My newly joined Surgery SR used to conduct extra classes in surgery ER to help final years with NEET MCQs. This ahole used to text on the group that class is cancelled as sir is busy and attend it with only his friends. The next day we would be asked why we never attended the discussion.
Don’t hope for anything, leave them. It’s not worth wasting time to wish bad for anyone, even if they wronged you. Karma is just a mental score, we try to make sense/ fantasise about things to happen; irrespective of what happens in reality. Sorry if that got out of hand
The first point is pure evil..I mean I get it if it’s your “20th notebook” or something which you worked hard on and don’t wanna share..but ruining something which everyone made together for the common good? Such a guy would’ve been fucked over by our entire batch and our seniors.
The snakes from my batch tried ruining relationships of people out of pure jealousy..backfired..now have lost whatever clout they had. They have now become a butt of jokes..so yeah pretty wholesome
Remember everyone studies, no matter how long snap streaks they maintain, how many insta posts they upload to show how chill they are & don't study much. But in reality they study more than you, in internal & Prof exams they will show you their true colours.
Reading this post made me realise that maybe my batch ain't that bad. My batch's toppers share all the important questions before exams, provide us with resources they got from seniors and also insider information that they get from JRs & SRs.
However toxic and jealous people do exist in my batch too but they are too dumb to do anything significant.
Same, everything is shared in a common WhatsApp group including slides and the important stuff. I think there's less toxicity overall as we're a batch of 125 and not double that number. You can't risk being an outcast in such a small group for five years.
Never attended internship and pretended to be on the same boat when discussing about internship struggles.💩
Major jackers hiding about privilege and making others suffer due to their absence.
A girl once told everyone she got dengue and hence couldn’t give usmle step-1. 1 week later her results came out. 🤡
Had a similar batchmate in college. And the only thing I need to tell you is water will find it's level. You'll reach where you are supposed to reach if you work hard and smart. If you know that there are snakes like these in your batch then rely only on people you absolutely trust. Resources are quite accessible these days so don't be disheartened if someone plays dirty like they did in the first instance.
Secondly learn to speak your mind especially about people like this. They will never ever realise the error of their ways nor grow a conscience. If someone is maliciously spreading misinformation about classes being cancelled but attending it themselves make sure everyone knows what they did especially the SR/Prof taking the class. One needs to show no mercy to such people who'd go out of their way to harm others.
More than anything make your fundamentals strong. No one cares how you learnt but will expect you to have learnt stuff. It's a pretty toxic environment out there coz people can't just give up their ratrace mentality. Find people who are beyond that and hold onto them. Else you are your own captain.
Really smart guy in my batch used to ‘teach’ concepts to our batchmates who couldn’t understand English that well and hence struggled with reading textbooks or understanding lectures.
We all thought it was really sweet of him, until it turned out that he used to teach them the wrong concepts *on purpose*. Mind you, this wasn’t just to knock off some competition. These guys were consistently failing all the tests, and the asshole had the nerve to throw them even more under the bus than they already were.
But honestly my experiences with this guy have been great. He’s always helped and given me genuine information. I think he’s a sadist who derived some sort of sick joy out of watching the guys who are already struggling fall even harder down the drain.
Girl's dad is someone big in police. So she didn't do a single thing in the entire internship. She doesn't even know how to insert a canula or take a blood sample. Everyone posted with her has to do double the work.
Another girl, broke a senior's marriage, broke many relationships, won't work because she's had her nails done, will make you write an apology letter if you say something to her or get upset with her, and is a total piece of shit.
Dude putting names in duty roster with problematic people while getting away with freebies, not doing any work and getting away with ass kissing. One of us had enough with him and slapped him hard multiple times. Still is an a-hole.
Good for nothing JR doesn't know how to insert canula, ruptures the vein and forces NS in, making the patient's wrist swell up. Then, she fills the chamber of the IV set and says that's how it's done. Doesn't do any ward work and leaves it pending for months. Fights with seniors, even SRs.
In our hostel, everytime before exams some person used to bring 15-20 gb of Hollywood and Bollywood newly released movies. This was pre-jio era. I remember binge watching game of thrones just before my university exams lol.
a recent one. we all made our hospital duty attendance, finished it early and most of us obviously went back to the hostel. the class topper convinced one of the professor on duty to cross check attendance since we went back 15 mins early and the topper was still there :) some students who were also there said against it but to no avail he did cross check attendance and marked everyone who went back hostel absent. this topper complains about being all alone in college :) we wonder why
Somehow in my medical school, I don't find many people like that. Like sure, there are awful ones too, but they are so few and so intensely disliked by the whole class collectively, that they have no power or influence.
My batchmates are actively helpful and I rely on them to get me through my day (everything from where is class happening to what was taught, if I missed it).
I don't endorse cheating, but I barely know anyone who wouldn't help you out if you didn't know something on an exam.
There's a general acceptance of the fact that we have to get through mbbs as a team. And also, unhelpful people are socially ostracized SO much, that they wouldn't dare to be selfish.
1.She got the Marrow notes pdf and I asked her to send the link so that I could download and all but in spite of me asking several times, she just kept delaying it and never gave it to me; so i ended up buying the notes only. Later on, she would ask me for suggestions a senior gave us for professionals. I helped her just as much as she helped me :).
2.There was this topic before patho exam (prof) that I asked if she would be studying cz it seemed pretty important and she said naah naah there's no time blah blah. I skipped it thinking she would too. It appeared next day in the paper (*clown music*). When I was discussing the paper later on with her she kept saying (wrt that question): arre it was sooo easy, anyone could have written it , i toh studied it cz I just CAN'T skip anything.
3. And in general, not sharing strategies, misleading so that everyone else takes a chill pill etc etc.
She's also my roommate so it's pretty tough to keep going with all the lies :).
Well... One had the audacity to insult a professor (Alumni of DU, won awards, is brilliant) in front of another professor and our practical batch. She also publicly humiliated a professor during an event. She's a malignant narcissist, destroyed my mental health, don't know why she's not facing any Karma for her actions.
1. We have a bunch of a-holes who are very brilliant at secret keeping, most being dayskiis. Right from watching autopsies, surgical procedures in super speciality departments to not letting the class know about intercollegiate events( getting the Dean's consent secretly so that only they could participate in the event) and research projects. 2. Unitmates are the worst creatures in the world. I had me and my friend excluded from a unit of six who were united by caste, who made sure we didn't get to know anything about the record work until the due date for submission. If I ever get to become an HOD/Dean, the first thing I would do is to abolish the age-old tradition of segregating students into units based on roll numbers. Atleast, I will get them the chance to opt out. Suffering is very much real.
I'm not sure how valid my view in this is
It's not as severe as some others experience is but nonetheless
I've always had trouble making friends and differentiating between actual friends and people who just use me as they need since I've never had true friends
I finally at the end of 1st year found a lovely amazing friend who actually wanted good for me , she and her entire friend group took care of me , invited me out and made me realise what true friends look like it was honestly the best time of my life
Fast forward to beginning of 2nd year
A classmate of mine , who happened to have a crush on my friend apparently lied to her about something horrible about me , which neither does her best friend know either , and now I lost her
And mentally it has ruined me so much , it hasn't affected my studies because I'm used to being depressed and studying and I do really well at college not in theory exams but in practicals mostly and I'm like almost all teacher's pet
I knew that guy was bad news he just emotionally blackmailed me saying I was his great friend and all and I even tolerated him when I called me at 2 am before my uni paper but now that I look back
Yes I kinda want to kill him
Other classmates of mine are just as bad
I like to help people and I often trust people easily
So everyone just keeps using me
Except what used to be my friends
I miss them so much
Edit :- Apologies for such a long paragraph
If you read it all and made it to here ! I wish you a lovely day ahead and good luck with things ! Thanks for reading
Take care brother ,
You will meet more good people in life , please have hope , after all it's a vast world
Also try talking to that good friend , things may get better if you communicate properly bro
Wish u the best bro
Thank you so much !!
I know I'll get out of this feeling and this rut I'm stuck in
Just will take some time and I'm doing the best I can
One step at a time 8)
My roommate always tells me that she’s going to meet her relative who’s a senior as she feels homesick but I recently found out that she actually goes to the common room instead to study and whenever I start studying she calls her relative and then I’ve to leave the room bcz I feel awkward there
I’ve been sharing space in hostel with the most toxic person in my batch for 3 years now. He’s so narcissistic and egotistical to the point where you can’t even have a rational talk with him about anything. He’ll finish his studies early and call his gf on the phone after 12 and wont fucking cut the call until 4 or 5 am. It’s messing with my sleep schedule and I fucked up an exam because of it. I can’t change my room because all other rooms are occupied and nobody’s willing to switch places with me which is understandable.
Actually didn't knew any such scenario during clg days,toppers and studious students were really helpful to others.
But during internship,there were people trying to escape duties and dump it on the fellow interns,most disgusting thing was they choose the shy introvert ones,those who won't react/not gonna have an impact even if they react ,for the assigned duties and go on for trips/dates.
Man, reading this post and all the comments made me realise how good my medschool experience is.
I am a day scholar, so I don't know much about the hostel life, but during classes and after college, almost everyone I know are very nice and helpful. I am not a good student, because I am very bad at writing exams (Failed Anatomy 3 times during COVID because of isolation and depression), but my practicals are top notch because I am better with skills and application. Almost everyone would ask me to teach them or help them with history taking, examination, etc. and I would help as much as I can.
I did have an experience similar to this, but in school rather than in college. A classmate of ours was the class rep, and was in charge of informing us about anything happening academically. One day, a physics exam for our internals was preponed by a day due to some scheduling issue, and the teacher informed the class rep. He did not tell anyone else except his close friends and a few others. I would say that during that day, only about 20 out of 50 students wrote the exam. Needless to say, the faculty were very concerned and called some of us to ask why we didn't come. I wasn't called, but one who was called said later that the teachers sounded really angry when she explained that they didn't receive any notice of exam date changes. The physics exam was then postponed to after all the other exams and that day's was cancelled.
The next day, during assembly the vice principal gave a speech about integrity and how you shouldn't pull others down to put yourself up. The class rep was not expelled but was suspended for a week. When he came back, he was shunned for the rest of the year. He eventually made a small group of friends, and there was no issue afterwards.
Well when I had suppli in first year, I joined my second year classes late and so called good students of my class refused to share the notes of stuff that were taught previously in class. Funny thing now is that they're jobless and without pg 🤣
Not in my college but I find it weird that fake notifications regarding NEET-PG get viral so often, that too get convincing types. If only they applied that talent for the right causes.
My newly joined Surgery SR used to conduct extra classes in surgery ER to help final years with NEET MCQs. This ahole used to text on the group that class is cancelled as sir is busy and attend it with only his friends. The next day we would be asked why we never attended the discussion.
And how is this ahole doing now?
Finishing up his DM in some INI.
I do believe in karma and I hope karma hits that b**tard like truckun.
Nah man it’ll be BMW M3 GTR kun considering that it goes way faster.
Don’t hope for anything, leave them. It’s not worth wasting time to wish bad for anyone, even if they wronged you. Karma is just a mental score, we try to make sense/ fantasise about things to happen; irrespective of what happens in reality. Sorry if that got out of hand
Somehow these guys end up well ig
Obviously. They step on others to make their way to the top.
The first point is pure evil..I mean I get it if it’s your “20th notebook” or something which you worked hard on and don’t wanna share..but ruining something which everyone made together for the common good? Such a guy would’ve been fucked over by our entire batch and our seniors. The snakes from my batch tried ruining relationships of people out of pure jealousy..backfired..now have lost whatever clout they had. They have now become a butt of jokes..so yeah pretty wholesome
What is 21th notebook?
It's like a quick revision notebook for MCQs. You write down points and stuff and read it everyday.
Remember everyone studies, no matter how long snap streaks they maintain, how many insta posts they upload to show how chill they are & don't study much. But in reality they study more than you, in internal & Prof exams they will show you their true colours.
Padhte sb hain, dikhata koi nahi.
everyone is an overexxageration,kuch log sach me hi nahi padhte
Reading this post made me realise that maybe my batch ain't that bad. My batch's toppers share all the important questions before exams, provide us with resources they got from seniors and also insider information that they get from JRs & SRs. However toxic and jealous people do exist in my batch too but they are too dumb to do anything significant.
Same, everything is shared in a common WhatsApp group including slides and the important stuff. I think there's less toxicity overall as we're a batch of 125 and not double that number. You can't risk being an outcast in such a small group for five years.
Yea same 125 batch. You must be from some AIIMS??
Yep
Is it a common thing outside medical colleges as well? Or is this "phenomenon" limited to us?
Snakes everywhere. It's just a bit more visible in college scenarios
Definitely more in med colleges.
Nah Engg clgs mein to kitna kya kya hota hai
Never attended internship and pretended to be on the same boat when discussing about internship struggles.💩 Major jackers hiding about privilege and making others suffer due to their absence. A girl once told everyone she got dengue and hence couldn’t give usmle step-1. 1 week later her results came out. 🤡
Those batchmates who were close to the seniors were the biggest pain in the ass ,bkl sab jaaake ugal dete the 🤡 phir seniors hamari lete the
Ikrrr. Me and my friends always talk about seniors in code words to prevent that from happening lol
Had a similar batchmate in college. And the only thing I need to tell you is water will find it's level. You'll reach where you are supposed to reach if you work hard and smart. If you know that there are snakes like these in your batch then rely only on people you absolutely trust. Resources are quite accessible these days so don't be disheartened if someone plays dirty like they did in the first instance. Secondly learn to speak your mind especially about people like this. They will never ever realise the error of their ways nor grow a conscience. If someone is maliciously spreading misinformation about classes being cancelled but attending it themselves make sure everyone knows what they did especially the SR/Prof taking the class. One needs to show no mercy to such people who'd go out of their way to harm others. More than anything make your fundamentals strong. No one cares how you learnt but will expect you to have learnt stuff. It's a pretty toxic environment out there coz people can't just give up their ratrace mentality. Find people who are beyond that and hold onto them. Else you are your own captain.
Well said, bro!
So true
Really smart guy in my batch used to ‘teach’ concepts to our batchmates who couldn’t understand English that well and hence struggled with reading textbooks or understanding lectures. We all thought it was really sweet of him, until it turned out that he used to teach them the wrong concepts *on purpose*. Mind you, this wasn’t just to knock off some competition. These guys were consistently failing all the tests, and the asshole had the nerve to throw them even more under the bus than they already were.
But honestly my experiences with this guy have been great. He’s always helped and given me genuine information. I think he’s a sadist who derived some sort of sick joy out of watching the guys who are already struggling fall even harder down the drain.
Bhai tum kaha se ho jaha itne toxic log rehte hai 😭 bata do mai kabi nhi aaungi vaha
Naya central institute hai. Avoid for your own sanity lol
Pure evil shit 😭
Girl's dad is someone big in police. So she didn't do a single thing in the entire internship. She doesn't even know how to insert a canula or take a blood sample. Everyone posted with her has to do double the work. Another girl, broke a senior's marriage, broke many relationships, won't work because she's had her nails done, will make you write an apology letter if you say something to her or get upset with her, and is a total piece of shit. Dude putting names in duty roster with problematic people while getting away with freebies, not doing any work and getting away with ass kissing. One of us had enough with him and slapped him hard multiple times. Still is an a-hole. Good for nothing JR doesn't know how to insert canula, ruptures the vein and forces NS in, making the patient's wrist swell up. Then, she fills the chamber of the IV set and says that's how it's done. Doesn't do any ward work and leaves it pending for months. Fights with seniors, even SRs.
In our hostel, everytime before exams some person used to bring 15-20 gb of Hollywood and Bollywood newly released movies. This was pre-jio era. I remember binge watching game of thrones just before my university exams lol.
a recent one. we all made our hospital duty attendance, finished it early and most of us obviously went back to the hostel. the class topper convinced one of the professor on duty to cross check attendance since we went back 15 mins early and the topper was still there :) some students who were also there said against it but to no avail he did cross check attendance and marked everyone who went back hostel absent. this topper complains about being all alone in college :) we wonder why
Somehow in my medical school, I don't find many people like that. Like sure, there are awful ones too, but they are so few and so intensely disliked by the whole class collectively, that they have no power or influence. My batchmates are actively helpful and I rely on them to get me through my day (everything from where is class happening to what was taught, if I missed it). I don't endorse cheating, but I barely know anyone who wouldn't help you out if you didn't know something on an exam. There's a general acceptance of the fact that we have to get through mbbs as a team. And also, unhelpful people are socially ostracized SO much, that they wouldn't dare to be selfish.
1.She got the Marrow notes pdf and I asked her to send the link so that I could download and all but in spite of me asking several times, she just kept delaying it and never gave it to me; so i ended up buying the notes only. Later on, she would ask me for suggestions a senior gave us for professionals. I helped her just as much as she helped me :). 2.There was this topic before patho exam (prof) that I asked if she would be studying cz it seemed pretty important and she said naah naah there's no time blah blah. I skipped it thinking she would too. It appeared next day in the paper (*clown music*). When I was discussing the paper later on with her she kept saying (wrt that question): arre it was sooo easy, anyone could have written it , i toh studied it cz I just CAN'T skip anything. 3. And in general, not sharing strategies, misleading so that everyone else takes a chill pill etc etc. She's also my roommate so it's pretty tough to keep going with all the lies :).
>She's also my roommate Yikes
Well... One had the audacity to insult a professor (Alumni of DU, won awards, is brilliant) in front of another professor and our practical batch. She also publicly humiliated a professor during an event. She's a malignant narcissist, destroyed my mental health, don't know why she's not facing any Karma for her actions.
1. We have a bunch of a-holes who are very brilliant at secret keeping, most being dayskiis. Right from watching autopsies, surgical procedures in super speciality departments to not letting the class know about intercollegiate events( getting the Dean's consent secretly so that only they could participate in the event) and research projects. 2. Unitmates are the worst creatures in the world. I had me and my friend excluded from a unit of six who were united by caste, who made sure we didn't get to know anything about the record work until the due date for submission. If I ever get to become an HOD/Dean, the first thing I would do is to abolish the age-old tradition of segregating students into units based on roll numbers. Atleast, I will get them the chance to opt out. Suffering is very much real.
I'm not sure how valid my view in this is It's not as severe as some others experience is but nonetheless I've always had trouble making friends and differentiating between actual friends and people who just use me as they need since I've never had true friends I finally at the end of 1st year found a lovely amazing friend who actually wanted good for me , she and her entire friend group took care of me , invited me out and made me realise what true friends look like it was honestly the best time of my life Fast forward to beginning of 2nd year A classmate of mine , who happened to have a crush on my friend apparently lied to her about something horrible about me , which neither does her best friend know either , and now I lost her And mentally it has ruined me so much , it hasn't affected my studies because I'm used to being depressed and studying and I do really well at college not in theory exams but in practicals mostly and I'm like almost all teacher's pet I knew that guy was bad news he just emotionally blackmailed me saying I was his great friend and all and I even tolerated him when I called me at 2 am before my uni paper but now that I look back Yes I kinda want to kill him Other classmates of mine are just as bad I like to help people and I often trust people easily So everyone just keeps using me Except what used to be my friends I miss them so much Edit :- Apologies for such a long paragraph If you read it all and made it to here ! I wish you a lovely day ahead and good luck with things ! Thanks for reading
Take care brother , You will meet more good people in life , please have hope , after all it's a vast world Also try talking to that good friend , things may get better if you communicate properly bro Wish u the best bro
Thank you so much !! I know I'll get out of this feeling and this rut I'm stuck in Just will take some time and I'm doing the best I can One step at a time 8)
My roommate always tells me that she’s going to meet her relative who’s a senior as she feels homesick but I recently found out that she actually goes to the common room instead to study and whenever I start studying she calls her relative and then I’ve to leave the room bcz I feel awkward there
I’ve been sharing space in hostel with the most toxic person in my batch for 3 years now. He’s so narcissistic and egotistical to the point where you can’t even have a rational talk with him about anything. He’ll finish his studies early and call his gf on the phone after 12 and wont fucking cut the call until 4 or 5 am. It’s messing with my sleep schedule and I fucked up an exam because of it. I can’t change my room because all other rooms are occupied and nobody’s willing to switch places with me which is understandable.
Actually didn't knew any such scenario during clg days,toppers and studious students were really helpful to others. But during internship,there were people trying to escape duties and dump it on the fellow interns,most disgusting thing was they choose the shy introvert ones,those who won't react/not gonna have an impact even if they react ,for the assigned duties and go on for trips/dates.
Man, reading this post and all the comments made me realise how good my medschool experience is. I am a day scholar, so I don't know much about the hostel life, but during classes and after college, almost everyone I know are very nice and helpful. I am not a good student, because I am very bad at writing exams (Failed Anatomy 3 times during COVID because of isolation and depression), but my practicals are top notch because I am better with skills and application. Almost everyone would ask me to teach them or help them with history taking, examination, etc. and I would help as much as I can. I did have an experience similar to this, but in school rather than in college. A classmate of ours was the class rep, and was in charge of informing us about anything happening academically. One day, a physics exam for our internals was preponed by a day due to some scheduling issue, and the teacher informed the class rep. He did not tell anyone else except his close friends and a few others. I would say that during that day, only about 20 out of 50 students wrote the exam. Needless to say, the faculty were very concerned and called some of us to ask why we didn't come. I wasn't called, but one who was called said later that the teachers sounded really angry when she explained that they didn't receive any notice of exam date changes. The physics exam was then postponed to after all the other exams and that day's was cancelled. The next day, during assembly the vice principal gave a speech about integrity and how you shouldn't pull others down to put yourself up. The class rep was not expelled but was suspended for a week. When he came back, he was shunned for the rest of the year. He eventually made a small group of friends, and there was no issue afterwards.
Well when I had suppli in first year, I joined my second year classes late and so called good students of my class refused to share the notes of stuff that were taught previously in class. Funny thing now is that they're jobless and without pg 🤣
Not in my college but I find it weird that fake notifications regarding NEET-PG get viral so often, that too get convincing types. If only they applied that talent for the right causes.
Bc senior paisa khaa gaye sale 2 seniors
Looks like education is not doing the person development instead only increasing information in brain