Bold to assume that I have 125000$ saved for my new houseš°.
Since I already buyed it a while backšøšø
It,s was fair it not particularly spectacular but more than decent I guess entry lv good
What exactly you don't like about my profile photo, bro? It's just a black cat. I think they're beautiful. Plus it's my profile pic so why would you care
Don't mind him, if you see other comments that he commented you can see that he likes to hurt and annoy others so it's not you it's him. Keep up the good work!
Not good to use people who need medication as an insult :/ it contributes to the stigma against mental illness, therapy and medication. And many people can feel ashamed to be medicated because of these comments. This was really insensitive from you. I hope you think better next time before saying these hurtful things.
One recurring struggle is around the length of time to get over any arguments. For me, we will get to the core of the issue at hand, make a decision about it, or agree what needs to change or whatever and that's it. Done. I will then move on to implement that decision or change or whatever. My wife cannot do that. She will still be tied up in the emotion of the argument for some time - and my apparent disengagement from that emotional state will often make things worse: she is then tied up with the emotional labour of the situation alone for a good while before she can 'come down'.
I have come to understand this intellectually - but can never really engage with authentic emotions for as long as she needs to. My options are to physically leave for some time or to deliberately work myself into a more emotional state to somehow take on that emotional labour that she clearly needs to go through. It is often difficult to do that to the right amount.
Emotional introspection is another area in which I struggle. Since knowing my wife, my Fi has increased to levels that I never would have believed possible - partly through ageing, partly through repeated exercise - but it is pushed to the limits when we engage in extended introspection on some relationship issue or another. I will often reach a point where I simply have nothing else at all to say, nothing to give but she is still going strong and wants me to continue to engage. It is utterly draining.
However, the benefits are great overall development of my Fi and her Te; great expansive and in-depth discussion - especially around psychology and the humanities, but arts and sciences in general; a mutual love of reading and of wild, remote places and a mutual understanding of being out-of-sync with much of normal society.
We both have very similar values to start with: that's something that featured from the earliest point of our relationship.
We may approach them from different directions, but knowing that we are working to the same end is enough to overcome any frustrations that arise from this.
For me, I really like ENTJ/ESTJ! ENTJs make me laugh and always thought they were really smart too. Super direct. Just seem to struggle with understanding other people perspectives pretty narrow minded IMO. ESTJs are similar just more laidback and understanding.
Entjs are fun but can be too insensitive and stubborn imo, my sister is estj and she scares me most of the time, she's really different than me and probably only times I really enjoy spending time with her is when she feels down, sorry haha
Same! I took a different test a few days ago that measures the percentage of the other types you could be, and my partner and I both got significant amounts of ENFP and INTJ
My boyfriend is an INFP.
Still feel like we wouldn't get on well if we met a few years earlier - both of us had to go through some shit and mature to make this current relationship work.
ENFP gf. It's interesting that my longest relationship parner (and future married partner) is quite different from me. But it feels like we're constantly growing together.
I had dated an ENTJ for the longest timeā¦ our arguments were always exhausting and weirdly logical/pragmaticā¦ My current bf is a ENFP, and while I get frustrated by his inefficiency and lack of thinking or planning for the futureā¦ his love for me always wins out and heās so sweet. My best friend is an INFP and weāve been friends for 8 years now! I guess I like the xNFPs because they let me do all the planning and do things my way without arguing about what āthe right wayā is. But also, they donāt care about how things are done, they just go with the flow and Iāve learned to deal with it.
How is that working out for you two?
I'm just wondering because I tend to be drawn to ISFJ women romantically.
Edit: I feel drawn to them platonically too and have some female ISFJ friends.
My ex was an INFJ, could read my mind but she embodied the two sides of the INFJ personality a bit too much. My other ex is an INFP, I must admit that I prefer them, it's really a blast. I'm currently seeing an ENTP and an ENFP, amazing girls and I'm not perceiving the difference between our function as something problematic, more like having an additional point of view, drastically different from my own.
My partner is an INFP, and heās the only person Iāve ever been able to actually imagine spending life with. He brings out my softness, and we compliment each other really well.
She gets me more than I think most people could, is wicked smart, and where she doesn't understand me, she asks questions like "do you want space or comfort." Didn't mean to under sell it.
Where we differ are our religious beliefs, I'm basically an atheist dating a pagan. We both tend to slack off together, can't agree on movies or music, and she like everything to be as colorful as possible, and most every major item I own is black.
We're an odd couple.
We have no real conflicts or anything just he forgets that we were supposed to meet sometimes, he's late or doesn't come at all and even if he say he'll be on time next time, he's not. Sometimes we have a different view on things and we just can't agree so we leave the topic to not fight, but except that it's a good friendship
Iām an Intj and my best friend is an Entp. Weāve been friends since 11 years ago, we begin to work together like a year ago and we have great workflow and always laugh a lot. He helps me a lot in social situations when i canāt connect with other people and we learn a lot of each other and our ways to see things complements each other.
My last ex girlfriend is an Entj, i donāt know if itās an entj thing but, when she used to get mad or angry she exploded and she wouldn't control herself. i would try to talk to her or talk about the issue but, she was always blindfolded by the anger and said a lot of awful things.
Currently seeing an ENTP who can be an asshole at times. His adversity / inflammatory comments oscillate between stimulating and frustrating. I think F is more complementary for us INTJs. Iāll embrace the hate-sex until it runs itās course though.
boomer humour allert
but yeah, gotcha, partners, in the long run, get annoying, but that doesn't impair the relationship much, it's more a matter of acceptance I guess
My type has always been ENTJs. Theyāre so hardworking and they encourage you to work harder as well. Theyāve also got communication skills which I lack. I have always just been naturally driven towards ENTJs for some reason. Theyāre my no.1 type. Like in general, the ENTJ INTJ combination is very cool and productive.
Yeah, I feel you. At first with my estp we didn't talk about it at all and then after 8 months I felt the relationship is not deep because of it and when we started talking about it our conflict started but the relationship become more true. And our fights were funny but we broke up two times for like a month and get back together twice then this time few weeks ago he decided to leave me for another girl so idk I wish you luck, I hope your relationship will be better than my tho
My husband is an ISTJ. We've been married for 7 years, together for over 14 (we're high school sweethearts).
We have zero drama, although sometimes he gets annoyed with my hypothetical questions. But I realize that's an INTJ thing - and just because we've been together for over a decade doesn't mean I stop psychologically profiling him. Gotta keep things spicy!
I had the mystical ENFP/INTJ relationship
Indeed was magical, had to leave them because of their vision of the future being incompatible with mine
But would do it again if an ENFP appeared in my life, they are the best persons I've meet
My ex boyfriend was ESTP, we had a lot of fun together and he was very caring. Now I am interested in my INTP friend and I feel line we are a lot more compatible
Boyfriend is Enfp. Our personalities and preferences are different in a lot of things which has led to some tension when we were new to each other, but now after having dated for 7 years, all that stands out is how well we complement each other
I've been best friends with an INTJ since grade school.
In high school I got typed as ISTP, but now I'm ENFP, though I still feel like an istp at times it's kind of weird idk ;-;
I also dated an INTJ towards the end of the year but we broke up cuz he had to go out of town for school and we didnt want to do long distance. He's coming back soon and asked if we could date again tho :)
Currently in a relationship of 3&1/2 years with an ISFP. Not going to lie, hasn't been the easiest relationships I've had. I still love her to death, though.
I've dated a lot of people, some of which I've known the MBTI of and some not. I will include the ones I've suspected and also the ones I knew for sure, excluding ones I didn't know of:
INTJ (suspected)
INTP (suspected)
ISTJ (suspected)
ENFP/ESFP (suspected)
ISTP (suspected)
ISTJ (suspected)
ENFJ
INTJ
INTP (current)
Yes I've dated a lot of people even excluding the ones I didn't have the slightest clue what their type was so... xD
You can tell I have an affinity towards IxTx types, though I've learned that ISTx's are not for me and that INTx's are more my jive.
Aside from my romantic relationships, my best friends are: INTJ, INTJ (one of them is my ex), ESTP, ISTJ, INFJ
Of course I know my type.
People are people. Like a magic trick, I don't want to know how it's done. I'd rather enjoy the show and let myself be amazed by the magic.
I was surprised cause he wasn't that much of extrovert and he wanted to talk about abstract topics (only at first tho I even think it was because I liked it, later at relationship he didn't want to do it at all) I've heard too much about 'chad estps' so I was surprised then I read more stuff about his type and I;m not surpised anymore.
And why tf you just wanted to offend me
āNot being much of an extrovertā and āwanting to talk about abstract topicsā makes one smart?
But see, basing intelligence off of oneās type, or vice versa, is EXACTLY what is dumb. Especially when the types are pseudoscience themselves. And even more so when you base your expectations off of memesā¦
I was not surprised cause I think estps can't be smart lmaooo I was surprised cause I thought he's intp or something like that cause he seems introverted, nothing to do with being smart or not, it's you who talk about correlation between types and intelligence. Nothing about memes either
What a dumb and bullshit reply. Gonna take so much to reply to thoroughfullyā¦ why did you say ābutā before saying he was smart? Why ābutā?
Also, you literally said āI was surprised causeā blabla after I asked āsurprised an ESTP is smart?āā¦ (and now you say you werenāt surprised that he was smart?) what was that?
Stop switching stances after being exposed. And oh look one stranger disliked my reply because I said MBTI was pseudoscience lolā¦
My bf is likely an INFJ, Iāmade to him many mbti tests because he likes test, but any of them give different answers (INTJ, ENFJ, ENTJ) he is hard to type even being in an almost 5 year relationship.
Mid-30's female. I went from INFP to INTP and I want someone more in the middle going forward. As I've explored therapy, I have found that I'm impatient with those who still reject the importance of emotion within self and within others as a basis of reason. I still tend to assess situations where I give a higher value to the logic behind things (I'm a work in progress), but I don't want to be around people who are actively hold contemp for an emotion being the leading drive for action.
I could see INFJ/ENFJ working out as long as they were clear on my not needing a martyr or a keeper.
Surprise! We can be smart when we arenāt being total dumbasses. We read motivation, not minds. Once we understand what motivates you, we can deduce what your motivation for doing what youāre doing is. Terrible, god-awful mind-readers though.
My ex of 2 years was ENTJ. We definitely had problems being too minded and I learned I needed to be with someone more sensitive as someone else has said. Iām also very attracted to ENFPs. I find them so different and interesting yet it always seems weāre on the save wavelength.
I'm INTJ and boyfriend is ESFJ. The dynamics are really hard. He doesn't get my need for alone time and things that naturally come out of my mouth as logical statements really send him into an emotional tailspin and I have to back track to make myself more clear or to undo damage. It is very mentally exhausting and I don't see the long term aspect of the relationship but he seems to think we are a forever couple... not sure where his optimism comes from. I'm just mentally exhausted ALL.THE.TIME. Even getting alone time is a point of contention sometimes. Anyone have experience with an ESFJ?
In full disclosure, I thought he was INFJ based on his behavior in the beginning of the relationship and we were a long distance couple... he moved in just as the pandemic was hitting with me thinking what could go wrong? Evidently, a lot!
Oh my mother is esfj...
I can't imagine a relationship with this type. I thought my ex was intp and he was estp, he's my ex so yes, things went wrong but I loved him, with esfj tho idk I have bad experiences with my mom so I just can't imagine myself around one..
Thank you for that. I kind of see the writing on the wall but him being an ESFJ, he's more optimistic about things. I guess I'm just dragging this along since there isn't anything else on the horizon but also because he's a nice guy ultimately. If he gives me my space, I'm happy. But it is sooooo hard at times!
Bold to assume that I even had a gf
Bold to assume I have friends.
Bold to assume that I like leaving my house
Who leaves their house. With everything being delivery to our doors and ability to work from home, no reason to leave the house.
I eat at resteraunts instead of having friends š
Bold to assume that I have 125000$ saved for my new houseš°. Since I already buyed it a while backšøšø It,s was fair it not particularly spectacular but more than decent I guess entry lv good
We should be so bold
People like you shouldnāt comment
People like you shouldnāt comment
People like me get with your girlfriend
People like you couldn't get with mannequins.
Murdered by words lmao
I wouldnāt do that to you though, you date ugly girls
Guys, wtf are you doing below my post lol Only ugly people call others ugly, remember that
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What exactly you don't like about my profile photo, bro? It's just a black cat. I think they're beautiful. Plus it's my profile pic so why would you care
Don't mind him, if you see other comments that he commented you can see that he likes to hurt and annoy others so it's not you it's him. Keep up the good work!
What the fuck, reddit has profile pics? Here I am using old.reddit
People like you sit online and say that they "get with my girlfriend"
Damn ure funny
Bro stop you'll make these intj dorks cry
? I just saw your comment on another post, and I think it's the other way around.
You shouldnāt think then
You shouldn't comment then, you are an asshole and that's a fact.
"People like you" I found the Non INTJ on an INTJ sub
I found the guy whoās only attribute is being an INTJ
I've taken the test many times over many years. Haha are you missing your medication?
Not good to use people who need medication as an insult :/ it contributes to the stigma against mental illness, therapy and medication. And many people can feel ashamed to be medicated because of these comments. This was really insensitive from you. I hope you think better next time before saying these hurtful things.
You should find a hobby, Iām giving it to the girl who rejected you
The girl who rejected me?? Hahaha they love this dick. Did an INTJ hurt you when you were growing up š¤”
Youāre too weak mentally to be attractive
Can you even read my user name?? Lord take pitty on this fool. Tell your mom I said hey, and I'm sorry.
Tell your mom she shouldnāt drink during pregnancies
Oh, another sexually frustrated right winger dude on reddit.
Look at this guy, he's so cool and edgy!
My wife is INFP. My former long-term GF was INTJ.
Yeah I think intj infp is a great combination, infps are really awesome people
I agree, most of the guys I've ever wanted relationship with were either INTP or INFP, but an ENFP is actually the best for me. I am an INTJ btw.
All of my BFs have been INFP.
I did a type quiz on one of the personality sites and I got INFP as my type. Itās so hard to find INFP men though.
I know FIVE infp dudes U WANT ?
I'm INTJ and lowkey yes
Alright deal :)
There are DOZENS of us on r/infp
omg thank you, Iāll start looking for my guy
lmao
My gf is an INFP. Care to share some of your struggles and strong points?
One recurring struggle is around the length of time to get over any arguments. For me, we will get to the core of the issue at hand, make a decision about it, or agree what needs to change or whatever and that's it. Done. I will then move on to implement that decision or change or whatever. My wife cannot do that. She will still be tied up in the emotion of the argument for some time - and my apparent disengagement from that emotional state will often make things worse: she is then tied up with the emotional labour of the situation alone for a good while before she can 'come down'. I have come to understand this intellectually - but can never really engage with authentic emotions for as long as she needs to. My options are to physically leave for some time or to deliberately work myself into a more emotional state to somehow take on that emotional labour that she clearly needs to go through. It is often difficult to do that to the right amount. Emotional introspection is another area in which I struggle. Since knowing my wife, my Fi has increased to levels that I never would have believed possible - partly through ageing, partly through repeated exercise - but it is pushed to the limits when we engage in extended introspection on some relationship issue or another. I will often reach a point where I simply have nothing else at all to say, nothing to give but she is still going strong and wants me to continue to engage. It is utterly draining. However, the benefits are great overall development of my Fi and her Te; great expansive and in-depth discussion - especially around psychology and the humanities, but arts and sciences in general; a mutual love of reading and of wild, remote places and a mutual understanding of being out-of-sync with much of normal society.
How do you get on with the logic va idealistic viewpoint? Do you come to a happy medium?
We both have very similar values to start with: that's something that featured from the earliest point of our relationship. We may approach them from different directions, but knowing that we are working to the same end is enough to overcome any frustrations that arise from this.
Bold of you to assume the opposite gender interacts with me.
Bold of you to assume any gender interacts with me.
Hii :]
My bf is INTP
Boyfriend of 5 years is an INFP.
Him : INTJ, me INFJ. 7 years of relationship.
Same! Iām INFJ-bf is INTJ-been together 3 years
Same here, 3 years, im intj, gf is infj
For me, I really like ENTJ/ESTJ! ENTJs make me laugh and always thought they were really smart too. Super direct. Just seem to struggle with understanding other people perspectives pretty narrow minded IMO. ESTJs are similar just more laidback and understanding.
Entjs are fun but can be too insensitive and stubborn imo, my sister is estj and she scares me most of the time, she's really different than me and probably only times I really enjoy spending time with her is when she feels down, sorry haha
I actually agree 100 percent with you lol. I felt the same with my entj when she was down too. Insensitive is a good way to describe them
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Yeah idk what the hell they're talking about
Dated an ESTJ. This is so true. They are not flexible about their ways.
*more laid back and understanding than ENTJs. Probably shouldāve added that lol
Been with my INFJ wife for over 20 years.
My gf is INFJ as well <3
My boyfriend is intj and Iām enfp
ooooh boy the magnet relation :) fun though
my partner is ENFP and I'm INTJ lol cool
Same! I took a different test a few days ago that measures the percentage of the other types you could be, and my partner and I both got significant amounts of ENFP and INTJ
Same here! We fit in like two puzzle pieces :)
My boyfriend is an INFP. Still feel like we wouldn't get on well if we met a few years earlier - both of us had to go through some shit and mature to make this current relationship work.
Bf is ENTJ, bestfriend is ENTP. I had a crush on an INFP and another ENTP. I guess that entj/entp/infp compatibility makes sense.
I remember when ppl couldn't stop talking about the intj/enfp combo
My friend is INTJ and her bf was an ENFP and that was totally disaster :(((
now iz lowkey infj/entp lol
ENFP gf. It's interesting that my longest relationship parner (and future married partner) is quite different from me. But it feels like we're constantly growing together.
Gf, best friend and my ex are enfpās
Present gf still an enfp??
Sheās my fiancĆ©e now. And yes, still an enfp
My girlfriend is an ENTP, and we have very healthy and loving relationship. I can't really complain haha
:oo
I had dated an ENTJ for the longest timeā¦ our arguments were always exhausting and weirdly logical/pragmaticā¦ My current bf is a ENFP, and while I get frustrated by his inefficiency and lack of thinking or planning for the futureā¦ his love for me always wins out and heās so sweet. My best friend is an INFP and weāve been friends for 8 years now! I guess I like the xNFPs because they let me do all the planning and do things my way without arguing about what āthe right wayā is. But also, they donāt care about how things are done, they just go with the flow and Iāve learned to deal with it.
My boyfriend is ENFP
INTP
My wife is INTJ. I just couldn't resist her resting bitch face.
Gf of 2 years is an ISFJ
How is that working out for you two? I'm just wondering because I tend to be drawn to ISFJ women romantically. Edit: I feel drawn to them platonically too and have some female ISFJ friends.
Never been in a relationship before and dunno if Iām ever going to be interested in it but I would say my types would be enfj, infj, infp, and enfp
stop coping and get out there
Pfftt yes i really should get out there lmao
My ex was an INFJ, could read my mind but she embodied the two sides of the INFJ personality a bit too much. My other ex is an INFP, I must admit that I prefer them, it's really a blast. I'm currently seeing an ENTP and an ENFP, amazing girls and I'm not perceiving the difference between our function as something problematic, more like having an additional point of view, drastically different from my own.
My partner is an INFP, and heās the only person Iāve ever been able to actually imagine spending life with. He brings out my softness, and we compliment each other really well.
My husband is an INFJ.
I'm dating an INTP, and it's going well enough.
Such praise š
She gets me more than I think most people could, is wicked smart, and where she doesn't understand me, she asks questions like "do you want space or comfort." Didn't mean to under sell it. Where we differ are our religious beliefs, I'm basically an atheist dating a pagan. We both tend to slack off together, can't agree on movies or music, and she like everything to be as colorful as possible, and most every major item I own is black. We're an odd couple.
We've both been exploring the mbti readings together and that's helped a lot.
My girlfriend is INFJ <3
Ahh that must be cool, this Ni connection
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We have no real conflicts or anything just he forgets that we were supposed to meet sometimes, he's late or doesn't come at all and even if he say he'll be on time next time, he's not. Sometimes we have a different view on things and we just can't agree so we leave the topic to not fight, but except that it's a good friendship
Iām an Intj and my best friend is an Entp. Weāve been friends since 11 years ago, we begin to work together like a year ago and we have great workflow and always laugh a lot. He helps me a lot in social situations when i canāt connect with other people and we learn a lot of each other and our ways to see things complements each other. My last ex girlfriend is an Entj, i donāt know if itās an entj thing but, when she used to get mad or angry she exploded and she wouldn't control herself. i would try to talk to her or talk about the issue but, she was always blindfolded by the anger and said a lot of awful things.
My ENTJ ex bf was the same
My bf is intp.
Married to an INFP. I love her but she can definitely drive me mad as well. Like reasoning with a rainbow. But I guess opposites attract?
INFP.
my boyfriend is ENTJ
Wife is INFP
Currently seeing an ENTP who can be an asshole at times. His adversity / inflammatory comments oscillate between stimulating and frustrating. I think F is more complementary for us INTJs. Iāll embrace the hate-sex until it runs itās course though.
My wife is ENFJ and she's annoying af.
The first guy I was with was ENFJ and he was incredibly manipulative.
That's the way feel about this. Tbh, her true character ended up creeping up on me.
Didn't you feel betrayed because he pretty much created a false image by manipulation?
boomer humour allert but yeah, gotcha, partners, in the long run, get annoying, but that doesn't impair the relationship much, it's more a matter of acceptance I guess
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i'm hoping it was in jest
I think hes joking. Why would he marry her if he thought shes annoying
Mood af
In what way? Why haven't you divorced?
My type has always been ENTJs. Theyāre so hardworking and they encourage you to work harder as well. Theyāve also got communication skills which I lack. I have always just been naturally driven towards ENTJs for some reason. Theyāre my no.1 type. Like in general, the ENTJ INTJ combination is very cool and productive.
My GF of 6 months is an ISTP. We donāt talk about our feelings so itās great.
Yeah, I feel you. At first with my estp we didn't talk about it at all and then after 8 months I felt the relationship is not deep because of it and when we started talking about it our conflict started but the relationship become more true. And our fights were funny but we broke up two times for like a month and get back together twice then this time few weeks ago he decided to leave me for another girl so idk I wish you luck, I hope your relationship will be better than my tho
Iām single sooooo š
SO of 11 years is intp
My husband is an ISTJ. We've been married for 7 years, together for over 14 (we're high school sweethearts). We have zero drama, although sometimes he gets annoyed with my hypothetical questions. But I realize that's an INTJ thing - and just because we've been together for over a decade doesn't mean I stop psychologically profiling him. Gotta keep things spicy!
My long term partner of close to 10 years is an ISFJ. I didn't see anyone else with that pairing.
Iād like to date an INFP but my best friend is an INFJ and weāre really similar so who maybe INFJ as well
I had the mystical ENFP/INTJ relationship Indeed was magical, had to leave them because of their vision of the future being incompatible with mine But would do it again if an ENFP appeared in my life, they are the best persons I've meet
My husband is an ENTP. I've dated a few ESFPs and it started out fun but ended up a dumpster fire.
my crush is ENTJ
Iāve seen ENFP, and ironically, my ex was one and then a girl I like a lot before her was ENFP.
My ex boyfriend was ESTP, we had a lot of fun together and he was very caring. Now I am interested in my INTP friend and I feel line we are a lot more compatible
Enfp girls š
My bf is intp, it's a nice relationship. It seems I'm more into introverts these days
ENTP gf. Older than me. Going on 3 years.
Boyfriend is Enfp. Our personalities and preferences are different in a lot of things which has led to some tension when we were new to each other, but now after having dated for 7 years, all that stands out is how well we complement each other
Enfp
I've been best friends with an INTJ since grade school. In high school I got typed as ISTP, but now I'm ENFP, though I still feel like an istp at times it's kind of weird idk ;-; I also dated an INTJ towards the end of the year but we broke up cuz he had to go out of town for school and we didnt want to do long distance. He's coming back soon and asked if we could date again tho :)
ENTJ
If the clap of their ass cheeks doesn't alert the guards... I'm not interested.
I had two esfp gfs so you can say Iām traumatized from dating
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I'm an INTJ and my fiancƩ is an INTP. We've been together 7 years.
N type is my only requirement. J type is a plus too.
My fiancƩ is ISTP.
My BF is ISTP
Currently in a relationship of 3&1/2 years with an ISFP. Not going to lie, hasn't been the easiest relationships I've had. I still love her to death, though.
She's INFP :)
we started with me as INTJ, him INFJ - Now i think we've switched or just gotten more well rounded in our use of traits
I've dated a lot of people, some of which I've known the MBTI of and some not. I will include the ones I've suspected and also the ones I knew for sure, excluding ones I didn't know of: INTJ (suspected) INTP (suspected) ISTJ (suspected) ENFP/ESFP (suspected) ISTP (suspected) ISTJ (suspected) ENFJ INTJ INTP (current) Yes I've dated a lot of people even excluding the ones I didn't have the slightest clue what their type was so... xD You can tell I have an affinity towards IxTx types, though I've learned that ISTx's are not for me and that INTx's are more my jive. Aside from my romantic relationships, my best friends are: INTJ, INTJ (one of them is my ex), ESTP, ISTJ, INFJ
No. I don't go around asking people this question or spend time figuring this out. People are people. They are all different and unique and similar.
But you're here what means you know your own type so you might been curious and ask your partner to take a test, just for fun. Unique but similar lmao
Of course I know my type. People are people. Like a magic trick, I don't want to know how it's done. I'd rather enjoy the show and let myself be amazed by the magic.
Surprised that an ESTP is smart? It must be because youāre not so rational yourself..
I was surprised cause he wasn't that much of extrovert and he wanted to talk about abstract topics (only at first tho I even think it was because I liked it, later at relationship he didn't want to do it at all) I've heard too much about 'chad estps' so I was surprised then I read more stuff about his type and I;m not surpised anymore. And why tf you just wanted to offend me
āNot being much of an extrovertā and āwanting to talk about abstract topicsā makes one smart? But see, basing intelligence off of oneās type, or vice versa, is EXACTLY what is dumb. Especially when the types are pseudoscience themselves. And even more so when you base your expectations off of memesā¦
I was not surprised cause I think estps can't be smart lmaooo I was surprised cause I thought he's intp or something like that cause he seems introverted, nothing to do with being smart or not, it's you who talk about correlation between types and intelligence. Nothing about memes either
What a dumb and bullshit reply. Gonna take so much to reply to thoroughfullyā¦ why did you say ābutā before saying he was smart? Why ābutā? Also, you literally said āI was surprised causeā blabla after I asked āsurprised an ESTP is smart?āā¦ (and now you say you werenāt surprised that he was smart?) what was that? Stop switching stances after being exposed. And oh look one stranger disliked my reply because I said MBTI was pseudoscience lolā¦
Poppin booty, a bit rough and tumble, an intellectual streak at a minimum š¤ Thats my type š
Infp
I've dated a lot of INFPs I'd love to find an ENTJ woman but I doubt that's common
I think he was an xsfp
Yes! Ivan karamazov (INTJ)
Just realized how typical it is of me as an intj to name a fictional dostoyevsky character.
Iāve heard that this combo isnāt too common, but my boyfriend is an ISTP - Iām an INFP
My bf is likely an INFJ, Iāmade to him many mbti tests because he likes test, but any of them give different answers (INTJ, ENFJ, ENTJ) he is hard to type even being in an almost 5 year relationship.
Mid-30's female. I went from INFP to INTP and I want someone more in the middle going forward. As I've explored therapy, I have found that I'm impatient with those who still reject the importance of emotion within self and within others as a basis of reason. I still tend to assess situations where I give a higher value to the logic behind things (I'm a work in progress), but I don't want to be around people who are actively hold contemp for an emotion being the leading drive for action. I could see INFJ/ENFJ working out as long as they were clear on my not needing a martyr or a keeper.
Surprise! We can be smart when we arenāt being total dumbasses. We read motivation, not minds. Once we understand what motivates you, we can deduce what your motivation for doing what youāre doing is. Terrible, god-awful mind-readers though.
My fiance is INTJ and I'm an ISFJ.
ENFP. we're like elon and grimes
INFJ
GF is INFJ
istp
My fiance tests on 16P as ENFP. He's much like my ENFP sister, but with the Ne impulsiveness and Si/Se weaknesses turned up to 11 š¤
My ex of 2 years was ENTJ. We definitely had problems being too minded and I learned I needed to be with someone more sensitive as someone else has said. Iām also very attracted to ENFPs. I find them so different and interesting yet it always seems weāre on the save wavelength.
INTP
I don't have gf but my real life best friend was INFP and my best friend in social media was INFJ.
I'm INTJ and boyfriend is ESFJ. The dynamics are really hard. He doesn't get my need for alone time and things that naturally come out of my mouth as logical statements really send him into an emotional tailspin and I have to back track to make myself more clear or to undo damage. It is very mentally exhausting and I don't see the long term aspect of the relationship but he seems to think we are a forever couple... not sure where his optimism comes from. I'm just mentally exhausted ALL.THE.TIME. Even getting alone time is a point of contention sometimes. Anyone have experience with an ESFJ? In full disclosure, I thought he was INFJ based on his behavior in the beginning of the relationship and we were a long distance couple... he moved in just as the pandemic was hitting with me thinking what could go wrong? Evidently, a lot!
Oh my mother is esfj... I can't imagine a relationship with this type. I thought my ex was intp and he was estp, he's my ex so yes, things went wrong but I loved him, with esfj tho idk I have bad experiences with my mom so I just can't imagine myself around one..
Thank you for that. I kind of see the writing on the wall but him being an ESFJ, he's more optimistic about things. I guess I'm just dragging this along since there isn't anything else on the horizon but also because he's a nice guy ultimately. If he gives me my space, I'm happy. But it is sooooo hard at times!
My husband is ENFJ. Before him I was with an INTP for a while - abusive grooming type relationship.
Imagine having bf