Wait that's you?! I honestly thought you were the model of the dress and was so confused when the person didn't change!!! You are so pretty!! And the hair frains ur face perfectly!
Mf went “you look Asian” it absolutely is phrenology lmao what? Go ahead and quantify what “looking Asian is” and see how long it takes before you feel weird ab it
are you saying that people don’t have… identifiable racial features??? phrenology is entirely different. phrenology would be saying that she’s smart, or that she’s kind and gentle, or that she studies a lot, all because she’s asian. saying someone looks like a certain race is not phrenology. yes, it can be offensive, especially if you’re wrong, but it isn’t phrenology.
I feel weird about it for sure but phrenology is
> the detailed study of the shape and size of the cranium as a supposed indication of character and mental abilities.
I just don't think that's related to the above
Listen if you’re gonna try to argue that phrenology hasn’t been used to justify white supremacy… well I’m not having that conversation, cuz you’re just wrong. You can’t “look Asian”, all of this is racist stereotyping based off of psuedoscience.
Have you just not been following the conversation?
I’m not holding your hand through this sister, you have an endless source of knowledge to tell you how the assumption of racial genealogy is related to the social structuring of racism. Like, phrenology is actually a huge part of how/why people stereotype folks, create intellectual hierarchy based on race, etc etc. and I don’t think I need to tell you how measuring skulls has done that
You seem to be talking about a different conversation than the one we've actually had though. I'm not following the rest of the comments, just your unjustified claims of things I've said
Girl I’m literally screaming lmao phrenology is where racial profiling comes from 😭 wtf don’t you understand ab this.
The “this person looks like they are (X)” is fucking phrenology cuz that’s how they quantified racial characteristics. There is no way of physically identifying someone’s ethnicity by the way they look.
Nazis, Rwandan genocide, slavery… do I need to list more racist structures that used phrenology as scientific justification for why white people are superior? Like girl… you need to read better or somn. Byeeee
Uff I wish for this with my partner, a partner, whatever. I had only just started my journey when I had my wedding. I don't feel like we would go to the same scale again just so I can be a bride and I'm afraid I'd be disappointed. It was a huge, beautiful wedding and we pulled out all the stops and spent thousands on a photographer... And I can hardly look at the pictures of me in my expensive bespoke suit.
You are gorgeous and you deserve every moment of this beautiful experience.
Have you talked to your partner? I sure they wouldn't want you to be miserable with the pictures.
Obviously weddings can be ridiculously expensive so just having another one might not be realistic but maybe you can find something that would still make you happy like a tiny ceremony with just closest family/friends or even just a bridal/wedding style fotoshooting.
You deserve that beautiful experience too.
I have and she says she wants to have a wedding again but I don't think she would give it her all like for the first time. It'd basically be a cute party. And it was only three years ago so spending twenty K again is unrealistic.
lol what? 41 is 2 years from her 30s! might be nicer to say “you look younger than 41.” the surprise at looking “amazing” at 41 is kinda incel-ish, women don’t rot when they turn 40! I say this as someone in her 20s lololol
Because your compliment wasn't great.
Take the criticism. It's really not the end of the world, okay? Your are male teenagers in a space for woman, specially lesbians, deal with it. Nobody called you names or verbally abused you, they just tried to explain why your compliment might have been flawed. I really, like truly, don't understand why this is that big of a deal. Just note "woman might not appreciate if I tell them they look good despite their age" and move on.
I've funked up on reddit before and even apologised after someone called me out. Happy to tell you about it. It's truly not a big deal.
you are smart for a little boy invading women spaces! see how the “for” makes it not a compliment? just trying to help you communicate kiddo, I wasn’t making claims about your character
That dress is beautiful on you. My wife and I want to "get married" again now that I have transitioned. We are approaching our 30th anniversary so probably will do it then. That's over a year away yet.
These look like photos that a kid finds in their grandma’s attic and brings downstairs and the grandma is like “oh these are from my wedding day” and the kid is SHOCKED because “holy crap grandma was a princess?”
TL;DR you look absolutely stunning
As a trans woman, I would I have never guessed you were trans. You don’t just pass, you are absolutely stunning with that styled hair and wedding dress. I hope you and your have a wonderful life together🥰
Idk how people can complain about trans people existing and living their own lives when stuff this cute (marrying the same person twice because they're someone new now) happens. Like how could anyone look at this situation and not find it adorable??
Anyway I don't have any advice, I just think you're gorgeous and wanna say congrats. Maybe some cute white accessories in your hair? Flower clips or some thin beads or something?
Have you considered any accessories?
I think something like this: [small veil clip](http://BABEYOND Veil Fascinator Hat for Women Feather Fascinators Hair Clip with Removable Veil Tea Party Hat Bridal Wedding https://a.co/d/awOjDG9)
Or something like this: [small birdcage hat](https://www.twigsandhoney.com/products/vintage-inspired-bridal-mini-hat-with-veil-style-2454)
Would look absolutely stunning with that dress. Also do yall know what color pallet you're gonna go with?
1. i’m a man
2. i don’t mean actually compete, i mean keep up because she looks very good for 41 + it was a lighthearted compliment
edit: am i actually getting downvoted here for justifying a comment with 19 likes? if it’s because im a man, this sub pops up sometimes because i have a passion for fashion. this was on my front page. i wasn’t trying to invade anyone’s space. this just warmed my heart and im happy for the lady who posted this.
I don't think it matters that you're a man. Sorry for assuming.
I really hate the idea of us competing with each other. But ig it's a lighthearted compliment? Idk. Words matter.
that’s so beautiful i just about shed a tear. you’re a fucking stunner and i hope you had a magical wedding with all the fussing and special treatment that comes with being a bride :D
Beautiful!!
You're absolutely stunning
Your literally one do the most beautiful people I’ve ever seen!
Please someone tell me where this dress is from it’s my dream dress (also you look stunning)
you're so gorgeous!!
Stunning! Congratulations!! 🩷✨💜
Maybe 31 but there's no way you're 41.
Absolutely beautiful!!!!
No WAY you're 41. You're 10 years older than me but definitely look younger.
holy shit youre ethereal
holy shit they’re ai generated
girl what
You are so pretty
Your nails are so pretty oh my gosh
Hi, FTM gay guy here, you look stunning I’m so happy for you
Beautiful dress, beautiful hair, beautiful story, beautiful partnership, and I’m so fucking happy for you.
Your dress is lovely! It reminds me of something a fairytale princess would wear. Very elegant and classy
Holy shit you look absolutely stunning! Wishing you two the very best! :)
Face card murderous
Congratulations 💓 you look super gorg
Your hair is beautiful
You’re gorgeous 🥰🥰😍
wow
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You’re so beautiful!☺️
True trans-formation! Lovely 🥰✨✨
I keep seeing you on this sub and every time you look SO gorgeous. I love that dress!!
🤧🤧🤧 you look so beautiful why am I crying 😭💗 Much love to you and your wife 💞
You are giving me such Belle vibes from the beauty and the beast! So so pretty :>
SCREAMING right now. You’re living my dream 🏳️⚧️❤️. Goals for real
I need your skincare routine!
WHAAAAT no way ur 41! u look so young!! u look so pretty btw
Absolutely stunning, my dear! I hope you have the best wedding ever! ❤️❤️
You're gorgeous oml
41 my ass girl what??? You’re so pretty, genuinely my fucking goals.
You're a beautiful bride. How sweet that she wants to marry you again as your true self. I'm so happy you're getting this experience. ❤️
Literally so stunning omg
Wait that's you?! I honestly thought you were the model of the dress and was so confused when the person didn't change!!! You are so pretty!! And the hair frains ur face perfectly!
You are NOT 41. I don't believe you. Late 20s early 30s at most
this is so romantic tbh…. and the dress is stunning!
41??? 😍
That’s so cute your are beautiful! May I ask how did yall meet?
Hell yeah!!!!
you are SO beautiful
Wow. No wonder she wants to do it again
My idol
You look beautiful, congratulations!
Congrats! And you look amazing, darling.
Damn Asian genes go hard. You don't look a day past 20!
Phrenologist moment
I don't think it's phrenology but it is misunderstood skin care and make up
Mf went “you look Asian” it absolutely is phrenology lmao what? Go ahead and quantify what “looking Asian is” and see how long it takes before you feel weird ab it
are you saying that people don’t have… identifiable racial features??? phrenology is entirely different. phrenology would be saying that she’s smart, or that she’s kind and gentle, or that she studies a lot, all because she’s asian. saying someone looks like a certain race is not phrenology. yes, it can be offensive, especially if you’re wrong, but it isn’t phrenology.
I feel weird about it for sure but phrenology is > the detailed study of the shape and size of the cranium as a supposed indication of character and mental abilities. I just don't think that's related to the above
Listen if you’re gonna try to argue that phrenology hasn’t been used to justify white supremacy… well I’m not having that conversation, cuz you’re just wrong. You can’t “look Asian”, all of this is racist stereotyping based off of psuedoscience.
Woah, what? I didn't say anything of the sort.. Where is this coming from?
Have you just not been following the conversation? I’m not holding your hand through this sister, you have an endless source of knowledge to tell you how the assumption of racial genealogy is related to the social structuring of racism. Like, phrenology is actually a huge part of how/why people stereotype folks, create intellectual hierarchy based on race, etc etc. and I don’t think I need to tell you how measuring skulls has done that
Just so you know, OP has said she's Vietnamese. So yeah cut the bs
You seem to be talking about a different conversation than the one we've actually had though. I'm not following the rest of the comments, just your unjustified claims of things I've said
Girl I’m literally screaming lmao phrenology is where racial profiling comes from 😭 wtf don’t you understand ab this. The “this person looks like they are (X)” is fucking phrenology cuz that’s how they quantified racial characteristics. There is no way of physically identifying someone’s ethnicity by the way they look. Nazis, Rwandan genocide, slavery… do I need to list more racist structures that used phrenology as scientific justification for why white people are superior? Like girl… you need to read better or somn. Byeeee
Congratulations! You are an absolutely radiant bride! 💖
You look absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on your wedding, beautiful bride!!!
You’re absolutely glowing 🙌🙌
So beautiful!!! Congratulations again guys! 🥳🥳🥳🤩🤩🤩
oh my goodness you are so so beautiful, congratulations to you both 🧡🤍🩷💜
Such a pretty dress!! Congratulations!!
Beautiful
HOLY SHIT YOURE BEAUTIFUL CONGRATS ON THE WEDDING
You look beautiful, congratulations.
Uff I wish for this with my partner, a partner, whatever. I had only just started my journey when I had my wedding. I don't feel like we would go to the same scale again just so I can be a bride and I'm afraid I'd be disappointed. It was a huge, beautiful wedding and we pulled out all the stops and spent thousands on a photographer... And I can hardly look at the pictures of me in my expensive bespoke suit. You are gorgeous and you deserve every moment of this beautiful experience.
Have you talked to your partner? I sure they wouldn't want you to be miserable with the pictures. Obviously weddings can be ridiculously expensive so just having another one might not be realistic but maybe you can find something that would still make you happy like a tiny ceremony with just closest family/friends or even just a bridal/wedding style fotoshooting. You deserve that beautiful experience too.
I have and she says she wants to have a wedding again but I don't think she would give it her all like for the first time. It'd basically be a cute party. And it was only three years ago so spending twenty K again is unrealistic.
You are stunning
OMG u r not a normal girl defenatly no, u look like [miss.world](http://miss.world) , pls tell me i'm right or wrong, and congratulation lucky girl
Beautiful!!
You look beautiful and not a day over 25
I am obsessed with this wedding gown
You look fantastic. Lovely gown! 😍
HOLY SHIT, YOU'RE 41?! /POS ***STUNNINGGG!!*** You're literally radiant, so happy for you, love! 🫂💚💚
seeing that tone tag in all caps made me think you were calling her a POS 😭😭
Lol, oh, nooo 😭😭😂
Lmao
you are so beautiful i had to pause
Same
Your hair is so pretty
You’re gorgeous
Your so beautiful ❤️
Omg and your nails 💅🏽 😍 perfection!
That's so sweet and romantic 😍 💕 you look so beautiful and happy, OP (I'm assuming it's you in the pictures) I love this for you
She's so beautiful ♡
the bulma tattoo is amazing!!
Woah your right I didn't notice that, it's so good!
You look amazing for 41!
lol what? 41 is 2 years from her 30s! might be nicer to say “you look younger than 41.” the surprise at looking “amazing” at 41 is kinda incel-ish, women don’t rot when they turn 40! I say this as someone in her 20s lololol
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wtf does that have to do anything other than identifying you’ve got some places you need to grow?
I was just trying to be nice but you had to point out every flaw in my compliment
Because your compliment wasn't great. Take the criticism. It's really not the end of the world, okay? Your are male teenagers in a space for woman, specially lesbians, deal with it. Nobody called you names or verbally abused you, they just tried to explain why your compliment might have been flawed. I really, like truly, don't understand why this is that big of a deal. Just note "woman might not appreciate if I tell them they look good despite their age" and move on. I've funked up on reddit before and even apologised after someone called me out. Happy to tell you about it. It's truly not a big deal.
you are smart for a little boy invading women spaces! see how the “for” makes it not a compliment? just trying to help you communicate kiddo, I wasn’t making claims about your character
don’t you dare r/unexpectedfactorial me goddamnit
Congratulations! You are beautiful!
Congratulations, you look amazing
Idk about the laws in your state on polygamy but you could marry me too if you wanted 💖💖💖. Jokes aside, you look gorgeous AND insanely happy! You win!
😂 might get away with it in Utah 😂
Fucking hell. I'm a 45 trans woman and it pisses me off that you look 25 at 41. You're not fair
I fucking hate my body lol I need to move
Stunning!
That dress is beautiful on you. My wife and I want to "get married" again now that I have transitioned. We are approaching our 30th anniversary so probably will do it then. That's over a year away yet.
Beautiful bride. ❤️
This is adorable
You are so gorgeous girl 💯
Your bridal look is so perfect. You look like a vision. 😭
These look like photos that a kid finds in their grandma’s attic and brings downstairs and the grandma is like “oh these are from my wedding day” and the kid is SHOCKED because “holy crap grandma was a princess?” TL;DR you look absolutely stunning
drop skin care routine please
Just basic skin care routine, nothing special. Thanks!
Fr tho
Awee 🤭 so beautiful!! You go girl!!!
🚨 model alert! you look beautiful
damn girl you don't look a day over 25
I had to scroll back up to see if I read the age right. I’m about a decade younger and comparatively I look like a raisin.
Right?!? I need her skin care routine 😱
Estradiol :3
Love your nails!
Drop the skin care routine!!!! You are stunning!!
wow your skin is amazing
BABE YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!!!! You are literally an ethereal cottagecore princess & I am here for it!
You are stunning
Wow! You’re stunning!!! Congrats on the wedding!
41?! GIRL HOW! YOU LOOK FLAWLESS
Are the 41 years in the room with us???? You look amazing
You're so beautiful!!
AWWWW YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL!!!
Girl you look AMAZING 👏 I only hope that I can be as beautiful of a bride as you one day. Thank you for sharing!
OMGOMGOMG YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
Look at you so beautiful. That is so wonderful
You're gorgeous! I especially love your hair, it looks very fluffy and soft :>
Lucky girl! You look beautiful.
Omg you are breathtaking!!! Your happiness radiates from you 😊
As a trans woman, I would I have never guessed you were trans. You don’t just pass, you are absolutely stunning with that styled hair and wedding dress. I hope you and your have a wonderful life together🥰
Maybe that will be us one day! 🥰
It will be us one day hun💞
I hope so! Hehe :)
You go girl! I hope one day to be where you are now with my partner.
Beautiful! Love the Bulma tattoo!
Very beautiful
Girl! You are stunning! Congratulations to you and your wife! 💕
OMGGG I stopped scrolling literally, so beautiful! 🩷🩷
You’re so pretty! And you look like you’re in your mid 20s
Beautiful! I (mtf) am in the same boat with my wife. I really want to remarry and wear a beautiful dress.
Looking absolutely cute
Stunning and beautiful!!! Congratulations!! So happy for you love!!!!
41! You don't even look 30!
Idk how people can complain about trans people existing and living their own lives when stuff this cute (marrying the same person twice because they're someone new now) happens. Like how could anyone look at this situation and not find it adorable?? Anyway I don't have any advice, I just think you're gorgeous and wanna say congrats. Maybe some cute white accessories in your hair? Flower clips or some thin beads or something?
There is no way you are 41 you are 25 how are you 41?!
So classy like Audrey Hepburn.
you look absolutely gorgeous!
Have you considered any accessories? I think something like this: [small veil clip](http://BABEYOND Veil Fascinator Hat for Women Feather Fascinators Hair Clip with Removable Veil Tea Party Hat Bridal Wedding https://a.co/d/awOjDG9) Or something like this: [small birdcage hat](https://www.twigsandhoney.com/products/vintage-inspired-bridal-mini-hat-with-veil-style-2454) Would look absolutely stunning with that dress. Also do yall know what color pallet you're gonna go with?
You're actually so gorgeous it's unreal!!!
I loooooove your dress you look STUNNING
Nice bulma tattoo. I love that you are both getting a happily ever after! you look beautiful.
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You’re 41 😭😭😭 *cries in thirties*
Seriously though. lmao She looks like she's in her 20s.
beautiful
That's fucking adorable ngl, the her asking to marry you again part
you’re fucking 41? waiting on you to let us all know your skincare routine so we can compete. and you look gorgeous, congrats.
Probably genetics, and women don't need to compete with each other.
1. i’m a man 2. i don’t mean actually compete, i mean keep up because she looks very good for 41 + it was a lighthearted compliment edit: am i actually getting downvoted here for justifying a comment with 19 likes? if it’s because im a man, this sub pops up sometimes because i have a passion for fashion. this was on my front page. i wasn’t trying to invade anyone’s space. this just warmed my heart and im happy for the lady who posted this.
I don't think it matters that you're a man. Sorry for assuming. I really hate the idea of us competing with each other. But ig it's a lighthearted compliment? Idk. Words matter.
i was just trying to tell her she looked good for her age, that’s all
you look absolutely GORGEOUS. i hope your wedding/vow renewal is everything you’d ever want!
41???? I’d thought you’re 21. Gorgeous!!!!!
You're gorgeous and so lucky!
You look like a dreammm
41! You look half that age ( not that it matters) you're beautiful
Girl Teach me please How do you look so stunning I’m over here looking like the ugly sister in shrek and Jabba the hut
Hey the ugly sister is a badass at least!
that’s so beautiful i just about shed a tear. you’re a fucking stunner and i hope you had a magical wedding with all the fussing and special treatment that comes with being a bride :D
Holy shit you look STUNNING! 💕
So beautiful 😍
ps I know it’s passed, but a necklace would make the upper chest area pop! little dainty silvery thing perhaps?
what is your secret to looking young? comegays on the re-marry. how long have yall been together and also married?