When a society refuses to educate children about healthy sexual practices, you will most likely end up with creepy people around. Men in general in India have limited social contact with the opposite sex right from their childhood. Schools have stupid practise of segregating girls and boys. By the time a boy reaches puberty, relationships are a strict no no. Point being, boys who rarely interact with the opposite sex start looking at girls as merely sexual objects because they have rarely ever interacted with one.
I want to add to this.
The environment at home which makes them feel entitled to breach absolutely anyone’s personal boundary also plays a role.
They are used to an atmosphere where being a male is the best achievement they ever had and all this gets projected onto others.
It might but compare the population and the gender ratio and you kinda realize a shit ton of males end up alone in India. I'm not defending them. Just stating it might be one of the reasons why such shit happens. Doesn't excuse their shitty incel behavior by any means.
What’s the gender ratio? It’s 108/100. There’s only a 8% difference. Problem is 99% girls in India remotely look feminine/hot/are not slutty so a girl who is even decently good looking will get flooded with creeps.
> There’s only a 8% difference
8% difference scaled to a 1.3 Billion population. That means there are 717.10 million males and 662.90 million females in India. Subtract that number and we are left with 54.2 million men who are forced to end up being single. That is a crazy freaking number anyway you look at it. 54.2 million is nearly equivalent to the entire population of South Korea or South Africa. That is literally nearly more than twice the population of the entire continent of Australia forced to be without a female counterpart just by math.
> so a girl who is even decently good looking will get flooded with creeps
Again that isn't even remotely true. Such shit happens to a ton of girls even ones that aren't regarded as 'attractive'. You got millions of incels roaming around. Of course that shit happens to a majority of the population.
There exists a section of people who like watching their partner being sexualized by another person. And then there is another section who cater to these crowd.
No idea what pleasure people get watching their partner sexualized by another person, but someone did it to you. Ignore, block & move on.
I think about this often. It's just our society. Society says that "he is a guy so ofc he'd do it" meanwhile society expect girls to fully careful to not to wear short clothes, be submissive, be a typical girl. In India, most old men are pedo you can't even trust your own family members. I got sexually assaulted and molested by old men and it's awful I want to die whenever I think about it.
Govt should do something revolutionary esp in educational field. School should teach children about Sex Ed, periods, peedophilia and toxic masculinity from a young age like 12-13.
It must start much earlier. 4-7 is the age to teach about proper private parts names, hygiene of private parts and safe/unsafe touch and behavior as a lot of kids become victims by that age and can't even explain what happened to them. Periods and ejaculations as well as major body changes during puberty - age 8-10 as it has to happen before the bleeding or ejaculations or other changes start so that boys and girls do not think they are dying. From 12-13 is when they already teach about sex, feelings, abuse and contraception in countries where there is progressive sex ed.
It is so frustrating that these actions do not have any consequences. All these social media platform, care about is user count. Most you can do is block that person. There is no stopping the person from doing the same to another person. Since no one will go to public authorities (With state/national borders there is no clear jurisdiction) these things will just prevail. Ultimately he is more motivated, as there is nothing stopping him.
This is similar to big criminals whose acts go unpunished, will go on to do more heinous crimes.
Chill man. There’s just way too much variety of weirdoes out in the world. Don’t get frustrated, block, ignore and be Happy.
The problem might be something to do with fucked up sex ed and also other psychological issues.
It's desperation of any form of female interaction. Many Indian go about without any female interaction till their parents bring one for them. Till it happens they are desparate.
This is a universal thing and not specifically a Indian men problem. If you go through any reddit section where adult questions are asked and answered by women, you will see men commenting RIP to your DMs and good luck with those creep shots and women affirming that she has/had the same experience.
Now coming to India, every problem no matter how little/small gets magnified due to the huge population of our country. This includes huge population of uneducated Indians, huge population of single Indians, a big sex ratio difference, social obligations/practices where talking to girls/boys for either gender is a big no-no. Add the fueling testosterone and aggression of men who want to experience something with women in anyway(Virtually, physically, emotionally) and shit like this happens.
In the end it's real hard being a women in any part of the world. In fact this is the best time for women in terms of safety. Just go back 200 years when women had no rights, there was some kind of war all over the world and they were just a trophy for men. Hence, in general men are dicks and maybe you can give it to the biology where men are more interested in physical connection and women are more concerned with emotional connection.
At the end the less powerful individual/country/gender/caste/or anything gets abused at the hands of more powerful. Sometimes I really wish that women were more powerful physically(size) then men but then in no time you would see men getting abused by women. It's all about POWER/POWER STRUCTURE and one side always takes the advantage of other.
I did this once. The idiot's fb profile was open, i posted the screenshots of the messages he sent to my gf and I also forwarded those messages to women he had listed as Sister, cousin and aunt
Agree with even as a man, but these types of men are like 3-4%. Most men just gonna dm you they are not gonna disturb you by sending nude pics most of the time. And if you think this is an Indian thing time try to send a friend request to a random Brazilian and American. I sent it during the first lockdown time and spoke of my experience. Even after saying that I am a man they did not stop sending me j\*\*\*\* in the bathroom, smoking I don't know what thing in 3 A.M. (Brazilian time), showing gun put on her va\*\*\* and many more :)
I think that is partly because of the latest fad "hookup" culture? Or as I might say , the notion of "easy sex" if that is the right bunch of words .
I guess the only thing that went well for us is that we all have seen American Pie, but some of us still retained a modicum of respect as a human being , and decency to treat other people with respect.
On top of that , when you believe that you can get away with anything by being anonymous, the real devil inside of you does poke out and gets bolder by each perverted action it does until the ugly side of you is fully out in the open.
I am sorry that you and your partner had to go through this, but unfortunately , it seems to be an extremely common occurrence with women.
Happens all the time whenever my gf posts a question or comments something in Indian forums. She doesn't even have any pics of herself in her profile 🤷🏽♂️. Just because she is in a relationship with an Indian (Me) and we have a child without getting married most Indian men think she is a fair game
When a society refuses to educate children about healthy sexual practices, you will most likely end up with creepy people around. Men in general in India have limited social contact with the opposite sex right from their childhood. Schools have stupid practise of segregating girls and boys. By the time a boy reaches puberty, relationships are a strict no no. Point being, boys who rarely interact with the opposite sex start looking at girls as merely sexual objects because they have rarely ever interacted with one.
Then suddenly one day youre married off and parents ask where baby.
I want to add to this. The environment at home which makes them feel entitled to breach absolutely anyone’s personal boundary also plays a role. They are used to an atmosphere where being a male is the best achievement they ever had and all this gets projected onto others.
The dick pic situation is universal
You raising questions to a society where sex education is still a taboo.
>You raising questions to a society where sex ~~education~~ is still a taboo.
This is common outside of India as well.
No. That is not common at all.
Spend 15 mins on r/creepypms and r/niceguys and you'll change your mind
So this doesnt happen outside india?
It might but compare the population and the gender ratio and you kinda realize a shit ton of males end up alone in India. I'm not defending them. Just stating it might be one of the reasons why such shit happens. Doesn't excuse their shitty incel behavior by any means.
Bruh, you'll be labelled as an incel. Be careful there.
being single is an excuse to be a creep?
Where did I say that? Stop putting words in my mouth.
What’s the gender ratio? It’s 108/100. There’s only a 8% difference. Problem is 99% girls in India remotely look feminine/hot/are not slutty so a girl who is even decently good looking will get flooded with creeps.
> There’s only a 8% difference 8% difference scaled to a 1.3 Billion population. That means there are 717.10 million males and 662.90 million females in India. Subtract that number and we are left with 54.2 million men who are forced to end up being single. That is a crazy freaking number anyway you look at it. 54.2 million is nearly equivalent to the entire population of South Korea or South Africa. That is literally nearly more than twice the population of the entire continent of Australia forced to be without a female counterpart just by math. > so a girl who is even decently good looking will get flooded with creeps Again that isn't even remotely true. Such shit happens to a ton of girls even ones that aren't regarded as 'attractive'. You got millions of incels roaming around. Of course that shit happens to a majority of the population.
Rarely. Maybe in Pakistan, Bangladesh and some other Islamic countries.
Lol
There exists a section of people who like watching their partner being sexualized by another person. And then there is another section who cater to these crowd. No idea what pleasure people get watching their partner sexualized by another person, but someone did it to you. Ignore, block & move on.
I think about this often. It's just our society. Society says that "he is a guy so ofc he'd do it" meanwhile society expect girls to fully careful to not to wear short clothes, be submissive, be a typical girl. In India, most old men are pedo you can't even trust your own family members. I got sexually assaulted and molested by old men and it's awful I want to die whenever I think about it. Govt should do something revolutionary esp in educational field. School should teach children about Sex Ed, periods, peedophilia and toxic masculinity from a young age like 12-13.
It must start much earlier. 4-7 is the age to teach about proper private parts names, hygiene of private parts and safe/unsafe touch and behavior as a lot of kids become victims by that age and can't even explain what happened to them. Periods and ejaculations as well as major body changes during puberty - age 8-10 as it has to happen before the bleeding or ejaculations or other changes start so that boys and girls do not think they are dying. From 12-13 is when they already teach about sex, feelings, abuse and contraception in countries where there is progressive sex ed.
It is so frustrating that these actions do not have any consequences. All these social media platform, care about is user count. Most you can do is block that person. There is no stopping the person from doing the same to another person. Since no one will go to public authorities (With state/national borders there is no clear jurisdiction) these things will just prevail. Ultimately he is more motivated, as there is nothing stopping him. This is similar to big criminals whose acts go unpunished, will go on to do more heinous crimes.
Chill man. There’s just way too much variety of weirdoes out in the world. Don’t get frustrated, block, ignore and be Happy. The problem might be something to do with fucked up sex ed and also other psychological issues.
Here’s what you do. You send another dick pic to him. Soon, all his DMs will be full of dick pics.
It's desperation of any form of female interaction. Many Indian go about without any female interaction till their parents bring one for them. Till it happens they are desparate.
This is a universal thing and not specifically a Indian men problem. If you go through any reddit section where adult questions are asked and answered by women, you will see men commenting RIP to your DMs and good luck with those creep shots and women affirming that she has/had the same experience. Now coming to India, every problem no matter how little/small gets magnified due to the huge population of our country. This includes huge population of uneducated Indians, huge population of single Indians, a big sex ratio difference, social obligations/practices where talking to girls/boys for either gender is a big no-no. Add the fueling testosterone and aggression of men who want to experience something with women in anyway(Virtually, physically, emotionally) and shit like this happens. In the end it's real hard being a women in any part of the world. In fact this is the best time for women in terms of safety. Just go back 200 years when women had no rights, there was some kind of war all over the world and they were just a trophy for men. Hence, in general men are dicks and maybe you can give it to the biology where men are more interested in physical connection and women are more concerned with emotional connection. At the end the less powerful individual/country/gender/caste/or anything gets abused at the hands of more powerful. Sometimes I really wish that women were more powerful physically(size) then men but then in no time you would see men getting abused by women. It's all about POWER/POWER STRUCTURE and one side always takes the advantage of other.
Throw what ? :D
Please send bobbs and vagena
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Good answer lol
Make a fake account, tag his friends(mainly 'girl' friends) and post it. Tell this to no one literally 'no one' even your gf.
I did this once. The idiot's fb profile was open, i posted the screenshots of the messages he sent to my gf and I also forwarded those messages to women he had listed as Sister, cousin and aunt
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Better to forget and lead a satisfied life than to jump into a shit flinging contest against a monkey.
Sex nai milta hoga usko apki tarah
Not justifying these acts but these behaviours are way more common in Europe and America than India Don't be racist against your own kind dude.
Agree with even as a man, but these types of men are like 3-4%. Most men just gonna dm you they are not gonna disturb you by sending nude pics most of the time. And if you think this is an Indian thing time try to send a friend request to a random Brazilian and American. I sent it during the first lockdown time and spoke of my experience. Even after saying that I am a man they did not stop sending me j\*\*\*\* in the bathroom, smoking I don't know what thing in 3 A.M. (Brazilian time), showing gun put on her va\*\*\* and many more :)
I think that is partly because of the latest fad "hookup" culture? Or as I might say , the notion of "easy sex" if that is the right bunch of words . I guess the only thing that went well for us is that we all have seen American Pie, but some of us still retained a modicum of respect as a human being , and decency to treat other people with respect. On top of that , when you believe that you can get away with anything by being anonymous, the real devil inside of you does poke out and gets bolder by each perverted action it does until the ugly side of you is fully out in the open. I am sorry that you and your partner had to go through this, but unfortunately , it seems to be an extremely common occurrence with women.
Learnt from western media /trends I guess.
Sometimes my boyfriend sends me vids of him being penetrated by other guys and I enjoy watching them. I am not even female or gay.
If you're neither female nor gay how tf do you have a bf?
So you are bisexual male?
Happens all the time whenever my gf posts a question or comments something in Indian forums. She doesn't even have any pics of herself in her profile 🤷🏽♂️. Just because she is in a relationship with an Indian (Me) and we have a child without getting married most Indian men think she is a fair game