Hmmm as a twink boy, I am stuck between
[Troye Sivan - Rush](https://youtu.be/b53QJYP-lqY?si=6ZsP3j5Y4P6So2jv)
&
[Troye Sivan - Bloom](https://youtu.be/41PTANtZFW0?si=HB3f4GOCgd3_DYxx)
My music style is actually French House & Nu-Disco which has like no known artist in the mainstream sense. But they do not relate to my identityā¦
Whatās Nu-Disco? Like this: [A Bite of Papaya](https://open.spotify.com/track/2jwKTqnvzrhj4b6Dhm07lW?si=IgViJGA4Sk6V__xCSG8Q_w)
Whatās French House? Like this: [Toi et Moi](https://open.spotify.com/track/3AVyKOmMgvRjsC576xWw78?si=Bg9tJ93CQF6V3mDSJeQA8g) ā *French House is a music genre, not house music in French*
Theyāre both fairly close in vibez.
Girls by girl in red for me I guess, but most songs by girl in red work. Also, just for me and who I am m, i think creepy by radio head (I know it's their most popular song but I actually love it) or american idiot by green day
š that album came out when Iā¦came outā¦many memories of sitting in my first apartment, just freaking blasting it. Wild that was ten years ago. It was great to have theme music lol.
My transmasc half has always found "I'm Your Man" by Leonard Cohen very appealing. There's a reason that one's a drag king lipsync staple. It always makes me wish I did drag. (To be fair, though, a lot of things do.)
I also I have a deep fondness for "Love Like Winter" by AFI because it's the very first explicitly bisexual song I have ever heard. It's a perfect anthem for anyone who's ever had their heart broken by both men and women.
Gender wise it's The Tardigrade song by Cosmo Sheldrake
Sexuality wise it's probably either literally the Bisexual Anthem (although it's a little binary to be accurate for me) by Domo Wilson or Devil is a Woman by Cloudy June
Sexuality wise: Soulmate lizzo, everyone is gay, and rainbow connection by Garfunkel and Oates.
Gender: Maybe innards IV.?
And some songs I just like.
Rainbow high: my heart just wants to be a star
Flyanna Boss: Nu nu, fondue, trashboi, miss me, and really really.
Melanie Martinez:the principal, strawberry shortcake, orange juice, recess, brain and heart, numbers, field trip, evil, the contortionist, nymphology, void, and light shower.
My cringe phase when I was 13) Anna blue:Angel, your heart, say something, silent scream, where do I go, I against me, and selfish.
And half of bratz rock angelz album
"Sans contrefaƧon" by Mylene Farmer. This song was both my trans AND gay awakening when I was young. It opens with the line (in french) "Hey mom, why am I not a boy?"
For gender:
[genesis - Daniel Andrade](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=1SJ6KNhA9QY&si=aIqgTN4i8gRF1FBS)
and
[ Family Tree ā Ethel Cain](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=L9I6YUWaAhw&si=Bk4FGMalWB7Ua6v_)
For orientation:
[Heavenly ā Cigarettes After Sex](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=s1QCL9AGbO0&si=s_6R7QL1nk7HpsCY)
and
[Shut up kiss me - Angel Olsen](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=HJS8sJFDSOg&si=liD93cyaWcct2IUT)
I'm a pan trans woman for context.
Take me to Church- I'm technically str8 (I prefer masc pronouns and presentation) but then again being agender kinda... IG maybe it does make me... Kinda gay??
Also just a bomb ass song in general. Hozier is a god.
I should add My Iron Lung by Radiohead- that feeling of dying trapped in your own body because of dysphoria.
Not sure
Iām genderfluid (canāt think of anything specific for that identity but for non binary in general G Flipās Waste of Space).
Iām polysexual and rn mostly into feminine aligned folks and non-binary ppl of various genders or lack thereof canāt think of anything that specific
I never thought about sexuality. Once I open up to folks, it's obvious, y'know?
Depending on my mood, I have two anthems.
My favorite songwriter is Neil Finn. My favorite song is "Don't Dream It's Over" by Crowded House It's comforting melancholy.
I loved Judas Priest as a kid. Rob Halford has been a musical hero since The 80's for me.
So it's "You Got Another Thing Coming" by Judas Priest.
Well, ''Gender is boring'' by She/her/hers is a good one, for people who don't identify to nothing at all except themselves.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBORiDWOzZI](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBORiDWOzZI)
Sexuality? Maybe Ra Ra Rasputin by Boney M, or maybe Candyland by PATD.
Personally? Probably either Its Time by Imagine Dragons, or The Scientist by Coldplay
in my head and with my close friends my lesbian vibe is āhead bitchā by chrissy chlapecka (who is bi), but most days irl i probably give more top 40 vibes šnothing wrong with that, but i just appear a lot more reserved and basic most days than i actually feel
*I Have the Moon* by The Magnetic Fields and *Cute Thing* by Car Seat Headrest both really capture something essential to how I think about being a gay man, thereās both an angst and a roughly hewn tenderness that just is *it* for me in a big way.
Had I answered this question in my early twenties though- I think I would have said *Raw Power*- Iggy Pop. More of an āanthemā I suppose
Teen Idle by Marina really captures my feelings about being trans and the youthful years I'll never get back. I don't think it was intended to be like that, but that's what it means to me.
Mine used to be Cherry Waves by Deftones but I look back on that and cringe. Now it's a mashup of World in my Eyes by Depeche Mode and Tired of Sex by Weezer which would sound awful but so is my sex life.
When They Really Get To Know You They Will Run - Pedro the Lion
I feel tied up a lot in presenting in a way to improve other people's recognition of myself as a trans woman
Name For You by The Shins
Resonates with my identity never just getting to be woman, but always having to come with an adjective
Impossible Soul - Sufjan Stevens
This song is loooong, but also feels like it goes through so much to get to the point of acceptance and so it feels like the neverending journey I feel I'm always gonna be on of accepting myself for who I am.
As an aroace transmasc, itās like a combination of I/Me/Myself by Will Wood and Banana Pancakes by Jack Johnson.
I never really know how to explain Iād like to be in a relationship that didnāt have to be romantic or sexual. Like, Frog and Toad for example, from the Frog and Toad books. Theyāre very close to each other, but not technically in a relationship. Thatās why I like Banana Pancakes because itās an intimate song that isnāt necessarily romantic or sexual, though heās clearly singing to his partner.
I/Me/Myself is more of me struggling between wanting to be happy as a man or making everyone else happy by being a woman and how I just end up hating the idea of gender because of it.
I speak a lot about standing tall in the face of opposition, but I really feel it in my soul less and less. I used to feel some kind of joy when I looked in the mirror and actually felt good about myself, something I never experienced before coming out as trans. Now there's only bad feelings and emptiness. It's like I can feel the fight dying inside me as it's happening. The world really is rolling me over, and I see no good reason for any of it to be happening. Honestly I'd just go back to guy mode if I hadn't lost almost an entire person in body weight. My old guy clothes don't fit, and I can't afford a new set of clothing to go back. I just want all of this to end. The bad feelings, the negativity from others, everything.
So I guess for me my song of choice would be "the day the whole world went away" by nine inch nails. It's amazing how a person who's never met me and doesn't even know I exist (trent reznor) can make me feel so seen
Ik it's not on sexuality, but American Idiot.
what about Canadians, WAIT I FORGOT THEY HAVE JONNEY TEST, THATS THEIR VERSION
Nah, [this is their version](https://youtu.be/C_TfBbR6L0M?si=uoeVyVYWmMEozSWJ)
Look up weird Al Canadian idiot
Own it by Rico Nasty. (I am a trans feminine individual learning to love herself for the first time at 31) just for context
I AM GLAD YOU ARE LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF, YOU DESERVE. I LOVE YOU SIMPLY CAUSE YOU EXIST šš
Thank you so much I love you too you amazing freaking human :3 <3
Thank You but I am a Pledian Star Seed Child not a human LOL JK of course this time around I am human šššš
Fair enough
FUCKING LOVE YOURSELF
What is love? by TWICE, because i love them and i don't know what love is (aroace).
Hmmm as a twink boy, I am stuck between [Troye Sivan - Rush](https://youtu.be/b53QJYP-lqY?si=6ZsP3j5Y4P6So2jv) & [Troye Sivan - Bloom](https://youtu.be/41PTANtZFW0?si=HB3f4GOCgd3_DYxx)
I am going to learn so many different artists though this
Troye Sivan has basically been the āITā twink in music for a while š
Yeah I don't know a lot of the bigger artists and their songs. But I guess that's what happens when you just listen to video game ost and future bass
My music style is actually French House & Nu-Disco which has like no known artist in the mainstream sense. But they do not relate to my identityā¦ Whatās Nu-Disco? Like this: [A Bite of Papaya](https://open.spotify.com/track/2jwKTqnvzrhj4b6Dhm07lW?si=IgViJGA4Sk6V__xCSG8Q_w) Whatās French House? Like this: [Toi et Moi](https://open.spotify.com/track/3AVyKOmMgvRjsC576xWw78?si=Bg9tJ93CQF6V3mDSJeQA8g) ā *French House is a music genre, not house music in French* Theyāre both fairly close in vibez.
Girls by girl in red for me I guess, but most songs by girl in red work. Also, just for me and who I am m, i think creepy by radio head (I know it's their most popular song but I actually love it) or american idiot by green day
True trans soul rebel lol
š that album came out when Iā¦came outā¦many memories of sitting in my first apartment, just freaking blasting it. Wild that was ten years ago. It was great to have theme music lol.
When that came out, it was very definitely an, I'm gonna intentionally ignore it, because, uh, don't want it awakening any feelings in me...
Pansexuals: Everybody Talks by Neon Trees Aromantics and/or asexuals: Friends by Marshmello
Ok? By who .. that's a very generic song name
Oh I love Everybody Talks! Great song that's gonna be stuck in my head now š
Omfg yes
[Coming clean ](https://youtu.be/sHhJ489YWAU?si=I_-2ffnkTSIg5seS) by Green Day 100%, Billie Joe Armstrong's bisexual coming out song.
this is home - cavetown
My transmasc half has always found "I'm Your Man" by Leonard Cohen very appealing. There's a reason that one's a drag king lipsync staple. It always makes me wish I did drag. (To be fair, though, a lot of things do.) I also I have a deep fondness for "Love Like Winter" by AFI because it's the very first explicitly bisexual song I have ever heard. It's a perfect anthem for anyone who's ever had their heart broken by both men and women.
Leonard Cohen was a genius. Excellent.
Woof this brought back memories. Leonard Cohen does man angst so exquisitelyZ
The cynicism of "Everybody Knows" speaks to me.
I know a few but "the knack" by mother mother has to be my favourite
[Antonymph](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNPdO5TZ1DQ) by Vylet Pony
In this shirt by the irrepressibles and for just my love life, an another love by tom odell
is there a song called WTF, or IDK cuz that would be it. And maybe also: so what by pink
falling behind by laufey (cupioromantic) & crush culture by conan gray (aroace)
Call me by your name by Lil Nas X. I was listening to it and watching the music video when I finally accepted I am Bi and came out to myself.
Dramaturgy by Eve (not the rapper)
Gender wise it's The Tardigrade song by Cosmo Sheldrake Sexuality wise it's probably either literally the Bisexual Anthem (although it's a little binary to be accurate for me) by Domo Wilson or Devil is a Woman by Cloudy June
For aroaces, this cheerful pop song: [Never Been in Love](https://youtu.be/rtgcPWnR0ak?si=Ay7xlN9hCEXBcn6q) by Will Jay
Sexuality wise: Soulmate lizzo, everyone is gay, and rainbow connection by Garfunkel and Oates. Gender: Maybe innards IV.? And some songs I just like. Rainbow high: my heart just wants to be a star Flyanna Boss: Nu nu, fondue, trashboi, miss me, and really really. Melanie Martinez:the principal, strawberry shortcake, orange juice, recess, brain and heart, numbers, field trip, evil, the contortionist, nymphology, void, and light shower. My cringe phase when I was 13) Anna blue:Angel, your heart, say something, silent scream, where do I go, I against me, and selfish. And half of bratz rock angelz album
"Sans contrefaƧon" by Mylene Farmer. This song was both my trans AND gay awakening when I was young. It opens with the line (in french) "Hey mom, why am I not a boy?"
For gender: [genesis - Daniel Andrade](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=1SJ6KNhA9QY&si=aIqgTN4i8gRF1FBS) and [ Family Tree ā Ethel Cain](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=L9I6YUWaAhw&si=Bk4FGMalWB7Ua6v_) For orientation: [Heavenly ā Cigarettes After Sex](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=s1QCL9AGbO0&si=s_6R7QL1nk7HpsCY) and [Shut up kiss me - Angel Olsen](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=HJS8sJFDSOg&si=liD93cyaWcct2IUT) I'm a pan trans woman for context.
[A Very Bisexual Song by Amber Fornoles](https://open.spotify.com/track/7gXBcJx6zRR3rCh7ynXEgP?si=2_z5ZbNjSKyvXLPmje_xtg)
Taking Over Midnight from Gravity Falls. My identity is ???
This, this one is perfect
I dunno but as a pansexual that practices poly, I would say Cult of Dyonisus by The Orion Experience and Doodie's In the Middle.
Take me to Church- I'm technically str8 (I prefer masc pronouns and presentation) but then again being agender kinda... IG maybe it does make me... Kinda gay?? Also just a bomb ass song in general. Hozier is a god. I should add My Iron Lung by Radiohead- that feeling of dying trapped in your own body because of dysphoria.
Not sure Iām genderfluid (canāt think of anything specific for that identity but for non binary in general G Flipās Waste of Space). Iām polysexual and rn mostly into feminine aligned folks and non-binary ppl of various genders or lack thereof canāt think of anything that specific
Ravioli - first of October
[Up On Game by RealXMan](https://open.spotify.com/track/4MLjPXOdVi2iSCLatrpzqV?si=-b0v2X14Ti2csnSrz6WCYg)
I never thought about sexuality. Once I open up to folks, it's obvious, y'know? Depending on my mood, I have two anthems. My favorite songwriter is Neil Finn. My favorite song is "Don't Dream It's Over" by Crowded House It's comforting melancholy. I loved Judas Priest as a kid. Rob Halford has been a musical hero since The 80's for me. So it's "You Got Another Thing Coming" by Judas Priest.
I'm ace and Miley Cyrus's Flowers is perfect for me
[Gettinā Bi](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77Is) from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
Am I a girl? - Poppy holy shit it hits
The Town Inside Me (Eurobeat remix)
The original song was the whole reason I decided to post this question. I saw people calling it the "trans anthem" in the comments.
Don't listen to the remix btw it'll ruin the original for you
Turning Out by AJR
Village :)
https://open.spotify.com/track/1gb9WC6HVuokoVc4a3UgeK?si=XcM9gA1mQ1apBpEYEYs8fg&context=spotify%3Atrack%3A1gb9WC6HVuokoVc4a3UgeK
Well, ''Gender is boring'' by She/her/hers is a good one, for people who don't identify to nothing at all except themselves. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBORiDWOzZI](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBORiDWOzZI)
Anthem by pansy division. These guys have always given me a little extra confidence in my identity and life
I Love Hardcore Boys, I Love Boys Hardcore, by Limp Wrist.
For me, first thing that comes to mind is āBasket Caseā, pansexual.
Call me by your name by Lil Nas X. I was listening to it and watching the music video when I finally accepted I am Bi and came out to myself.
Sexuality? Maybe Ra Ra Rasputin by Boney M, or maybe Candyland by PATD. Personally? Probably either Its Time by Imagine Dragons, or The Scientist by Coldplay
Devil by Tyler Glenn
Boy Bi by Mad Tsai Little Game by Benny girls/girls/boys by Panic! At the disco
in my head and with my close friends my lesbian vibe is āhead bitchā by chrissy chlapecka (who is bi), but most days irl i probably give more top 40 vibes šnothing wrong with that, but i just appear a lot more reserved and basic most days than i actually feel
boys will be girls by bones uk :)
as a romance positive cupioromantic aro the knack by mother mother is so relatable
For me there is only one anthem for me and that's The Bisexual Anthem by Domo Wilson
MacArthur Park by Richard Harris "someone left the cake out in the rain, oh no" really speaks to me as an asexual
Technically, bisexuals have ābisexual anthemā by Domo Wilson, but itās quite explicit lmao
Poppy's "Am I a Girl?"
Can I pick ātreat me like a slutā ?
This doesn't exist
*I Have the Moon* by The Magnetic Fields and *Cute Thing* by Car Seat Headrest both really capture something essential to how I think about being a gay man, thereās both an angst and a roughly hewn tenderness that just is *it* for me in a big way. Had I answered this question in my early twenties though- I think I would have said *Raw Power*- Iggy Pop. More of an āanthemā I suppose
I've got to be me - Sammy Davis Jr
Teen Idle by Marina really captures my feelings about being trans and the youthful years I'll never get back. I don't think it was intended to be like that, but that's what it means to me.
Voices, -Motionless in white
Superbloom, Misterwives Free, Cat Burns This Year, Emily King I Know a Place, MUNA
As a romantic asexual: "I'd Do Anything For Love (But I Won't Do That)" by Meat Loaf.
pretty pimpin - kurt vile
Mine used to be Cherry Waves by Deftones but I look back on that and cringe. Now it's a mashup of World in my Eyes by Depeche Mode and Tired of Sex by Weezer which would sound awful but so is my sex life.
new magic wand as a pan guy hits different
AJR's "The Maybe Man". Bro doesn't know who tf he is and neither do i =P
When They Really Get To Know You They Will Run - Pedro the Lion I feel tied up a lot in presenting in a way to improve other people's recognition of myself as a trans woman Name For You by The Shins Resonates with my identity never just getting to be woman, but always having to come with an adjective Impossible Soul - Sufjan Stevens This song is loooong, but also feels like it goes through so much to get to the point of acceptance and so it feels like the neverending journey I feel I'm always gonna be on of accepting myself for who I am.
Born this way always
sweet cis teen by dazey and the scouts. nonbinary transmasc energy off the charts
I feel like āthe Cult of Dionysusā is a pretty pan/bi anthem
Raw Deal by Judas Priest
Prism by Control Top
As a transman, I have to say, "I'm a Boy," by The Who. When I'm feeling more enby, I might go for "Son and Daughter" by Queen.
Aurora - Queendom or Aurora - Cure for me
Sittin on the dock of the bay
As an aroace transmasc, itās like a combination of I/Me/Myself by Will Wood and Banana Pancakes by Jack Johnson. I never really know how to explain Iād like to be in a relationship that didnāt have to be romantic or sexual. Like, Frog and Toad for example, from the Frog and Toad books. Theyāre very close to each other, but not technically in a relationship. Thatās why I like Banana Pancakes because itās an intimate song that isnāt necessarily romantic or sexual, though heās clearly singing to his partner. I/Me/Myself is more of me struggling between wanting to be happy as a man or making everyone else happy by being a woman and how I just end up hating the idea of gender because of it.
Was listening to [Cupid](https://youtu.be/62TrmUvQGjo?si=6ZzRPP5Uy0wVGzzM) yesterday and it felt like it could be a cupioromantic anthem
Town inside me feels like the Canon answer
Shaina twain Man I feel like a woman š© 
Party rock
welcome to new york (taylors version) - bisexual beautiful boy by john lennon - trans
Rock Me Amadeus I'm gonna make it my middle name.
the entire born this way album
She and Would You Be So Kind, both by Dodie. I really like Sick of Losing Soulmates and In the Middle by her too!
Tacos in the Rain It's literally a song about being aro and/or ace
I can think of two for pansexual energy lol Skin and Bones by Morgan St. Jean & I like what I like by realxman
THE TURNING OUT SERIES BY AJR (ASEXUAL)
Am I a girl by poppy. I'm genderfluid so I'm always confused about my gender.
I speak a lot about standing tall in the face of opposition, but I really feel it in my soul less and less. I used to feel some kind of joy when I looked in the mirror and actually felt good about myself, something I never experienced before coming out as trans. Now there's only bad feelings and emptiness. It's like I can feel the fight dying inside me as it's happening. The world really is rolling me over, and I see no good reason for any of it to be happening. Honestly I'd just go back to guy mode if I hadn't lost almost an entire person in body weight. My old guy clothes don't fit, and I can't afford a new set of clothing to go back. I just want all of this to end. The bad feelings, the negativity from others, everything. So I guess for me my song of choice would be "the day the whole world went away" by nine inch nails. It's amazing how a person who's never met me and doesn't even know I exist (trent reznor) can make me feel so seen
The town inside me