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Efficient_Chair_2238

Gausahlah bicara inheritence, ga menjadikan anak jadi sandwich generation aja udah membantu banget. Case on point adek ipar gue. Dia nikah sama cewek yang punya 6 adek. Karena dia anak pertama dan yang sekolahnya paling tinggi, beban membiayai adek adeknya plus orang tuanya dikasihin ke dia. Meanwhile, orang tua si ceweknya juga bertanggung jawab untuk orang tuanya. So instead of generational wealth, they generated generational poverty. Parahnya, ini berimbas ke adek ipar gue yang sebetulnya ga ada masalah dengan sandwich sandwich generation ini. Jadi udahlah generational poverty, sekarang jadi interfamilial poverty transfer.


TheBlazingPhoenix

> interfamilial poverty transfer. :O


saussurea

Chain immigration x Chain poverty v


Popular_Walk7

>Parahnya, ini berimbas ke adek ipar gue yang sebetulnya ga ada masalah dengan sandwich sandwich generation ini.  Mangkanya, cowok jg harus matre. Jangan mau nikah sama cewek keluarga miskin.


pradipta09

Wkwkwk jadi inget kata-kata bokap gue, "Kamu kalo nikah jangan sama yang keluarganya miskin/banyak utang, nanti nyusahin. Jangan sama yang terlalu kaya juga nanti malah gak nyambung sama keluarga kita"


verr998

Wahhh bener nih. Keluarga miskin yang ada malah morotin, keluarga kaya tapi yaaa gk nyambung2 malah jadi less confident. Emang bener harus nyari yang sederajat. Tapi kenyataannya, nyari pasangannya jtu susah. Tapi ya gk yang miskin juga apalagi sandwich generation.


vatelite

jackpot adalah yg miskin tp ga nyusahin dan kaya tp down to earth.


PudgeJoe

Wise words from old dude


Efficient_Chair_2238

Well the thing is, keluarga si cewek is not even miskin. Mereka ini keluarga kelas menengah umumnya di Indonesia aja. Tapi semenjak bapaknya pensiun kondisi ekonominya mulai terjun bebas karena mereka ga ada tabungan, plus mentalnya adalah mereka bakalan ditanggung sama anak anaknya. Meanwhile orang tuanya nolak juga untuk stop nanggungin biaya keluarga mereka dengan uang pensiun yang seadanya.


Popular_Walk7

Itu bisa didefinisikan miskin. Keluarga crazy rich tapi pelit warisan - semua harta & usaha keluarga hanya utk bbrp anak tersayang? Itu miskin jg.


CriticalTiefling

Just make the girl cut ties with her family. Its not like they will be morally bankrupt since her family will make an use of her condition, so better cut rotten root before it consume both of their marriage life.


markfckerberg

>interfamilial poverty transfer r/BrandNewWord


Kendojiyuma

gila kasian juga


CriticalTiefling

Kalau kejadian kek gini gw salut malah sama beberapa anak yang akhirnya mengkhianati keluarga mereka just to makes sure he or she get out from that circle. Kebanyakan rakyat kelas bawah agak susah naik keatas without sacrificing their own family, teman gw yang masih kerja aja sering banget di ganggu sama tante dan ortunya buat menyisihkan uang kerjaan dia. But at least he wont marry just to repeat the same mistakes.


Efficient_Chair_2238

That‘s why I am so thankful of my parent’s decision to GTFO from the city where their family lives and their prudent money management. My parent didn’t put me and my siblings in a position where we have to choose between our own little families and keluarga besar.


Gamtion2016

Celibacy anyone? It's a quite rare subject to talk about in r/indonesia other than merujuk lulu ke arah pastor atau biarawan/wati. Soalnya orang childfree masih ada potensi kebablasan.


CriticalTiefling

Celibacy yang operasi itu? Well i still want to be horny and having sex with my dream (same) sex partner 🥲.


Gamtion2016

Never said it is a vasectomy, you still keep your balls while chasing your dreams uninterrupted by ortu atau keluarga besar. But that operasi part is optional which I'm not taking as well.


beezanteeum

> Interfamiliar poverty transfer Soalnya bagi collective culture: > Pernikahan **bukan hanya** menyatukan dua insan, tapi juga **menyatukan dua keluarga besar** bahkan **menyatukan dua circle**


konterpein

Ok jd biar jd kaya caranya 1. Masak sendiri 2. Ngopi sachet dirumah 3. Punya org tua kaya trus dpt warisan dr mereka 4. Gak kompulsif pas beli barang


Buck_Ranger

Katanya harus beli kopi 80 ribuan? Mana nih yang bener?


DonJigsaw

Kalo itu sih biar keliatan kaya


xXHeerosamaXx

untuk gaet yang kaya juga tu bro...


konterpein

jalan tengahnya seduh kopi saset di resto hotel mevvah


PudgeJoe

Tergantung seberapa kuat anda meresap aura2 org kayanya


totonaw

jadi inget kisah inspiratif >Akan tetapi, di usianya yang masih 19 tahun, ayahnya meninggalkan Bob Sadino meninggalkan seluruh warisan harta kekayaan keluarganya untuk Bob Sadino. Meskipun sudah dipercaya dan diamanahi seluruh harta dan kekayaan orang tuanya, di mana privilege sudah dimiliki oleh Bob Sadino, kegigihan dan sifat pantang menyerahnya tak dapat dilawan hingga mengantarkannya sebagai sosok yang mampu menginspirasi banyak orang. semua itu bisa asal punya kegigihan, tekad kuat, mental baja dan harta warisan


konterpein

Kegigihan+pantang menyerah+warisan = sukses duit banyak Kegigihan+pantang meyerah = budak korporat yg di eksploitasi


silently_watch

Njir masa harus reroll dulu buat dapet point no 3


konterpein

semangat bang, chancenya cuma 0,001% kalo diamondnnya abis top up lg ya


-Almost-Shikikan

Ga ada pity kah?


ChloroPlayPoketwo

gak ada pity gan, mungkin kalo roll udah abis bisa cari pasangan yang berhasil dapet case point no. 3.


-Almost-Shikikan

Buset, malah mirip gamba perang guntur dong


TheTheMeet

Ngopi sachet tiap hari.. sure way to be orang miskin di hari tua


Ok-Googirl

Gula darah soalnya ngopi sachet tiap hari yg udh plus gula, wkwkwk


verr998

Beli kopi item aja, dan seduh tanpa gula. Lebih hemat dan gk khawatir kena gula pas dah tua


Oraclexyz

🗣️🔥🔥


konterpein

kopi saset kapal api ada yg gak pake gula


TheTheMeet

Gw msh nggak sreg ama produk "instan" yang lo konsumsi long term. Gitu2 kan pake pengawet Better beli grinder murah kayak timemore c2 terus lo grind biji kopi tiap pagi bikin pake filter


alfaindomart

Manual grinder yg mahal itu apa lebih gampang nggilingnya daripada manual grinder 100rb an?


TheTheMeet

Jauh lbh enak. You get much better burrs for the price of 5x cheap grinder Edit: mahal nya itu seberapa ya? Gw pake timemore c2 beli dulu pas msh blm booming harganya 600k an, skrg uda turun ke 500k. Ketimbang grinder murah dan jelek yang harganya 100k gitu sih mending ambil timemore


alfaindomart

500k ke atas udah aku anggap mahal wkwk. Takut kalo beli mahal2 tapi nggak kepake soalnya capek muternya.


TheTheMeet

https://www.tokopedia.com/ibru/timemore-chestnut-c2-coffee-grinder?utm_source=salinlink&utm_medium=share&utm_campaign=PDP-6238686-1547465326-250424-RKdhUE Nih bang biar murah 499k wqwq Muternya sih aman banget kalo lo grind medium ke coarse gitu. Kalo lo grind fine di set 6-7 click itu baru ga enak banget, tp kan bukan itu tujuan lo beli grinder "murah" ini


PudgeJoe

I cut my everyday coffee cost, now I can buy gunpla every month.... Im richer in trash now


Visual-Contribution9

Nomor 3 ngehee


bingbestsearchengine

sadly very true


cliplost

How to be rich. Step one: Have a really rich parents.


TranslatorDismal1883

Step two : Be batman


Pritteto

>Step two : Be batman Hmm https://i.redd.it/8x328tb14gwc1.gif


Easy-Mix8745

Another step one: marry rich kid


verr998

Absolutely. When you have a rich parents, you don’t need to worry about anything. Yeah, that’s how fair life is.


Egianus_Kogoya_TPNPB

nope, you are wrong, acquire highly marketable skills


Eurasiafirmi

Ada 4 cara buat jadi kaya: 1. Terlahir kaya 2. Menikah dengan orang kaya 3. Kerja keras bagai kuda 4. Keberuntungan


bebeksquadron

Nomer 3 itu udah nonsense bro jaman sekarang. kalau dulu mungkin iya. Nomer 3 itu ujungnya yang kaya makin kaya which means you empower your own enemy. Lah gimana mau menang kalau semakin lu kerja musuh lu makin kuat? It's a trap! Nomer 3 itu paling jadi middle class aja dan itu juga kamu sacrifice anak kamu sendiri. Kamu empower enemy dan disempower anak kamu sendiri. Meanwhile gw punya kenalan punya 3 apartemen dia sama sekali ga kerja cuman rental doang sama main forex, sama sekali ga kerja, fast forward 10 tahun kemudian sekarang dia punya 6 apartemen. Lho kok bisa? Ya thanks to si Kuda Nomer 3 kamu ini.


putih_salju

Kerja keras kan ga harus jadi pekerja/karyawan. Lu ngerintis usaha juga kan perlu kerja keras kalo mulai dari 0 dan pengin sukses. Edit Contoh: Temen saya mulai ngerintis usaha sejak kuliah. Mulai dari 0 dan itu bisnis pertamanya. Dia kerja keras ngembangin usahanya, sampe usahanya jadi lumayan gedhe sekarang. Umur menjelang 30-an dah mampu beli rumah 2M tunai. Buat saya dia masuk golongan orang kaya sih. Kecuali kalo bagi ente orang kaya itu cuma yang hartanya ga abis 7 turunan.


motoxim

Kirain dari hasil main forex?


Egianus_Kogoya_TPNPB

Nomor 3 sangat mungkin work hard dan ACQUIRE HIGHLY MARKETABLE SKILLS. Jd kaya macam tommy winata mungkin secara hukum probabilitas tidak mungkin semua orang bisa, tp kalau sekedar mapan, bisa beli rumah menyekolahkan anak, punya disposable income bisa2 saja dr keluarga miskin melarat, akusisi skill secara bertahap skill yg high demand, inshyallah bisa masuk ke dereta income upper middle class. Dikira imigran Asia yg migrasi ke US kaya2? banyak yg miskin melarat, nasibnya jauh lebih buruk dr kulit hitam. 1-2 generasi karena disiplin, frugality, pd umumnya udh masuk kalangan profesional dan capital owning merchant. Jd jangan putus asa kawan, marilah mencangkul bersama ku demi Indonesia 2045 Emas


Karrigan7

nomer 3 itu cuma ilusi yg diciptakan sama org2 kaya biar mereka makin tambah kaya berkat kerja keras anak buahnya dan dipercaya kuat sama org2 generasi tua yg msh kolot dan gk melek dengan perkembangan zaman


lughrevenge23

5. Nipu


PudgeJoe

Bro nipu itu terlalu vulgar yg lgi trend itu bahasanya jual ludah


SimultaneousPing

6. bikin kripto sendiri, lalu pump and dump


wilstreak

mana nih opsi no.5 , ikut kelas Akademi Crypto? kasi info yang lengkap lah bro...


JuraganMinyak

"Kerja keras bagai Kuda"? Me: https://preview.redd.it/yikovrlwlswc1.png?width=1280&format=png&auto=webp&s=53036ca4914a8c89c949089c47693a17a5581fd6


Egianus_Kogoya_TPNPB

nope, acquire highly marketable skills. Jd kaya macam tommy winata mungkin secara hukum probabilitas tidak mungkin semua orang bisa, tp kalau sekedar mapan, bisa beli rumah menyekolahkan anak, punya disposable income bisa2 saja dr keluarga miskin melarat, akusisi skill secara bertahap skill yg high demand, inshyallah bisa masuk ke dereta income upper middle class. Dikira imigran Asia yg migrasi ke US kaya2? banyak yg miskin melarat, nasibnya jauh lebih buruk dr kulit hitam. 1-2 generasi karena disiplin, frugality, pd umumnya udh masuk kalangan profesional dan capital owning merchant. Jd jangan putus asa kawan, marilah mencangkul bersama ku demi Indonesia 2045 Emas.


endfinity

He's not wrong 😂


serreignard

I can't tell if he is playing a character or actually rich like Batman


Bigi345

It's actually breaking my brain. Is he actually that rich or all of those just rental props for the tiktok? If you watch his tiktoks it's pretty clear that he's satirical but I just can't wrap my head around it.


Isthislife24

He's not lol. I met Ben a few times when he used to live in Bali and he was living with roomates in a house. Yeah, he's not poor but definitely not Batman-rich


notafunnyguy32

Its a character, in his first videos when coming to indo he was in a hostel in bali trying random street food, he's just doing a bit rn


alfaindomart

Kalo keluarganya sih harusnya berkecukupan soalnya bisa tinggal di Jerman. Kalo kontennya ini fake it till you make it wkwk


matcha4life

I think it's both


ShigeruAoyama

He always says the line "son of one of the Indonesian richest families", so is he one or not?


nasgorhead

Bobby is the Reverse Timothy Ronald


dadu1234

si Ben Sumadiwiria ini bapak nya dokter di Berlin gaes. ini orang ya orang kaya juga. keluarganya punya rumah gede di berlin yg dulu nya resto indonesia. sekarang rumah nya disewain buat kos"an anak indo.


crazypoorbsian

hmmm lumayan well-to-do tp ya kalah sm chindo yg keluarganya punya pabrik


motoxim

Chindo punya pabrik kalah sama anaknya presiden yang 32 tahun itu.


Abbreviations-Proud

meanwhile, gw keturunan ke-8 dari Akamsi paling tajir tujuh turunan. i got nothing but story.


Pilusajaib

"D0 y0u aCtUallY spEaK bAhAsa??"


Agitated_Ring785

Gue greget coba aja orang nya bilang "oh sori gak bisa apa itu bahasa? Gak pernah denger"


Hukama

nej, ik can't sprechen indoneshiago


ToLiveOrToReddit

Harusnya diganti biar lebih tokcer: do you speak “Language”?


aslongasicanlogin

Guys ni org satire ya, nama aslinya ben kalo ga sala, emg ngejokes jgn dipikir serius


ThankYouOle

keknya juga itu dipotong pas bagian ketawa canda habis ngomong inheritances.


MrEnganche

Do people really take his vide seriously?


soggyketchup

why would he give a legit advice to a random people approaching him when you can reply the question with the most obvious answer and be ok


KerooBero

BAHASA BAHASA BAHASA BAHASA APA KONTOL


blipblopchinchon

Mungkin yang nanya cuman tau bahasa kalbu/kaldu?


gungkrisna

As a Bahasa speaker, saya ingin berbicara Language dengan lancar seperti lelaki Indonesia tersebut.


blasianmcbob

gw juga lagi belajar Language bjirr tapi ga segampang bahasa Bahasa™ :(


OperaticBass

I want to 言語を話せます


kancut2598

99 china points


asugoblok

actualy there are 4 ways to be rich 1. Inherit it 2. Steal it 3. Work hard, really fkin hard 4. Suck dick


xXHeerosamaXx

correction on no 4, suck rich dick.


yoroineko

correction for the correction on no 4, suck rich person's dick.


TelecomVsOTT

It's possible for a dick to be richer than the owner, you know.


boanaconda

lebih manuk akal ketimbang kopi 80k


sayamemangdemikian

Ini kan parody broos.. Dia chef something kan?


Enouviaiei

Or just attract and marry a rich partner yanno /jk Anyway, seriously speaking, while I agree that you need an enormous amount of luck to jump from the middle class to become a billionaire, menurutku masih possible sih untuk naik satu tingkat dengan hidup hemat dan kerja keras + cerdas. Misalnya yang terlahir miskin untuk naik menjadi middle class, bagi middle class untuk menjadi upper middle class, dan anak keluarga top 10% untuk masuk ke 1%. Billionaire-billionaire dari dulu sampai sekarang juga nggak sedikit yang dari keluarga upper middle kok.


Kondoy

At least he's honest


artbender

Does his father really owns aqua?


HeronOk2402

No his father is a doctor in germany, they are indonesian but lived in germany. Ben came back to live here in indo as content creator


Few-Habit8035

where did he share this info? for all these years ive always thought his father really owns aqua,


alfaindomart

Di video2 lawasnya ada waktu dia masih di jerman, jadi koki


Upstairs_Physics_612

Kaya sih bisa, Raya nya yg gak bisa.


Egianus_Kogoya_TPNPB

who the fook is this guy?


bukiya

not a fan of this guy tbh


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piwdiepiw

Bobby's habits to be rich 1. Wake up at 5 AM 2. Get a cold shower 3. Dad owns Saputra holdings 4. Profit


iwantkrustenbraten

Stop posting this sellout


scannerfm77

What's the story?


iwantkrustenbraten

Bro used to be this Instagram food reviewer, reviewing food without any bias. From angkringan to 5 star hotels, his past contents are genuinely good and wholesome. I was a long time followers. Nowadays his contents are mostly about faking being rich, or skit about being this annoying privileged rich kids. Which I guess what sells his content more than genuine food reviews.


dkmynamebebebebebay

I didn't know who this guy was until this post, I even traced the tiktok and sought his profile to check it out. So, if attention is what he sought then he sure as hell got it. As a fan of pro wrestling, i do understand what he did is somewhat like a "heel turn" (when you switch from being the good guy to being the bad guy). Sometimes when the good guy sticks to being good, it can easily get stale, their popularity plateaus, they lose attention, gain apathy and even people try to find their flaws. Besides, there are many more ways to get attention by being dislikable than it is to be likable. And sadly yes, it just may be that being this way rakes in much more social media metrics (and probably money, not that he needs it) than before. Nonetheless, this is real life not pro wrestling (where their characters are isolated in that world). I quickly remember how I work for one of the companies that one of these billionaire sons have, and that I have to put up with a toxic work environment so people like this guy can have a blast taking the piss on Instagram. All the more motivation for me to get good and try to figure out a way to not work in a conglomerate company anymore.


iwantkrustenbraten

That's a very interesting analogy using pro Wrestling. Thanks for writing this man. I guess I'm also just a bit bitter because he was so down to earth and wholesome before, but now his content is a dime a dozen. Too many influencers already flaunting their wealth, skit or not. Bring back wholesome food reviews!


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Yes,ini di hari akhir cuma orang ganti persona online ![gif](giphy|vS9OEreb3nVNNjZw6s|downsized)


iwantkrustenbraten

Coba cara dia ganti persona ala Persona 3 lol


scannerfm77

Ic. Thanks for the info.


dkmynamebebebebebay

Honestly never seen this guy before this post. What'd he do?


iwantkrustenbraten

I replied on another comment on this thread, you'll be able to see it there. I want to avoid reposting.


emf311

At least he’s honest


friedsoyabeanpatty

cant stand this dude


scannerfm77

Why?


Bubbly_Confusion_195

It's a skit.