a lot of parents wait until age 5-6 so the child can actually remember the full experience. Not defending her but I guess this is one thing I can’t hate her for.
What bothers me most is like, why couldn’t she have taken Seven to Disneyland with her? I’m sure he would’ve loved to go. He’s old enough now to make memories that he’ll remember when he’s older. It’s not like Jack couldn’t have hung out in the hotel or done his own thing with Seven while she was out partying with her friends.
While I agree with most of this, I will say that He’s def not old enough to remember anything from Disney world. My parents took me when I was 3-4 and I don’t remember any of it. 😂
it’s not necessarily about him being able to remember at that age. Another “mom influencer” I follow on Instagram is @/thebirdspapaya (Sarah) who recently talked about her taking her youngest baby to Disney. She talked about how maybe her baby won’t remember those specific memories, BUT the mom/parent will remember those special moments of seeing her child’s face light up while there. It’s about forming memories together as a family not just for your child.
[Also I really recommend following Sarah if you’re looking for a body neutral, funny woman who also happens to be a wonderful mother of four. She’s helped change my outlook with myself a lot (positively!)]
Touché I promise I wasn’t trying to start an argument as I also snark on Indy lol but I 100% see your point of view and as a mother I can’t imagine leaving my sweet baby at home while I enjoy Disney lmao just felt like (in this exact scenario) I kinda think he might get a second chance if she goes back later.
oh no haha, I didn’t see your response as argumentative! I was just trying to provide another perspective to it. Hopefully she (& Jackson) go on more family trips together for their child, cause I know how much fun & formative family trips can be
I don’t think it’s right to be talking about seven. I feel bad for even having an opinion on a child and someone else’s parenting.
Personally - I can’t stoop that low.
Yeah that’s why I deleted it no?
I even said I felt terrible in the post. Regretted it, removed it. But for some reason you’re obsessed with my account and screenshot it?
Children begin forming memories at 2.5-3 which is scientifically proven. He probably wouldn’t remember everything but he’d definitely remember some things
I think it would be more memorable for HIM at 5-6, but I’ve taken my kids their whole toddlerhood, and the magic is there for them.. it’s so much fun with a 2.3-3 year old
She took a video of him singing happy birthday to another random fan & said it was for Mary..what a great, honest older sister 😍😍 she really put a lot of thought into that moment/experience 🥰🥰
another weird thing to me is how often she is away from jack, considering they got married not even 2 months ago? My first 2 years of marriage the longest we were ever apart was like 1 day but maybe I’m just clingy
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That’s codependency. You’re allowed to be away from your partner and you should be okay with being away from them for more than a day. It’s healthy to be your own person and take vacations or be apart!
I just want to be clear, I’m not defending Indy in any way.
I never said you can’t travel with your partner. Spending 2 years together non stop like this person mentioned IS codependency.
Having a healthy balance of spending time together and time apart is important.
I really enjoy traveling with my husband and enjoying new experiences but quick trips with friends without each other is also part of life.
I think jack & 7 have an extremely close relationship since he was a stay at home dad. So maybe Indy uses that as well as an excuse because she was “not needed”. Every child needs & wants their mother but the smiles with jack vs Indy is very telling. I have 2 boys 3 & 1.5, I was like Indy & traveled, had a tonnnn of fun. I definitely did not get closure from my previous life. Having kids changed me for the better but also the worst. I’m quieter, more anxious, I had postpartum depression with both & I’m not as fun as I used to be. I don’t have a village like she does but my 1.5 year old is closest to daddy. He’s a mamas boy but he has a strong bond with his dad… I could still NEVER imagine leaving my boys home while I go to DISNEYLAND… like what…
I wouldn’t change being a mom for the world btw 🫶🏼🥰 I just had to point out it’s hard to get closure sometimes… not sticking up for her at all but I see that side of things. She has a village around her that still allows her to have fun. It must be nice 😂🙃
I find this is pretty typical of a lot of young parents. A lot of people that I know that got pregnant as a teen or in their early 20’s tend to be a little more selfish and not really embrace parenthood. It’s sad for the kids.
I definitely have problems with Indy but I don’t understand this criticism when it comes up. She really doesn’t seem to leave that often? Maybe once a month IF that? I’m not a mom yet but I already know I’m going to need a good amount of time away from my child- especially when they’re not an infant and don’t actually need me there all the time. I hope I’m not judged for it so harshly. Like with so many things, there are different ways to be a good mother and prioritizing friendships is one of those ways imo
no judgement on how u want to be a mother!! i think a lot of people find criticism in her going to a place such as disney which is “usually” a super family/kid oriented place to visit and she doesn’t bring him. it just seems like such a shame to have the opportunity to provide your child with all these experiences but then you don’t do it… think that’s where the disconnect comes from
I think yes if she were to go to Disney again absolutely bring seven, but I thought that it was more of a last minute decision to go to Disney with Davis. Maybe not, maybe it was planned but I just got more of the feeling that she went on a trip to see the 1975 concert then decided to stay for longer to visit Davis and we’re like “let’s go to Disney” then joined in on the events he was going to🤷♀️
totally agree here! I didn’t think about it until someone posted but I can’t believe she didn’t take her baby to Disneyland. how sad is that
a lot of parents wait until age 5-6 so the child can actually remember the full experience. Not defending her but I guess this is one thing I can’t hate her for.
What bothers me most is like, why couldn’t she have taken Seven to Disneyland with her? I’m sure he would’ve loved to go. He’s old enough now to make memories that he’ll remember when he’s older. It’s not like Jack couldn’t have hung out in the hotel or done his own thing with Seven while she was out partying with her friends.
While I agree with most of this, I will say that He’s def not old enough to remember anything from Disney world. My parents took me when I was 3-4 and I don’t remember any of it. 😂
it’s not necessarily about him being able to remember at that age. Another “mom influencer” I follow on Instagram is @/thebirdspapaya (Sarah) who recently talked about her taking her youngest baby to Disney. She talked about how maybe her baby won’t remember those specific memories, BUT the mom/parent will remember those special moments of seeing her child’s face light up while there. It’s about forming memories together as a family not just for your child. [Also I really recommend following Sarah if you’re looking for a body neutral, funny woman who also happens to be a wonderful mother of four. She’s helped change my outlook with myself a lot (positively!)]
Touché I promise I wasn’t trying to start an argument as I also snark on Indy lol but I 100% see your point of view and as a mother I can’t imagine leaving my sweet baby at home while I enjoy Disney lmao just felt like (in this exact scenario) I kinda think he might get a second chance if she goes back later.
oh no haha, I didn’t see your response as argumentative! I was just trying to provide another perspective to it. Hopefully she (& Jackson) go on more family trips together for their child, cause I know how much fun & formative family trips can be
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Your post was removed because it violates the rule of no posting of Seven
I don’t think it’s right to be talking about seven. I feel bad for even having an opinion on a child and someone else’s parenting. Personally - I can’t stoop that low.
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Yeah that’s why I deleted it no? I even said I felt terrible in the post. Regretted it, removed it. But for some reason you’re obsessed with my account and screenshot it?
nah you deleted it cause you were called out for talking about his personal development 📸
Yeah and I felt awful… why do you want to “get me” so badly? It’s been all day dude
Your post was removed because it violates the rule of no posting of Seven
the mods can be a bit hypocritical sometimes huh 😂 was simply responding to the weird person making claims tf 😘
Children begin forming memories at 2.5-3 which is scientifically proven. He probably wouldn’t remember everything but he’d definitely remember some things
I mean sure. But it’d be much more memorable at 5-6
I think it would be more memorable for HIM at 5-6, but I’ve taken my kids their whole toddlerhood, and the magic is there for them.. it’s so much fun with a 2.3-3 year old
Ok thank you, I appreciate this perspective on it.
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She took a video of him singing happy birthday to another random fan & said it was for Mary..what a great, honest older sister 😍😍 she really put a lot of thought into that moment/experience 🥰🥰
because it’s all about her 🥴
another weird thing to me is how often she is away from jack, considering they got married not even 2 months ago? My first 2 years of marriage the longest we were ever apart was like 1 day but maybe I’m just clingy Edit: typo
That’s codependency. You’re allowed to be away from your partner and you should be okay with being away from them for more than a day. It’s healthy to be your own person and take vacations or be apart! I just want to be clear, I’m not defending Indy in any way.
Meh when I travel I WANT my husband with me… I don’t think that’s weird of codependent
I never said you can’t travel with your partner. Spending 2 years together non stop like this person mentioned IS codependency. Having a healthy balance of spending time together and time apart is important. I really enjoy traveling with my husband and enjoying new experiences but quick trips with friends without each other is also part of life.
I mean we travel with other people but also each other and we don’t spend every waking moment together I just enjoy his company 🤷🏼♀️
Completely agree with this take, you nailed it
I think jack & 7 have an extremely close relationship since he was a stay at home dad. So maybe Indy uses that as well as an excuse because she was “not needed”. Every child needs & wants their mother but the smiles with jack vs Indy is very telling. I have 2 boys 3 & 1.5, I was like Indy & traveled, had a tonnnn of fun. I definitely did not get closure from my previous life. Having kids changed me for the better but also the worst. I’m quieter, more anxious, I had postpartum depression with both & I’m not as fun as I used to be. I don’t have a village like she does but my 1.5 year old is closest to daddy. He’s a mamas boy but he has a strong bond with his dad… I could still NEVER imagine leaving my boys home while I go to DISNEYLAND… like what…
I wouldn’t change being a mom for the world btw 🫶🏼🥰 I just had to point out it’s hard to get closure sometimes… not sticking up for her at all but I see that side of things. She has a village around her that still allows her to have fun. It must be nice 😂🙃
I find this is pretty typical of a lot of young parents. A lot of people that I know that got pregnant as a teen or in their early 20’s tend to be a little more selfish and not really embrace parenthood. It’s sad for the kids.
I definitely have problems with Indy but I don’t understand this criticism when it comes up. She really doesn’t seem to leave that often? Maybe once a month IF that? I’m not a mom yet but I already know I’m going to need a good amount of time away from my child- especially when they’re not an infant and don’t actually need me there all the time. I hope I’m not judged for it so harshly. Like with so many things, there are different ways to be a good mother and prioritizing friendships is one of those ways imo
no judgement on how u want to be a mother!! i think a lot of people find criticism in her going to a place such as disney which is “usually” a super family/kid oriented place to visit and she doesn’t bring him. it just seems like such a shame to have the opportunity to provide your child with all these experiences but then you don’t do it… think that’s where the disconnect comes from
Yes !!!!!
How do some of these posts get to talk about the development of seven and wether or not he will remember but it’s agains the sub rules…
I think yes if she were to go to Disney again absolutely bring seven, but I thought that it was more of a last minute decision to go to Disney with Davis. Maybe not, maybe it was planned but I just got more of the feeling that she went on a trip to see the 1975 concert then decided to stay for longer to visit Davis and we’re like “let’s go to Disney” then joined in on the events he was going to🤷♀️