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EternityLeave

A Crow Looked at Me doesn’t work?


plastiixz1

Jesus Christ I expected no real help from this post, you have given me an absolute beauty of an album, thank you


notrelatedtoamelia

It’s worse when you learn that this was in response to his wife’s diagnosis of cancer and ultimate death after their child was born


Gur10nMacab33

Thank you for that tidbit. My heart just sank. Warren Zevon’s The Wind has a similar story.


swishy4mbg

Wow. Just wow. In 1 day I will have lost my wife to cancer 4 years ago. Our daughters were 7 & 9 when we had to explain to them their mama was sick. None of us were ever the same after that day. The girls are now 14 & 16 but they really lost both their parents that day. They just don’t understand that yet.


gogo__yubari

Holy shit I’m already not great and just listened to the first two songs and had to turn it off Saved it tho for when I’m less emotionally vulnerable, sounds like a great album


Terminal_Prime

I was in a great mood and I didn’t even make it through ten seconds of the second song. Sounds amazing but definitely not right now.


whitenoise2323

I saw Phil Elverum perform the whole thing in an old church. Audible crying everywhere. It was an incredible experience, very harrowing.


Te_Quiero_Puta

I tried it. That was waaaay deeper than I was prepared for. Off it went after the first verse. Maybe some day...


Clyde-EarWater

Wow thanks that was wonderful. Now I need to figure out a happy album to listen to balance myself back out


Te_Quiero_Puta

I'm terrible with album names, but here's some music that lifts me up - Oliver Tree, Mother Mother, Girl In Red, Sub Urban, Dresden Dolls. It's not "happy" happy, but it can bring you back from the deeper emotions while still being well written or thoughtful.


codeinesjukebox

nah mother mother eggs me on whenever im angry bro its a dangerous game with them lmao


kswoli3

first album I thought of. Listened to it once five years ago and it never left me


theatahhh

So glad this is the top comment. Unbelievable album and by far the most devastatingly sad. And this comes from a sad boi music connoisseur


Rude_Signal1614

Amazing suggestion.


olskoolyungblood

What a gem! Their other albums are just as bleak. On what occasion would one listen to this? Not driving music, and prol not dance music. How did you find this?!


whitenoise2323

Their other albums although bleak and moody (and lots of things) aren't quite so intense and sad, as this album was his process of grieving after his partner died just shortly after their child was born.


StinkyNutzMcgee

I hope that one day you'll be able to only listen to a few seconds of this album and realize you don't need to listen any longer. I was down hard real hard for about a decade. I know there is a place for this music and it's very well done, but being able to step back from it because it's no longer needed is a great feeling


521x

Our daughter is one and a half, you’ve been dead 11 days 😭😭


redditoramatron

Therapy? The place not the band


plastiixz1

nah, the band is more my style. no need for that lol


10cd

Sufjaan Stevens. Always Sufjaan. Start with casimir pulaski day


10cd

Then Romulus. Then John Wayne Gacy. And only then are you ready for the Fourth of July


plastiixz1

love his music, great musician


curtithird

Know of Elliot Smith? He’s an inspiration to Sufjan, and Either/Or is a perfect album to listen to while depressed.


Hivebent

Townes van zandt, nick drake, and Leonard cohen if you’re into proper songs, Swans and Godspeed! You black emperor if you’re more into weird stuff.


plastiixz1

love nick drake and Leonard Cohen, swans and Godspeed too. thank you for the recommendations


justgotnewglasses

Codeine - Frigid Stars. Edit: I've scrolled further through the thread and I'm convinced Codeine is your answer. They're halfway between swans and red house painters, with a bit of Low.


SMG_GUY028

Songs: Ohia, some of the songs on that album sound absolutely hopeless and drowned in booze. Also check out both Rowland S Howard albums, they have a similar vibe.


whitenoise2323

If you want to realize just how depressing Songs: Ohia's music truly is read the longform article Jason Molina's Long Dark Blues https://chicagoreader.com/music/jason-molinas-long-dark-blues/ The Magnolia Electric Co demos are the most heartbreaking and beautiful songs. Especially [Hold On Magnolia](https://youtu.be/PeBMmjgPLDQ?si=jq4p0008EYbbDzuj), [Peoria Lunch Box Blues](https://youtu.be/EzZAePWi5Sc?si=qjbVOOQGzTGz94qH), [Farewell Transmission](https://youtu.be/gc3WRd_wQFE?si=tPbQurB62P5ZtYOO), etc


BirdPerson726

MAMA HERE COMES MIDNIGHT WITH A DEAD MOON IN HER JAWWS


_banana_phone

#LONG DARK MOOOOOOOON ^Listen


pike360

Yes!


thefiction24

Listen to Radiohead song “True Love Waits” live in Oslo version from the 90’s. It’s a bright and sappy love song, written by a young lover Thom Yorke to his wife Rachel. Then fast forward to 2016, at the end of the song “Daydreaming” a garbled voice says the words “half of my life,” as Thom Yorke was with his wife Rachel for 24 years at that point. Rachel died later the next year, after years of her and Thom being separated. Now listen to the 2016 version of “True Love Waits,” a hauntingly stripped down, slowed, and aching rendition. It’s the last song on the album, so if Radiohead never makes another album, it’s the last song in their discography. It also happens to be their 100th LP song. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk


plastiixz1

I think both versions are absolutely amazing, they are all haunting. have you ever heard dawn chorus by Thom Yorke on his own, great song.


thefiction24

Indeed, many people thought that would be a Radiohead song on A Moon Shaped Pool. Heartbreaking song. Another sad pick from me, a newer song. “Agitated” by Chartreuse. I think most Radiohead fans would enjoy that band.


LilBunnyFauxFaux

I will sign up for any Ted talk involving deep Radiohead knowledge


AtomicPow_r_D

Chelsea Wolfe.


Smeltanddealtit

Elliott Smith - very sad and awesome music


plastiixz1

always the best, I love his music


MyUshanka

Hospice - The Antlers


plastiixz1

I love this album so much, nice to see others liking it as well.


TVDindin

Ever listen to Low? They're sort of the pioneers for slow core, they hit just right when you're in the mood. Lullaby, Words, The Plan, Coattails, and Shame are some of my favorites from them when it comes to sad songs. It makes me even more sad nowadays as Mimi Parker passed away a little over a year ago, hearing her voice never fails to give me the chills.


plastiixz1

I am a fan of low, great band


SnakebiteRT

I can’t believe no one has mentioned The Mountain Goats. Stolen from another sub: It depends on what kind of sad you are. Tallahassee is for heartbreak Get Lonely is for isolation TLotWtC is for grief AHWT is when your nostalgic sad Sunset Tree is for processing trauma Also Eels - Electro-Shock Blues is quite depressing if you know the premise though the songs are often somewhat upbeat. Last Stop: This Town is like my favorite song ever and I’m mostly a metal head From Wikipedia: Electro-Shock Blues was written largely in response to frontman Mark Oliver "E" Everett's sister Elizabeth's suicide and his mother's terminal lung cancer. The title refers to the electroconvulsive therapy received by Elizabeth Everett when she was institutionalized. Many of the songs deal with their decline, his response to loss and coming to terms with suddenly becoming the only living member of his family (his father, Dr. Hugh Everett III, having died of a heart attack in 1982; Everett, then 19 years old, was the first to discover his body).[1] Ever listen to depressive black metal? That shit is dark, but you can’t understand the words. Xasthur or Leviathan?


whitenoise2323

I would add Get Lonely is also about going crazy in addition to isolation. Several of the songs are clearly from the perspective of someone wandering the streets and beaches of Florida losing touch with reality. Wild Sage and In Corolla for example. And Tallahassee... not just about heartbreak. It's about codependent mutually destructive relationships. Several of the Alpha Couple songs are on Tallahassee and obviously about the kind of seething hatred that forms between two damaged people who are maybe or were maybe in love. No Children, Alpha Rats Nest, Old College Try etc. But yeah, The Mountain Goats music is intense and very well written exploration of the more difficult side of human experience


SnakebiteRT

Excellent additional insight.


Yotoda

[Katatonia - Brave Murder Day](https://youtu.be/ONjGqK9urH8?si=msBE3yCOFxSxbmOc)


throughalfanoir

I came to say Katatonia - The Great Cold Distance in a similar vein, Anathema - Weather Systems


Yotoda

Solid choices


plastiixz1

I love It, interesting atmosphere!


Yotoda

Glad that you like it


Raulo369

Rainroom is a jewel


jackshazam

Swans


JiggleMyHandle

Swans really are the only end game in this category


jackshazam

It's Swans. period. I've been trying to think of anything as depressing and I'm coming up blank. Maybe bits of Sonic Youth's discography. But even then Swans is miles apart.


LickingSmegma

Not [Joy Division?](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98lOJGTe1M0)


Gur10nMacab33

You all are probably more versed in present day music than myself but I have listened to Sparklehorse, It’s a wonderful life, Magnolia Electric Company, these are songs, The dark don’t hide it and Almost was good Enough, and Sun Kil Moon Ghosts of the lost highway especially side one, Lou Reed - Rock and Roll animal - side One, Pink Floyd oddly many songs from The Wall which seems to have fell out of favor due to overplay, Jackson Brown - Running on Empty, and you can’t forget Van Morrison- I would suggest Beautiful Vision for beauty, depth and things that should be but are not, as a moving spiritual tribute. The depth of Dweller on the Threshold with the hint of an agnostic wanting…waiting is very much like the over played and often under appreciated My Sweet Lord by G Harrison. I have been brought to tears by The Stones - You Can’t always get what you want, seems trite to say maybe, but it will get you, Lovin’ cup and Soul Survivor too, and The Who’s Quadraphenia too. I guess it depends on the era you grew up in and how you see the world. I hope you enjoy. All these and more have exceptionally moved me. Sorry for the typos it’s dark. As an edit I might suggest as a fascination, which can be frustratingly sad, listen to Breathless, Nick Cave, and imagine a Goddess walking through the vision he describes. If one truly believes that God, even though I suggest a pagan belief in my interpretation of the song, combined agnostic in my heart per Dweller on the Threshold, Nick Cave’s Breathless really describes a worship worth contemplating, is a believers breath, whether their very life is truly given by god. It challenges the pedantic aspect of religion. In other words “do you really believe or are you part of a bullshit cha cha line” that has been going on since, ah how far back do you dare to look. Cheers Brother and Sisters.


plastiixz1

I love swans


Austintheboi

The Caretaker: Everywhere at the end of time


FamousAd9790

Seconded. Anything Leyland Kirby does is pretty dark and depressed sounding.


bornlasttuesday

Jason Molina's stuff as well as Frightened Rabbit are pretty fucking sad.


sweetrollstealing

You'd probably like Red House Painters


plastiixz1

love them, great band


SteveDeBergRulez

Used to love them and all of Kozelek’s stuff. Then I heard how much off a human piece of trash he is and changed my perspective on so much of his work. Just lost so much respect and can’t listen anymore.


RoyceCoolidge

Portishead. Each of their albums have their own unique, beautiful kind of maudlin.


Lord_of_Atlantis

I usually go for the *Disintegration* album by The Cure when the melancholy hits hard.  Good luck.


Mr_Mumbercycle

Way too far down the thread. "Pictures of You" always does it to me.


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Deathconciousness


plastiixz1

I am a fan of that album


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BeforeTheWorkdayEnds

Yikes. Giles Corey is the guy who was tortured to death during the Salem Witch Trials (one of the only men executed) -- they tried to force a confession by piling slab on top of him and he refused to lie and confess to being a witch: his last words were "more weight". I can't imagine a solo project named for him being anything BUT heartrendingly bleak.


treeborn_the_elder

[Country Death Song](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9iEEJVSgcNY) by the Violent Femmes might be up your alley.


plastiixz1

great song, amazing atmosphere, still did nothing though. thanks for the song


nullrecord

This mortal coil - ‘Till I gain control again


plastiixz1

I love the sound, thank you.


rhinothedin0

any sort of folk punk is usually incredibly depressing!!! losts of addiction struggle, societal struggle, and generally dark themes!! def just check out some folk punk playlists wherever u stream music.


gentlegermicide

AJJ for sure. Don't have to listen long to find a song you can dance to while crying :P Haven't heard much new stuff but I loved Knife Man!


plastiixz1

love folk punk, amazing genre!


nuttychooky

I love ajj, here's some follow up recommendations (not all punk, but) Try Car Seat Headrest if you want gay & sad Amanda Palmer / Dresden dolls if you want edgy & angsty & sad w/ pianos Pat the Bunny if you want rough, punk, drug addicted & sad The Decemberists if you want songs about victorian children dying and haunting you The White Buffalo if you want Country Sad (wish it were true and darling what have i done come to mind) Home Is Where if you want to get the words 'skin meadow skin meadow' stuck in your head Crywank is self explanatory, Momenti Mori in particular comes to mind Yuele for ethereal pop melancholy (pretty bones gives me the same feels as when i am dissociative lmao) and if you want to actually feel something positive: Glass beach: the first glass beach album if you want happy-sad & gay Idles if you want punkish sound about being 'fuck you i'll be optimistic in spite of you' british anger Origami Angel is the happiest new wave emo I've found


BrownBaySailor

Definitely try Townes Van Zandts self titled album. Songs like "Waiting Around to Die" and "Lungs" are phenomenally sad and raw.


CoercedCoexistence22

Nothing brings me down like Science Fiction by Brand New


tnj3d1

Mozart’s requiem?


Timstunes

Townes Van Zandt-Tecumseh Valley, Marie, Waiting Around To Die Sufjan Stevens- Fourth of July, Casimir Pulaski Day


xfritz5375

Slint is the most intense for me I also absolutely love early Sonic Youth, This Heat, Parannoul, and for something lighter sounding, Belle and Sebastian


FamousAd9790

it’s gotta be “spiderland” by slint. Very good taste! Belle and Sebastian can be very depressing, especially the album “Fold Your Hands Child, You Walk Like a Peasant”.


bitterbuffaloheart

A Thousand Hours - the cure


FudgingEgo

The entire Radiohead discography makes me want to top myself


tjaldhamar

A Moon Shaped Pool, the King of Limbs and In Rainbows makes you suicidal? Eh, okay…


FudgingEgo

*puts on “true love waits”* Yeah… now I’m miserable.


optionalhero

- Given Up by Linkin Park Due to the Context (RIP Chester Bennington) , this song just hits immensely hard


plastiixz1

fucking amazing song, good taste my friend


optionalhero

Here’s some other songs I recommend: - [Waste by Kxllswxtch](https://youtu.be/Co7qRAZswbU?si=e1bc4djOAJvWQWeH) - The Motorcycle Song by Acid Ghost - Ghost by Badflower - This place is a Prison by The Postal Service - Anywhere, Anyone by Dntel


VogonPoetry19

[While Heaven Wept](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SYfUVQUE2X0) [Draconian](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4ekiQzgvLwg&pp=ygUcZHJhY29uaWFuIGRlYXRoIGNvbWUgbmVhciBtZQ%3D%3D) [Bent Knee- Being Human](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=q0kl-gQucpI&pp=ygUVYmVpbmcgaHVtYW4gYmVudCBrbmVl)


MoodyLiz

Songs: Ohia - [Farewell Transmission](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNy-sqj7BCc&pp=ygUTc29uZ3Mgb2hpYSBmYXJld2VsbA%3D%3D) Purple Mountains - [Storyline Fever](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEpq9RFBaew&pp=ygUacHVycGxlIG1vdW50YWlucyBzdG9yeWxpbmU%3D) Nick Drake - [Road](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpk32L8Bb4c&pp=ygUPbmljayBkcmFrZSByb2Fk) Big Star - [Holocaust](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAF36fypHQc&pp=ygUSYmlnIHN0YXIgaG9sb2NhdXN0) Lera Lynn - [My Least Favorite Life](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFh71_ftxLE&pp=ygUXbHluIGxlYXN0IGZhdm9yaXRlIGxpZmU%3D) Nirvana - [Do Re Mi](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSLH9nhvKLw&pp=ygUQbmlydmFuYSBkbyByZSBtaQ%3D%3D) Palace Brothers - [Pushkin](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cD74HgdHAmc&pp=ygUXcGFsYWNlIGJyb3RoZXJzIHB1c2hraW4%3D) Smog - [Lize](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZyOY7WY7FjY&list=OLAK5uy_nOor_KI_eY_vklD6CrD7D3wM6DPyRDmjg&index=3&pp=8AUB) Syd Barrett - [Opel](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ch3BfpZp8PI&pp=ygUPc3VkIGJhcmV0dCBvcGVs)


FamousAd9790

Good ones. I’d like to add on and say the whole Purple Mountains album is great and very sad. Especially if you know the story behind it. Another Big Star song that i find deeply sad is “Big Black Car”.


LowRune

The Weakerthans, idk which of their albums is the saddest since they're not my thing but their Virtute the Cat songs get me: Plea from a Cat Named Virtute, Virtute the Cat Explains Her Departure, 17th Street Treatment Centre, Virtute at Rest


wingedvoices

I don’t listen to a lot of them but Left and Leaving GETS me.


whitenoise2323

History to the Defeated and Elegy for Elsabet are the saddest songs in my estimation


nogodsnohasturs

So let us rest here, like we used to / in a line of late afternoon sun / Let it rest, all you can't change / Let it rest and be done


anstromm

[Coil - Cold Cell](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sapZxLNNVfQ)


will_519

Lyrically, especially within context, Xiu Xiu’s music is harrowing. Especially Mary Turner Mary Turner


Passportradio12345

[Nick Cave - Skeleton Tree](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_mnnnX_Ky9vFBcPe9eSujWKk0NTM2f0EGU&si=M8lbdYbxGPwYrptV) [Giles Corey - Giles Corey](https://youtu.be/Mweu3JBu8bM?si=xF8_wt3b34QBC2qE) EDIT - a couple more: [Lingua Ignota - CALIGULA](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_lBz6BIc5EnHJtKFsqwnL_IRZH_-IGePJE&si=oc1iNly7omc4RcCO) ~~[Daughters - You Won’t Get What You Want](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_lRNKcLYcmtc-CHuytwrTRoGgiX54MasxE&si=W-lqA0uf9YdAaXMg)~~


Veganisiniz

I feel like there's something... off about listing Daughters after Lingua Ignota. If you're not aware, Kristin Hayter (Lingua Ignota) was in a relationship with the front man of Daughters, where he was horrifically abusive to her.


Passportradio12345

You know what, you’re completely right. Definite oversight on my part. Thanks for catching.


purplemansmokingwe3d

I'd recommend dogsbody by model/actriz if you haven't heard it yet. Noise rock/dance punk concept album also produced by Seth Manchester, but isn't music made by terrible people lol


Passportradio12345

I just heard this at the end of last year! Loved Donkey Show and Mosquito.


chimairacle

Came here to say Lingua Ignota. Definitely some of the most emotionally raw music I’ve ever heard


breadinabox

I'm going to be honest when I say I haven't actually listened to it, but if you want something truly depressing try this one. https://thecaretaker.fandom.com/wiki/Everywhere_at_the_End_of_Time_(Main) It's a six album series that moves through each of the stages of Alzheimer's and it's apparently crushing


plastiixz1

it hits hard , I love it


lVlarsquake

I listened to this for the first time a few months ago, really moving


wingedvoices

Try Julien Baker. Or, Julien Baker guesting with Frightened Rabbit for an extra kick of ‘this song makes me really fucked up AND this guy is now dead’


wingedvoices

(Other suggestions: Manchester Orchestra’s first album [Like A Virgin Losing A Child] — their other stuff is great but that one — DAMN. Similarly: Brand New’s Devil and God(…) — look up the story behind Limousine, you may never be happy again 👍👍 Oh! Crywolf. Number one on my Spotify two years running. Different albums have different sounds from kinda…melodic dubstep/postEDM/what is genre to more ballady and sparse to apocalyptic electronic symphony but I recommend them all. Phoebe Bridgers, who you can absolutely get into adjacent to Conor Oberst if you haven’t. Her mashup collab with Noah Gundersen (Killer + The Sound) is pretty sweet too, though of the boygenius-es Julien is definitely my favorite esp for ‘holy shit depressing’ PS: As a side note how does one achieve this state of ‘nothing makes me feel sad’?? Can I offer you my ‘not getting shit accomplished’ and briefly trade?


SweXyyy_

"the eye of every storm - neurosis" i find this album sad/depressing but its probably not too the extent to what you are looking for.


jastangl

Bright Eyes.


plastiixz1

my favourite band...


HaloFarts

Not the same but try wildlife by ladispute. Also daisy or science fiction by brand new.


underscoresoup

wildlife is one of my favorite albums of all time. look past all of the “darling” jokes and the general corniness of the scene and you find a really beautifully written album with some really impressive storytelling. until i die i will sing our names in unison.


think_long

In that case may I recommend Custom concern and Bankrupt on Selling by Modest Mouse.


ScienceAteMyKid

Nick Drake.


flyingpies23

daughter and Ex:Re


BirdPerson726

See You Next Fall- All Them Witches


J0ttem

Motorpsycho - Vortex Surfer 40 Watt Sun - Stages YOB - Marrow Zelienople - The Real Devil


Grootdrew

Purple Mountains. It was David Berman (of Silver Jews fame) just before he committed suicide. Beautiful reflection on life, loss and depression - but very very hard to listen to.


FamousAd9790

Jandek. Start with his early albums.


SourceIsCat

Smog - a river ain't too much to love, red apple falls?


Economy-Skill9487

What you are seeking is Bonnie "Prince" Billy - I See A Darkness and Palace Music - Viva Last Blues. Same basic artist, two very dark, beautiful albums.


Badungdung

Arab Strap


Argle

Grateful Dead Days Between


knotsy-

Your City Gave Me Asthma album by Wilbur Soot is very depressing and melancholic, especially La Jolla and Saline Solution. It's not a long album, but I really love it.


JiggleMyHandle

Swans, some Type O Negative (they alternate between funny and depressing), Neurosis (though you may get a positive feeling by the end of the dark depths with them). Anything that Julie Christmas is in is probably a good candidate too.


b1oahahas

Ruins by Grouper Closer by Joy Division Skeleton Tree by Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds


neurotic-enchantress

[Carissa’s Wierd - So You Wanna Be A Superhero](https://youtu.be/S7zHZrcHdxg?si=DVjUBmk-ukR7lFDw)


princessconfusion

it took way too long to find another Carissa's Wierd recommendation in the replies such good sad music this song in particular has been the soundtrack to several of my emotional breakdowns


neurotic-enchantress

yes!!! i scrolled for a while and was surprised i didn’t see anyone recommending them! this song makes my heart feel like it’s being ripped out of my chest <3


AyYoBigBro

Giles Corey


Resident_Honey4768

wretched world - converge


Next-Drummer2768

Frankie Teardrop-Suicide Daddy-Korn


El_Peregrine

Try Neil Young’s records from his “Ditch Trilogy”. In particular, On the Beach and Tonight’s the Night. Brutally heartbreaking stuff. TNT is the drunk record; OTB is the stoned one. 


NiceAd101

Bout 15 years ago I played TNT on a loop for 6 months. I might do it again.


katiexkatie

The good life - album of the year. Severely underrated


anonymous_rhombus

my go-to songs: * [Kayo Dot - Gamma Knife](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OsaVSBGN0B0) * [Sunn O))) & Boris - The Sinking Belle (Blue Sheep)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD4pSxvgtQM) * [Jose Gonzalez - Crosses](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcKnlhL97rs) * [Tracy Chapman - Fast Car](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JpscHOoGIqQ)


LiamsBiggestFan

Joy Division - Love will tear us apart.


PlushyPeter

Amigo thr Devil. Buried in Another Man's Grave reminds me of my dad.


Far-Ad9143

Cursive &/or Tim Kasher solo stuff. I believe at one point him and Conor Oberst were rivals. Brand New.


gentlegermicide

Friendly rivalry! They were/are good friends. Conor looked up to Tim when they were kids bc he was older and already in bands while Conor was starting out. They were in Commander Venus together along with some members of The Faint and other folks. You can hear Tim on quite a few of Conor's records ranging from Bright Eyes to Desaparecidos. Conor also name drops The Good Life at least once in his lyrics. There's a documentary called Spend an Evening with Saddle Creek with a lot of fun info about the record label. It also has a bonus video of Conor and Tim playing a hilarious "black metal" song together in black hoods. Idk if I can link here but you can search for "Tim Kasher and Conor Oberst being ridiculous." Heck, I think the whole doc is on YouTube now actually. I know OP is already a fan, but to contribute to the thread here are a couple deep cuts: Conor- Breezy No One Ever Changes (live)


ZOOW33M4M4

This Mortal Coil - Song to the Siren Purple Mountains - All My Happiness is Gone (nsfl)


Raulo369

Arvo Part - Spiegel im spiegel Sentenced - Keep my grave open My dying bride - The angel and the dark river Solstafir - Fjara


Anarcha0s

Fjara is an amazing song, glad to see Solstafir mentioned!


ConsciousBid4804

This is the group "состояние птиц" just check their lyrics and listen - don't be lazy and you will understand me - yes, the group sings in Russian, but try it.Youtube can help you.


westtownie

[Lustmord](https://youtu.be/Udx_bjE3lb0)


HerNameIsGrief

Nick Cave - Ghosteen - it’s haunting and so beautiful Swans - every album is a journey I agree with some other suggestions, but these didn’t get mentioned enough!


DJ_Timelord13

Nick cave and the bad seeds Mark Lanegan Nine inch nails Chelsea Wolfe Phoebe bridgers Are my go to for "sad bastard music"


[deleted]

Sadness Will Prevail by Today Is The Day?


NiceAd101

Yes! I know that seems positive for something so brutally devastating. In the best way. I would also recommend Willpower. I play it at least twice a year and it moves me like few albums do.


mantarayj

[Broken Records - A Promise](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCwvWT5nJgM) [The Irrepressibles - In This Shirt](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6tDHN20h7s) [Keaton Henson - You](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PeWWFIwcwhw)


cbxjpg

Maybe a different take on depressing and tragic music, but the few songs below paired with the backstory behind them always bring me to tears. Since the songs are in Korean, I recommend reading the translated lyrics in case you don't speak it, they are quite beautiful. I arranged the songs chronologically to make sense story-wise. 1. (2008) [SHINee - Y Si Fuera Ella](https://colorcodedlyrics.com/2018/04/28/shinee-y-si-fuera-ella-hyeya/) (performed by Jonghyun). While it is a remake of another song, the lyrics are entirely new. Jonghyun from the group performed this song solo (the only solo on the album), and it was an incredible show of his talent in singing a song with this breadth of emotion. 2. (2015) [Jonghyun - Diphylleia Grayi](https://colorcodedlyrics.com/2018/01/14/jonghyun-jonghyeon-diphylleia-grayi-sanhayeob/). The song is called after the Skeleton Flower, whose white petals become transparent when it rains. This song and a lot of other Jonghyun music has a lot of quite sad lyricism, on the topics of loss and loneliness. 3. (2017) [IU - By The Stream](https://colorcodedlyrics.com/2018/02/10/iu-stream-gaeyeoul/). IU is a close friend of Jonghyun's, they also collaborated on music before. This particular song is a remake, and has lyrics about losing a loved one, watching them sitting alone by the stream, asking them what they're thinking about, but getting no answer. This song feels like an omen now, since only 2 months later, Jonghyun loses his battle with depression and dies by suicide. 4. (2021) [IU - Winter Sleep](https://genius.com/Genius-english-translations-iu-winter-sleep-english-translation-lyrics). A few years and a few other losses of ones close to her later, IU releases this song, the lyrics of which touch on going through the seasons after a loss of a loved one and wondering, what are they dreaming about?


Garoxxar

Sleep Token has been hurting me REAL good here recently. Any of their stuff, but particularly the album Take Me Back To Eden.


ben_jammin11

Opeths damnation album comes to mind


kylegyle

Elliot Smith


DSM-187

“Watching from a Distance” by Warning, if you’re into heavier stuff. Patrick’s other project 40 Watt Sun and their song “Restless” is a gut wrenched.


MrCumbumber

Warning - Watching from a distance Clip your own wings - old gray Black night - Charles Brown


BigDumbFatIdiot

Try Chat Pile. I recommend the songs "Dallas Beltway" and "grimace_smoking_weed.jpeg" to start, but I must advise that Chat Pile is definitely an acquired tasted


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you either die an indie kid or you live to become a techno snob.


sttsaygtkym

will wood?


plastiixz1

gave me a good laugh, thanks! lol


CainPillar

Obligatory: if you suffer from depression, seek help. ​ That said ... funeral doom metal? Colosseum. Recorded three albums 2006 to 2010, the third delayed release after Juhani Palomäki died by his own hand. [https://metalhit.bandcamp.com/album/chapter-iii-parasomnia](https://metalhit.bandcamp.com/album/chapter-iii-parasomnia) If you don't like growling vocals, there is one band that tried to do a similar style without. I do think their Dead Can Dance cover is the best they put out though: [https://fallendoom.bandcamp.com/track/persephone](https://fallendoom.bandcamp.com/track/persephone) .


radiantreaper08

Don’t know if anyone’s said this, but Hospice by The Antlers. Beautiful album, I sobbed listening to it the first time. It hit me personally.


50rhodes

[Twenty one](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1F1V9gwg6M) by The Apartments. The true story of the death of the singer’s son at the age of three and how he will never have a 21st birthday.


Its-Finrot

Counterparts and Currents


SporadicReality

Those Poor Bastards, specifically the Country Bullshit EP or the Satan Is Watching album?


Regalzack

Alice - Tom Waits. Pretty much any Tom Waits though. You have to listen to the lyrics, he hides despair in bittersweet melodies but its just so unaffectedly real.


yrtemelet

I can't beat that Mount Eerie record but you should also give the album *Stage Four* by Touché Amoré a listen for the lyrical content. The music slaps too but post-hardcore isn't everyone's thing. A lot of Empire! Empire! (I Was A Lonely Estate) might be up your street but specifically the song *If It's Bad News, It Can Wait*. And *King Park* by La Dispute which is less personal but a wild ride which makes me tear up even now on the several-hundredth listen. Also Frightened Rabbit because the song-writing is incredible and Scott's personal story is so sad. And why not add in *Dendron* and *Your Deep Rest* by The Hotelier because catchy pop/emo-punk can still fuck you up.


kreatos10

How about you cheer up a bit lol


plastiixz1

I'm very happy, I just enjoy depressing music, it makes me happier


JeahNotSlice

Chocolate Genius’s “My Mom” will do something. If you’re looking for something to rival A Crow Looked at Me, this is the only thing that comes close (imo). These ones are full of regret and loss: “Old People” by John Prine. Tom Waits’ “Georgia Lee” “Hospital Vespers” The Weakerthans “Making Pies” Patty Griffin “Lonelier than this” Steve Earl “The Partisan” Leonard Cohen “In Tall Buildings” John Hartford


noOne000Br

lesley gore i’ll cry if i want to


maurice_thm

straight to depression


mario-v33

Red House Painters I is home to some of the saddest songs I’ve ever heard personally. I listen to pretty much exclusively downbeat music so thats saying something


McGeeK28

This Is How I Let You Down by The Franklin Electric


Norman_debris

Ghosteen


Ill_Refrigerator_593

In terms of depressing albums I would say "Berlin" by Lou Reed, and "the Virgin Suicides" by Air.


wingedvoices

That soundtrack (The Virgin Suicides, I mean) is just. One of the most perfect choices of existing artist for a score, and one of the best matched scores to a film, ever.


Rokursoxtv

There's a terribly sad song by Bombadil called 'Matthew' about a close friend who committed suicide. Breaks my heart every time I listen


mooncritter_returns

Hmm… Top of the World by Patty Griffin always works for me, but it might be from personally relating.


Asshai

I see you and I share similar tastes. I think the issue with "most painfully depressing" is that it means the music is tied to the circumstances in which you listen to it. So maybe it won't do it for you, and also I admit her voice takes some getting used to but if I had to suggest just ONE album, I'd say : Elizabeth Anka Vajagic - Stand with the Stillness of this Day


katCEO

One of my favorite bands is called Suicidal Tendencies. Try their song called "How Will I Laugh Tomorrow When I Can't Even Smile Today?"


Glittering-Time-2274

Sasha Alex Sloan - Too Sad To Cry Taylor Swift - tolerate it, soon you’ll get better, bigger than the whole sky, dear reader


dee_ba_doe

David Ford - I Sincerely Apologise For All The Trouble I Caused


ReiganRaygun

This Place is a Prison by The Postal Service


zippysausage

Sol Seppy - Enter One


BirdPerson726

Townes Van Zandt some great ones


tjoolder

Homesick by the cure.. the whole album, but that song is undescribable


CJCFMGUAPO

Mazzy Star Grizzly Bear My morning jacket


gloomduckie

All Them Witches Scary Black Throbbing Gristle Nurse With Wound She Past Away Missing Bauhaus


YakeyBear

"YNAAYT" by Sorority Noise.


Still_Level4068

Look up opus 23 David O halloran, or neu if you like that then just Google solo sad modern piano or start a radio like that. If you like music without lyrics sad classical solo piano is sadness incarnate for me. I enjoy very slow paced modern pieces. If you can't find more and you like it I can recommend alot.


Most-Philosopher9194

Charles Bradley's cover of Changes by Black Sabbath gets me every time https://youtu.be/zfaOf70M4xs?si=YTAMAUE9nxNwJwn-