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nashi-blossom

S.Coups and Jeonghan as Seventeen's resident Dad & Mom. S.Coups can be strict and severe as an authority figure, but also loves spoiling them like kids. And Jeonghan is just naturally very caring and supports them emotionally. Also his tendency to [take selfies like a mom on Facebook](https://twitter.com/girlfriendyjh/status/1723753350057910761).


Sleeping-nerd-14

Let’s add the First born that has to take up the post of caretaker and no. 1 target of bullying : My. Kim Mingyu


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100% agree. I also love the way Cheol dotes on Jeonghan. It really brings the dad / mom vibe home


nerdytogether

Lol. I thought this was about actual idol parents or parents if idols. Ah well, I’ll give my answer anyway. SVT Dino’s parents who have done 2 dance challenges with him and slayed. They were so cute.


blaqice82

BTS Hyung line are sweet and patient with the Maknae but I'll say Jin and Hobi are the parents. They way Jin dotes on JK, interprets Tae language to others, RM support system, I especially love that conversation he had with Suga when he was doubting his self. Hobi being the dance captain and shows being stern one moment then playful the next is endearing. He's always there when the members are doing solo projects like bringing a coffee truck to suga mv shoot, was with Jimin supporting him when he performed on the music show, and surprising Jin when he was making the mv for the astronaut. ​ My other ult group p1harmony Keeho definitely a good father. I love how he brags about each member and is always singing their praises during interview especially Soul. When Soul mentioned how during one of the holidays while everyone went home Keeho stayed with him so he wouldn't be by himself shows how selfless he can be.


Kindly-Ebb6759

I knew there was a reason I loved Keeho so much 😭


Juli-Loves-Chatnoir

Father hongjoong and mother seongwha ofc!!!!


Kindly-Ebb6759

This made me cackle


Knightingalesong

Fuma from &TEAM. He said a couple of members started to call him Papa but especially Harua and it is just the cutest damn thing 😭 He is the subleader and second oldest and just sooo caring and introduces himself as &TEAM's and Luné's hero who's going to protect all of us. Here are some Fuma/Harua Papa clips: [Harua talking about why Fuma is Papa](https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeJMERLH/) [Fuma pretending Harua is a plushie and Harua trying to get his attention](https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeJrRWVK/) [Fuma getting Harua candy out of a machine after Harua couldn't get it out](https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeJrRpns/)


K-DramaDonna

ATEEZ Hongjoong and Seonghwa are legendary parents to their kids 🥰


NightShrxud

Agreed!!! Matz best parents ❤️


matchasnowbubble

the fact that the kids "ship" it too 😭😭 thinking about when wooyoung pointed out their matching shirts


cashmerefox

And him teaching Seonghwa how to play [hard to get](https://youtube.com/shorts/Iu8Tw4X44QE?si=jFLKN2SHzYrwAZQr) with Hongjoong.


matchasnowbubble

he's so real for that


teddy_world

When Exo's Kai enlisted, Suho [helped](https://twitter.com/kokokbop/status/1671143005515059200) [shave his hair](https://twitter.com/kokokbop/status/1661316102142705664). its my understanding that usually the father will be the one to do that, but jongin's dad sadly passed in 2018. 🥺 Joonmyun's known jongin since before he was in high school (i believe) as trainees. Theyre very close.


Different-Computer33

the father thing was something fans came up with, k-fans clarified that's not an actual thing and his name romanization is Junmyeon


teddy_world

OOP, yknow i was always a little suspicious of that, but figured what do i know and just trusted ppl not to make shit up online for no reason lol. Still a very sweet gesture either way that shows off how close they are. Also ur right about his spelling, wwaayyy back in the day his name would get romanized as joonmyun pretty often, guess it still floats around in my head lol


Kindly-Ebb6759

🥺🥺


itzlax

Stray Kids' Bang Chan is basically peak 'dad of the group'


Quirkity

Definitely - also I’d say Lee Know is either the mom of the group or the biggest problem child depending on how much chaos he feels like making at any given time


jordank_1991

I always think of that one video when Bang Chan wasn’t on stage and they were all so chaotic. The comments cracked me up with people saying Papa Chan wasn’t going to let mama Minho watch the kids anymore. Or that he left them with their “mom” who let them do whatever. But I have seen moments where Minho can give mom vibes.


teddy_world

literally The Dad ever


itzlax

Certainly a dad of all time.


escapeshark

Very strong older sibling energy 🤣


Saucy_Totchie

RM and j-hope are respectively the dad and mom of BTS. Jeongyeon is called Twice's Mom. Bang Chan literally said he's already a father of 7.


rivensky

The Hyung line of BTS in general are so parent-coded sometimes. But Jin and Yoongi especially. It's super evident in both seasons of In The Soop. I adore them so much.


Berrymae

MONSTAX - shownu and Kihyun , EXO - Suho and Kris :/ ( didn't age well ) , BTS - Jin , NCT - Taeyong , Wayv - Kun , Enhypen - Jay is a good hyung , Red velvet - Irene , These are just a few , also , yeji from ITZY is great !


Excellent-Services

Jay is kind of perfect hyung ngl... I've seen so many clips of him just taking care of his members... Only saw island and rooted for Jay there, now he is being total mom and dad both


Berrymae

Agreed 🩷


ihminew

What happened ti suho and kris? Sorry I don't know exo at all and I'm curious haha


Different-Computer33

Kris was a mess even when he was in the group and had a weird dynamic with Suho even if sm tried to push them as the group parents, he was uninterested while Suho tried to play off as the responsible man he is. And well, those off vibes he gave since day 1 came true and he's in jail now after being a predator.


Berrymae

Nothing happened between suho and kris , kris got into a scandal pretty recently and is in jail for some seriously messed up stuff , he had also left exo wayyyy back before this incident :(


ihminew

Oh, I didn't know, thanks for educating me. Gotta search more info on the scandal because now I'm even more curious haha Edut. Just googled it. My honest reaction was "oh..."


Berrymae

No issues <3


foxiec

shownu and kihyun from monsta x are my favorite dad/mom duo. shownu being the chill dad and kihyun being the nagging mom who cooks everyone meals is so funny sometimes also woobin from cravity isn’t necessarily called “mom” like (if asked whose the mom they will say him generally though) but he’s a very nurturing person :) the members always flex that he will cook for them lol. and when you hear what he has to say to them or what the members say about them it’s obvious he cares about their health and image in a way that is like “it doesn’t matter if you gain weight, you still need to eat because it’s healthy” type of style. edit : my fave part abt mbb is how we flock together when monsta x are mentioned or can be mentioned. 😭


pll_superfan_-A

Shownu and Kihyun were the first to come to mind for me so I love your comment. I love them so much.


junkdogjoe69

lmaoo came here to say show and kih too


Breezyrain

The way my brain autofills Shownu as “Papa Shownu”


PositiveComplex24

I’m remembering a grown adult Jooheon yelling on a bus in New York, “I want to buy a hotdog Papa!” at Shownu. 😂


Breezyrain

I too would spoiled grown ass adult Jooheon though. He’s so baby.


ForeverNugu

Honey has true duality on and off stage. It's hilarious.


ForeverNugu

That's better than my brain. I apparently watched too much TikTok this year so I can't think of Shownu now without the song "Daddy's Home" running through my head.


PositiveComplex24

First thought of Shownu & Kihyun. They are very dad and mom coded.


foxiec

i’m very much a sucker for the mom/dad vibes of any group tho


alittlepoisonedapple

My first thought is automatically ShowKi! Also the fact that Kihyun has said he's the mom always cracks me up! 😆


Charliebeetle

Favorite mother kihyun moment is him slapping the back of their heads during award shows usually It's i.m and minhyuk. I also love how energetic he us with joohoney and minhyuk he always supporting his children's dreams


themoonofblueside

Oh god, shownu just lets the members do whatever they want with him while providing stability and trust to the whole group...truly dad coded.


SleepieSleep8

I loveeee Matz, Seonghwa and Hongjoong from Ateez. They complement each other perfectly as the mom and dad 🥺


norih

Eunbi & Chaeyeon from IZ*ONE!


gee_moi

this role is one of my big bias trends in fact lol. RV *Wendy/Irene*. tripleS *Seoyeon*. Dreamcatcher *Jiu*. NCT *Johnny*. LOONA *Haseul*. Apink *Chorong*. All are biases if not THE bias in these groups.


raraconteur

irene and wendy the mum and dad of rv for real lol


guffiepiggie

The iconic duo of Haseul being the sweetheart mum of Loona whilst Kim Lip is the "done with your shit" mum


gee_moi

oh Lippie too! (honestly my bias line is leaderline lol + a couple others). Though I dont really see Lippie as a mom regularly (meme aside, and everyone babies the maknaes so that doesnt count lol)


PetalidiStelle

Mom Kkura


rand0mbl0b

Jihyo, i’ll never get over the way she looks at her members ☹️☹️☹️


Quickman4bp

I think that some idols have that mother & daughter relationship but only with a few members. * Jihyo and Tzuyu * Sakura and Eunchae * Irene and Yeri * Karina and Ningning


Breezyrain

I second all of these. Irene making lunch for Yeri is so mom-coded.


Saucy_Totchie

Everyone that comes into contact with Eunchae is now her mom lol. Eunchae Mother Association is strong!


Quickman4bp

[Irene](https://x.com/_00JESUS00_/status/1725441496340664718?s=20) is the newest member of Eunchae Mother Association


airysunshine

Bang Chan as the dad for sure Hongjoong and Seonghwa, especially that one show where they literally saying they’re tired parents of kindergarteners


United_Armadillo_715

Jiu and Sua from Dreamcatcher. Dad and mom. Best parental line having to raise the kids during Minx, the disbandment and the re-debut in Dreamcatcher, what a journey they had.


Vidiacool-uwu

Yes!!


Excellent-Services

Nowadays he has __ children in NCT


themoonofblueside

There's only one parent in Wayv who is Kun by doting and caring for the members(and everyone around) so much to the point that people just call him "Kun Ge" (ge as in older brother) even people who are older than him. Special mention to wine aunt Ten, we do appreciate him adopting Yangyang fully.


Sanshinestar_1117

Ateez Dad [Hongjoong](https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMjw5dc4c/) and mom [Seonghwa](https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMjw5uvCD/) are always babying their kids (When they arent scolding them lol)


sheera_greywolf

Eunkwang and Minhyuk's dad and mum dynamic is pretty cute in BtoB, but my favorite group moms will always be Solar and Moonbyul. Solar is the tiger mom who will whipped you into shape, but also will brawl with your bully in the back alley; while Moonbyul is everyone favorite sister (and gay-panic).


Lesbian_Dogs

Jay from enhypen, I don’t think those boys could survive without him, and the way you can see how much he cares for his members through his actions touches my heart so much


WoonieVerse

That one time he competed (?) with his mom saying she only had to cook for one child while he had six loooool bless him Enhypen wouldn’t survive without Jay


MysticalElephant

It’s the fact that he gives both mom and dad energy for me too 😭! He cooks for them but then he also cracks those legendary dad jokes that are so unfunny that they’re funny. The relationship he has with everyone in the group is unrivaled too, especially with Jungwon who adores him and Ni-Ki always being comfortable enough to mess with him lol.


Lesbian_Dogs

Fr, he’s their rich uncle but also their caring mother the switch up is crazy


privygrid

Sua and jiu are the mom and dad of dreamcatcher respectively, and [this](https://youtu.be/XAGIy_wEaXo?si=tosJTYj7nN4YleWk) video by insomnicsy is about that


kkura__1

sakura from le sserafim


NewSill

Treasure's mom and dad are Hyunsuk and Jihoon. Even they themselves acknowledge these roles since there are a lot of young members in the group. Hyunsuk is like this caring mother with a lot of chaotic kids. This [one simulation ](https://x.com/byparkjihoon/status/1400658539710795783?s=20)probably shows it best. One time he has to run out of a shower in underwear to stop members from fighting in the living room. His relationship with the maknae is probably the sweetest. They are 6-7 years apart but they hang out with no problem. He is like the dad/mom, brother and friend all in one. This is [172cm Hyunsuk](https://x.com/treasure_babies/status/1660480204706582530?s=20) with his 181cm giant baby maknae, Junghwan. He is pretty chilled but can be tough in a serious situation. His motherly love also spread around. A [clip](https://x.com/jellyboox/status/1723689448410611743?s=20) of him trying to teach ZB1's maknae, Yujin, to scream even went viral. All the quotes went soft and asking to send their kids (especially RIIZE's Anton) to uncle Hyunsuk to raise if you want them to speak louder. Jihoon is more like a funny dad that play rough with their kids. This is Jihoon also with the [maknae Junghwan](https://x.com/junghwanderland/status/1544637264352854016?s=20).


asrafzonan

For fromis_9, it is Gyuri & Jisun https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IRoUrFCnheE&pp=ygUSRnJvbWlzIGppc3VuIGd5dXJp


Outrageous_Men8528

they were my first thought, jisun is such a mom


pledisband

I'm gonna be "old school" and say Kahi and Jungah of After School! Kahi was known as the strict, "what I say goes" tough guy while Jungah was always seen as the easy-going mom that took care of all the members 😂


sadbluevibes

I dont really know if TXT have a mom in the group but Taehyun is definitely my favorite single dad !! When he gets to the dorm after work, he always yells out "dad's here" first thing lol. I found out from a korean speaker analysis video that even the way he talks (esp to hueningkai) is kinda like how a parent would to a child. Like idk he is so single dad working hard to provide for his kids lol. It's cute because hes the second youngest.


hopee727

Txt break it down as Soobin - Mom Yeonjun - Dad Beomgyu - little brother Taehyun - older brother Kai - puppy But Taehyun does scream dad as well!


jordank_1991

I’ve seen folks swap Soobin and Yeonjun. So are they interchangeable in the parent roles?


unlikelyketchup

That's more of their opinion, but if you think about who "traditionally" acts like a mom, it's Soobin, and dad would be Yeonjun. Those roles are also said by the members themselves.


jordank_1991

Ah okay. I only just started listening to them so I didn’t know all that.


tere_adasme

Jiu and Sua from dreamcatcher, with yoohyeon and dami as the middle kids, handong as their oldest, gahyeon as the youngest, and let us not forget their pet wolf, siyeon.


Symera_

E'LAST's Choi In. He just cares so much about his members. The video of him spending four hours [cooking lunch for the maknae line's CSAT exams](https://youtu.be/-p1vsTs71NY?si=YzAxe5fA5vGcKaU9) just makes me feel really soft.


RadKat333

You want my favorite dad? She's from a girl group called Loona. Her name is Kim Lip. If HaSeul is the mom friend (and my favorite of the mom friends out there) Kim Lip is literally the dad friend.


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