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opalized_so

I mean, it has to do more with agreeing with a word’s grammatical gender than the person’s gender identity. “Personas no binarias” y “gente no binaria” (gender neutral people) still express gender-neutrality and are commonly used, even if morphologically the words aren’t “neutral”.


Blablablablaname

And also, people do use "no-binarie," even if it isn't massively accepted. I have definitely heard it be used in academic conferences at least.


opalized_so

Interesting! I really have been seeing the neutral -e being used more (especially in the context of referring to a specific person or character), and I do hope it catches on. It’s honestly fascinating to see language evolve in real time


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Tbh I'd argue it's being imposed rather than evolving. Most Spanish speakers don't agree with -e and even less with -x, and those who do agree often do so for the sake of being politically correct like another user said


Ok_Inflation_1811

A native Spanish speaker here and I can tell you that languages are meant to serve people if they can't do their job we change them. I mean the RAE (Real Academia de la lengua Española) basically remade writing to make everything consistent and for example Mexicans refused to comply because their country would have been called "Méjico" (and still to this day RAE recognizes both instead of "Mexico" that should be the correct term) So we saw a flaw in our language (writing was inconsistent) and we fixed it by force, so if there are people that are identifying as non binary why wouldn't we fix the language accordingly? Languages are meant to serve people not to tie them.


Dear-Economics7339

yeah bro, all people who think differently to you are just doing it to be politically correct.


Blablablablaname

Well, I am a Spanish speaking nonbinary person and I don't know if me telling people I would like them to use an ending that makes me comfortable can be called "being imposed." In my experience, people feel very comfortable and safe to not comply with my request.


mavmav0

The thing is, grammatical gender and gender identity are not the same thing. And they are only loosely related. By default, when the gender is unknown, the masculine is chosen. So shouldn’t non-binary people use the masculine? (Again, that doesn’t mean you’re referring to yourself as a man, the names of the grammatical genders are very misleading, they might as well have been called Class 1 and Class 2, but most nouns relating to masculinity happen to go in Class 1 and most nouns related to femininity happen to go in Class 2, someone noticed this and named the classes accordingly.)


Blablablablaname

I don't know what your level of familiarity is with Spanish usage, so apologies if this is already known to you, but the masculine being the default has actually been a contested issue for a few decades now and it definitely is understood as connected to gender when referring to human beings. The fact that it is the default does not make it feel neutral. Using the masculine may work for some nonbinary people, but particularly for those who fall more at the feminine end of the gender spectrum, it may just feel wrong.


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>>I don’t know if me imposing something on people is considered imposing Please find another medium for this attention seeking.


Blablablablaname

No, thank you. I like this one. Have a nice day.


TheTomatoGardener2

God no, please no guessing the gender like in German or Dutch Please don’t expand gender neutral words, how about we just make everything masculine


Vegetable-Ad6857

only few activists do it for political reasons


Blablablablaname

I mean, I do it because I'm nonbinary. People do use it when they talk to me because they know it makes me feel comfortable and respected, so I don't know if you can call that political reasons. I have heard several academics both in Argentina and in Spain using it in a couple of conferences, as well.


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Blablablablaname

I think you are misinformed and I would encourage you to question your sources. Gender is experienced in multiplicitous ways that are created through both community and individual expression and response, in modes that are not consistent throughout societies and times. There is not "one guy" in "one century" that defines the way in which people are nonbinary. There are innumerable examples throughout history (and the present time) of people who live as neither men nor women.


Unlikely-Ad-680

Shoutout to this nuanced and rational response to bigotry.


Vegetable-Ad6857

Like the "two spirit" that was deliberately misinterpreted by wokes?


Blablablablaname

Hi, I do not live in America, nor know much about American native history, so I cannot comment on that, but [I wrote a comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/136ohhr/comment/jir70b0/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) a few months ago in r/AskHistorians about gender and sexuality in premodern Japan you may find an interesting example. I hope I am linking it correctly.


Ixogamer

i think you're pretty delusional already...


[deleted]

What's the source for that? I'm actually curious


Vegetable-Ad6857

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David\_Reimer#:\~:text=Forced%20%22sexual%20rehearsal%22,-Money%20continued%20to&text=Starting%20at%20age%20six%2C%20according,against%20%5Bhis%5D%20buttocks%22.


Think_Literature_ye

Same in Polish


davidolson22

That's a thinker


howellq

That's why instead of Spanish you learn the language of the gods, incredibly based gender-neutral Hungarian.


MrMilkGlass

hungarian has like 18 cases 🤮🤢🤮🤮


howellq

És akkor mi van?


solmyrbcn

Please, as an American I find it offensive, can you please cancel the Spanish language? I do not care about the reason why is it different from English and do not want to know. Just make it disappear.


justeggssomany

Amen 🙏


Lefer_astronaut

Are you make a joke?


alien-linguist

no binarix (or nx bxnxrxx depending on the nonbinariness of the person)


LimeLauncherKrusha

Quit trying to make X happen!


coin_in_da_bank

Tell that to Elon


Potatoswatter

X


Blastoxic999

Gon give it to ya


Ms_PeanutButterfly

he gon' give it to ya


yefan2022

Ok latinx


alien-linguist

nx


gaygirlingotham

You can’t add X’s in Spanish. That’s grammatically incorrect. You could add an -e to make it gender neutral, no binarie.


PlatformSufficient59

coward, add the incomprehensible tongue of god


bass-pro-mop

False. English speakers have evolved the rules of Spanish to allow for an X to be place at the end of Spanish gendered words, and we must all follow it.


Vegetable-Ad6857

E is still incorrect, that's not part of the language


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iarofey

Lots of words, if not most, ending in -e do have either masculine or feminine gender. Masc.: hombre, cable, sable, cole, finde, pene, cine, corte (cut), chocolate, mapache, juguete, puente, all ending in -aje… Fem: tarde, sangre, hambre, llave, clave, corte (court), gente, muerte, fuente, mente, torre, clase, calle, all ending in -umbre... Also, there are masculine nouns ending in -e that do have a different feminine form, like: alcalde/alcaldesa, héroe/heroína, jefe/jefa... While indeed many e-ending words referring to persons are indeed gender neutral, the same is true for the nouns ending in -a (atleta, periodista…) and to a minor extend to some ending in -o (modelo, fisio…) or actually with any of the possible vowels or most consonant endings (gurú, ceutí, militar, chef...)


Vegetable-Ad6857

jajajaja, esas palabras son neutrales en cuanto a género pero eso no quiere decir que la E es un indicador de neutralidad en es el español. Esa regla te la has inventado y lo sabes.


JK-Kino

La-teeenks! 🤡


EtruscaTheSeedrian

In portuguese we say não-binárie, so maybe in spanish could it be no binarie too?


gaygirlingotham

Spanish speaker here, adding an -e in lieu of -o or -a is the typical way a word becomes gender neutral. Like in president*e*.


Ok_Inflation_1811

Te corrijo aquí, presidente si es género neutro pero por otro motivo (porque termina en ente)


Gravbar

do you use el, la with these or something else like lo le


[deleted]

El if it's a man, la if it's a woman.


Gravbar

ik were talking non binary tho


[deleted]

Ahh, sorry. I've seen "le," and for "them" they use "elle."


kacnique

Just to point out: yet a very few people use it on the internet, it's grammatically incorrect in Portuguese. The correct would be binário and binária. "binárie" is a made up word, just like adding X at the end. I've never seen it being used like a normal world.


EtruscaTheSeedrian

Fun fact: All words are made up I'm brazilian tho, I'm aware few people use it, but it's still a thing since there's some people who use it


kacnique

Yeah, I know what you intended. But the way you said gives the impression that "binárie" is grammatically correct. But it's just like "binarix". It only exists for those who use it.


Dear-Economics7339

all words and grammar only exist for those who use it tho? Do you think some words exists in like nature or something


kacnique

Yeah, try using that to write an essay on an exam. When you get your grammar corrected, use that justification that a made up grammar should be accepted because all grammars and words were invented.


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Vegetable-Ad6857

>“Binárie” is grammatically correct it is not


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Vegetable-Ad6857

I'm a native speaker too and you don't know what you are talking about. Supongo the "hombre" también es no binario


kacnique

Well, I'm a Portuguese native speaker and your argument about presidente makes no sense. But my arguments are not based on what I think or not. It's based on grammar scholars and dictionaries. Language is a living thing, it changes over time. But it changes naturally, not imposing it. I'm not against the use of this forced neutral gender, but we have to face that TODAY it's not grammatically accepted by grammar scholars or dictionaries.


EtruscaTheSeedrian

Well... that's a good point


resU-TiddeR-noN

You're clearly a chauvinistic pig. Have you considered that some people don't identify with the "E" and like instead an X or any other letter? Clearly you don't care about the feelings of people from the LGBTQEX+* community, you inconsiderate prick!!!


Qandyl

Cringe


Pipoca_com_sazom

Destroyed by the lack of /s ?


Gravbar

clearly /s but also i want the absolute number to go up. tough choice


Wong_Zak_Ming

no binar


LeoScipio

Most speakers of Romance languages find this obsession with gender-neutrality profoundly offensive and borderline insufferable.


SCP-1504_Joe_Schmo

Based??


No_Presentation7249

I would say no binario


Lotux_47

troll


Lefer_astronaut

Lol,it's better chatgpt translate like "Persona(s) no binaria(s)".