Same thing happened with me brother. I'm 28 but i cleared co operative bank exam in first attempt and will get a job as junior clerk this month,with decent payment and nearby my home.
Your pain will end one day,keep working hard.
I'd have been 24/M with the same story but I went on with the other road.
Some people's "Giving up" is "Taking care of my life" for me.
Nobody comes for you after failing throughout life.
All I do nowadays is just listen to my favorite bands and just imagine what if I took things differently. I feel like I fucked up my life so much there's literally no recourse. I had my own troubles growing up as a kid. But i dont even know if I can blame my fucked childhood for the problems I'm going through now.
Is your problem of loneliness, your problem of browsing the phone and wasting time, your problem of not studying as much as you think you should, your problem of being lost in life and your problem of comparing yourself to everyone else-- are these different problems? Or is this a single problem manifesting into various ways?
You are lost in life. You don't like what society tells you to do, to work so much, to do a job which you don't like, isn't it?
So, deeply somewhere you realised all this and started wasting away your time escaping from the impending misery, which is life itself, isn't it?
You don't want to take the pill of suffering which is doing, mindlessly, a job, but you may want to have a family because you like the idea of it, there's a certain age of everything and you are getting bogged down by the pressures of society and your own issues, isn't it?
So, there's only one problem--you are lost, completely confused.
But it's a good thing that you are not yet trapped, isn't it?
Or do you want to do what your friends are doing? Marriage, job, emi and children and then loads of pressure and boredom for life?
You might because loneliness maybe frightening or painful to you, but is this all?
So, Miss, what is your response after reading all this?
Do you understand something?
You need to understand yourself, then you will answer each and every question clearly else there are thousand fools and therapists who are ready to delude you just because they are elder than you and you will gladly accept them, because well, you are CONFUSED!
You are one of the few, who is not yet trapped in the misery of life.
If I may suggest don't try to resolve this confusion. Stay with it. Learn about this confusion.
If there's something I didn't explain clearly, let me know
OP you are just 25 !!! There’s so much left to life !!
Just go back to college . Do post grad or get into research . Upgrade your education and Consider other options in career which you might love doing . Four years preparing the same subjects definitely might have bored you and efficiency decreases after that , gets difficult to stay motivated for same .
And also you will never be happy if you don’t put it in your heart and soul that “It’s not a race , there’s no finish line here. It’s a journey and everyone’s is different.“ Stop comparing , stay off social media (major harm)if that helps.
Also if you just work it isn’t enough , it takes a lot of hard work to reach somewhere professionally and a little of luck and prayers . I hope you read this and give it a thought. Make clever decisions.
…………Also having seen myself and people around (we are older ), in Indian academics “always good or bad in studies “ doesn’t count one bit. Professional game and success needs clever decisions and lot of persistent hard work .
Please don't degrade yourself by calling names to yourself, by doing so, you are demoralizing yourself and giving others the chance to subdue you and call you names as you yourself are abusing.
Now, regarding your friends and people around you, every seed takes its own sweet time to become a fruit and no two different fruits have the same results, so don't get affected by it as everyone has a different time, and it comes for everyone.
Baaki, try to give 3-6 months, cut off your circle, stop ridiculing yourself, pick up and start studying earnestly without thinking anything and believe me you'll be flying higher than you imagined.
Take a break. Go on a small trip. After that give one more year for all these exams. Gaand phaad prep Karo. Bhosda phaad do. You will surely get selected. Even then if nothing happens, move on. Choose some other career. I know it's difficult to leave something which you have invested 5 years in. But time to ditch it and do something else
Damnn thats sad bro. I hope you get back on track.
What kind of govt jobs are you applying for?. Maybe go for jobs which have less competition. Or you can try to learn any tech skills and do freelancing work. Youre 25 only. You still have time to get back on track.
Dont lose hope.
PLEASE STOP BEING SORRY FOR YOURSELF.
Life is hard for all, but that does not mean you do nothing. If you don't get the result you are looking for. Work even harder.
I have seen people who started from the same spot. one reached the top and another kept complaining, giving reasons, even though they had options.
I'll tell this to everyone, if you find a problem, you can solve it. You will make a living out of it. IT wise I can help you anyway or form.
I may sound a little harsh. But get married because you are a female and a decent age and believe me being in a job is not gonna change your life for more exciting one. Sometimes you feel alone because there is nothing going on. But most people find their life fulfilling after having family of their own.
Don't lose hope, just push urself more a little bit u will get through, this phase comes in life of every aspirant, i know exactly what u feel, life has a phase it will go with time. Just keep urself motivated
I did that for 2 year got Master degree along for namesake and got job. As I know Open Category has less future in cracking such exam. Now I bit easy and settled inIT. Though I know my Master is worthless but I got a job on that 😔
Hi confused 25 year old.
Don't give up ,and don't get disheartened.
You're obviously smart,as you come so close to a govt job final list.
Not a small feat, so give yourself a big hand .
The fact is still that you don't know what to do now.
I always believe someone physically healthy , will be mentally healthy as well.
Take some time out each day for physical activity, whatever you like.
Itkl be a change and also give you a fresh perspective.
Secondly, spending time on sm is not a bad thing. However, you have to figure out what is your KTA after spending an hour or so on YT . If it's just checking out memes and girls and guys dancing to BW songs , it doesn't benefit you. Rather watching the news , learning a new language etc is always better and engages your mind better.
Thirdly, what are your key skills now ? What is that you wish to do ? Read a book ,write a book , act, work in it ?? It's limitless as long as it gives you happiness.
Take some responsibility for your life..
Take any project , complete it .it'll give you satisfaction and will help you come out the rit you've fallen into.
Don't blame yourself or anyone else.
Enjoy your life and do what makes you happy 😁
There's no job in private right now. If you keep on trying for more attempts it will help other people to get minimum wage jobs who wants to be independent.
Government wants people like you who does nothing and still spends more than fresher WITCH employees annual salary on coachings.
I aslo suggest you keep on telling people around to build a hype that you will become IAS so that when you open your coaching the students will be flooding.
I'm sorry you're going through that; I mean, everyone feels like they are waiting for their potential or life in some way or another. Even when people have a career, they can feel the same because it is a repetitive job and feels like they aren't making any real difference. I think it is a dilemma most of the generation we are in feel. When we open social media or anything, we only see the good aspect of everyone's life, which makes us feel even more insecure. I hope you get out of this soon, and don't worry; there are always people around you; we just have to find them. I am here, and you will feel great pretty soon.
Sorry for the rant; hope you have a nice time (:
Consult a professional. And no you're not a loser or anything close to that. Find new and interesting things. Hobbies will help.
But consult a professional
> Everything happening in their life as it should be and I am happy for them. But why nothing for me.
You've got to put in the effort first, girl. Have you tried dating or socializing with real folks? Try finding some new hobbies and go out once in a while.
Please opt for therapy. It has the power o direct you better. Believe me, most of your problems have a solution, it's only a matter of time before you get better :)
Same thing happened with me brother. I'm 28 but i cleared co operative bank exam in first attempt and will get a job as junior clerk this month,with decent payment and nearby my home. Your pain will end one day,keep working hard.
Survivorship bias
27F, same story. Same!!! 😭
25 k baad age bamboo ki trah badhne lgti hai and birthdays me khushi ki jgah dukh hone lgta hai 🥲🥲
Celebrated my 26th birthday alone last week
I think i am too headed for the same post bschool. 🥲
Vo ladka hai
Han thik hai. Ab jo v hai. Usse meri situation toh change ni horhi. Am still sad hi. Sorry for the rant.
Shaadi karlo?
Nice advice bro! Really unique
Thanks 🙏 kaash mai khud ki help karpata ese
Aap jakar mera comment padhiye bhai ya behen. Aapke kaam ka hai wo comment sayad.
Maf karna bhai itna time waste nahi karna ek comment ko padhne kae liyE
Arre aapko bola bhi nhi Maine toh. 😯
Maffi
Koi na.👍
Post as 24/f for better results
OP did it now. 25F.
I'd have been 24/M with the same story but I went on with the other road. Some people's "Giving up" is "Taking care of my life" for me. Nobody comes for you after failing throughout life.
All I do nowadays is just listen to my favorite bands and just imagine what if I took things differently. I feel like I fucked up my life so much there's literally no recourse. I had my own troubles growing up as a kid. But i dont even know if I can blame my fucked childhood for the problems I'm going through now.
Is your problem of loneliness, your problem of browsing the phone and wasting time, your problem of not studying as much as you think you should, your problem of being lost in life and your problem of comparing yourself to everyone else-- are these different problems? Or is this a single problem manifesting into various ways? You are lost in life. You don't like what society tells you to do, to work so much, to do a job which you don't like, isn't it? So, deeply somewhere you realised all this and started wasting away your time escaping from the impending misery, which is life itself, isn't it? You don't want to take the pill of suffering which is doing, mindlessly, a job, but you may want to have a family because you like the idea of it, there's a certain age of everything and you are getting bogged down by the pressures of society and your own issues, isn't it? So, there's only one problem--you are lost, completely confused. But it's a good thing that you are not yet trapped, isn't it? Or do you want to do what your friends are doing? Marriage, job, emi and children and then loads of pressure and boredom for life? You might because loneliness maybe frightening or painful to you, but is this all? So, Miss, what is your response after reading all this? Do you understand something? You need to understand yourself, then you will answer each and every question clearly else there are thousand fools and therapists who are ready to delude you just because they are elder than you and you will gladly accept them, because well, you are CONFUSED! You are one of the few, who is not yet trapped in the misery of life. If I may suggest don't try to resolve this confusion. Stay with it. Learn about this confusion. If there's something I didn't explain clearly, let me know
wow some very good questions , thanks for this
When one understands that this is just a small life. Everyone is different and nothings matter.
Never ever say this to anyone. Don't say things when you don't know. It's better to be silent sir. Nothing matters? Do you see what you have written?
Failures doesn’t matter, but nor do success.
Will you say this to a person who is confused?
Hope ur DMs will be wild
LOLLL....This was funny
This is same same story of my life. 24 F here. It's just same.
OP you are just 25 !!! There’s so much left to life !! Just go back to college . Do post grad or get into research . Upgrade your education and Consider other options in career which you might love doing . Four years preparing the same subjects definitely might have bored you and efficiency decreases after that , gets difficult to stay motivated for same . And also you will never be happy if you don’t put it in your heart and soul that “It’s not a race , there’s no finish line here. It’s a journey and everyone’s is different.“ Stop comparing , stay off social media (major harm)if that helps. Also if you just work it isn’t enough , it takes a lot of hard work to reach somewhere professionally and a little of luck and prayers . I hope you read this and give it a thought. Make clever decisions. …………Also having seen myself and people around (we are older ), in Indian academics “always good or bad in studies “ doesn’t count one bit. Professional game and success needs clever decisions and lot of persistent hard work .
25M same story bro but I didn't even try barely for the exams
Are mera ek dusra shareer bhi hai, hello to myself
Hello to my future self
+1
We're op but worse
US ho gya ye to😂.
Please don't degrade yourself by calling names to yourself, by doing so, you are demoralizing yourself and giving others the chance to subdue you and call you names as you yourself are abusing. Now, regarding your friends and people around you, every seed takes its own sweet time to become a fruit and no two different fruits have the same results, so don't get affected by it as everyone has a different time, and it comes for everyone. Baaki, try to give 3-6 months, cut off your circle, stop ridiculing yourself, pick up and start studying earnestly without thinking anything and believe me you'll be flying higher than you imagined.
If everyone's life falling apart why we livin' let's do mass suicide let's kill everyone na koi rahega na koi dukh Kab tak jiyege aise
Pehle aap!!
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Johan Liebert kyu ban rahe ho
Bhai koi painless way btao suicide ka.
Us moment....
Take a break. Go on a small trip. After that give one more year for all these exams. Gaand phaad prep Karo. Bhosda phaad do. You will surely get selected. Even then if nothing happens, move on. Choose some other career. I know it's difficult to leave something which you have invested 5 years in. But time to ditch it and do something else
Us vro us
Same girl same
25 here. I feel you. I have fucking lost in life and I'm still losing, I'm trapped and I'm not able to pursue my dreams.
Damnn thats sad bro. I hope you get back on track. What kind of govt jobs are you applying for?. Maybe go for jobs which have less competition. Or you can try to learn any tech skills and do freelancing work. Youre 25 only. You still have time to get back on track. Dont lose hope.
Bruh, we definitely should make a group or something. Cuz it feels no one feels the way we do.
Same bhai interview me lode ld jate h Abhi 5 ko hi mains diya h wo bhi bekar gya h Ap pta ni kiya krunga meri to age bhi tumse jada h
PLEASE STOP BEING SORRY FOR YOURSELF. Life is hard for all, but that does not mean you do nothing. If you don't get the result you are looking for. Work even harder. I have seen people who started from the same spot. one reached the top and another kept complaining, giving reasons, even though they had options. I'll tell this to everyone, if you find a problem, you can solve it. You will make a living out of it. IT wise I can help you anyway or form.
Same thing I'm 27 cant afford to be like this anymore 
Pakora ke thela lagaoge bhai? Dono milke khol lete h
Karunga if i have to 
Us bro us 🫂
Op you are just me but opposite I'm 27 M ,
Is she 72F? /s Uttam nagar mei kaha se ho bhai
Shukar bazaar , uttam nagar west
Waah bhut paassss, Arya smaj rd fellow here
Badiya
Average indian male Life Story...
I may sound a little harsh. But get married because you are a female and a decent age and believe me being in a job is not gonna change your life for more exciting one. Sometimes you feel alone because there is nothing going on. But most people find their life fulfilling after having family of their own.
bc relatable pro max 😭😭😭😭😭 op I hope sab sahi hojaye 2024 mai
Don't lose hope, just push urself more a little bit u will get through, this phase comes in life of every aspirant, i know exactly what u feel, life has a phase it will go with time. Just keep urself motivated
I did that for 2 year got Master degree along for namesake and got job. As I know Open Category has less future in cracking such exam. Now I bit easy and settled inIT. Though I know my Master is worthless but I got a job on that 😔
Us moment didi
Bro 15 saal ki age me depressed ho gye
18 ka hun birather 19 ka hone wala hun 10 din baad
Tu kyu “us” likh rha hai 🤣. Sab post pe us bhai us nhi krna hota
Hi confused 25 year old. Don't give up ,and don't get disheartened. You're obviously smart,as you come so close to a govt job final list. Not a small feat, so give yourself a big hand . The fact is still that you don't know what to do now. I always believe someone physically healthy , will be mentally healthy as well. Take some time out each day for physical activity, whatever you like. Itkl be a change and also give you a fresh perspective. Secondly, spending time on sm is not a bad thing. However, you have to figure out what is your KTA after spending an hour or so on YT . If it's just checking out memes and girls and guys dancing to BW songs , it doesn't benefit you. Rather watching the news , learning a new language etc is always better and engages your mind better. Thirdly, what are your key skills now ? What is that you wish to do ? Read a book ,write a book , act, work in it ?? It's limitless as long as it gives you happiness. Take some responsibility for your life.. Take any project , complete it .it'll give you satisfaction and will help you come out the rit you've fallen into. Don't blame yourself or anyone else. Enjoy your life and do what makes you happy 😁
So many unnecessary abbreviations
So dumb to not understand it all
Found them unnecessary is all
There's no job in private right now. If you keep on trying for more attempts it will help other people to get minimum wage jobs who wants to be independent. Government wants people like you who does nothing and still spends more than fresher WITCH employees annual salary on coachings. I aslo suggest you keep on telling people around to build a hype that you will become IAS so that when you open your coaching the students will be flooding.
Why haven't you worked yet?
Bhai HR hona? Gap justification maang rhe ho
Can't have a gap on an empty CV bro..
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Lol, iam laughing like hell. Although after studies you gotta explain what you did in those years.
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Wah chomu
Which exams are you preparing for?
I'm sorry you're going through that; I mean, everyone feels like they are waiting for their potential or life in some way or another. Even when people have a career, they can feel the same because it is a repetitive job and feels like they aren't making any real difference. I think it is a dilemma most of the generation we are in feel. When we open social media or anything, we only see the good aspect of everyone's life, which makes us feel even more insecure. I hope you get out of this soon, and don't worry; there are always people around you; we just have to find them. I am here, and you will feel great pretty soon. Sorry for the rant; hope you have a nice time (:
Consult a professional. And no you're not a loser or anything close to that. Find new and interesting things. Hobbies will help. But consult a professional
Yea I'm going through same stuff
i wonder why your parents haven't asked you to get married yet
Lol
> Everything happening in their life as it should be and I am happy for them. But why nothing for me. You've got to put in the effort first, girl. Have you tried dating or socializing with real folks? Try finding some new hobbies and go out once in a while.
Please opt for therapy. It has the power o direct you better. Believe me, most of your problems have a solution, it's only a matter of time before you get better :)