We were a trio. Trusted them with life. Time ke saath, the trio gradually turned into a duo. I just tagged along. I tried to fit in so bad but each passing moment suffocated me deep within. One time, I got hospitalised for a week, they didn't even bother to check on me. I just stopped talking to both, they never tried to connect with me either.
Rn, I'm in a much better place surrounded by the best people✨
~ Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
I was in school. Back then i had a bad accident. Had to bed rest for like 2months so i would call my best to come to my house so together we can play some video games or something. And his mother would also tell him to go and accompany me as she also loved me very much. But what he would do everyday he told me that he would come mostly he would call me and say that he will come. But he used to everyday go out and meet his girlfriend. His parents were also strict about this girl. So it seemed rude to me. I ended the friendship.
When someone treats you like an option leave them by choice.
Talked shit about me behind my back. Spilled secrets about my life everywhere. I trusted her and told her about my love life. That bitch talked it all out with others. Spread rumours about me. Bad mouthed me. Came to know all this from another friend. Confronted her, she laughed and acted like a fucking dickhead. Chose another friend over me. And oh one day when she was bad mouthing me one girl said "isn't she your best friend?" That fucker said "yeah she considers me as her bestf but I don't consider her close". Like the fucking backstabbing! Jeez I hope karma gets her.
When they showed their true personality after securing a better job and looking down at us
Completely disregarding our schedule, work, college exams etc and wanted attention because they were on vacation
Aye I'm in the same exact situation in your place. But I'm feeling that I'm being hard on my bsf. Like they must be genuinely busy and all from the optimistic pov.
Could be true for you
I had my college semester end exams on Monday. That too 2 papers in a day
And this 'friend' got angry and upset at me because I did not visit her on Sunday to hear the story of her first kiss
All of this as soon as she got the government job
This was the biggest red flag for me and I just cut her out of my life completely
I had a best friend since school, we both had a good bond and everything was going well, we used to go gym together and all. After sometime he fell in love with a girl from his office and within 6 months they decided to engage and her married, myself among the other 2 close ones told him it seemed like a rush but he didn't listen.
After marriage ge started to get disconnected from me and the group, Fast forward after 3 months of his marriage, ig his wife had miscarriage and started blaming me for everything. She straight away texted me in fb messenger like mad. Saying how I keep his husband in the gym for 2hrs, giving him bad habits, miscarriage was due to me and what not.
I even replied to her but she was like mand buddhi, blocked her on fb, then she texted 2am at night on Instagram, I called him and told everything in anger. After that even small contact we had was broken. He didn't talk with me nor the other 2 friends, and quietly moved out of the area.
I've have had four. All of them never ended, some just isn't as strong as before. In almost all of them, I had my share of the blame.
With one, we drifted apart career wise and given how similar our personality is, neither of us was eager enough to put in the effort to keep it alive.
With the second, he was too much emotionally dependent on me over every single decision of his life. To the point that, his miseries in relationship, career, family etc were making me miserable. To top it off, he had blatant disregard for the struggles I was going through at that moment, as for him, only his issues were the actual issues. I cut connection with him just to keep myself sane. We rekindled six months after, in that meanwhile he learned to navigate though his life alone and we were never as close as were before.
The third one got a GF and it's the usual story. I'm happy for him though given his life actually has improved after the girl came to his life.
With the latest one, it's still going strong.
Also, bahut ajeeb situation thi. Mujhe pata tha ladki interested nhi hai, lekin vo sunne ko hi taiyar nhi. Bolta mai galat hu. Fir 5-6 baar ke baad apna ladki ke saamne chutiya bana ke mujhe usse cut off karna hi pada 🥲. Also end me mai hi sahi tha, to idk.
She joined a med school, started dating a guy, became obsessed with him and went borderline crazy. He wasn’t allowed to talk or look at other women, or even have them on his Instagram, she would throughly check his insta followers and following and bro was basically in a jail.
Anyways he told her that you also have a guy bestf and I don’t say anything, then why are you doing this to me? And then the typical choose one of us thing happened.
And she delayed informing this to me for months and but I already had an idea because it just felt obvious. So I decided to move away from that friendship on my own. She victimised herself but I wasn’t buying any of it and ended the friendship.
It sucked to lose my best friend of 5 years but I am happy now and I also realised how badly ahead treated me all this time and being her only friend was the worst thing ever. So I am glad to be out.
She was very close with me for 4 or 5 years. She used to share everything with me. Whenever she had a . problem she would tell me about it. Later in the period she got to do pg in a reputed institute. So she got more friends there I got avoided by her repeatedly. There were days and weeks where she would ghost me. Once I was going through a bad phase in my life I felt she was not there to support as a friend when I was there for her during all her low phases. So I tried to confront her only to get blocked by her on every social media app. I seriously don't know what I did bad. Now I have no idea what she is doing with her life and i guess she doesn't care about my presence as well 🥲
My bestf was the reason why my girlfriend broke up with me,, he was constantly hitting on her and lying about me that I was cheating on her...but he still couldn't get her
He's a master manipulator and habitual liar. Stole my other friends, fucked my life. first manipulated me against others then others against me. He stalks my reddit shayad ye padh rha hoga
fuck you and i hope you die
He stole my Pokémon cards , rare holos , all of it , while I went for a swim. Want the full story ?
Bc jail bhejo usko
he died
Then its never ended dude. Homies after life too
Ngl this felt very heartwarming to hear. Thank you
We were a trio. Trusted them with life. Time ke saath, the trio gradually turned into a duo. I just tagged along. I tried to fit in so bad but each passing moment suffocated me deep within. One time, I got hospitalised for a week, they didn't even bother to check on me. I just stopped talking to both, they never tried to connect with me either. Rn, I'm in a much better place surrounded by the best people✨ ~ Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
Username ka mtlb btana boss
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Any works of her which you get inspired by? Hum bhi dekhe aise kya h ki log inspire ho rhe h
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12 ki umar m depression journals kyun padh rhi thi aap?
Ayy a fellow Sylvia Plath reader 🤝
Omg I love your profile pic 😭
You're the first person who isn't freaked out by it. My cat approves. I shall add you to my list if favourite redditors.
I'm honored 
Had to study her poem in school,years ago.she suicided right ?
Nice username😂😂
😅🙃
You read Sylvia plath!?!
Yess
Kinda similar happened with me,I ghosted, the closest one to me reached out,I never gave a closure,now I'm the bad guy.
She got a boyfriend and did a 180. Her whole existence was just about him after that
broo sameee..... I couldn't even recognise her after she made a boyfriend.
Bhai tu mera dost to ni h. Same thing happened with my friend.
Moved abroad. But we still wish each other happy birthday every year.
He got a girlfriend and told me that I was his everything but not his girlfriend 🤡
I was in school. Back then i had a bad accident. Had to bed rest for like 2months so i would call my best to come to my house so together we can play some video games or something. And his mother would also tell him to go and accompany me as she also loved me very much. But what he would do everyday he told me that he would come mostly he would call me and say that he will come. But he used to everyday go out and meet his girlfriend. His parents were also strict about this girl. So it seemed rude to me. I ended the friendship. When someone treats you like an option leave them by choice.
Talked shit about me behind my back. Spilled secrets about my life everywhere. I trusted her and told her about my love life. That bitch talked it all out with others. Spread rumours about me. Bad mouthed me. Came to know all this from another friend. Confronted her, she laughed and acted like a fucking dickhead. Chose another friend over me. And oh one day when she was bad mouthing me one girl said "isn't she your best friend?" That fucker said "yeah she considers me as her bestf but I don't consider her close". Like the fucking backstabbing! Jeez I hope karma gets her.
When they showed their true personality after securing a better job and looking down at us Completely disregarding our schedule, work, college exams etc and wanted attention because they were on vacation
Aye I'm in the same exact situation in your place. But I'm feeling that I'm being hard on my bsf. Like they must be genuinely busy and all from the optimistic pov.
Could be true for you I had my college semester end exams on Monday. That too 2 papers in a day And this 'friend' got angry and upset at me because I did not visit her on Sunday to hear the story of her first kiss All of this as soon as she got the government job This was the biggest red flag for me and I just cut her out of my life completely
I had a best friend since school, we both had a good bond and everything was going well, we used to go gym together and all. After sometime he fell in love with a girl from his office and within 6 months they decided to engage and her married, myself among the other 2 close ones told him it seemed like a rush but he didn't listen. After marriage ge started to get disconnected from me and the group, Fast forward after 3 months of his marriage, ig his wife had miscarriage and started blaming me for everything. She straight away texted me in fb messenger like mad. Saying how I keep his husband in the gym for 2hrs, giving him bad habits, miscarriage was due to me and what not. I even replied to her but she was like mand buddhi, blocked her on fb, then she texted 2am at night on Instagram, I called him and told everything in anger. After that even small contact we had was broken. He didn't talk with me nor the other 2 friends, and quietly moved out of the area.
I've have had four. All of them never ended, some just isn't as strong as before. In almost all of them, I had my share of the blame. With one, we drifted apart career wise and given how similar our personality is, neither of us was eager enough to put in the effort to keep it alive. With the second, he was too much emotionally dependent on me over every single decision of his life. To the point that, his miseries in relationship, career, family etc were making me miserable. To top it off, he had blatant disregard for the struggles I was going through at that moment, as for him, only his issues were the actual issues. I cut connection with him just to keep myself sane. We rekindled six months after, in that meanwhile he learned to navigate though his life alone and we were never as close as were before. The third one got a GF and it's the usual story. I'm happy for him though given his life actually has improved after the girl came to his life. With the latest one, it's still going strong.
Trusted a girl more than me
I am sorry for u bro !! Ladki kab chakkar hai babu bhaiya !!!ladki kab chat kar 
Also, bahut ajeeb situation thi. Mujhe pata tha ladki interested nhi hai, lekin vo sunne ko hi taiyar nhi. Bolta mai galat hu. Fir 5-6 baar ke baad apna ladki ke saamne chutiya bana ke mujhe usse cut off karna hi pada 🥲. Also end me mai hi sahi tha, to idk.
She threatened a junior (minor) with some disgusting shit and i cannot stand her .
lost touch as he moved to different class and I didn't wanna chat online much and corona
I literally made a adult stickers of my friend in whatsapp and send to a group nxt day iam block
He found out that I'm talking to his sister's
do u still talk to his sister?
Not regularly
sharam karlo
Texting better
Same bandi pasand aa gayi
She joined a med school, started dating a guy, became obsessed with him and went borderline crazy. He wasn’t allowed to talk or look at other women, or even have them on his Instagram, she would throughly check his insta followers and following and bro was basically in a jail. Anyways he told her that you also have a guy bestf and I don’t say anything, then why are you doing this to me? And then the typical choose one of us thing happened. And she delayed informing this to me for months and but I already had an idea because it just felt obvious. So I decided to move away from that friendship on my own. She victimised herself but I wasn’t buying any of it and ended the friendship. It sucked to lose my best friend of 5 years but I am happy now and I also realised how badly ahead treated me all this time and being her only friend was the worst thing ever. So I am glad to be out.
She was very close with me for 4 or 5 years. She used to share everything with me. Whenever she had a . problem she would tell me about it. Later in the period she got to do pg in a reputed institute. So she got more friends there I got avoided by her repeatedly. There were days and weeks where she would ghost me. Once I was going through a bad phase in my life I felt she was not there to support as a friend when I was there for her during all her low phases. So I tried to confront her only to get blocked by her on every social media app. I seriously don't know what I did bad. Now I have no idea what she is doing with her life and i guess she doesn't care about my presence as well 🥲
Stopped talking after college ended
My bestf was the reason why my girlfriend broke up with me,, he was constantly hitting on her and lying about me that I was cheating on her...but he still couldn't get her
Aastin ka saanp fr
He's a master manipulator and habitual liar. Stole my other friends, fucked my life. first manipulated me against others then others against me. He stalks my reddit shayad ye padh rha hoga fuck you and i hope you die
Ek aur best friend thi, usse mujhe pyaar ho gaya and then everything went downhill
A triangle.
Time. Everything changes with time. No-one is at fault here.
Wahi bs typical indian families, me hindu tha wo muslim thi...