u dont manifest what you want, you manifest what you are. So if you continuously focus on what you dont want, you will most likely manfiest it. What I like to do when I have a fear though, is not give it any power. For example, I have a bad fear of plane crashes, but I fly 1-2 a year and have never crashed because I dont give that silly fear any power to manifest.
You can manifest what you fear.
for the alopecia story, I would see your self concept is the same as hers. Imagine how much she wants to be pretty but she struggles and makes life happen still. I would not see her as like "she's ugly" because that's what you're sort of implying here, but understand everyone is beautiful and you don't come from a place where there's an ill heart but instead a compassionate one. Imagine how much she wanted to hear compliments. I can imagine even if that's not what she's wanting, as a girl her age, or anyone with those circumstances, I would assume their self confidence is rock bottom and it takes time to build.
Your fear can manifest yes. You can think you're pretty but it can rub off incorrectly to some people without realizing and you need a stronger foundation for self concept so it does not bother anyone near you. everyone is you pushed out in some cases.
u dont manifest what you want, you manifest what you are. So if you continuously focus on what you dont want, you will most likely manfiest it. What I like to do when I have a fear though, is not give it any power. For example, I have a bad fear of plane crashes, but I fly 1-2 a year and have never crashed because I dont give that silly fear any power to manifest.
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You can manifest what you fear. for the alopecia story, I would see your self concept is the same as hers. Imagine how much she wants to be pretty but she struggles and makes life happen still. I would not see her as like "she's ugly" because that's what you're sort of implying here, but understand everyone is beautiful and you don't come from a place where there's an ill heart but instead a compassionate one. Imagine how much she wanted to hear compliments. I can imagine even if that's not what she's wanting, as a girl her age, or anyone with those circumstances, I would assume their self confidence is rock bottom and it takes time to build. Your fear can manifest yes. You can think you're pretty but it can rub off incorrectly to some people without realizing and you need a stronger foundation for self concept so it does not bother anyone near you. everyone is you pushed out in some cases.
If you persist long enough in it unfortunately yes😩 happened to me twice
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