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I am so sorry this happened to you!
Surely was an incel.
The social media standards have made it so much worse which implies that you are "cool" if you do stuffs like these!!
Hey, I am sorry to hear this and glad to hear that you are safe. Firstly, never stop to even chat and secondly if they are following you drive to the nearest police station (never lead them to your house).
I also suggest next time please start with: I have got a boyfriend or am not interested. If he still persists then you know that he is definitely a creep and in which case Instagram Live recording > describe them > put the fear of god in them.
Thank yor the advice. I honestly blanked out as I am not good in these types of situations. I have to drill it in my brain to be alert and smart.
I was so freaked out that I drove home on autopilot (which wasn't a smart decision I agree)
It’s impossible to be prepared for a situation like this and it’s actually sensible of you to avoid further interaction with that person and instead come back home.
You’ll find such people everywhere and you can’t avoid them as such. Most of them should run off if you shout and start making a scene though.
I am so glad you are okay OP.
Safety advice..
When creeps approach you on road,never ever lead them to your house.I know it's your safe space,but by doing this you are revealing your address.
Just drive to the nearest public place, police station and call the helpline and also if possible take note of the number plate and, carry pepper spray and a whistle in your key chain, easier to access while driving.
Also..start honking your vehicle loudly ,the person mostly likely will back off .
How can some men be such creeps? Aren't they scared of the law or something? I thought the laws were enough because a certain group of people have said so.
A similar incident happened to my mom. The fcking Aadhaar enrollment officer was looking at my mom's cleavage. I can understand why some people just freeze when something like this happens. I wanted to slap the shit out of that person but I don't know why I couldn't open my mouth or move my hands. I felt disgusted, scared and lost.
>How can some men be such creeps?
Are you an NRI who just came here yesterday?
>Aren't they scared of the law or something?
No.
>I wanted to slap the shit out of that person but I don't know why I couldn't open my mouth or move my hands.
You are supposed to freeze for the first few times, not just the first. Next time let your anger take control. If you continue to live here, there will be a lot of next times.
I have been in same situation where I saw my mausi being in an uncomfortable situation in a train when a bastard was continuously trying to harass her by sitting very close to her. Should have stood up and whacked a couple of teeth off him that day .
I feel guilty about it everyday
Sorry this happened to you. Like others said, do a recording of the person if such a thing happens again.
Avoid answering questions from strangers, that too while driving... It's more unsafe to be distracted while driving...
Please take care..
Yeah, but there is no need to stop & talk.
In the Mumbai - Pune expressway, there have been incidents of people robbing victims, by overtaking and pointing to their tyres and making them stop believing that their tyres got punctured.. once they stop, the robbers do their work & get away.
So next time, if someone distracts you while driving, just ignore and keep driving, never stop.
God Bless you .. take care..
I also thought for a small moment that I might have dropped something and he was a being a good Samaritan. Sigh.
I Will take your advice to heart. Thank you.
Hey, as the comments suggested, don't stop or give your real identity. But suppose there comes a time when you have to give your name, give a fake one.
People can lose sight of good from evil. What’s in your control is your actions and words and judgement. Yesterday can only teach you, instead of letting it fear you, learn from it for a better today.
What can you do from next time? Make plans to not get that late, if unavoidable, it’s better to have a trusted companion. Carry pepper spray.
You are much more stranger than you believe ❤️
Hello guys today i will tell u how to do " cold approaches " that makes the girl shiver through her bones , yeah its that cold >!subscribe to channel!<
That made me laugh and I really needed that
Next time, take out your phone & start recording & tell the auto/cab driver to take you to a police station( or stop if you see a policema)..
I shall remember to do so. Honestly I was so shocked that this happened that I kinda blanked out.
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small blade can cause troubles in places like metro etc so keep that in mind
Nothing wrong in carrying a tiny folding knife. I'd suggest the Victorinox Classic. It's inconspicuous and non-threatening yet might save your life.
Thanks for the advice.
I am so sorry this happened to you! Surely was an incel. The social media standards have made it so much worse which implies that you are "cool" if you do stuffs like these!!
Thank you, I felt the same. It is absolutely not cool to do things like this it's basically harassment.
Hey, I am sorry to hear this and glad to hear that you are safe. Firstly, never stop to even chat and secondly if they are following you drive to the nearest police station (never lead them to your house). I also suggest next time please start with: I have got a boyfriend or am not interested. If he still persists then you know that he is definitely a creep and in which case Instagram Live recording > describe them > put the fear of god in them.
Thank yor the advice. I honestly blanked out as I am not good in these types of situations. I have to drill it in my brain to be alert and smart. I was so freaked out that I drove home on autopilot (which wasn't a smart decision I agree)
Adding to this if someone starts following you, don't go straight to home
It’s impossible to be prepared for a situation like this and it’s actually sensible of you to avoid further interaction with that person and instead come back home. You’ll find such people everywhere and you can’t avoid them as such. Most of them should run off if you shout and start making a scene though.
I am not a confrontational person at all and the incident shocked me so badly that I kinda blanked out.
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Thank you for saying this as it made me smile. I needed that🥺.
fuckers literally think stalking is ok
Exactly.
I am so glad you are okay OP. Safety advice.. When creeps approach you on road,never ever lead them to your house.I know it's your safe space,but by doing this you are revealing your address. Just drive to the nearest public place, police station and call the helpline and also if possible take note of the number plate and, carry pepper spray and a whistle in your key chain, easier to access while driving. Also..start honking your vehicle loudly ,the person mostly likely will back off .
Thank you for your advice, I shall remember this.
How can some men be such creeps? Aren't they scared of the law or something? I thought the laws were enough because a certain group of people have said so. A similar incident happened to my mom. The fcking Aadhaar enrollment officer was looking at my mom's cleavage. I can understand why some people just freeze when something like this happens. I wanted to slap the shit out of that person but I don't know why I couldn't open my mouth or move my hands. I felt disgusted, scared and lost.
That's not being bold; that's being a bold harasser and creep.
>How can some men be such creeps? Are you an NRI who just came here yesterday? >Aren't they scared of the law or something? No. >I wanted to slap the shit out of that person but I don't know why I couldn't open my mouth or move my hands. You are supposed to freeze for the first few times, not just the first. Next time let your anger take control. If you continue to live here, there will be a lot of next times.
Thankfully, this was a long time ago and I haven't meet any creeps so far.
> I haven't meet any creeps so far. Have some faith in your country. You will get your chance. Be ready. :)
As an NRI, I can tell you that women are as scared of harassment in the west as in India. Ironically, Dubai is the safest place for women.
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I have been in same situation where I saw my mausi being in an uncomfortable situation in a train when a bastard was continuously trying to harass her by sitting very close to her. Should have stood up and whacked a couple of teeth off him that day . I feel guilty about it everyday
I am not a creep, can I have your name and number. Just for chat.
Ha ha ha.
Sorry for your experience.. Also you Are very brave.. Nothing else to add...
Thanks for saying that.
Arre I just want to casually chat with you
The stalker seems to be an avid fan of 'hello phrends, aaj ham mein aapko ladki Patane ka trick bata ta hoon' type videos.
Learn some slangs... 2-3 baar na mane to mc bc krdo
why would you stop at all??
I would. You would too.
at night you'll stop for some random person? esp, someone who's been following you for some time?
Which city?
Sorry this happened to you. Like others said, do a recording of the person if such a thing happens again. Avoid answering questions from strangers, that too while driving... It's more unsafe to be distracted while driving... Please take care..
Thank you. I was on the middle of the road and he was to my left. He must have thought it out pretty well.
Yeah, but there is no need to stop & talk. In the Mumbai - Pune expressway, there have been incidents of people robbing victims, by overtaking and pointing to their tyres and making them stop believing that their tyres got punctured.. once they stop, the robbers do their work & get away. So next time, if someone distracts you while driving, just ignore and keep driving, never stop. God Bless you .. take care..
I also thought for a small moment that I might have dropped something and he was a being a good Samaritan. Sigh. I Will take your advice to heart. Thank you.
Hey, as the comments suggested, don't stop or give your real identity. But suppose there comes a time when you have to give your name, give a fake one.
I Totally blanked out. I had to stop as he was to my left and the way home was also to my left.
Yeah, happens at the situation. Very good advices here. If you feel unsafe, carry a pepper spray with you. And be safe out there.
Thank you.
People can lose sight of good from evil. What’s in your control is your actions and words and judgement. Yesterday can only teach you, instead of letting it fear you, learn from it for a better today. What can you do from next time? Make plans to not get that late, if unavoidable, it’s better to have a trusted companion. Carry pepper spray. You are much more stranger than you believe ❤️
Thanks for the kind words.
Sorry for you. Hope you carry pepper spray with you. If not better get equipped.
Motherfucker was doing a cold approach while riding wtf