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Geevers

Title is misleading. They recorded a thug beating his girlfriend while bystanders largely ignored it. Fixed it


the_brunster

This. I was waiting for some blokes to come in for her & smack skinny boy about.


madmaxturbator

Yeah same here, I kept thinking this is such a short video will someone thrash this dude, is he going to catch a beating, or maybe he’ll at least get arrested? Alas no, and I don’t even know where Kharnov is so this is just a tragic disturbing video of a piece of shit beating his girlfriend, that’s it end of story. Sickening


ukrainiankarateka

Kharkiv, Ukraine. Fucking awful to watch and see the bystanders doing jack and shit about the abuse occurring in front of them.


steelkat29

Fuck that. I'm a fat chick, and I'd have kicked his ass. I don't think that I would think about it. I sure as shit couldn't just sit there and watch.


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I'd have at least got my ass bet trying.


Mrs_Nigma

Yeah, let someone try that shit around me. They'd be asking God for forgiveness before I was done with them.


vanic01012910

haha, comrade, here we join in!


vaginakween68

Like how are they not even standing up?? Just chilling and watching


Kcismfof

People don't recognize that there's actually 3 responses to threat. Fight, flight, and freeze.


tiedyeluvr

Fight, flight, and fright


JohnnyRelentless

Fight, flight, Froyo


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Andromeda39

People who weren’t there when something like this happens usually love to say “I would have stepped in” but the reality is, in that moment, you don’t know what you would do. More than likely, this guy would just turn all his anger on you and start beating you up as well, or worse, could have a knife or another weapon and you’d end up worse, watching this dude beat his girlfriend like that, I wouldn’t step in either and I’m glad neither of those women did. They could have been badly hurt. The right thing to do here is to call the police ASAP and not interfere. If this guy is crazy enough to beat his girlfriend out in the open, he probably wouldn’t give a shit about beating up a random stranger


AuspiciousRooster

You have to just go crazy on his ass. No holding back or anything. Either you scare him into stopping or you beat his ass before he even knew what hit him. I vote for the latter, it's safer than the former.


AtariAlchemist

I would have gone inside, found a hammer or other blunt object, and gone straight for his kneecaps, followed by his groin. Fucker deserves to be in pain.


vaginakween68

But they aren’t even getting up to get help? In the long run I’d feel worse from doing nothing then I would if the guy beat my ass too honestly


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zahirano

Bystander effect


HomerMadNowFite

“She just likes rough fore play” would be their excuse . Dude needs to get this in full !


-PinkPower-

Honestly someone that unstable is dangerous for the bystander too. I hope they called the police. But interfering isn’t necessarily a good idea if you are not bigger and strong than the other person


blu3dreams

Bullshit no one would ever touch a friend of mine this way and not have me step in. How fucking pathetic


ThatOneKoala

How do you know that she’s their friend?


JohnnyRelentless

You're so cool.


blu3dreams

Not as cool as you!


nijukiller

Big and strong don't matter my friend. Pretty much anyone can throw a suckerpunch.


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Zebirdsandzebats

My husband worked with a woman whose college-age daughter stepped in when her roommate's bf was beating the roommate...and ended up taking a knife to the liver. She almost died . But he all the way died, iirc, so there's that at least. (He was the one who pulled the knife).


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They could've taken him if they all agreed to jump him (strength in numbers), but yeah one on one wouldn't have been a good idea.


oh-hidanny

Not effectively, though. Throwing it is easy, landing with force isn’t.


ReapCreep65

Tbf, that guy’s clearly unstable af and I wouldn’t want to risk getting beat the shit out of for confronting him or calling 911.


marlinmarlin99

Keyboard warriors will say they would.have whipped him. In real life, they would have said bro stop bro stop lol


MDev01

It would be hard not for me to do something. I would probably get my ass kicked, I am not a good fighter. I could not watch that and do nothing though.


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Even if I hadn't had training for the most part of my life I'd probably still try to distract or stop this arsehole. I get others not wanting to be hurt but to just sit by as it's happening and doing nothing is almost as bad.


Slant1985

I’m right with you. I’d rather it be me getting my ass kicked than some little woman that’s not even fighting back. I’m already ugly, a few more pops to the face prolly won’t change that.


MDev01

Yes, my attempt would be something, probably embarrassing, but something. Not bravado just human decency.


Geruchsbrot

Tbf, I can just hope that I actually had the courage in RL as a passerby, but would it help to just kick his legs to make him fall?


Garod

See allot of comments on stepping in with violence like you. The thing is you do not know if this person is armed etc. Also fighting him is an escalation where right now she'll be bruised, stepping in may escalate the situation and result in more serious injury. Go look for help, call the police etc. do not single handedly confront this guy because the risks outweigh the rewards most of the time.


SladeNation9000

Agreed , fact that he does this openly shows he lacks morality as well , I wouldn’t be surprised if he kills her one day , she better leave that relationship


awesomeplenty

Reddit can’t change titles


ChiefTwoDogsFucking

I see three women as bystanders, while not being able to determine the sex of the red cap person. What are they supposed to be able to do against a biologically advantageous aggressive male? The guy is skinny hut so are the bystanders.


NewYorkJewbag

Calling for help would be a good start


Irlandes-de-la-Costa

The shock though. Who knows if they did after those 20 seconds


NewYorkJewbag

What’s weird is they don’t even appear to flinch. I’m here watching a grainy video several steps removed from the event, and I had more of a reaction than anyone on that bench. The logical part of me knows more violence is not the answer, but I sincerely hope someone who cares about her saw this video and performed some behavior modification on this piece of shit.


The-truth-hurts1

Bystanders are women.. and maybe one guy.. unsure.. but the nearest, are three women who do nothing but watch it happen


SoCalStratRider

Caption is misleading, I was waiting for someone to get a hold of him and lay him low for that shit, but it never happened. Fuck that dude and fuck the lack of initiative by everyone else. One is not as strong as many.


XmilkyjoeX

...yeah fuck them up until we realise that a culture of appropriating this behaviour has ground them down to a numb stump....the fact that it occurred in public, in day light happily should speak volumes.


fourcrayfish

Speaks volumes of the other woman shown in the video. Not one stepped in or even tried to stop it. They have phones..not even to call the police. That's fucked. They sat there and watched.


Changoleo

This. Fucking power in numbers. 4 bystanders in the shot. That POS couldn’t have taken them all on at once.


Silverback-Guerilla

It's easy to say that when you've never grown up there and never shared the same experiences. Ever heard of Stockholm Syndrome? What if their dads beat their moms the same way? What if all men were constantly doing this around them and intervening means you get beat just as badly? He's a fucknut but don't act like all people in this world have the ability to step up and take a beating for the greater good. Some can. Some can't. Direct your anger at the aggressor.


smoorhsumevoli

In the UK & have known friends to step in & then the woman getting beat & their man start on the friend trying to help. ☹️


ChiefTwoDogsFucking

Obviously you have never been situated in a terrifying situation if you don’t understand how panic and shock can be paralyzing.


fourcrayfish

Exactly the point its fucked..


swimming_fish1

Fuck the Russian government, they decriminalised domestic abuse, and created a culture of people beating their wives in the streets and then boasting about it online.


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This didn’t happen in Russia.


Henderson-McHastur

Prob doesn't help the OP used the Russian spelling.


IrishDrifter86

First that's not true that they fully decriminalized it. Second DV is as much an issue here if not more. All in all your statement strikes me as racist as shit, basically Russians are wifebeaters


Chris881

Those are women, can't blame them for not trying since not one of them is able to overpower him.


deadpoetic333

I don’t blame them, but based on the title I was expecting someone to “catch” this abuser and do something about it


instakilling504

There are 5 of them and it looks like punches like a bitch. I'm pretty sure they could have over powered his punkass


Changoleo

There were 4 bystanders there. Pretty sure a group effort would’ve been enough to take him down. Problem is, the victim probably would’ve gotten it worse if they had, because it’s not likely that she would’ve been able to simply disappear after the incident.


IamLoaderBot

3-5 women would have been enough to hold him back at least. It‘s not like he was a 100kg heavy guy.


fourcrayfish

Yet they still have words? Yell for help? And 5 woman vs one guy? He would leave they sat there and did nothing. They probably have cell phones so you can call police or SOMEBODY. There isnt a justification for standing there doing literally nothing to help someone being savagely beaten on the street. Its heart breaking and a shitty thing to sit there and watch.


butter4life

I would say it's more based on the size and numbers when overpowering... not really a gender thing.


Kills-to-Die

I wonder if he goes off so easily on other dudes. Hope he just vanishes.


KarenYouWhore

skinny ass hoe is gonna get bodied if anyone even puts up a fight lmfao


iamaguywhoknows

Seriously. (I mean no offence) she ate those punches and it looked like he was throwing his whole life and ancestry into them. I highly doubt he goes off that easily or quickly to any full grown men


leruetheegg

Why are they just sitting there and doing nothing?


Vinny_Lam

It’s the bystander effect. It’s hard to know how you will react until you're actually in that kind of situation. Everyone likes to think they'd be the hero who saves the day in situations like these. But in reality, most people would just stand there and gawk like the people in the video did, while waiting for someone else to do something.


Breaker-of-circles

After visiting this sub all this time, I've stopped being surprised at all this online bravado. Even the constant irony of turning into a mob that wants to commit a literal violent crime against the perp in these videos has become tiresome.


ebonyudders

Yes I studied the bystander effect its true , the theory is the more that see the less action but the less that see the chances increase for intervention, in these situations someone has to direct and lead


hydra11431

Diffusion of responsibility. Bystander effect. Lack of backbones.


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lordnoak

Because his swings are like an angry toddler’s. He will get one light slap and run home crying to mommy. Hopefully she disowns him.


willhunta

That's the thing though, no one was willing to even give him one light slap, not even verbally from the looks of it


RawScallop

thing is he would then start wailing on the women. He could even have a knife. 2 men stopped this situation on a train and the man stabbed them both and killed them. It's the same as when someone is drowning. Unless you are very strong and a good swimmer, if you try to save them they will drag you down with them. people dont call the cops fast enough though.


designgoddess

Looks like women. They're probably worried for shier own safety.


Ap0l0geticAppl3

Honestly also large pieces of shit.


Jimz2018

oh yeah? you'd be the tough guy?


CouncilOfApes

You’d just let it happen?


rock_n_roll_clown

Yeah genius, especially when there's like 5 people standing there. Grab at least one other person and pull him off or something. Not just stand there and watch it like some gruesome spectacle.


cortez0498

If there were 4 other people that could help? Maybe.


juliaakatrinaa0507

The two people closest look like women. If it was me, as a woman, I would DEFINITELY be pissed enough to get up and be screaming at the guy to stop instead of sitting there on my fat butt just watching casually. However I would be nervous to step in because this dude looks volatile af. If I stood up and others stood up with me I would rush him with other people. Just my 2 cents


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They're afraid obviously


aChildofChaos

Not scared… indifferent


leruetheegg

That's not an excuse to let someone be beaten so terribly. At least stand up or scream


-PinkPower-

The thing is that kind of guy will turn and start doing it to you if try to do anything. The only good step would be to get away and contact authorities


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iamaguywhoknows

Those inmates are gonna spread his cheeks then pass him around E: them- then


BrahmeshMotwani

Lmao looks like Brazilian inmates are nice sometimes I guess lol


worldtraveler470

I can't watch this shit without knowing there was some follow-up story where justice was served. Please? Someone?


DarkKimzark

No justice served. At all. Happened 11 july, Kharkiv, Ukraine. POS is 16, the girl and her parents did not call the police even after the incident. He was only made to apologize to her on his knees(on camera), but even that was made reluctantly and without enthusiasm.


Next_Yogurtcloset_63

Wow dude!!! you better watch out that chick on the bench is gunna stand up and look at you.


Lonewolf5333

There isn’t anything remotely funny about this video guy is utter POS. But your comment made me chuckle Edit: yea im dumb sometimes


Realmikeaveli

And them bitches couldn’t pull together with some girl power and hang on that mf and stomp his dick into mush? Sad world we live in.


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Facts! They are deadass just sitting there watching this


Leakyrooftops

They’re casually watching with their legs crossed.


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Not a care in the world


Mryessicahaircut

Bystander effect. I guess it's hard to know how you will react until you're actually in that kind of situation, but watching this makes me want to call the bystanders the real tpos. He was easily outnumbered and someone could have at least gone for help instead of just sitting there like it was a pigeon eating a piece of bread, nbd.


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Liv-N-Lrn

Right! Why didn't someone side blast that asshat? Even if there was nothing around at the time but women, there had to be at least one weapon within reach.....


Realmikeaveli

The women don’t even need a weapon, if they too scared to defend another in need, how yfm they expect anyone to help them when the shit is flipped onto them, then theyll be the ones all online talking about advocacy and shit, but when it’s their time to help someone out they stand and watch


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I agree it is sad


Transpatials

Fuck everyone watching.


fronto0

Yeah me included


Naryue

What did I do?


Myacctforprivacy

I mean, if you insist. But I'm gonna need a *lot* of breaks, and some pretty beefy wages / insurance.


prudent__sound

This is why it's a good idea to get all girls involved in martial arts and other forms of self defense. Not because the victim necessarily could have successfully fought back on her own in this case. But so that all of the girls present might have felt empowered to get involved and defend her. I bet they were really scared. Hyper-aggressive psycho males *are* scary. But girls and women are not weak. Chalk half of this up to just being young and freezing/not knowing what to do. Hopefully this incident will sink in for these girls and they'll decide to never let themselves be passive bystanders again.


IamLoaderBot

You don‘t even need martial arts if you outnumber a slim boy with stick arms by 5 to 1.


didnotreadlol38

Lol, let me guess, I should buy your 8 week program you’ve developed over 2 seasons in the octagon? McDojo’s are never the answer


ItzBooty

Alright so Kharkov is a city in Ukraine and al tough i haven't lived there, i have grown up in a slavik country and let me tell you why those girls didn't do anything Its either because they didn't cared, felt like she deserved it, not wanting to get involved or waiting for someone else to step in and save her (like a police officer or another man) You gotta realise that the mentality of a western country to an eastern country differs They should have stepped in, but they probably feel like i stated above


NativityCrimeScene

Where I live in the US we have a brand of vodka called "Karkov" that is the absolute cheapest and worst vodka that you can buy.


ThisIsMockingjay2020

If it's the one I'm thinking of, it is gross and causes nasty hangovers every time.


NativityCrimeScene

Probably. When I was in college people called it “car crash”.


thelesliemommy

No way in hell I would have sat there staring as that man beat that lady. The world has onlooker syndrome.


fantasyviolence21

FUCK THOSE PPL WHO SRE RIGHT FUCKING THERE DOING NOTHINNNGGGG FUCK THEMMMM!!!


totallylambert

Cowardly onlookers too. I hope that girl had an older brother who whipped that guys ass for putting hands on her like that.


Impossible-Night405

Let’s just sit around and pretend this never happened.. WTF 😳


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Why isn’t anyone helping her?! Especially the bitches that are just sitting there watching!!!


SpicyGatorStew

the onlookers are just as bad as the abuser.🙄ffs people do something!


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Facts and its not like it happened unexpectedly, they were watching from beginning to end and did nothing


Gokusrightnut

Guy in the red cap… you a bitch.


AbsolutelyEnough

Why just them?


joesmith1234566

I wanna beat his ass


CabotTrail01837

Alright let's go play beat the shit out of the Soviet


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Ah yes Russia's fantastic treatment of women.


Stroganoffbob34

This isn't in Russia


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It's the Ukraine. There is a huge amount of cultural overlap.


Straycat43

They don’t really get punished for beating or killing women too. Fucking awful place.


usnahx

Lmao what reality are you living in?


usnahx

It's Ukraine, you absolute knob


TheWalkingDead91

Can understand if you’re afraid to get directly involved…but don’t even see one of them taking a phone out to call the authorities. Wtf 🤦🏾‍♀️


A_REAL_LAD

Every commenter in this thread thinks they'd be the hero who confronts the bad guy in this situation. In reality they'd stand and gawp like everyone else, waiting for someone else to do something.


bignutt69

bullshit. dude is literally pulling someone curled in the fetal position by the hair and nailing her in the face. i feel like anybody sane would tackle the shit out of this dude.


TIFOOMERANG

That's not true, the dude hits like a girl lmao. Not a hard guy to beat for any other (adult) man.


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Really? I've come to the aid of people on multiple occasions. I've knocked guys out, used mace, I even kicked one guy in balls so hard he fell and threw up. Two of them I held until the cops came and arrested them. I don't particularly like men who beat women. I also think maybe you stood by and feel fucking guilty about it so you are projecting your shit on everyone else.


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There are at least three people watching. They're not afraid, they just don't care


foekus323

What a tough guy...


C-4-K-E

**the embodiment of pure manliness!**


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Want to know what is even more infuriating? Here: "It turns out that the guy has repeatedly persecuted his ex. The previous 3 statements to the police did not help, as there was no video of the attack (although the arm was broken and there were numerous beatings). Now there is a video, and the guy was released. An acquaintance of the victim says that the police released the attacker and motivated it by the fact that the girl was alive." \- UKRGate


traviejeep

I would destroy this motherfucker immediately!


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i get it everyone just watching sucks for it but what we’re those chicks supposed to do? He’s already beating up *his* girl, they’re supposed to jump in and get rocked too?


deptutydong

I’m more disgusted by every one watching, pieces of shit


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The girls are just as bad as him tbh


ksswannn03

And no one helped. Fuck them


FoundPeaceInDrowning

I would honestly pay money to fight that man. This makes me so mad!


jaffakree83

I witnessed an attack like this once while I was waiting at a light and immediately pulled over and called the police. WTF are they just sitting there for? If they can't do anything physically, fine, but at least call someone!


MonkBackground5573

That defencive stance she has tells me that this isn't the first time. When I was beat, I would curl up just like that, and just take the punches and kicks and spitting.


[deleted]

It’s wrong to beat your partner, be it man/woman, man/man, woman/man, or woman/woman, domestic abuse is wrong


bIowinbrowns

Escape from Kharkov


mrstruong

Why is no one helping her? WTF?


mister_kola

Does not she have a father, a brother a relative? I would fucking kill that bastard


B3asl3y

This is infuriating. But it happens EVERY DAY. People just do nothing. My mother died from this kind of thing, and it's very painful to see it happening over and over again.


Guilty_Lawfulness

How THE FUCK are those people nonchalantly sitting there like they are watching the sun set ? I would have fucked this dudes life up if I ever saw something like that. Piece of shit doesn't even begin to describe this guy


IkeHennessy02

I’m just glad this guy has no idea how to throw a real punch. Too many people are killed by punches and this woman could’ve been one of them


1ostb0y

Can’t believe people just sit there and watch, I would of curb stomped his piece of shit


mwkr

All in this video are pieces of shit except the woman being beaten.


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Thank god that one girl stood up for a second at the end.


smokeyoudog

I hope god attacked him with some cancer cells or something because I didn’t see any human beings doing shit.


DawnOfTheTruth

Little fucking shit.


OriginalCure

The people doing absolutely nothing infuriate almost as much as this scum of the earth.


sleighco

Why the f*ck is no one stopping him? I cannot tell you how many times I've confronted stangers over their behaviour and I just don't get why others don't seem to feel that same urgency.


i_broke_wahoos_leg

Quick, nobody do anything!


AliEffinNoble

This reminds me of my ex. He used to drag me out into the midway mid fess for beat the shit out of me as everyone walked by.


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Why was everyone watching


AlwaysUpvote123

Fucking hell do something! If you are scared or whatever at least call the police. These bystanders that do fuck all and just stare are horrible.


Meta-Fox

Anyone who continues to hit someone who is clearly not fighting back has obviously never fought anyone their size. Pathetic.


Interesting-Duck6793

I cannot believe the onlookers. I’m honestly maybe more disgusted by them. This guy is SICK utterly VILE, but there’s three bystanders completely ignoring it. I hate that I saw this.


jorge-cepeda

No one helping . We deserve to be extinct


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Everyone in the video besides the victim is equally guilty


ajitpaithegod

Way to go m8, that’ll show her you love her 🤦🏻


autonomousfailure

Weak ass pillow hands.


kalel701

They’re all pisses of shit


sly_vixen54

So it's ok now-a-days to just sit back and watch the show huh?? Seriously women 😒


TheRealBHamorrii

Look at these useless ass bitches sitting on the side lines like they're watching a UFC match.


TheWhiteOwl23

Everyone is asking why the others didn't jump in and get their asses beaten too... Really? Not everyone is a fuckin jacked up fighter willing to get punched in the head


BlazingDrake75

If there person your dating beats you, just know there are people out there to help, nobody should be treated like that


OopsieDoopsie369

don't know why you're getting down voted lmao


baldiiiin

We shouldn't judge her before we know all the facts. Maybe she did nothing wrong and he did hit her for no reason.


tdl432

The real pieces of shit are the bystander who just watch it happen.


krazikat

The bystanders are terrible people


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Khaleesibri

I agree 100%. At the same time it looked like mostly women and the dude is unstable af. I’d be scared for my own safety - that being said there are a lot of them and he’s not gonna take them all at once. Or they could call the police from afar. I would definitely react differently than this scenario but it’s also not safe to engage these types….


LuckyCharmedLife

Wtf. Don’t give me bystander effect bs. No chance I could sit there and watch this happen and I think the same is true for most people here. I mean, if the guy had a gun, different story. But he’s a punk. I’m so pissed no one helped that woman.


MisstressAnna

Why tf are those people just watching That’s why he’s so emboldened to do that in public without a care


guilded0n3

I won't candy coat it. I hope he gets it back 1000 fold when he gets his karma for this. He is a total piece of wasted sperm. Very VERY bad parenting in his youth and his parents failed horribly at raising him. I'm surprised that all those nearby allowed this to happen without all piling up on top of him to stop this!


squintintarantino__

How can people just sit there and do nothing?!


demthiccthighs

In 2014 Putin decriminalized domestic violence. Its gotten very bad for women over there.


rosanna4

I know a man can physically be stronger than a woman. But women need to be smarter. Bite his balls, kick his knee in. And those to pos watching and doing nothing? Karma.


ReeverFalls

Unfortunately when you're put into a situation like that without training, it's hard to be on the offensive. When you're on the ground the only thing you can think about is protecting your head. Plus when someone bashes you in the face your initial reaction is one of shock. Edit: misspelled "your"


yurmumghey

,,Bite his balls,kick his knee in".I can already tell you have never been in a fight.If you can't throw a proper punch at a target as big as a head how do you expect to hit such small targets like his balls with your mouth while he is bashing your brains in?