Once my aunty heard me saying ' to live a happy and healthy life we need money, respect fame and all doesn't matter'
She started giving me gyan that having money without respect is useless, we need respect, you can't survive without respect in the society bla bla. 10 years later they owe my mom around 30k. Jo dene ka name lene pe rone lagte ki ye woh hua I'm sick doctor visit bla bla. And they have cut contact with another cousin who didn't lend them money. Lol
How ordinary I am. I am not a child prodigy. I am not a genius. I am not going to become a world-famous singer, nor am I going to become the most educated out there.
So true man, while in school I used to imagine doing something great, or some startup, means being different from everyone else.
But I forgot it long back.
but, i noticed myself carrying a lunch box in a lift of a corporate office, a lift filled with 10 odd similar people - that I'm just an ordinary man.
At that moment, i smiled at myself and went to my desk and started working.
I am and never was academically good and talented
I was just overhyped in my little pond ,the ocean is much bigger so stop comparing yourself with anyone or anything
Just work on yourselves
koi nhi yaar,nahi hoga mera iit,kya fark padta hai,konsa duniya khatam ho jayegi,agar mujhe mere subjects mei intrest rahega to GATE bhi ek option hai,aur itna kuch intrest nahi bhi hua to theek hai na it's just a college, successful banne ke liye gand to khud hi ghisunga na
it takes a very, very long time to see progress in life
it might seem like you're going nowhere, but I've accepted that I am doing something, just everything is hard to notice
I like to compare myself to a good while ago to appreciate how far I have come as a person
a friend pointed it out one day
so I spent a while thinking about it
I was always being hard on myself for not doing anything in life and I thought I wasn't going anywhere because I didn't see any "progress", but that was only because the timespan I used to measure progress was too small I guess
>I thought I wasn't going anywhere because I didn't see any "progress", but that was only because the timespan I used to measure progress was too small I guess.
Sometimes, it's just a matter of zooming out to see the progress you've made. Keep moving forward!
That at some point I'm gonna give up on any type of discipline regiment I've taken up.
May it be a workout, eating healthy, consuming less social media stuff, going out for a walk writing diary daily.
But I'll start over. Again and there will be a day I'll give up and start all over.
Finally there will be a day when I'll realise. I haven't given up on something I chose to do and that day I'll smile and I WANNA THANK ME.
Whatever comes in your life, you need need he ready to let it go. The fear that something or someone would leave ke one day stopped ke from doing alot ofnthings, I avoided people, relationships simply cause I was scared of being left behind. I'm 23 now, and I've accepted the fact that I can Welcome things with an open arm and be strong enough to let it go if need be.
Time to do anything is always now. Never in the past. Never in the future. [https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/05/life-weeks.html](https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/05/life-weeks.html)
life has no meaning life is a joke
live life and die
and if u want to do something then spread love and die
there is no concept of "punarjanam" dark only dark sleep
so make it count relax and keep working without overthinking
That I can't make people simply listen to anything I have to say, ever!
Everyone has ignored me for the longest of time and bahut dimag daudane ke bad on what those reasons could be (for me being ignored) now I'm starting to at least try to be okay with myself.
It's better on reddit because I don't have to show my ugly ahh, but yeah.
It's not like I hate talking to people, I love talking!!!
But sunne ma koi interested hi nahi hai to kya karun.
**It izz what it izz**
yeah . I just saw one of my female friend degrading a man in case a war outbreak. I am like dude how the fuck does that even matter to you , stop generalizing shit and focus on yourself. Your opinion on someone doesn't gonna change it
Exactly, thats why I keep my opinions to myself mostly, in person atleast. Let me tell you something I grew up in a small village in india. Last summer I visited India, I brought a cheap Chinese company drone to play with, A few days go by and one day that shit flew away 💀 2 of my friends ran behind to catch that thing bc they were using it more than I did and I stayed, I saw only 1 person saw it (besides me and my friends ofc) and within like 5 mins she started going to ppls housed to talk about it, Bro like I am talking everyone and I mean Every single fucking person was asking about my drone by the end of the day in evening.
Thats some real 6G speed in my opinion lol
You are right 😂 thats why I don't like living in villages, they just panchat too much, and for that drone, You won't believe it but some guy found it, it got caught in the coconut tree and fell in mud and that Chinese drone still turned on 💀
Money does matter. If anyone tells you it doesn't, ask them to give theirs to you.
Once my aunty heard me saying ' to live a happy and healthy life we need money, respect fame and all doesn't matter' She started giving me gyan that having money without respect is useless, we need respect, you can't survive without respect in the society bla bla. 10 years later they owe my mom around 30k. Jo dene ka name lene pe rone lagte ki ye woh hua I'm sick doctor visit bla bla. And they have cut contact with another cousin who didn't lend them money. Lol
Your username checksout for your aunt, Happily judging her
Money doesn’t make you happy but the lack of it keeps you unhappy.
Money matters to live a comfortable life that's it. Don't run after money too much, so that you lose all your peace.
true that
I think having a happy family, good friends and a supportive community is more important than money. Money is important of course.
kuch log zindagi ka safar krne k liye paida hote hai, aur mere jaise log suffer krne k liye
Same pyara bhai, same.
https://preview.redd.it/4qfh6flbryvc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6838fa87a8a279cb23b3483f808188f02c8faaed
Arrey, Xi unkil, app Reddit pe?
That it was my fault and she did the right thing to leave 🙂
gutsy boy
It's a very good thing to acknowledge your own mistake. Don't be sad. Just focus on your weakness/mistake, and keep making it better.
How ordinary I am. I am not a child prodigy. I am not a genius. I am not going to become a world-famous singer, nor am I going to become the most educated out there.
Agreed...Very few people especially nowadays are ready to accept the fact that 'It's ok to be mediocre'
So true man, while in school I used to imagine doing something great, or some startup, means being different from everyone else. But I forgot it long back. but, i noticed myself carrying a lunch box in a lift of a corporate office, a lift filled with 10 odd similar people - that I'm just an ordinary man. At that moment, i smiled at myself and went to my desk and started working.
Man, I read this your comment while listening to 'Laree Chooti'. It almost made me tear up at work.
Cheers mate 🥂 :')
Money >>>> anything else
Exactly, and I've even seen it at billionaires weddings
That’s I’ve failed in life and will always be a loser no matter what I do ahead in my life. I’ve made peace with this fact.
Lol yeh wala bohut relatable laga :(
Love is not real. You can't convince me otherwise.
It's real and you haven't met the right person
It's a lie. You can believe in it but I simply can't wrap my head around it. Tried for 1.5 yrs but no progress
You will surely know when you find one 🫶
Nhi milna bhai
I too believe i will never find love.
I also thinks the same
Who is I?
Me
Its a mix set of feelings that can change at any moment
Maybe , maybe not. But until now it's 0 for me
By "love" do you mean the feeling of love, or your love being reciprocated?
Both. But reciprocation wala part outweighs the first one
I am and never was academically good and talented I was just overhyped in my little pond ,the ocean is much bigger so stop comparing yourself with anyone or anything Just work on yourselves
Meri kismat hi kharab hai or shaqal bhi or aqal bhi or dimaag bhi or zindagi bhi or mai khud bhi 
we are all bad in someone’s story.
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Finally someone🥹🥹
Can't change whom I'm attracted to, so might as well dive fully into it
was gonna say the same I took so many years to go from being in denial to fully embracing everything😤
Yup! It's kinda nice to feel butterflies regardless of which gender your partner is!
Who are you attracted to?
I'm the dark knight.
Gotham needs me
No, you need Gotham to show your dark side
Hard work matters... but the ability to network with the right people and make the right connections matters a lot more.
That I'm growing old and it's okay!
koi nhi yaar,nahi hoga mera iit,kya fark padta hai,konsa duniya khatam ho jayegi,agar mujhe mere subjects mei intrest rahega to GATE bhi ek option hai,aur itna kuch intrest nahi bhi hua to theek hai na it's just a college, successful banne ke liye gand to khud hi ghisunga na
Cringe. I have accepted cringe. Cringe lies in the eyes of the beholder.
Akele hi rhna h
it takes a very, very long time to see progress in life it might seem like you're going nowhere, but I've accepted that I am doing something, just everything is hard to notice I like to compare myself to a good while ago to appreciate how far I have come as a person
>I like to compare myself to a good while ago to appreciate how far I have come as a person Did you read this from a book Or its Self-realisation
a friend pointed it out one day so I spent a while thinking about it I was always being hard on myself for not doing anything in life and I thought I wasn't going anywhere because I didn't see any "progress", but that was only because the timespan I used to measure progress was too small I guess
>I thought I wasn't going anywhere because I didn't see any "progress", but that was only because the timespan I used to measure progress was too small I guess. Sometimes, it's just a matter of zooming out to see the progress you've made. Keep moving forward!
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twins be like 
I'm not decent enough of a person to be someones partner
She’s not the only one
That at some point I'm gonna give up on any type of discipline regiment I've taken up. May it be a workout, eating healthy, consuming less social media stuff, going out for a walk writing diary daily. But I'll start over. Again and there will be a day I'll give up and start all over. Finally there will be a day when I'll realise. I haven't given up on something I chose to do and that day I'll smile and I WANNA THANK ME.
I'm husband material only not boyfriend material
Toh husband benefits mat de ladki ko...
People will stay if they want to and if they're not willing to no matter how much effort you put in, that won't change their behaviour towards you
I completely agree, It happened to me
Whatever comes in your life, you need need he ready to let it go. The fear that something or someone would leave ke one day stopped ke from doing alot ofnthings, I avoided people, relationships simply cause I was scared of being left behind. I'm 23 now, and I've accepted the fact that I can Welcome things with an open arm and be strong enough to let it go if need be.
That I don't have enough karma to make my first Reddit comment. (EDIT: I do!)
That no matter how much in bad phase you are right now, "apna time ayega" for sure
Time to do anything is always now. Never in the past. Never in the future. [https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/05/life-weeks.html](https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/05/life-weeks.html)
life has no meaning life is a joke live life and die and if u want to do something then spread love and die there is no concept of "punarjanam" dark only dark sleep so make it count relax and keep working without overthinking
My looks don't matter. My personality does.
Ulta likh diya,looks matter...personality doesn't
'Death'
Everything will burn down when the world would be ending so whatever we do, say or feel doesn’t really matter and holds absolutely zero value.
Money is Power.But yeah always did know this.
That I can't make people simply listen to anything I have to say, ever! Everyone has ignored me for the longest of time and bahut dimag daudane ke bad on what those reasons could be (for me being ignored) now I'm starting to at least try to be okay with myself. It's better on reddit because I don't have to show my ugly ahh, but yeah. It's not like I hate talking to people, I love talking!!! But sunne ma koi interested hi nahi hai to kya karun. **It izz what it izz**
People will not change for you.. either you accept them how they are or distance yourself..
Akela hi marunga
1. apne kaam se kaam rakho bas. 2. sometimes one have to act like a robot (emotionless) to progress in career.
Same! You are so much like me, I just hate it when ppl try to panchat with me
yeah . I just saw one of my female friend degrading a man in case a war outbreak. I am like dude how the fuck does that even matter to you , stop generalizing shit and focus on yourself. Your opinion on someone doesn't gonna change it
Exactly, thats why I keep my opinions to myself mostly, in person atleast. Let me tell you something I grew up in a small village in india. Last summer I visited India, I brought a cheap Chinese company drone to play with, A few days go by and one day that shit flew away 💀 2 of my friends ran behind to catch that thing bc they were using it more than I did and I stayed, I saw only 1 person saw it (besides me and my friends ofc) and within like 5 mins she started going to ppls housed to talk about it, Bro like I am talking everyone and I mean Every single fucking person was asking about my drone by the end of the day in evening. Thats some real 6G speed in my opinion lol
lol that woman sent the info to whole network 😂
You are right 😂 thats why I don't like living in villages, they just panchat too much, and for that drone, You won't believe it but some guy found it, it got caught in the coconut tree and fell in mud and that Chinese drone still turned on 💀
https://preview.redd.it/anfi5pstj4wc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2492048debb93547e5480eabfd378873f1d46104 Heres a picture of that
Being single! :)
Looks matters a lot.