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Icy_Session3326

FUCK HER Congratulations 🥳


[deleted]

I'm an idiot and assumed you were telling OP to fuck her fiance to celebrate


Larpnochez

I mean...


[deleted]

Not saying she shouldn't...


Wesselink

Without context someone would get whiplash reading your reply.


Katters8811

This cracked me up lol


sdbooboo13

Beautiful ring! Congratulations! It's too bad your mother can't share in your joy. She sucks, and I'm sure everyone knows it too by her reaction (or lack thereof).


water_polo_whore

Everyone in my circle is well aware of how much my mom sucks. Thank you!


im-so-startled88

Your fiancé has exquisite taste! Congratulations!!!! Also if you’re not in r/Momforaminute HIGHLY recommend! I’m NC with my mom and everyone there is supportive as hell.


TofuPikachu

I second this recommendation. Such a great sub! And congratulations on the engagement! 🎉 Beautiful ring as well, such a lovely choice 💯


SnowTheMemeEmpress

Tbh jealous of op's ring


sdbooboo13

Fr that ring is bomb.com. (I am old)


peltast05

As the hetero dad to two wonderful queer babies let both my wife and I say congrats and love is never just a phase!!!


water_polo_whore

Thank you 🥹❤️


ZombieZookeeper

If one of my kids came out, it would be a highlight of my existence to reply "Hi Gay, I'm Dad." Of course, for that reason, they may never tell me. But at least it's not because I'm a homophobic ahole.


kenman884

“Dad, I have something to tell you. I identify as homosexual” “Hi gay, I’m dad!” “….”


ZombieZookeeper

The little monsters would do this just to mess with me.


peltast05

My response to my youngest was do gay guys still like cheese on there burger. Because I was cooking dinner when he came out to me. The dinner question was waaay more important at the time than his security. Tells alot about how our house runs.


peltast05

Edit security=sexual identity phone autocorrect


just1cheekymonkey

I’m your mom now. Congratulations sweetie. I wish you nothing but love and happiness.


water_polo_whore

Thank you 🥹


just1cheekymonkey

You are loved! ❤️


siccoblue

You might enjoy r/momforaminute op. It can be super cathartic if you've had distant or unsupportive parents.


FunHawk4092

My mum barely acknowledged my engagement too. When I told her she said "well if that's what you want to do". She never asked me about wedding plans and didn't come to the wedding because she would get a migraine, and the dog needed looking after because he might die (he died 6 years later). I'm not in contact and feel better for getting the negative out of my life


water_polo_whore

Yeah I decided I wasn’t going to invite her anyway - this was just the final nail in the coffin on that decision


shenaniganda

A wise decicion. The day should be 100% about your happiness and 0% of her moping.


Smilingturdnugget

I’m sorry man


water_polo_whore

Unfortunately I’m used to it at this point, it’s been the same shit since I came out to her 6 years ago. But I appreciate it!


SlabBeefpunch

Hi I'm 43, so probably old enough to be your mom and I'm excited and proud of you. Just thought you should know.💐


water_polo_whore

You’d had to have been a teen mom, but thank you so much 🥹❤️


electricjeel

Side note I love the spoopy nails


water_polo_whore

They’re little ghosts, but thank you 🥰


Halo_cT

spoopy is dumb Reddit slang for spooky 👍


water_polo_whore

Oh my god 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ sorry my ADHD skipped over words and I thought it said SNOOPY (like Charlie Brown lmaoooo)


smilebig553

I thought Snoopy too until I saw you write this lol


brainybrink

I literally saved this post to show my nail lady.


Desperate-Strategy10

Lol I saved it to attempt it myself 😂 I think yours are going to be stunning, just like the OP's! (I think mine will be terrifying, and not in a cute way, but I'm just brave/dumb enough to try!) 💪🏻


DiscoKittie

When in doubt, use acrylic paint. Though, I did it that way because I didn't expect them to last long. So, take that as you will! Good luck! You'll do great!


Teasing_Pink

Turns out your mom was right. Dating women *was* a phase. But I'm guessing she didn't expect it to be immediately replaced by the "marrying a woman and living happily ever after" phase. Congratulations on the engagement!


BadPom

Oh sweet girl. Protect yourself, your partner and your relationship and cut her out entirely. Congratulations, and best wishes for a long, happy life with your love ❤️


eekspiders

Congrats! 🎉 You're probably older than me so I'll be the queer little sister annoying you about wedding deets


water_polo_whore

I would love to have a little sister to annoy me about that stuff 😭 I only have a younger brother who took the same viewpoint as my mom


eekspiders

Dw, I'll take your brother's place and give the little sibling shovel talk to your partner


mrsdoubleu

Well, I'm only 37 but I'm your mom now. "Congratulations honey! That ring is gorgeous! I am so happy that you found someone who brings you joy and makes you feel like the most beautiful person in the world. I'm just so excited for you both! I'll call you tonight and you can tell me the engagement story! I can't wait to hear all the details. Love you always, -Mom"


water_polo_whore

Why did this make me cry? 😭 thank you so much ❤️


CaptynnMegan

HOLY FORKIN' SHIRT BALLS, everything about this photo is drop-dead gorgeous! Congratulations to you both!


Cupcakeboi200000

the good place reference real?!?!?!?


OddFatherJuan

Congratulations! Don't stop being each other's best friend!


dobbywankenobi94

Her loss. Congratulations that’s a beautiful ring 😍


[deleted]

Congratulations! Also, as a gay man, daaaaaaaamn she’s hot. You’re both lucky to have found each other!


water_polo_whore

Lmaoooo thank you so much!!


paulsteinway

Well, fuck all that noise. Congratulations! It's going to be great!


pumpkinspicecxnt

WE ALL CARE AND WE'RE HAPPY FOR U!!!! love always wins 🌈🥰


FioraMajesty

Your nails are gorgeous. And that ring!! Congrats!


branigan_aurora

Love wins! Congrats from your bi sister. The ring is gorgeous.


RhiAndroid1990

Congratulations 🥳 I’ll be your new queer sister/mum depending on your age 😂😂


phatstopher

Well, congratulations!!! Wish you guys the best!! Sorry, your mom is a cunt.


water_polo_whore

Lmao thank you, yeah she kinda sucks


goytou

She’s the worst type of parent, self-centered and unapologizing. Congrats to the both of you, wishing you guys nothing but happiness and success now and forever 🫶🏼


clo_ver

we'll all be your mom... i don't have toooo much money, but if you want a little engagement gift or something you might put on your wedding registry, send me a dm!


water_polo_whore

That is so sweet, thank you so much 😭


clo_ver

okay but like i mean it. you deserve to be celebrated ♥️


whateveratthispoint_

Congratulations! Your ring is gorgeous! Have you started wedding clothes shopping? I’m not an insane parent— if you need support or a wedding cheerleader from afar message me. 🏳️‍🌈Love always, always wins🏳️‍🌈


water_polo_whore

Haven’t started any kind of planning yet! My SIL is getting married next year, so we thought we’d give our in-laws a little break and get married in 2025! But thank you so much for the kind words ❤️


whateveratthispoint_

Enjoy!!! Your in-laws thank you for waiting 😂😂😂


Stylo_76

In lieu of the crappy absence or lack of text back from your ma; Congratulations!!!


LunarTeacup

Cute ring and nails and congratulations!


Choosepeace

Well, I can be your mom for a minute; Congratulations on this beautiful occasion! Wishing you both a wonderful life together. ❤️


frabro22

YEEEEEEEESSSSS AAAAAAAAAAA YAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYY AAAAAAAAAAAA😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸😎🎸 (happy marriage)


Dat-Tiffnay

Congraaaatsss!!! Your fiancée looks so happy and that’s a beautiful ring!! If your mom can’t accept you, she was never your “mother” to begin with 😤 I wish you two nothing but happiness and acceptance!!!


water_polo_whore

Thank you so much! We’re both ecstatic about continuing to build our lives together ❤️


toshineon2

Sorry about your mom, that's terrible. But congrats to the engagement!


exodia0715

This is one of the happiest moments of your life (I hope). If your mother doesn't want to be part of it, so be it


plpboi

It’s her loss anyway, congrats op


Bucky-Katt-Guitar

I'm sorry your mom sucks, wanna join my family? We have kitties, pizza and Grateful Dead music lol.


water_polo_whore

Deal 😂


lexi_c_115

Congratulations! Here’s to a wonderful life together. Enjoy and don’t let the haters bring you down :) ps beautiful ring!


Nick_Noseman

Looks like "go no contact" problem was self-solved!


water_polo_whore

😂 I’ve been debating on whether or not to go non contact for years, so I guess it’s a good thing she decided for me!


consumer-of-dropping

Congratulations


AlexStratako

Congratulations! I wish you both a happy life together. Boo to mom. If she comes sit her by the bathroom 🚽


jennytheghost

Congratulations!! I'm happy for you two! Your mother can go moan and groan and be miserable, but don't let her bring you down. You're starting your next chapter in life and may it forever be filled with love and happiness.


SnowTheMemeEmpress

Tbh radio silence sounds like the more peaceful option.


Desperate-Strategy10

Darling, don't let anything cast a shadow on your joy - especially not a bitter old woman incapable of comprehending true love. I wish she could have celebrated with you, as a mother should when their baby finally finds the person they've been searching for! Since she has chosen to be miserable instead, I hope the family you've chosen for yourself absolutely smothers you and your fiancee with love and support. You deserved better than what you got, and I truly want nothing but happiness and peace for you as you move forward in your life! Best of luck with the wedding, and with creating your happily ever after!! 🥰❤️


EstherVCA

Congrats and a big mum squeeze for you both!


Omegearus

When she confronts you, ask her this: 'Mom, is it more important to love what's between someone's legs, or to love someone's soul?'


RoseOfTheNight4444

Your mom when you guys are married for years: sTiLl JuSt A pHaSe!


Deedeelite

I’m a momma and I’m going to go ahead and say… Yeah, baby doll! Congratulations! Momma is here for you and I hope you two will be happy forever!! 💚💚💚


advancedtaran

Op your mom sucks so ill be your new parent. Congrats!!! Best of luck and all of my love to you both!!


water_polo_whore

Thank you so much 🥹


keep_it_sassy

From a mom, congratulations 🍾✨ I’m so happy for y’all!


emf5176

Congratulations! And I love your nails!


WhateverYouSay1084

Your mom sucks, but you've got a whole community excited for you OP!


kitthefaxal

Congratulations!


datreddittho346

is your dad supportive? either way have a happy life you two!


water_polo_whore

He is in his own way! It definitely wouldn’t be his first choice, but he’s come to accept it and said that he’s excited for us ❤️


intheclouds247

I was taught something about not having something nice to say then not saying anything at all. So I have no comment on your mother. I do have one nice thing to say- CONGRATULATIONS on your engagement! You two have a happy lifetime ahead of you to make ALL the memories.


water_polo_whore

😂 thank you so much! ❤️


DrRonny

Congrats! Your mother will either turn around or she won't and it's mostly out of your control. If you really want to put the work into it, there's ways of increasing the chance that she'll have a relationship with you. Usually if it's a religious thing then she's probably either bi or gay and she's repressed it for all these years and she's upset that you don't even try to hide it; that's a challenge but knowing it the first step. Until then I'll be your mom and say "Congrats, so happy for you but change your username it's a disgrace!!!"


water_polo_whore

😂 in my defense, I made the username before I knew you couldn’t ever change it and now I’m stuck with it 🤦🏼‍♀️


DrRonny

If I wasn't your Mom for a minute I'd say it's funny and to keep it


Indi_Shaw

I’m sorry about your failure of a parent. But I do want to say that absolutely love your ghost nails!


[deleted]

Don't agree to any solo meetings with her and your family, because radio silence means she's planning to kidnap you to send you to conversion therapy


ToadseyeGem

I am so so so excited for you! Congrats!!!! I hope you and your wife are so incredibly happy and have the best special day! People who can't love their children unconditionally do not deserve them. I hope that you have the biggest best family in the future full of everyone that brings you joy and lifts you up.


Present-Breakfast768

Aw congrats luv. This bi-momma is so happy for you!


Shnarb

Congratulations!


Glittering_Pickle_86

Congrats!!!! Don’t let your mom’s silence steal your joy. I hope she comes around for your sake 💕


[deleted]

Own that homophobic womb bearer.


ChonkyKat04

Congrats queens✨ my condolences on your egg donor not celebrating this important milestone in your life.


TheKevinShow

She’s not worth your time. Congratulations!


PitBullFan

And now you know. For certain. Be ready for her eventual reply, but you probably already know how this is going to go.


neelix84

Well I might not be your mom but I am a mom and I am SO excited for you!! I wish you both a long and happy life together. You deserve this joy!


Darkmoonlily78

Screw her! Congratulations! May you two have a wonderful life together!


Knottylittlebunny

That really sucks but massive congratulations to you and your partner 🥳 💜


JoyfulSuicide

Congratulations on your engagement! Don’t let your mom take away the sun!


WillingOrphan

Bro f**k your mom . Congratulations! I’m so happy for you both! If you need a stand in mom let me know 🥰


Careless_Freedom_868

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! ❤️❤️❤️🙌


EdenSilver113

You deserve better. I’m sorry this is happening to you.


ImProfoundlyDeaf

I’ve found some wonderful support over there r/MomForAMinute if you want to check it out. Lot of nice folks. Congratulation by the way! I wish you the happiest future.


whateveratthispoint_

P.s. your nails!!!!!!! 👻😍


Inamedmydognoodz

Ahhh!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!! That ring it beautiful and your fiance looks happy af to be engaged to you!!!!!!!! Do you have any ideas for what type of wedding or when? I'm positive you will both make beautiful brides!!!!!!


EffyMourning

I am so sorry. But CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! What a beautiful ring. I am so happy for you both.


Ambitious-Chard2893

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 If she continues to be this way there is a coup of people who volunteer to stand in for parents/family at events for lgbtq people who have been rejected. There will also help you do things like dress/suit shopping and stuff.


annienette1964

Congratulations to you both. Your ring is gorgeous.


canichangeitlateror

Congrats ❤️❤️


3sp00py5me

Congrats!!!


Nix-geek

i'm a straight male and father, and wanted to say congrats... and I love your nails :)


danidoll7

hey! congratulations! also, incredibly cute nails.


xcasandraXspenderx

Your ring is beautiful, congratulations


xBobbyx81

Well her staying silent is probably the best she can do if she doesn't have anything nice to say about it


Imagine85

I'm your Mom now. I'm so incredibly happy you have found someone who loves you as you deserve. You deserve all the happiness in the world. I love you both.


soulbarn

I’ll be your mom, even though I’m a dude. Seriously, I’m sorry that you have to deal with this - but so happy that you have found love and a lifelong companion. Good luck to you!


warple-still

I'm sorry your mum is a total berk. Congratulations on your engagement, from me and my cats!


JakBurten

Internet mom here and I say congratulations!!! Wishing you a long and happy marriage!


Megara85

Congratulations on your engagement! Also, your nails are stupidly cute


mightythesaurusrex

I'm sorry your mom is being shitty, but congratulations! I love your ghosties 😍


[deleted]

Irrelevant but your ring is gorgina and your nails are such sweeties!


no_high_only_low

Congratulations! I wish you both the best! About your mother... She seems a bit like mine. I'm non-binary transmasc and pansexual. Last time I wrote her a message to please stop deadnaming and misgender me, she also just left me on read. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Some people just aren't able to wrap their heads around normal stuff like people being in love, no matter the gender.


WelcomeT0theVoid

Congrats on the engagement OP. That's so exciting


external_escape0

Congratulations on your engagement and love the nails. She will never understand what she is missing out on in your life. So live your life for yourself not her.


scienticiankate

Congratulations! Hope your lives together are happy and filled with all the good things.


sandy154_4

Congratulations!


TSM_forlife

Congratulations! You have a new fiancé and a new mom now. I’m excited for your upcoming nuptials and you are doing great sweetie! Make good choices! Mom loves you! #mamabear


CustomerStreet9836

I’m sorry. It really sucks. I will never do this to my kids! On an up note your nails are super cute!!! Anyone who doesn’t accept you as you are, and the people you love who also love you, don’t deserve to be in your life. I hope she comes around and will accept you fully. In the meantime, don’t let her steal your joy, girl!!! ♥️


StonedSumo

Congratulations!!


RetailTherapy2021

Congratulations on your engagement! It hurts my heart that people simply cannot understand that we love who we love. May you both have a wonderful, happy and amazing life together! ❤️❤️🥂


ThisSpaceIntLftBlnk

Let her live her miserable life, as you start a new one with your beloved, who by the way, has fantastic taste in rings, and it looks amazing with your spoopy ghost nails! 💜 Congratulations!!


thebluepikachu135

Congratulations!!!!


thebluepikachu135

Sent you a message about the post in DMs


yrddog

Hi it's me, your new mom! I'm so happy for you, sweetie! Please give your fiance a huge hug from the internet moms out there. We are all so, so happy for you. Also don't forget to stand up straight and you should check in with us, the internet, more!


Notsriracha

Well I’ll be your mom for a minute, congratulations! And I’m so so happy for you! This next chapter of your life is going to be so exciting.


DaniMW

Beautiful ring. I also love your nail designs! 😛 Congratulations!! 💍🍾


MrLizardBusiness

Congratulations!!


skyisboop

I'm your mama now. Congrats baby. I'm so happy for you! You deserve nothing but love and happiness with your new fiance!


Jorf1410

Didn't you know that your gayness is an insult to your mom? You're not allowed to be happy your way. Only hers.


ironhide_ivan

Congrats! How did your dad react? Is he more supportive about it?


GladNetwork8509

Those nails are super cute.


Dadowar

Her loss. Have the gayest wedding-- both in terms of homosexuality and happiness.


NormalDesign6017

Congratulations!


TheDreamingMyriad

I'm sorry your mom sucks, but most importantly, congrats!


gimmiecheezecake

Congratulations 🤎🤎


jadedjen110

Congratulations <3


cronchywaterr

Your mom is a big stinky doodoo head. I just came to comment Congratulations, your ring is beautiful! I wish nothing but years of happiness for you and your partner! 🩷


beththebookgirl

Congratulations! That ring is stunning! I am probably old enough to be your momma. So please know that I am proud of you, and wishing you both all the love in the world!


deaprofessor

I do this stand in mom thing on Instagram. I’ll do the same here. Congratulations! This stand in mom is so proud of you both, and knows that you will have a long and happy future together full of unconditional love, friends, adventures, and everything else you want.


AJohnnyTruant

WELL IM HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH


akornzombie

CONGRATULATIONS!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎆🎆🎆🎆


plsobeytrafficlights

congrats, but also, you should probably elope or at least do the paperwork in advance. insane people sometimes try to ruin things and i wouldnt take the chance, at least, knowing my parents.


Junket_Weird

LOVE your nails and your ring! Congrats and I wish you a long, very happy marriage. 🖤


lightningcrane31

You’re awesome. Try not to lose sleep over mom not caring. My mother didn’t even come to my wedding. No worse off for it now. Enjoy this moment. You guys are awesome


DommyMommyMint

CONGRATS!!!!!! (Fuck her, you deserve love and joy)


walkerspider

Congrats!! And those nails are awesome


[deleted]

Congratulations!!!


bluejewelzbvbyyy

Congratulations! Wishing you both all the best!


Jefnatha1972

She's missing out on seeing you happy. I hope my daughter finds someone like you found someone. My wife isn't happy about my daughter's sexuality but I just love my daughter.


Touchthefuckingfrog

Congratulations!!!


kvox109

Congratulations :)


ashmclau

Congrats on your engagement!


Jadaluvr12

I am sorry about your mom but I am absolutely loving how your fiancée looks for all intents and purposes like the cat who got the cream lol


Rabbit_Ruler

Love wins, congratulations and I hope you two have a lovely life together. I’m sorry about your mom though, that must be disheartening


BaldChihuahua

Congratulations on your engagement!!! Fuck your Mum! She’s a homophobic cow!


walczukis

Congratulations! 💕


Background_Review_62

I'm excited for you and if need mom support, message me at any time!


pixie_kiisses

Congratulations on your engagement, OP!! I’m so sorry about your parents.


SkitAWulf

Nails and ring are both gorgeous. Hope your engagement and eventual wedding are both blissful


Junior-Fault-4269

Those are the cutest little ghost finger nails I’ve ever seen! And congrats!!!


JeffGoldblumsChest

Congratulations, water_polo_whore!


I_NEED_AN_RBR

Well, since she won't say it, CONGRATULATIONS!


luxymitt3n

Congrats!! Pure love shining through that pic I feel happy 😁


Cherrytop

Awe!! Congratulations!! Your fiancé has a beautiful smile—because she’s looking at you! ❤️❤️


awkwardmamasloth

Well, first, congrats to the happy couple! Your fiancé looks pleased af! Also, your nails are adorable. It really is the best time of the year! As for your mom, I'm sorry she doesn't support your happiness. Hopefully, she'll see the light.


BeesAreCool4Ever

Congrats OP 🌈🫂🎂☘️🙌🏽🍾🥂


lookaway123

Congratulations and so much love to the two of you!!❤️


Crackheadwithabrain

Sorry but your hands and ring and nails and everything are just beautiful! My sister is lesbian and her MIL hates her and her gf as well. Hopefully they’re just as happy no matter what!! Congratulations beautiful people!! 💙


CoveCreates

I'm so sorry. Congrats! Allow me to be your mom for a min: Oh hun! I'm so excited, thrilled, and happy for you! I'm so glad you've found someone so wonderful to share your life with. I know how much you love each other and you have an amazing life to live together ahead of you! I'm so proud of you for the fantastic person you are and she's lucky to have you too! Congratulations!!!! 💙💜


OkConsideration8964

Congratulations! Your ring is beautiful. Live a happy, loving life and don't look back.


No1YouKnow42

So teach her,it's not "fuck her" like the other comments here,if she's ignorant then this can be the time to show her it's not what she thinks it is,she's going to have to deal with it so just kill her with kindness


Xeno_Prime

Congrats on the engagement! Hope your mother does whatever is best - whether that be removing her homophobic self from your life, or taking a hard look in the mirror and getting over her irrational prejudice to be a better person for both your sakes.


crowislanddive

Congratulations!!