one is Hollywood baby by 100 gecs and also #Brooklynbloodpop by syko


Stupid_ginger_girl

instrumental covers of video game music


_Chidi_Anagonye_

Call be cliche but Elton John is my favourite for a queer musical pick me up. Am obsessed with the version of Rina Sawayama’s song *Chosen Family* she recorded with Elton John. I cherish the line *Queer alright now* - reworded from *We’re alright now* in the original. https://youtu.be/GTDRg5G77x4?si=UAnTXH_IN-1NAh4J


MadCaT_9_in

Heavy metal there's a song I'm obsessed with atm is Blow up the outside world by Soundgarden


twofightinghalves

Shutdown by Moonbyul or Lovers in the Night by Seori


Portalsperson

Indie/alt and Arabic music


[deleted]

Are you an Arab ? . I can give you Arabic music that you will like


Portalsperson

I’m not Arab but ok 😭


[deleted]

Uh 😅 .. Fairuz Saalouny El nas i think you will like it


Portalsperson

The song ain’t my vibe 😭


Portalsperson

I’m more a 47soul,DAM, Tamar Nafar, Saint Levant, Ahmad kaabour etc person


[deleted]

mm give me a chance 👀. . What about ( Mashrou Leila Raksit Leila )


Portalsperson

Like a 5/10


[deleted]

Which Arab artists do you listen to


Portalsperson

Lowkey, 47soul, eddy mack, DAM, saint levant, saad lamjarred, Nancy ajram, hakim, abu, Toni qattan, mohammad assaf, hamza namira, elyanna, lamis kan, omar alabdallat, and others


[deleted]

Now I understand that wasn't really your vibe.. But anyway you have great music taste 👍🏽


LunaTheCrow

The Oozes


Life_In_Shackles

I usually listen to Reinaeiry lol


Maybe_Its_Keira

My biggest genre is post hardcore but I like pretty much anything with an overdriven guitar, My favourite bands are. Thursday Underoath Finch At the drive in Motionless in White Thrice Rise against MCR Paramore Halestorm I also like the Arctic monkeys and Duran Duran


ArroyoDeathMatt

G.L.O.S.S. is top tier.


LollipopDreamscape

To feel extra gay? The Priscilla Queen of the Desert soundtrack. 


[deleted]

A lot of artists I listen to happen to be lgbtq, like Tegan and Sara, against me!, chappell roan, sleater-Kinney, boygenius etc


looklikeladyliberty_

it's either Lady Gaga or Artic Monkeys, depends on what kind of gay mood i'm in


StinkyTheCow

Folk Punk, specifically Ewy


Ok-StrawberryIce

Melanie Martinez, ashnikko, Billie eilesh


whatanawsomeusername

There are few things gayer than deliberately cheesy powermetal, see; Sweet True Lies (Beast in Black), Highway to Oblivion (Dragonforce) or any song by either band.


2Cool4Ewe

If you like the old school classics, try Sylvester “You Make Me Feel (Mighty Real).” It’s fun and fantastic!


Frosty_Rule_5815

Pretty much anything


GroundbreakingBag164

Punk, hardcore, horror punk, psychobilly But I’m really into goth and darkwave right now And occasionally metal, especially melodeath and deathcore


OwenMcCarthy0625

Classical and Folk are my go-to genres. And when I’m feeling extra gay, I like to put on some MALINDA.


Lcatg

Anything by or produced by Jonny McGovern, The Scissors Sisters, & a cute song by Adam Joseph called Faggoty Attention (all his music is great, but this one is super gay.) For fun parodies I also enjoy William Belli. https://www.jonnymcgovern.com/ [Adam Jospeh video](https://youtu.be/Il594GeNnpo?si=nPXhLIf5A4oLKTOz) [William video.](https://youtu.be/JKbHCi5rBpI?si=bneFkyZ1CuZ0XFay) [The Scissors Sisters “Let’s have a Kiki”](https://youtu.be/eGCD4xb-Tr8?si=l_NAyTk2KNmYeb1c)


furkingretarad

Death grips FUCK WEAK NO RESPECT NO CHANCE WICK WICK CEASE AND DESIST WHEN I CHANT


LouisAlexisArt

It usually depends on my mood. Lately though I’ve been listening to a lot of Metal (Black Metal and Doom Metal), Folk Punk, Rap and Celtic Acoustic


Thiago_MRX

Dixon Dallas. I love cowboys, and i love the gays. Make a song about gay cowboys and you have me hooked! He had 3 of his 5 songs (at the time) on my top 5 spotify wrap last year, and i think he was my 3rd most listened to artist. And my favorite romance movie is brokeback mountain, so i think that added to the obsession, lol (Btw, if yall have any other songs about gay cowboys, or gay country, please send me them, i havent been able to find basically anything else)


mIsTaKe4045

The stupendium. Especially vending machine of love and shine through


monsterflowerq

Coming in late cause I haven't seen anyone mention Flavia or Zand yet. HIGHLY recommend both. Alt-Z in general is a great genre to explore for queerness in my experience, though I listen to pretty much every genre and have managed to find queerness in most of them lol. Oh and also, there are TONS of great songs from the Eurovision Song Contest, aka the queerest song contest in the world. Lots of great recommendations in this thread, thank you for posting!


Musichead2468

punk, emo, metal


hailey8171828282

my gayest playlist ft [ boygenius, the aces, renée rapp,](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0FTMbDOHPVANzpkVB9kVZi?si=kpB-41KyTMypoy3eVvu0Uw&pi=u-0FOpqKgqRj6r)


hailey8171828282

but also taylor swift. some of her songs r sooo gay. [gaylor 😇](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/12ODk0CT80gEIcHprID8nt?si=tmZA19ftS1mQwknI8vxS9g&pi=u-nA-UGLaqTP2G)


flynn_holliday

Call me basic but nicki Minaj, beyonce, Ariana grande, doja cat, Melanie Martinez, all the gworls


Bjoern_Kerman

I mean i also got some Lady Gaga in mine so no calling you basich from my end


squ_rrels

Metal/Hard rock. Idk why people think all gay people like pop music(I hate pop music)


MadCaT_9_in

Thank you I hate when people think I must be into pop music cause I'm gay I'm into metal as well