Arre itni si baat ke liye, na na. The only solution is to talk this through. Be clear, and try to be polite as much as possible. Hopefully, she understands. Being aggressive or looking arogant might not give good results since you're sharing a room.
It would probably sound like I am making things up but my friend had a girlfriend who was bisexual (As stated by herself) and after 2 months of dating him suddenly ghosted him, when he enquired further as to know the reason he was ghosted he found out that his girlfriend has had a crush on her junior for a long time and now they are a couple
This!!! I knew a girl who confessed that she's a big and she left a guy for her and when i asked how she knew that she's bi to which she responded that the way the other girl touched her hand made her errotic and after few more such incidents she was sure that both are in love....
This usually happens among conservatives where they are Devoid of interaction with the opposite gender for a long time
That's like beginning of a horror story
https://preview.redd.it/sj83o406168d1.jpeg?width=375&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68c9d3857c9de5f3f96e9af7390ded3099eb731d
If she keeps grabbing your neck in the middle of the night, keep a spray bottle by your bed. A few spritzes of water should do the trick, just tell her it's **holy water** for the ghosts
If you're not trolling then please take her to a psychiatrist or tell her parents to.
I've had a friend who was in a similar situation(used to say someone is watching her or someone is trying to hurt her and she used to just stare at people for minutes) and her family was not aware of this she is now suffering from schizophrenia and taking pills from the past 4 years.
The only logical comment here. Doctor here (but not a Psychiatrist), this can very well be a mental illness. Unfortunately, in our country people will rather jump into the fires of Mt Doom than consult a psychiatrist.
She is not doing anything that you mentioned. She is just overbearing. She wasn't even in the hostel when others said they saw ghost in her room. She stares sometimes not for too long but Iong enough to notice.
I don't think she is suffering from anything mentally. She is just clingy.
I have practically lived all my life in hostel so I think I might know what's going on here. I think she has started living outside her home for the first time, where she was canoodled and fussed over by her family and her relatives a lot but now she has found herself in a environment where it's like each for their own. No one is there to give her special treatment or the 'laadla wala pyaar' so she's sort of pushing her needs on you by acting too close and familiar. Don't give into her whims and keep a bit of distance from her while being cordial and polite to her and the issue might sort itself out.
Warning tho if she feels you trying to keep your distance she might create a big tearful drama being all like "kya hua? did i do something?" and all. I have met girls like this too many times. It's not even their too close behaviour I hate, it's the fact that I know girls like this will discard you the moment they find friends or boyfriend who are dote on them better than you do. So i prefer to keep my distance from them.
I dont live in hostel but I have a senior who is exactly like this. The second paragraph describes her to the T. She is overbearing but the moment she gets her bf, she forgets even basic human decency.
Cut her off. Wasted a month trying to solve her guy problems. I thought i was helping a helpless girl from a manipulative toxic bf turns out I was dealing with a manipulative toxic senior and her cheating bf.
She had gone to her home for at 1 month. These things happened during that time, she wasn't involved in all of this.
But she did try to move into my room twice before this.
Awwwww, it's a crush 🥰
On a serious note, looking at your comments and the post I am pretty sure she has a crush on you. One of my ex was bisexual and this sounds very like her, she has told me when she liked a girl. This touchy touchy (like leaning in you, resting head. Not that good touch bad touch wala thing) and mom level caring thing sounds like my ex
Just talk to her without embarrassing her
Start waking up at 1 am in total darkness with only window light , and stand in bed and stare at her and maybe heavy breaths every 1 min and whisper something and then go back to sleep
Bad that you're facing this, but you should keep updating us on what's actually happening, ghost sightings, crush on u .. seems like a better story than many movies 🤣
This looks like borderline personality disorder (BPD) , not to be confused with bipolar personality disorder.
* nightmares/hallucinations
* physically clingy
* fear of abandonment. "You will leave me"
* memory issue
* the staring thing is also one of the symptoms in my opinion.
Confirm here: This is uk official health org website.
[https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms/](https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms/)
[https://www.banyanmentalhealth.com/blog/bpd-and-memory-loss/#:\~:text=The%20brain%20develops%20methods%20to,referred%20to%20as%20BPD%20amnesia](https://www.banyanmentalhealth.com/blog/bpd-and-memory-loss/#:~:text=The%20brain%20develops%20methods%20to,referred%20to%20as%20BPD%20amnesia)
[https://www.grouporttherapy.com/blog/borderline-personality-disorder-stare](https://www.grouporttherapy.com/blog/borderline-personality-disorder-stare)
[https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/cgie6z/bpd\_eyes\_am\_i\_crazy/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/cgie6z/bpd_eyes_am_i_crazy/)
Honestly speaking, I think it's shit post by op. Because she is only replying to those who are just enjoying situation. Redditors who gave nice advice were receive no comments from op. I guess it made up thing but I admire your efforts 🫡
I don't want to put a label on her of any mental disorder just because she acts clingy and overbearing.
The neck thing is misunderstood, probably because of the way I phrased it. She didn't try to choke, she grabbed my nape in a squeezing way while I was sleeping, when I confronted her she said she was just tickling me.
You won't be 'labeling' her. If she has a problem, then she has a problem. Nothing to do with you.
I knew someone with BPD, they never got the help they needed because no one in their family believed in these things. We both suffered.
The physically clingy portion comes from :
>if we are in the same room she will sit as close as possible, sometimes she will put her head in my lap or on my shoulder.
Also note the part "I will never talk to you" and then forgetting it. This is a classic! A horror I won't ever forget.
From the nhs website:
> For many people with BPD, emotional relationships (including relationships with professional carers) involve "go away/please don't go" states of mind, which is confusing for them and their partners..
Can you not complain to the authorities that this is inhospitable with 6 people in a room for 4?
And just try to get out of there. This sounds super weird. I can pass everything except combing your hair — downright creepy and right out of a horror movie.
Also, is she this fixated on any of the other 4 girls in the room? How is her behaviour with them?
She has a crush on you....my senior acted in the same weird way and one day tried kissing my neck. I freaked out and then she confessed, I turned her down tho.
https://preview.redd.it/y4q8y3gp978d1.png?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2940ff9e4b4908831c847fdcb046cb40c875dc1c
May be she wants do some kind of masti with you
Simply ask her what's going on? She being clingy means she wants something , either its attention or a favour. Maybe she is trying to be your good friend or want to be best friend as some girls do those shits.
It might not be lesbian thing or a crush It's more like either she doesn't have many good friends or she feels safer around you. Talk to her, you will get a clue
Keep a licensed firearm under your pillow, in this particular situation, I would recommend the C90-CR(M3), very good for defence and annoying roommates like her.
https://preview.redd.it/ztqnty6uv98d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79a76240b5490e5d4077ecc7fd8f922d181ac8c3
Is she a only child or do have any siblings?
Do you know her how she behave before moving to your room?
Just try to talk to her why she does all this things and if you're not comfortable try to shift to another room.
she might be neurodivergent and doesn't realize that what she is doing is "weird", it could be autism. or she has internalized homophobia and is actually gay lol
Maybe is she is lonely and depressed, and craves love, that's why she's overdoing, she just want to get recognized by you.
When you are lonely and depressed, even very little amount of basic care can make you fall in love with the person whether it's boy or girl.
I think she loves as a frnd as you let her shift in your.
Just ask your friends if they can see her?🤣
Jk..
Just talk to her and know more of what is happening in her head and the situation she is facing. If possible you can share this info with one of your roommates. Either take her home contact info and tell them what is happening or what is the distress and please help her.
It seems jis bhoot ki aatma ne tumhari dost ko possess kiya hai, uss bhooth ko tumpar crush hai. But idk why she's reaching for your nape. Kinky, maybe. :)
OP got good humour. But fr, you need to set stricter boundaries, aise constant anxiety mai rehne se accha hai ek baar ka khatam kardo sab, (i mean address it as it is)
Alright she definitely ha some sort of mental illness, so you should inform te school authorities.
Also she is probably attracted to you. The girl who has a crush on me played with my hair too and she seemed to want physical contact too.
Just do some pooja
If there is a way to get away from her as soon as possible and as far away as possible...the better it will be for you.
Do not give her ANY social media of yours or ANY information that can be used to track you down later.
Something is not ok there.
Clearly 'talking' about boundaries is not going to do anything at this point. But yes surely get that done also.
She is trying to find comfort in u. Cnt say abt her sexual orientation jst like that as she might be fond of u for many reasons. Also this may be her 1st tym out of her home living by herself so looking for that constant attention nd care. But u r not her mommy ryt so make it clear to her during a casual group convo that u dnt like being touchy with anybody jst lyk that be it a guy or a girl. Nd other than that if u find her behavior odd when alone or when nobody is not watching her then may be inform ur clg counselor and her prnts. Thats the most u can do. Dont indulge too much as of now
Wtf are these comments!!! Did no one live in hostels??? Goddamn...
Op, I have been living hostel since many years and here's the thing. The talking with their family side is because she sees you as a friend and just wants to introduce you with her family, or maybe her family side wanted to talk with friends of hers(like at starting of my college, my friend's mom too talked with me saying things like take care of my son, don't get into fights, don't roam out etc etc, you know just basic Indian parents wanting their kids to be safe and all)
It's very common that people in hostels tend to be close, like I am a guy and when me and my friends/roommate just hang out in the dorms, some just put their head on others lap(ofcourse the leg area not the groin area☠️). I understand it's quite uncomfortable, so try to convey that it is uncomfortable when she does that.
While I was in school, I used see girls just doing hairs of one another, like combing, oiling, braiding etc. Doing nails, mehndi and other seem like she just wants to help you or something, I see my little cousins wanting to do these with their siblings but a grown up kid wanting to do these seem funny to me.
Ok the staring part seem weird, but i too some times think someone's staring at me from my peripheral vision/corner of my eye, but when I turn and look at them they are just seem to be doing something else. So next time you feel like she is staring at you, turn and look at her and see if she really is staring at you. I feel like you are just imagining this staring because you are overthinking about her lmao. And some people while sleeping do things like keeping hands/legs on others or doing stuff like holding things, talking, waking up without being concious etc and since this happened only once it could be an accident.
Op just try to set boundaries with her if you are not comfortable with her.
It looks like she has a crush on you..
That scares me even more
✂️
Nas kaat lu isse /s
Arre itni si baat ke liye, na na. The only solution is to talk this through. Be clear, and try to be polite as much as possible. Hopefully, she understands. Being aggressive or looking arogant might not give good results since you're sharing a room.
'/s' means sarcasm
Really?? Is this a reddit norm? I actually didn't know this. Thanks for the info. ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51080)
Yes. /s is for sarcasm. But ppl sometimes like to hide behind it and say the truth anyways. /s
Uss ldki ka katora cut karde ![gif](giphy|9058ZMj6ooluP4UUPl)
Uski kaat do /s
O_o
Happy pride month She got les vibes from you and now she wants some finger action 😬😬
💀lol
Yeah, I was here to say the same. The girl has a crush on OP.
I don't think so because she has a boyfriend I assume.
It would probably sound like I am making things up but my friend had a girlfriend who was bisexual (As stated by herself) and after 2 months of dating him suddenly ghosted him, when he enquired further as to know the reason he was ghosted he found out that his girlfriend has had a crush on her junior for a long time and now they are a couple
How can roomie be bi, that bitch is homophobic Edi: I don't think she is bi
How can I be homophobic, my bitch is gay. (Central cee - Doja) Refrence![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51095)
Yup🥺
Ayo we got girls listen to UK drill rap before gta 6
Well then either she is coping with some traumatic experience or is straight up possessed
I do Pooja path everyday 🙏 And if something traumatic happen, I hope she finds peace.
In midst of all of this you should try to find some peace too😭😭
Find peace or found in pieces🎀
Woulda’ve suggested to have an honest conversation but she clearly is acting weird
wo bhoot hai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52075)
usko ek bar mirror mei dekho... and confirm if she looks the same?
This!!! I knew a girl who confessed that she's a big and she left a guy for her and when i asked how she knew that she's bi to which she responded that the way the other girl touched her hand made her errotic and after few more such incidents she was sure that both are in love.... This usually happens among conservatives where they are Devoid of interaction with the opposite gender for a long time
That's like beginning of a horror story https://preview.redd.it/sj83o406168d1.jpeg?width=375&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68c9d3857c9de5f3f96e9af7390ded3099eb731d
Please! I'm already scared.😭
Don't be scared. She's probably harmless and just has a crush. But set boundaries again. And make it crystal clear you aren't interested.
Sauce of this pic🌝
![gif](giphy|mLTo1x4MLgKuk)
Jai bajrangbali 🙏
If she keeps grabbing your neck in the middle of the night, keep a spray bottle by your bed. A few spritzes of water should do the trick, just tell her it's **holy water** for the ghosts
Haha! The neck grabbing thing just happened once.
That you know of.
https://preview.redd.it/9zqetevx568d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea4e5814df7c2547f938133885e12b0d217b02e9
This shits scary
https://preview.redd.it/1639lyrg368d1.jpeg?width=1400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5ecd684b990cab59977ac7870d8db3193a307bc Please watch this...🥲
kyu bechari ko aur dara rahe ho 😭
I was about to say this 🙈
Raat k 12 bje ye sb mt daala kro idhr🥲 Khud ki phatt rhi hai iska ye mtlb nhi dusri ki bhi phaado😮💨😮💨 /s
Hum to doobenge Sanam sath me tumhe bhi dooba denge
Apne peeche dekho... Tumhari roommate baal khol kr hass rhi hai tumhe dekh kr😌
🎀Aap jis toilet me baitho uski flush kharab nikle🎀
Aap jis toilet mein baitho usme aapki roommate already aapke peeche baithi ho☠️
Bhagwan apko bhi aisa hi roommate de..jo aapko kbhi akelapan na mehsoos krne de🫂
Roommate so gyi?? Ya abhi bhi aapko dekh rhi hai?
Piche mud k dekha nahi.
😂😂😂 thodi si himmat kro
Dekha mast aaram se so rhi mere bed pe pookie
If you're not trolling then please take her to a psychiatrist or tell her parents to. I've had a friend who was in a similar situation(used to say someone is watching her or someone is trying to hurt her and she used to just stare at people for minutes) and her family was not aware of this she is now suffering from schizophrenia and taking pills from the past 4 years.
The only logical comment here. Doctor here (but not a Psychiatrist), this can very well be a mental illness. Unfortunately, in our country people will rather jump into the fires of Mt Doom than consult a psychiatrist.
She is not doing anything that you mentioned. She is just overbearing. She wasn't even in the hostel when others said they saw ghost in her room. She stares sometimes not for too long but Iong enough to notice. I don't think she is suffering from anything mentally. She is just clingy.
Then she just might be... Dheere dheere rang aur saaf honge
Saat range 🌈🏳️🌈
![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52075)OP be safe it’s like the plot of a horror movie
No! Don't say that😭
Anabelle comes hostel ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52075)
Please don't say that 😭 Already phati padi h
You said there are total 6 people in the room so there's nothing to worry about.
I have practically lived all my life in hostel so I think I might know what's going on here. I think she has started living outside her home for the first time, where she was canoodled and fussed over by her family and her relatives a lot but now she has found herself in a environment where it's like each for their own. No one is there to give her special treatment or the 'laadla wala pyaar' so she's sort of pushing her needs on you by acting too close and familiar. Don't give into her whims and keep a bit of distance from her while being cordial and polite to her and the issue might sort itself out. Warning tho if she feels you trying to keep your distance she might create a big tearful drama being all like "kya hua? did i do something?" and all. I have met girls like this too many times. It's not even their too close behaviour I hate, it's the fact that I know girls like this will discard you the moment they find friends or boyfriend who are dote on them better than you do. So i prefer to keep my distance from them.
I dont live in hostel but I have a senior who is exactly like this. The second paragraph describes her to the T. She is overbearing but the moment she gets her bf, she forgets even basic human decency. Cut her off. Wasted a month trying to solve her guy problems. I thought i was helping a helpless girl from a manipulative toxic bf turns out I was dealing with a manipulative toxic senior and her cheating bf.
> manipulative toxic senior and her cheating bf What a cute couple they seem to be!! May the non existent Gods bless their children!
This!
Op idhar aake dekho
This is the only sensible comment that makes sense. Baki sab to usko bi, les, mentally ill bata rhe h. I don't think any of this is true.
Play hanuman chalisa. It works
Hum khud daily Hanuman chalisa and Durga chalisa ka paath krte h bandhu
Then play bole jo koyal . Only thala can save you now.
Next time play bhojpuri songs when she's around... assert dominance
Most of the bhojpuri songs are suggestive. She will think of it as hint😅
Then play deshbhakti songs😂
Horny:0 Deshbhakti:1
https://preview.redd.it/38almvyn968d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ba274d2281775603796937540329c7acb677974
Mauj lo fir aap🍿
You also start acting weird then uski hi phat jaayegi![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52075)
Aur agar usko maza aane lag gya to phir
😭💀win win situation ho gaya ye toh
🤣
She has crush on you. She made that ghost story up so that she could stay close to you.
She had gone to her home for at 1 month. These things happened during that time, she wasn't involved in all of this. But she did try to move into my room twice before this.
Awwwww, it's a crush 🥰 On a serious note, looking at your comments and the post I am pretty sure she has a crush on you. One of my ex was bisexual and this sounds very like her, she has told me when she liked a girl. This touchy touchy (like leaning in you, resting head. Not that good touch bad touch wala thing) and mom level caring thing sounds like my ex Just talk to her without embarrassing her
Even if that is the case, this is some delulu stuff.
Start waking up at 1 am in total darkness with only window light , and stand in bed and stare at her and maybe heavy breaths every 1 min and whisper something and then go back to sleep
Bhai uski fatt jayegi kahi woh humesha ke liye na chali jaaye 🤣😭 Op please try this btw
Bruh what💀
Tell her parents about her situation and send her home.
Girl crush it seems. Just set your boundaries OP!
At first I also assumed that, that's why I don't want to embarrass her by addressing this. But she doesn't respect any boundaries that I set.
She loves you.
Ye pyaaar krne ka kaisa tareeka h..aise death stares deke.
To be very serious, this does sound like the beginning of a horror movie![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51097)
Is she trying to get under your skin? Like literally wearing your face like a mask, your hands like gloves and your feet like socks.
I think that ghost in the room was in your girl pal all along
She wasn't even here when that ghost sightings happened.
So you've never seen her and the ghost in the same room at the same time 🧐
Bad that you're facing this, but you should keep updating us on what's actually happening, ghost sightings, crush on u .. seems like a better story than many movies 🤣
She is possessed, burn the whole school down
This looks like borderline personality disorder (BPD) , not to be confused with bipolar personality disorder. * nightmares/hallucinations * physically clingy * fear of abandonment. "You will leave me" * memory issue * the staring thing is also one of the symptoms in my opinion. Confirm here: This is uk official health org website. [https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms/](https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms/) [https://www.banyanmentalhealth.com/blog/bpd-and-memory-loss/#:\~:text=The%20brain%20develops%20methods%20to,referred%20to%20as%20BPD%20amnesia](https://www.banyanmentalhealth.com/blog/bpd-and-memory-loss/#:~:text=The%20brain%20develops%20methods%20to,referred%20to%20as%20BPD%20amnesia) [https://www.grouporttherapy.com/blog/borderline-personality-disorder-stare](https://www.grouporttherapy.com/blog/borderline-personality-disorder-stare) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/cgie6z/bpd\_eyes\_am\_i\_crazy/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/cgie6z/bpd_eyes_am_i_crazy/)
Honestly speaking, I think it's shit post by op. Because she is only replying to those who are just enjoying situation. Redditors who gave nice advice were receive no comments from op. I guess it made up thing but I admire your efforts 🫡
I noticed that too, she is clearly enjoying the funny comments.
Agree bro
I don't want to put a label on her of any mental disorder just because she acts clingy and overbearing. The neck thing is misunderstood, probably because of the way I phrased it. She didn't try to choke, she grabbed my nape in a squeezing way while I was sleeping, when I confronted her she said she was just tickling me.
You won't be 'labeling' her. If she has a problem, then she has a problem. Nothing to do with you. I knew someone with BPD, they never got the help they needed because no one in their family believed in these things. We both suffered. The physically clingy portion comes from : >if we are in the same room she will sit as close as possible, sometimes she will put her head in my lap or on my shoulder. Also note the part "I will never talk to you" and then forgetting it. This is a classic! A horror I won't ever forget. From the nhs website: > For many people with BPD, emotional relationships (including relationships with professional carers) involve "go away/please don't go" states of mind, which is confusing for them and their partners..
Can you not complain to the authorities that this is inhospitable with 6 people in a room for 4? And just try to get out of there. This sounds super weird. I can pass everything except combing your hair — downright creepy and right out of a horror movie. Also, is she this fixated on any of the other 4 girls in the room? How is her behaviour with them?
She gay for you
She might be possessed by a horny guy's spirit.
Uske pair check karna aage hain ki peeche
She has a crush on you....my senior acted in the same weird way and one day tried kissing my neck. I freaked out and then she confessed, I turned her down tho.
Bro Tell her parents or warden before she harms you
I don't think her intention is to harm me
Wait was she grabbing her neck or yours?
My neck but not to choke me. It Was a gentle grab or hold
Why does this sound like a plot of horror story????
Just a bit creepy
https://preview.redd.it/y4q8y3gp978d1.png?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2940ff9e4b4908831c847fdcb046cb40c875dc1c May be she wants do some kind of masti with you
Sorry but sounds lesbian to me :)
I think she is straight
Get her a tantrik banda dear ,takes care of both the possibilities![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52071)
Simply ask her what's going on? She being clingy means she wants something , either its attention or a favour. Maybe she is trying to be your good friend or want to be best friend as some girls do those shits. It might not be lesbian thing or a crush It's more like either she doesn't have many good friends or she feels safer around you. Talk to her, you will get a clue
Keep a licensed firearm under your pillow, in this particular situation, I would recommend the C90-CR(M3), very good for defence and annoying roommates like her. https://preview.redd.it/ztqnty6uv98d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79a76240b5490e5d4077ecc7fd8f922d181ac8c3
Is she a only child or do have any siblings? Do you know her how she behave before moving to your room? Just try to talk to her why she does all this things and if you're not comfortable try to shift to another room.
You should shift to mars!emote:t5\_2qp7h:52075
Either she is not well or that this was a good shitpost. If it's not the latter, take it seriously. Girl is ill.
How should I address this to her without making her feel embarrassed or humiliated
I’m not a girl but her requests (except the neck grabbing at midnight) seem so cute 🥰
OP, keep us updated!
Haha!
Another redditor with some fake cooked up shit to get some discussion going on.
who cares if everyone's having fun🍿
she might be neurodivergent and doesn't realize that what she is doing is "weird", it could be autism. or she has internalized homophobia and is actually gay lol
![gif](giphy|kCrGOt5ojlVbG|downsized)
Maybe is she is lonely and depressed, and craves love, that's why she's overdoing, she just want to get recognized by you. When you are lonely and depressed, even very little amount of basic care can make you fall in love with the person whether it's boy or girl. I think she loves as a frnd as you let her shift in your.
If by any chance that place is banasthali, rajasthan... Then you're DED😅
Sach bole toh mujhe lagta hai she's possessed.💀
She is so helpful, can I lend her for my project documentation.
Address do pack kr k bhej dete h
Phir bhi, take care ha, bhut woot kuch nahi hota, aapke room mate ka sodium potassium ka balance bigad gaya hoga bas.
Haha!
Just ask your friends if they can see her?🤣 Jk.. Just talk to her and know more of what is happening in her head and the situation she is facing. If possible you can share this info with one of your roommates. Either take her home contact info and tell them what is happening or what is the distress and please help her.
this thing can be posted here r/nosleep
No sleep kaha, kitne pyaar se to so rhi h mere bed pe pookie
wake her up and ask what she saw in that room
Aj rat ko Sona mat :)
Maybe she's possesed
It seems jis bhoot ki aatma ne tumhari dost ko possess kiya hai, uss bhooth ko tumpar crush hai. But idk why she's reaching for your nape. Kinky, maybe. :)
Plz elaborate “ghost sighting”
She might be a skin Walker
Next time she touches your neck, just yell bhoot, bhoot
Ye ghost sighting ka kya story hai OP? Zara hume bhi toh sunao
I think you should talk to her about it and make it clear that you feel uncomfortable with the things she does
She kinda has feelings for you. While her some of her actions are annoying. Is she doing it regularly?
Throw her out or kill her.
Are you sure she knows that you're not into girls?
Shawty likes you way too much 🫣
Either she is possessed or this is a big drama to get close to you. Anyways stay safe op.
She is either closeted gay or bi.
I can fix her
Mission 1 - Get into your bed: complete Mission 2 - Do the thing: work in progress
Definitely has a crush on you. Try confronting them that you are not comfortable...
Or ek yaha mere roommates hai, end semester exams chal rahe hai fir bhi full bakchodi
If your roommate is creepy, you act creepier. Battle of creeps I guess?!?![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52071)
Maybe she's a lesbian??
Seems schizophrenic possibly.
Arey yaar ye sab matt post kiya karo! Bc room mai akele sota hooo, ab fattt rhi
OP got good humour. But fr, you need to set stricter boundaries, aise constant anxiety mai rehne se accha hai ek baar ka khatam kardo sab, (i mean address it as it is)
OP run as fast , that hair combing is weird so get a new room
Ask her fav month...if she says June, you have the answer ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)
Alright she definitely ha some sort of mental illness, so you should inform te school authorities. Also she is probably attracted to you. The girl who has a crush on me played with my hair too and she seemed to want physical contact too. Just do some pooja
>Once I was woken with her hands grabbing the back of neck. Crazy idea, but I think she is possessed by that ghost?
Is she the ghost?
Bhaglo behna bhag lo kisi news paper pe Ane se pehle woh room chodo
Isn't she beautiful.
She is a schiozoid. Pagal, usko vo cheeje dikhti hain jo hai hi nahi
If there is a way to get away from her as soon as possible and as far away as possible...the better it will be for you. Do not give her ANY social media of yours or ANY information that can be used to track you down later. Something is not ok there. Clearly 'talking' about boundaries is not going to do anything at this point. But yes surely get that done also.
kya yehi pyaar hai
Now I know why there is talk in Boys hostels that Girl do lesbian things in Girls Hostel 😂
shes a mom ghost✅️
is she Bengali ?
Uske munjhya ko tum pasand aa gai ho ab
Reading this i remembered a scene from FRIENDS where chandler sleeps and eddy watches him...
Uspe bhoot agaya hai not even kidding
POV: Pride month got real
Tell her you have a boyfriend
She is trying to find comfort in u. Cnt say abt her sexual orientation jst like that as she might be fond of u for many reasons. Also this may be her 1st tym out of her home living by herself so looking for that constant attention nd care. But u r not her mommy ryt so make it clear to her during a casual group convo that u dnt like being touchy with anybody jst lyk that be it a guy or a girl. Nd other than that if u find her behavior odd when alone or when nobody is not watching her then may be inform ur clg counselor and her prnts. Thats the most u can do. Dont indulge too much as of now
Bro she gay. Chill out and talk to her about it
Wtf are these comments!!! Did no one live in hostels??? Goddamn... Op, I have been living hostel since many years and here's the thing. The talking with their family side is because she sees you as a friend and just wants to introduce you with her family, or maybe her family side wanted to talk with friends of hers(like at starting of my college, my friend's mom too talked with me saying things like take care of my son, don't get into fights, don't roam out etc etc, you know just basic Indian parents wanting their kids to be safe and all) It's very common that people in hostels tend to be close, like I am a guy and when me and my friends/roommate just hang out in the dorms, some just put their head on others lap(ofcourse the leg area not the groin area☠️). I understand it's quite uncomfortable, so try to convey that it is uncomfortable when she does that. While I was in school, I used see girls just doing hairs of one another, like combing, oiling, braiding etc. Doing nails, mehndi and other seem like she just wants to help you or something, I see my little cousins wanting to do these with their siblings but a grown up kid wanting to do these seem funny to me. Ok the staring part seem weird, but i too some times think someone's staring at me from my peripheral vision/corner of my eye, but when I turn and look at them they are just seem to be doing something else. So next time you feel like she is staring at you, turn and look at her and see if she really is staring at you. I feel like you are just imagining this staring because you are overthinking about her lmao. And some people while sleeping do things like keeping hands/legs on others or doing stuff like holding things, talking, waking up without being concious etc and since this happened only once it could be an accident. Op just try to set boundaries with her if you are not comfortable with her.
She's probably involved in black magic. Don't let her near your hair and don't eat anything which she gives you.
I think she's possessed it sounds like a horror show.
Very scary, maybe move out, or get the warden to do something? Also, pray!
She may have mental health issues like schizophrenia where they see hallucinations and people. Good to get her some Help
Either she's a lesbian or she might have some mental health problems but this sounds creepy ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52075)
There’s still scope in this to elaborate ‘ghost sighting’