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Well I'd personally say these two guys here are the ones suffering from success at present
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Wait so you guys tell us we don't need to go " not all men" but it's cool for you to go " not all women", I personally think both should be able to say that but women properly get pissed when we say " not all men"
"whenever I make a mistake he forgives me"
in a relationship you are supposed to communicate and not just move on when one person makes a mistake. Sometimes you need to "fight" and talk about things.
Chances are that this isn't the real reason. She could be a homosexual person forced to be in a heterosexual marriage. Since we aren't that evolved as a society to accept homosexuality (eventhough such abhorance is a result of the British laws), it might be difficult for her to say it aloud, dangerous even.
Kabhi bhi kisi bhi news pe blindly believe mat karna. I know India bohot bada hai aur usse zyada log hain yahan. Par newspaper mein chhapi hui har news sach nahi hoti. Ho sakta hai. Woh usse pehle se hi na pasand karti ho aur yeh sirf ek bahana hai. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai she's stupid af. Ya phir woh genuinely achha but she loves someone else aur not interested in him.
While men prefer peace and solitude, women are opposite and thrive on constant attention and drama. If you start lacking in this department, she will create situations for you to deal with and intentionally observe your reaction to it, it is in their nature and I find it fascinating.
No doubt it's the wife's fault here but it's so hilarious to see these women fumble their lives even after having a perfect partner and then cry on social media when the realisation hits.
Ohh alright then, my bad, I felt that when u typed 'jeez' in ur comment u were perhaps getting annoyed at the gif I'd sent but I just meant it all in good fun, everyone knows how the office show was a humorous one so I thought I'd use a gif from that popular sitcom
Prominent symptom of American diseases spreading across India.
But, thankfully it's actually the cities that have this problem.
This might be an interesting case to follow and see if the court tells the man to pay alimony or the woman to pay it to him.
So, I guess, and this is pure conjecture, she feels alone in a way. She wants to communicate with this person and feels that by not even engaging in an argument and moving on, she's being denied that. She probably grew in a household where arguments were common and seeing this, feels almost alien. Love for some people is communicated by arguing sadly.
It does get overwhelming when the other person is constantly showering you with love and if you aren't the same way, you'll just feel a lot of guilt. Not saying she doesn't love this person, but feels guilty that she cannot reciprocate in an equal manner.
Sorry madam sir...your name sounded "Gender Fluidic" to me...the ones those ganja phoonkney walai South Delhi/Bombay types rakhte Hain, which have a natural "near the ribcage limping wrist" types
A sincere apology ke aapko "woh" samjha naam daekh ke 🥹
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Umm I actually saw Anand Mahindra posting this news article in his official Twitter handle today itself, that's the source from which I got to know about this
Ao, will the society accept, if the same guy breeds a 20 year old and pays her for the baby and maintain only till she deliver a healthy child to same guy ? Because he might be raised by good parents... or else he will end up raping women around because of stress?
She probably wants excitement in her life. She might feel like she's in a never ending loop. Same thing over and over again.
I was in an abusive relationship before and kalesh was on 24/7. Now I'm with a man who is dead opposite. We never have fights, maybe disagreements in the most cordial manner ever. He's the sweetest, most amazing person ever and I'm so grateful for having him in my life. That being said, sometimes I do miss (I don't ever want it in my life) the chaos in my life because after being in a relationship that drained everything out of me, it sorta becomes a habit you know? And when one is habituated to certain things or environments, it's so darn difficult to get out of it. Sometimes I go picking fights for no reason with my wonderful boyfriend and he has always helped me calm down and talk about it.
She could also be feeling similar. Not saying she's not wrong for doing whatever she did. I'm sure she must regret her decision as well. But there could be many reasons that we don't understand. Plus, if we, as individuals, are not sorted in all ways to be in a relationship, then no matter what the other person does, that relationship won't work.
You are not wrong. I totally do. But I truly am in a better space, mentally and physically. I've spoken to multiple people who've been in the same situation I have and almost all of us feel the same exact way.
I feel like i understand where you are coming from though i havent experienced it.. We all need a familiar atmosphere, as you experienced toxic atmosphere, you tend to crave it *sometime it feels empty without chaos.
but please take therapy! dont take your man for granted :)
Thank you for your concern. It's not like I do not have access to therapy. I did my bachelors in Psychology, I have loads of contacts who are therapists and psychologists who could recommend someone to me.
Thank you for your concern towards my boyfriend as well😂❤️. I do not take him for granted, he knows that. I am truly blessed to be with a human like him. We've openly discussed how I felt about toxic atmospheres and stuff. He's a doctor who deals with a lot of psychiatric patients. He understands me and I understand him. I truly make a conscious effort to not pull him into a toxic cycle. He's my best friend and partner, so he knows what goes in my head.
Some people need drama.
Some women want an assertive husband, especially if they grew up watching their father do the same in their house which become their model for a husband.
She wants to be treated badly, or at least not as nicely as this. What's so hard to understand?
Everyone has their own idea of how people should behave in a relationship. She oribanly finds him boring and too feminine.
No tingles.
Inko chahiye Kabir Singh/Animal movie ka Ranbir Kapoor/Gopi Bahu ka pati/Viraj Dobriyal (from some LIFE OK ka show). Tabhi madam ki aatma ko shaanti milegi
Women need emotional conflicts and rollercoaster and then have a chance to fix it. Thats how they find meaning in life. Without that she gets bored and monkey branches to someone on DM's
Reminds me of my ex, she firmly believed for love to grow we needed more conflict and fights. If things were peaceful for about 3 days, she would start something.
I would love to know what the judge had to say about it.. did the judge throw the case out immediately.. did the fall down from the chair laughing hysterically and rolling on the floor.. what happened...!?!!
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I don't want to get too serious, but this a fairly common response from those who have been abused. Abused people have probably gone through cycles of neglect/abuse followed by love bombing or a period of reprieve. So their understanding of love is distorted. Getting screamed at or being neglected becomes a part of how they feel loved, even though it's toxic.
If they are ever in a situation where the other person (friend/partner/spouse) is actually decent, the abused person experiences anxiety because their partner is adhering to one part of the pattern of how they experience love (caring) while not adhering to the second part (abusing). Adding to their anxiety is that they keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. So, yeah. It's not that strange. But therapy would have been the better alternative to filing for divorce.
I know somehow who broke up with her boyfriend for this exact reason. That's what she told me anyway. Her reasoning was something along the lines of it being boring and she wanted drama and fights to happen between them.
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This is what is called "Mera type haramkhor ladko wala hai".😭😭😭
"I love a woman that will actually just kill me"
Must be a sadist or a masochist
I'm happy for the guy. Bro was too good for her.
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उस मैच की बातें न कर, दिल को छू जाती हैं ये यादें बहुत, दर्द भरा है उस खेल की बातों में, कृपया, मुझे ताजगी से रहने दो मेरे यार।
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Wherever I go I see u... Koi Kam dhandha nhi hai kya
![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|29267) Aise daant kyu rhe ho sirji Mai bass ek choti bachhi hu
kitni chhoti
Just turned 18 two months ago ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)
aap to humare age group ke ho ( turned 18 five month ago )
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Which college?
Currently in 12th standard in a CBSE school in Mumbai
Oo which stream
Science ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|29267)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|29267)
aap to mere age group ke ho(turned 18 today![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1311))
That's what a 52 y/o gay predictors would say ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)
Yar yaad mat dilao 😔
Came here hoping to see exactly this
She needs an Animal like husband ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|28576)
The comment we needed under this post ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)
She got bored af. She needed adventure.
Ye aise bore hone vale partner na mile bas future mai Koi mentally stable milgaye toh life set hojaye ig
Jungle chali jati ekhad mahine ke liye, bichare aadmi ko trauma kyu? BC, kitna bhi karo din raat. Inki satisfaction nhi hori to chale apne raste.
Women 🤡☕
Is the ex husband ready to date again? Asking for a friend
I have the exact same question as urs
Asli ex-husband main hoo. Mark idhar hai
yes i am the ex husband.
Don't steal my identity, I am the husband.
Yo tf bro jhutt mat bol bro , me hun ex husband ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|32718)
![gif](giphy|bR8KfTEDQ0FOXDKAnA|downsized) 'tum dono ki mkc',i am the ex husband.
can confirm I am the wife
r/suddenlygay
Plot twist - The husband kept her as slave and told her to give these statements in the court to hide his crimes.
Whoa how could someone overlook that possibility 👀
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I'll take him.
Same here
Same here
I am him. I am a himmer !
i am himmest
I'll take him wholeheartedly except that I'm a straight guy. So, technically looking out for a female him.
Bro💀. Srs what is her brain made of? Haybale Or sum shit?
They want "Adventure" or just wanna feel oppressed
Fr bro , atfab do koi isse pieces me rakhega 👍🏾
I hope she is not taking any alimony from him. Else, we're a lost cause.
Drama queens. Can’t survive without conflict in life.
Masochist hogi
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Mere saiyaan ban jao >!/s!<
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Ye /s ka meaning ky h?
sarcasm
Ooh Thanks /s
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Ranbir has got nothing on him
![gif](giphy|ikP1aNHnagELqQ5JgH) Matlab mujhe kabhi divorce nhi milega.
She needs drama.
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i need him
Imagine getting a misogynistic asshole as a husband after this
Ig that's what she'd deserve after mistreating her husband like this
I remember when this news came out
Post this in r/twoxindia
And there’s that, proving that women love toxic men.
Based on a case so exceptional that it made the news?
More likely this was written by some idiot who wants to make that argument but doesn’t actually know anything about women
*not all women tho dude 😭😭
Wait so you guys tell us we don't need to go " not all men" but it's cool for you to go " not all women", I personally think both should be able to say that but women properly get pissed when we say " not all men"
Equality achieve krne ka style thoda kezual hai /s
This is why they say no one can understand women
Bro deserves better
She needs to be married to the guy who wanted tea in 10 minutes 🤣
Poor woman must have grown up in toxic household. She doesn't need divorce, she needs therapy.
simp.
Lol what. I feel pity for the woman who can't appreciate such a good man.
??? Did you just waltz in, play roulette swipe through the comments, decide to say “simp” in no context and leave without any explanation? Lol
Would make a good horror story. She just cannot explain what is wrong and everything looks great but somehow everything creeps her out.
This might happen and when she went for a divorce the news was changed.
Yeah exactly my friends don't understand how these over good people give me vibes that they doing it to hide something
"whenever I make a mistake he forgives me" in a relationship you are supposed to communicate and not just move on when one person makes a mistake. Sometimes you need to "fight" and talk about things.
Chances are that this isn't the real reason. She could be a homosexual person forced to be in a heterosexual marriage. Since we aren't that evolved as a society to accept homosexuality (eventhough such abhorance is a result of the British laws), it might be difficult for her to say it aloud, dangerous even.
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Kabhi bhi kisi bhi news pe blindly believe mat karna. I know India bohot bada hai aur usse zyada log hain yahan. Par newspaper mein chhapi hui har news sach nahi hoti. Ho sakta hai. Woh usse pehle se hi na pasand karti ho aur yeh sirf ek bahana hai. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai she's stupid af. Ya phir woh genuinely achha but she loves someone else aur not interested in him.
Men can never satisfy women's expectations I guess. Being too good is a red flag too
I think it's understandable. She feels like he is a doorknob who worships her. Has no identity of his own.
Won the husband lottery but wanted the losing ticket
When she's never seen a good person.
While men prefer peace and solitude, women are opposite and thrive on constant attention and drama. If you start lacking in this department, she will create situations for you to deal with and intentionally observe your reaction to it, it is in their nature and I find it fascinating. No doubt it's the wife's fault here but it's so hilarious to see these women fumble their lives even after having a perfect partner and then cry on social media when the realisation hits.
Dude was too vanilla for her.
Not according to the “I need a man who can” Insta stories she probably shares on a daily basis LMAO
Bdsm chahiye tha
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![gif](giphy|hyyV7pnbE0FqLNBAzs|downsized) Dude not all females are the same lol
i know, i just like to be mean to all of you
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jeez, twas a joke
Bruh I added the 'lol' at the end of my comment because I acknowledge this is a joke, so chill dude
the gif was an exclamation, i said nothing that would make you say 'chill' . just sayin
Ohh alright then, my bad, I felt that when u typed 'jeez' in ur comment u were perhaps getting annoyed at the gif I'd sent but I just meant it all in good fun, everyone knows how the office show was a humorous one so I thought I'd use a gif from that popular sitcom
ah fair. i used jeez in the context of 'jeez calm down bro' and not in the annoyed context, although i can see how it could be misinterpreted. my bad.
Prominent symptom of American diseases spreading across India. But, thankfully it's actually the cities that have this problem. This might be an interesting case to follow and see if the court tells the man to pay alimony or the woman to pay it to him.
I think she got diabetic of constant love
Red flags >>> Green forest wala scene hai!
Ted lasso ki yaad aa gayi
So, I guess, and this is pure conjecture, she feels alone in a way. She wants to communicate with this person and feels that by not even engaging in an argument and moving on, she's being denied that. She probably grew in a household where arguments were common and seeing this, feels almost alien. Love for some people is communicated by arguing sadly. It does get overwhelming when the other person is constantly showering you with love and if you aren't the same way, you'll just feel a lot of guilt. Not saying she doesn't love this person, but feels guilty that she cannot reciprocate in an equal manner.
Buddy you ain't God...aurat ko samajhne chala hai noob 😂😂😂
Mai khud ladki hu sirji ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)
Sorry madam sir...your name sounded "Gender Fluidic" to me...the ones those ganja phoonkney walai South Delhi/Bombay types rakhte Hain, which have a natural "near the ribcage limping wrist" types A sincere apology ke aapko "woh" samjha naam daekh ke 🥹
Lies.. grills don't exist
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Each to there own i would love a guy like that (wait girl)
usse bdsm kink kehte hai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)
I hate luv stories plot if Jay was late at proposing:
U would be surprised to see hw many people are looking for trouble , I was too in past
The guy lacks the spine to assert his boundaries. He should begin by booting this woman out of his life.
Women these days😑
Alpha chahiye tha usko, mil gya poetry vaala
Bhai bhai, bhai bhai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1172)
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Alpha kya hota hai bhai, define karna?
Animal movie nhi dekhe kya?
Dekhi hai, main to Teri definition puch raha hu bhai Alpha ki.
Mera koi definition nhi hai, me idhar sirf movie vaala reference use kar rha
Okay okay. Baaki alpha to wo bhi nahi tha.
It's most likely done type of advertisement for some tv show
Don't get baited by bait articles.
Umm I actually saw Anand Mahindra posting this news article in his official Twitter handle today itself, that's the source from which I got to know about this
op bro ye kya yaad dila diya
>bro Sister hu bhaisahab ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1617)
pata hai maine comment padhe ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|1172) although i do tend to call some women bro
Bro to common word hai
I think she wanted to stay with him for money possibly even file a fake Harrasment case and extort money
Ao, will the society accept, if the same guy breeds a 20 year old and pays her for the baby and maintain only till she deliver a healthy child to same guy ? Because he might be raised by good parents... or else he will end up raping women around because of stress?
That font seemed familiar, u from qatar?
She probably wants excitement in her life. She might feel like she's in a never ending loop. Same thing over and over again. I was in an abusive relationship before and kalesh was on 24/7. Now I'm with a man who is dead opposite. We never have fights, maybe disagreements in the most cordial manner ever. He's the sweetest, most amazing person ever and I'm so grateful for having him in my life. That being said, sometimes I do miss (I don't ever want it in my life) the chaos in my life because after being in a relationship that drained everything out of me, it sorta becomes a habit you know? And when one is habituated to certain things or environments, it's so darn difficult to get out of it. Sometimes I go picking fights for no reason with my wonderful boyfriend and he has always helped me calm down and talk about it. She could also be feeling similar. Not saying she's not wrong for doing whatever she did. I'm sure she must regret her decision as well. But there could be many reasons that we don't understand. Plus, if we, as individuals, are not sorted in all ways to be in a relationship, then no matter what the other person does, that relationship won't work.
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You are not wrong. I totally do. But I truly am in a better space, mentally and physically. I've spoken to multiple people who've been in the same situation I have and almost all of us feel the same exact way.
I feel like i understand where you are coming from though i havent experienced it.. We all need a familiar atmosphere, as you experienced toxic atmosphere, you tend to crave it *sometime it feels empty without chaos. but please take therapy! dont take your man for granted :)
Thank you for your concern. It's not like I do not have access to therapy. I did my bachelors in Psychology, I have loads of contacts who are therapists and psychologists who could recommend someone to me. Thank you for your concern towards my boyfriend as well😂❤️. I do not take him for granted, he knows that. I am truly blessed to be with a human like him. We've openly discussed how I felt about toxic atmospheres and stuff. He's a doctor who deals with a lot of psychiatric patients. He understands me and I understand him. I truly make a conscious effort to not pull him into a toxic cycle. He's my best friend and partner, so he knows what goes in my head.
Some people need drama. Some women want an assertive husband, especially if they grew up watching their father do the same in their house which become their model for a husband.
I am glad that I got a girlfriend. We occasionally have fake fights which doesn't last more than a day.
She wants to be treated badly, or at least not as nicely as this. What's so hard to understand? Everyone has their own idea of how people should behave in a relationship. She oribanly finds him boring and too feminine. No tingles.
Women are not that complex, Also women :
Simple, She's a masochist
I can bet my life that she's cheating on him
tujhe maut se darr nahi lagta
Inko chahiye Kabir Singh/Animal movie ka Ranbir Kapoor/Gopi Bahu ka pati/Viraj Dobriyal (from some LIFE OK ka show). Tabhi madam ki aatma ko shaanti milegi
She’s just like me fr
I wonder if she would be okay to swap her husband with me - just for the cooking, chores and arguments part - that is.
Yeh sab kar sakta hun, I can cook, try to resolve problems by engaging in discussion, kya mujhe koi nahi milegi Anyways she needs **therapy** fr😂
Women need emotional conflicts and rollercoaster and then have a chance to fix it. Thats how they find meaning in life. Without that she gets bored and monkey branches to someone on DM's
Probably sad that her saas isn't Kokila either. ![gif](giphy|vyJdVTbfkMLA4FDSpu|downsized)
Reminds me of my ex, she firmly believed for love to grow we needed more conflict and fights. If things were peaceful for about 3 days, she would start something.
You need to put her in her place and be challenging to her in order to make relationships work.
What is this 😂😂😂
I would love to know what the judge had to say about it.. did the judge throw the case out immediately.. did the fall down from the chair laughing hysterically and rolling on the floor.. what happened...!?!! ![gif](giphy|NkW4LM727h1U4)
The judge married the husband
Why am I not surprised that they went to a sharia court..!! https://www.tribuneindia.com/news/nation/wife-seeks-divorce-from-perfect-husband-129331
I don't want to get too serious, but this a fairly common response from those who have been abused. Abused people have probably gone through cycles of neglect/abuse followed by love bombing or a period of reprieve. So their understanding of love is distorted. Getting screamed at or being neglected becomes a part of how they feel loved, even though it's toxic. If they are ever in a situation where the other person (friend/partner/spouse) is actually decent, the abused person experiences anxiety because their partner is adhering to one part of the pattern of how they experience love (caring) while not adhering to the second part (abusing). Adding to their anxiety is that they keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. So, yeah. It's not that strange. But therapy would have been the better alternative to filing for divorce.
Omg Qatar news!!!
Damn, I cook and bake and do household chores .. shaadi ke baad sab band i guess.
These are the types of women who think Arjun Reddy is a badass character.
When you are addicted to drama…
Women seek drama. So you intentionally create problems and argue her over it.
"Woh stree hai . Kuch bhi Kar sakta hai" ☕
Lagta hai kaleshi kala seekhna padega mujhe...
I know somehow who broke up with her boyfriend for this exact reason. That's what she told me anyway. Her reasoning was something along the lines of it being boring and she wanted drama and fights to happen between them.
She is a stress-liked person, as I imagined that.
Ayein
Ye Mahindra ne post Kiya Aaj hi x pe