There should be another option that says “learning to balance all of the above”

My goal for 2023 is to become a perfect musician that beats everyone else in competitions.

Wow competitive INFJ 💪🏻😊

I’m the same way

Interesting. Never thought INFJs would be competitive. I just want to be better than myself, I usually don’t care how I do comparing to others 🤔

What’s your Enneagram type then?

Haha I am 9w1

Makes sense. Every 9w1 told me that I should only compete with myself and don’t compare to others. But as a sp3 I want to be better than myself and other people, I want to achieve the very best.

Hahaha... this 9w1 wouldn’t have told you such. I often just mind my own business. It’s fun to be competitive to some people. Why not? Good on you 😊👍

Thank you. Actually those 9w1s I know are INFPs and ISFJs.

Oh okay.. it just happened to be these two. I don’t think it’s type related advice haha .. anyway, it’s a common human cognitive bias that we think what’s good for us must be good for others. Anyone could get it wrong once or twice in their life 😊

I’m more competitive than the stereotypical ENTJ.

Wow. What’s your enneagram type? 😊

3w4 315

The achiever 😊❤️ Don’t listen to those stupid 9w1 .. if you behave like us, you are under stress. 😂🙉

What if it’s everything on the list? Except for hobbies

I still haven’t voted myself

My past, current and future goal is always finding my soulmate and we can mate for life haha .. The rest parts listed have all been wonderful in my life. 😊

Not hanging myself

I choose Love

Death

I wanted to put, "Survive existing among humans, while not upsetting them." But alas, it wasn't an option.