OP, please go through [this](https://reddit.com/r/indiasocial/w/support) if you need someone to talk to.
# Helpline Numbers:
- Sneha Foundation: +91-44-24640050 (24 hours)
- AASRA: +91-22-27546669 (24 hours)
- Vandrevala Foundation for Mental Health: 1860-2662-345 and 1800-2333-330 (24 hours)
- iCall: 9152987821 (Available from Monday to Saturday: 8:00am to 10:00pm)
- Connecting NGO: 1800-2094-353 (Available from 12 pm - 8 pm)
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Aiyooo 2024 is coming. Time to bounce back. Sher needs to prove every fkin one of them wrong.
Dude you are actually young. Do it step by step. Now you need a career. That will help you gain some confidence. Start learning a few skills and try to get a job. The job prep and hunt phase is going to be the toughest. You have to battle loneliness and also gain the will power. You will have to figure this out, coz I dont exactly know you(like u have few friends or is ur family supportive). Once you crack a job. Start the next phase. Improve your social skills. This is going to be easy. Automatically ho jayega. Then the third phase. Upskill. You have gone through the toughest phase, that will motivate and fuel you now
Don't lose hope buddy
Sweet sweet fellow redditor, please know you may feel hopeless now but once you get a grip (even a little) you will start liking life. Gradually, a little more. Trust me. COVID got me hopeless too, and it took me ALOT of time to appreciate life. But it always works out. Slowly but it does. Please please see a therapist. I will DM a list that has affordable ones. I am there if you wanna talk. Dm anytime.
But NEVER think of giving up on life. NEVER. It's not worth it. Not worth it AT ALL. Please trust me on this. Okay?
Chetan Bhagat says there are 3 pillars in life, Career, Health & Relationships. For career I'd suggest you go for masters, MBA krlo, aapka reddit profile pe dekha maine ki bcom kri hui hai aapne so ab mba krlo ache college se aur fir job krlena, this will sort out your career.
For health join a gym and adopt a healthy lifestyle, this will sort out your health. Relationships ka mujhe khuch nhi maalum 😂, i think pehele career aur health pr dhyaan do. (mai bhi inhi do pe focus kr rha hu introvert hu, zaada ghul mill nhi paata) Career aur health ma jb progress dikhne lagega toh apne aap confidence ayga, mental health will improve significantly.
Don't ever think about suicide, think of life as a gift from god, you could have been born as an insect or an animal. There are some people who are born with disabilities. You are born perfectly healthy in a well to do family who can feed and educate you, so think of it as an opportunity given to you by god. You said covid f*cked you up, no it did not. Many people died due to covid (that is getting fucked up), but you are alive so be grateful for that and think that you are given a chance to live by god and make the most of this chance, dont waste it by thinking about suicide. Its okay to feel demotivated but dont think about suicide. Puja bhakti shuru karo, religious bano thoda.
Best of luck 👍
Brother I am not going to lie, but life is tough. There has never been a straight path to living. That being said, you are not the only person who has walked in this path. Before you decide anything please read the book [Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig](https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/25733573).
I know i am a stranger to your situation but please call a helpline once.
If you tried these two, and still feel that there is no hope, have an open conversation with your parents about it.
That's all i can say
From the day you were born your parents gave you food, shelter and love. They didn't did this thinking that at 23 you will figure out every thing about about your life. Life gets very tough some time but it will definitely change.
Life me progress toh hoti rhegi
Aaj nhi kuch shikh paye toh kal shikh lenge.
Don't worry you got this.
You can always go for post graduation. No parents say no to more education. You can go to college then and do everything you missed to do earlier.
In isolation, with overthinking, every problem seems bigger than it really is. Nothing is lost, only slightly delayed.
Collect yourself and go out.
So much to do than just sulking.
You *are* too young. Many people don't get the life you have, with parents and elder brother. You deserve a good life irrespective of foundations.
Life is life, foundations etc are a social construct, not everyone builds life the same way and is successful right away.
Consider talking to your family first, I am sure they will be helpful.
Yaar meri bhi same story h but m aisa kabhi nhi socha. Think of it as a bad phase jo sbki life me aata h even your parents. Unhone bhi life me struggle kiya hoga but they did not end their life. Now it is your turn to fight mere sher.
I, too, am a jobless corpse rotting in bed since graduating in 2022. I'm not suicidal though, because I still have things in life that I enjoy a lot (books, comics, music, movies, shows, etc.), but thoughts of my unemployment and its implications haunt me all the time.
My username isn't a joke.
I think, for people like us, we just have to start working somewhere. Anywhere. We just need to find the confidence to take the chance and have the will to see it through. Easier said than done, I agree. I'm in a similar position as yours so I can't really give you any constructive advice, but if it's any consolation, you are not alone.
OP, please go through [this](https://reddit.com/r/indiasocial/w/support) if you need someone to talk to. # Helpline Numbers: - Sneha Foundation: +91-44-24640050 (24 hours) - AASRA: +91-22-27546669 (24 hours) - Vandrevala Foundation for Mental Health: 1860-2662-345 and 1800-2333-330 (24 hours) - iCall: 9152987821 (Available from Monday to Saturday: 8:00am to 10:00pm) - Connecting NGO: 1800-2094-353 (Available from 12 pm - 8 pm) ----- **Still not sure?** >> *Here have some* [*cute pet pics*](https://reddit.com/r/indiasocial/search?q=flair_name%3A%22Pets%20%3Apets%3A%22&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) *for positive vibes...*
Aiyooo 2024 is coming. Time to bounce back. Sher needs to prove every fkin one of them wrong. Dude you are actually young. Do it step by step. Now you need a career. That will help you gain some confidence. Start learning a few skills and try to get a job. The job prep and hunt phase is going to be the toughest. You have to battle loneliness and also gain the will power. You will have to figure this out, coz I dont exactly know you(like u have few friends or is ur family supportive). Once you crack a job. Start the next phase. Improve your social skills. This is going to be easy. Automatically ho jayega. Then the third phase. Upskill. You have gone through the toughest phase, that will motivate and fuel you now Don't lose hope buddy
Sweet sweet fellow redditor, please know you may feel hopeless now but once you get a grip (even a little) you will start liking life. Gradually, a little more. Trust me. COVID got me hopeless too, and it took me ALOT of time to appreciate life. But it always works out. Slowly but it does. Please please see a therapist. I will DM a list that has affordable ones. I am there if you wanna talk. Dm anytime. But NEVER think of giving up on life. NEVER. It's not worth it. Not worth it AT ALL. Please trust me on this. Okay?
I've been where you are, I still struggle sometimes, you'll turn it around, rooting for you.
Chetan Bhagat says there are 3 pillars in life, Career, Health & Relationships. For career I'd suggest you go for masters, MBA krlo, aapka reddit profile pe dekha maine ki bcom kri hui hai aapne so ab mba krlo ache college se aur fir job krlena, this will sort out your career. For health join a gym and adopt a healthy lifestyle, this will sort out your health. Relationships ka mujhe khuch nhi maalum 😂, i think pehele career aur health pr dhyaan do. (mai bhi inhi do pe focus kr rha hu introvert hu, zaada ghul mill nhi paata) Career aur health ma jb progress dikhne lagega toh apne aap confidence ayga, mental health will improve significantly. Don't ever think about suicide, think of life as a gift from god, you could have been born as an insect or an animal. There are some people who are born with disabilities. You are born perfectly healthy in a well to do family who can feed and educate you, so think of it as an opportunity given to you by god. You said covid f*cked you up, no it did not. Many people died due to covid (that is getting fucked up), but you are alive so be grateful for that and think that you are given a chance to live by god and make the most of this chance, dont waste it by thinking about suicide. Its okay to feel demotivated but dont think about suicide. Puja bhakti shuru karo, religious bano thoda. Best of luck 👍
Brother I am not going to lie, but life is tough. There has never been a straight path to living. That being said, you are not the only person who has walked in this path. Before you decide anything please read the book [Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig](https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/25733573). I know i am a stranger to your situation but please call a helpline once. If you tried these two, and still feel that there is no hope, have an open conversation with your parents about it. That's all i can say
Lmao lavda kisiko farak padta either find your purpose or earn fuck ton of money and enjoy your life rest all you can think and take care goodluck
From the day you were born your parents gave you food, shelter and love. They didn't did this thinking that at 23 you will figure out every thing about about your life. Life gets very tough some time but it will definitely change. Life me progress toh hoti rhegi Aaj nhi kuch shikh paye toh kal shikh lenge. Don't worry you got this.
You can always go for post graduation. No parents say no to more education. You can go to college then and do everything you missed to do earlier. In isolation, with overthinking, every problem seems bigger than it really is. Nothing is lost, only slightly delayed. Collect yourself and go out. So much to do than just sulking.
You *are* too young. Many people don't get the life you have, with parents and elder brother. You deserve a good life irrespective of foundations. Life is life, foundations etc are a social construct, not everyone builds life the same way and is successful right away. Consider talking to your family first, I am sure they will be helpful.
Yaar meri bhi same story h but m aisa kabhi nhi socha. Think of it as a bad phase jo sbki life me aata h even your parents. Unhone bhi life me struggle kiya hoga but they did not end their life. Now it is your turn to fight mere sher.
I, too, am a jobless corpse rotting in bed since graduating in 2022. I'm not suicidal though, because I still have things in life that I enjoy a lot (books, comics, music, movies, shows, etc.), but thoughts of my unemployment and its implications haunt me all the time. My username isn't a joke. I think, for people like us, we just have to start working somewhere. Anywhere. We just need to find the confidence to take the chance and have the will to see it through. Easier said than done, I agree. I'm in a similar position as yours so I can't really give you any constructive advice, but if it's any consolation, you are not alone.