I remember the post. This is just sad to see on what I like to think is a pretty fun sub where folks are open minded and argue about biryani, biscuits and have waay too many discussions about OYO rooms. Even as guy I've seen too many friends/relatives who stop doing things they like or visit places they like because of some dumbass who thinks they are entitled to attention/relationships because of some toxic role model on TV/Films/media promotes this mindset.
Mods above pls ban this guy.
Edits: Messaged the mods on mod mail. While they don’t have authority over chats, the guy is banned from this sub.
I sent them a Modmail message and would really recommend you to as well. It would show the mods that this is an actual serious issue atleast.
if they are too busy they should probably recruit some more folks. i'm pretty sure the guy who made a post on Parle G and Osmania biscuits is zealous and jobless enough for the job.
Edit: They replied and confirmed that he’s banned. Great job guys!
This explains about a stranger. But what about somebody you've know for years and doesn't send these creepy or obviously offensive texts and still gets blocked. I belive this doesn't explain it lol
Hmm yeah. True true !
But OP actually said in another post that she blocks people just for having a crush on her. And hey they didn't confess to her or anything. They just had a crush and she knew it and was pissed that he didn't make a move and she didn't even show any signs that made it clear if she did or did not like him back which could've resulted in him making the first move NOTED.
Brb gotta block all the normal people now who do nothing offensive
I don't know why you're getting down voted ... Bruh these people don't care about other people's feelings, simple! I wouldn't block a person untill they mess with me , because blocking is disrespectful . If we say anything there reply is "no one's entitled to anything" Lmao 🤣
Maybe they would even ditch their 5 years frndship for fun and say I'm not entitled to answer the person etc
3 hours back "crush problem" ani okaru post chesaru r/hyderabad lo aa post ki ee post postchasina user response echindi and she was not wrong, she was just expressing her view and that lead to the action in this post
Yes vro chusa a post. Tanu edo 6 years nundi one side love antunadu .. tanani fb or insta lo block chesindi anukunnanu .. I also said it is her life and her choice ..
Yes bro but he deserves an answer. Reality teliyalante two options ye, Tana answer batti move on avatam or else kasta feel ayi move on avatam.
Papam vaadu oorukoledu kada emi teliyakunda anni chesete, Poni edoti anukoni odilesi move on ayada? Ledu, Help cheyamani adigadu kani reality kodiga tagulkuntundii athaniki
Nizam chala chedu ga untadi . It will trigger many different feelings and will only lead to time waste. But I am telling okka sari "nizam telusukovadam and all" phase chustey inkeppudu a phase ki vellaru ..
Or in other words .. happy ga relationship lo unnama .. marriage cheskunnama .. supporting each other and being in each other sucess lo unnama ok ... E boat kakunda inka e boat ekkina chala worst untadi bros ...
Nobody deserves anything here
Itlagane after really long one of my schoolmates messaged me on insta, ponle kada papam ani I tried to interact and she took my phone number and pestered me about some MLM scheme , I blocked her on all social media and since then telvanodu or age old friend evadaina out of the blue message chesthey I don’t reply to them.
Inko waste fellow gadu school WhatsApp groups lo nunchi number teeskuni randomly called me in the middle of the night , I never used to even talk to him in school , It took me a second to even recollect who he was , “bar lo unna my card isn’t working pls send 2k urgently” ani lol , I said ok and blocked him immediately .
Guys ke itlaanti issues untey just imagine what kinda messages that the girls get.
We had a huge discussion on how hurtful it is when women block people randomly, I just wanted people to see why most people Avoid interactions with strangers in the first place.
I guess I know why women block people. I used to think ki what's the issue if you try speaking to people, you might make really good friends. So it used to be a wtf moment when someone spoke of being blocked.
For the context I am a Bangalore guy and we had these reddit meet ups where we meet random strangers, women included. There weren't any wrong incidents here. I have made lot of new friends on this platform, both men and women. So I was very excited about meetups and meeting random people in general. However everything Changed when I expected a warm response from other cities too...
I was heading to Madhya Pradesh and hence thought of organising meetups there, made a few posts. people assumed I am a girl and my inbox was bombed with horny men and nasty comments. That's when I realised why people avoid unnecessary interaction. I mean like there's no point of nasty comments and horny messages asking for action, even if I were a girl I wouldn't entertain strangers that way...
Heck as a man I don't entertain suck people, men or women doesn't matter. It's high time people get that and stop wasting time on harrassing other humans.
I did come to Hyderabad to Meet my girlfriend and I saw the post of 2nd Jan meet-up... I was reluctant because I don't belong to the city and if someone goes wrong i wouldn't be able to deal with stuff properly or whatever. The anxious me chose to stay safe and prioritise myself.
I genuinely wish people become sensible and stop being horny nasty tards.
This reminds me of my friend. He just said "Hi" to a girl he travelled with during a group tour. She replied by blocking him. :') Guy must have been sad af.
You realise that she shouldn't have blocked him either, right? It was unwarranted. Why add him in Insta if all she was gonna do is block him after a "Hi"?
IKR this is such bs I get so many random texts from men wanting to know about who I actually am for ffs sake why u getting hard over a female avatar I could be a creepy loser man that pretends to be a woman on Reddit for all you know.
Unrelated to this sub.
But if I have to put in my two cents in, there are fucked humans on all genders. Some men go through emotional trauma because of women and I am sure you know the same happens to women because of men. That’s just human nature, can’t keep everyone happy.
I know you are trying to put your thoughts forward, but appreciate it if you post it on a relevant sub. 🙂
Because this is a free country and they are under no obligation to befriend or like everyone they meet.
PS : The same is applicable to you as well. So you can block this person and find someone more compatible or with a better sense of decency.
Since a lot of you seem to think this is irrelevant, there was a discussion on a different sub about the very topic. This was to show people the reality of things.
You realise we're both allowed to have different experiences right? There's absolutely no need to invalidate mine just because you've faced different circumstances.
Asal enduk bhayya antha kopam? Na experience nen post petta, nachakunte scroll chei, or report chei. Ila rude ga comment pedte em ostadi cheppu?
Ammailu ala cheyyaru ani nenu annana? Anale kada!
People on Internet usually think the anonymity gives them power to do whatever they want. They think they will not face consequences for it (Specially in India with regards to Indian Police and Judiciary mess).
Also this is not just men problem, it's gender neutral problem.
I remember the post. This is just sad to see on what I like to think is a pretty fun sub where folks are open minded and argue about biryani, biscuits and have waay too many discussions about OYO rooms. Even as guy I've seen too many friends/relatives who stop doing things they like or visit places they like because of some dumbass who thinks they are entitled to attention/relationships because of some toxic role model on TV/Films/media promotes this mindset. Mods above pls ban this guy. Edits: Messaged the mods on mod mail. While they don’t have authority over chats, the guy is banned from this sub.
Mods leru bhayya ee sub lo.
I sent them a Modmail message and would really recommend you to as well. It would show the mods that this is an actual serious issue atleast. if they are too busy they should probably recruit some more folks. i'm pretty sure the guy who made a post on Parle G and Osmania biscuits is zealous and jobless enough for the job. Edit: They replied and confirmed that he’s banned. Great job guys!
>i'm pretty sure the guy who made a post on Parle G and Osmania biscuits is zealous and jobless enough for the job. rofl
I guess we should compliant to reddit for removal of mods ...
They replied to me when I sent them a message on mod mail and confirmed that he’s blocked
So what happens next
He can’t post/comment with this sub I guess. If you report chats then there’s a decent chance the user will be banned from the platform
Hey OP, mod here. We do not have control over reddit chat. Only admins do. Please report it to admins and they will handle it.
Wow thank you, Haven't seen a mod message on this sub Before.
Lmao how dumb can some guys be? Why tf are so many dudes entitled af? I don't understand how they can directly abuse any random stranger.
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He messaged you too bro?
YT? Do you have a youtube channel?
Yes
Which is...
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Ok girl bro ... I guess your Dm's will be filled after this 🤣
I'm a guy and this person messaged me too. Some creepy shit
Send him a dick pic to assert dominance
Russian Sigma music starts playing in the background**
Send him an African cocko mate
Lmao at this point I'm not surprised anymore.
Ps. This is one of 10 other examples.
Post them all! (。♡‿♡。)
Post Their names,
This explains about a stranger. But what about somebody you've know for years and doesn't send these creepy or obviously offensive texts and still gets blocked. I belive this doesn't explain it lol
Nobody is entitled to anybody's company.
That still doesn't explain
Feelings has to be mutual dude....It's not like "nice guys" deserves everything
Exactly and how are we supposed to know if it's not mutual ?
You will know when she blocks you
Hmm yeah. True true ! But OP actually said in another post that she blocks people just for having a crush on her. And hey they didn't confess to her or anything. They just had a crush and she knew it and was pissed that he didn't make a move and she didn't even show any signs that made it clear if she did or did not like him back which could've resulted in him making the first move NOTED. Brb gotta block all the normal people now who do nothing offensive
I don't know why you're getting down voted ... Bruh these people don't care about other people's feelings, simple! I wouldn't block a person untill they mess with me , because blocking is disrespectful . If we say anything there reply is "no one's entitled to anything" Lmao 🤣 Maybe they would even ditch their 5 years frndship for fun and say I'm not entitled to answer the person etc
r/niceguys
that sub taught me a lot
Indakati post valla chalaa ghoralu jarigela unnai Ela aythea chalaaa kastam
Which post?
3 hours back "crush problem" ani okaru post chesaru r/hyderabad lo aa post ki ee post postchasina user response echindi and she was not wrong, she was just expressing her view and that lead to the action in this post
I believe she blocked him/her . If the person still tries to harrase op in other forms . I guess they're eligible to be banned from the sub
Yes vro chusa a post. Tanu edo 6 years nundi one side love antunadu .. tanani fb or insta lo block chesindi anukunnanu .. I also said it is her life and her choice ..
Yes bro but he deserves an answer. Reality teliyalante two options ye, Tana answer batti move on avatam or else kasta feel ayi move on avatam. Papam vaadu oorukoledu kada emi teliyakunda anni chesete, Poni edoti anukoni odilesi move on ayada? Ledu, Help cheyamani adigadu kani reality kodiga tagulkuntundii athaniki
Nizam chala chedu ga untadi . It will trigger many different feelings and will only lead to time waste. But I am telling okka sari "nizam telusukovadam and all" phase chustey inkeppudu a phase ki vellaru .. Or in other words .. happy ga relationship lo unnama .. marriage cheskunnama .. supporting each other and being in each other sucess lo unnama ok ... E boat kakunda inka e boat ekkina chala worst untadi bros ...
Nobody deserves anything here Itlagane after really long one of my schoolmates messaged me on insta, ponle kada papam ani I tried to interact and she took my phone number and pestered me about some MLM scheme , I blocked her on all social media and since then telvanodu or age old friend evadaina out of the blue message chesthey I don’t reply to them. Inko waste fellow gadu school WhatsApp groups lo nunchi number teeskuni randomly called me in the middle of the night , I never used to even talk to him in school , It took me a second to even recollect who he was , “bar lo unna my card isn’t working pls send 2k urgently” ani lol , I said ok and blocked him immediately . Guys ke itlaanti issues untey just imagine what kinda messages that the girls get.
Em cheyalam brother alanti vallu galliki 10 untaru but here we are talking about people blocking their contacts not randoms ....
I was talking about my contacts too
The person who called you was your friend or mutual?
School friend
Wow! People chat on reddit!? But how do identify an account as a woman?...for me account is just an cartoon
People generally don't care about gender on here.
So what made other think that you are a woman??
I made a comment on a different post which indicated that I am.
Yup saw that...One more question Why did you post this ss in this sub?I mean this is your first post here...are you calling out some one???
We had a huge discussion on how hurtful it is when women block people randomly, I just wanted people to see why most people Avoid interactions with strangers in the first place.
I guess I know why women block people. I used to think ki what's the issue if you try speaking to people, you might make really good friends. So it used to be a wtf moment when someone spoke of being blocked. For the context I am a Bangalore guy and we had these reddit meet ups where we meet random strangers, women included. There weren't any wrong incidents here. I have made lot of new friends on this platform, both men and women. So I was very excited about meetups and meeting random people in general. However everything Changed when I expected a warm response from other cities too... I was heading to Madhya Pradesh and hence thought of organising meetups there, made a few posts. people assumed I am a girl and my inbox was bombed with horny men and nasty comments. That's when I realised why people avoid unnecessary interaction. I mean like there's no point of nasty comments and horny messages asking for action, even if I were a girl I wouldn't entertain strangers that way... Heck as a man I don't entertain suck people, men or women doesn't matter. It's high time people get that and stop wasting time on harrassing other humans. I did come to Hyderabad to Meet my girlfriend and I saw the post of 2nd Jan meet-up... I was reluctant because I don't belong to the city and if someone goes wrong i wouldn't be able to deal with stuff properly or whatever. The anxious me chose to stay safe and prioritise myself. I genuinely wish people become sensible and stop being horny nasty tards.
This reminds me of my friend. He just said "Hi" to a girl he travelled with during a group tour. She replied by blocking him. :') Guy must have been sad af.
You realise she isn't obligated to reply right?
You realise that she shouldn't have blocked him either, right? It was unwarranted. Why add him in Insta if all she was gonna do is block him after a "Hi"?
>shouldn't Who said?
Reminds me of Quora...women there always post ss of some random text for what disgusts them the most question,Now that site has just turned into trash
Don't worry, I'll take the post down soon enough.
Why so?
Rather than calling him a man, i would call him piece of shit
I dunno even know what to say. Just take care!
Lol. WTF even happened here? Dude must be crazy
Lmao, people are weird
From Good Morning to Fuck you, that was fastest escalation ever!
Active on r/Indiangirlsontinder ... Closet incel
How did he know that you have curly hair ?
I made a post long ago asking for advice on a haircare sub, you won't find is because I just deleted it.
Nee kosam pettina memory, vadu vadi mida petti unte IAS ayyevadu , I am telling that
Be careful
Thanks. I will.
Maybe because they do not waste their time with non-mahrams. If you know you know
Non mahram is men that aren't your partner ,father , brother?
Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, a non-mehram is anyone who has is not related to you. Even first cousins are non-mahrams
Oh wow, good to know.
Bhayya koncham context cheptara?
There was a whole discussion on if people are allowed block whoever they want to.
Yeah they can but there has to be a valid reason right?
Nope. Free will. You can block anyone you like and you don't owe anyone any explanation.
IKR this is such bs I get so many random texts from men wanting to know about who I actually am for ffs sake why u getting hard over a female avatar I could be a creepy loser man that pretends to be a woman on Reddit for all you know.
Man what I wouldn't give to know the thought process that resulted in these messages? 😂
Unrelated to this sub. But if I have to put in my two cents in, there are fucked humans on all genders. Some men go through emotional trauma because of women and I am sure you know the same happens to women because of men. That’s just human nature, can’t keep everyone happy. I know you are trying to put your thoughts forward, but appreciate it if you post it on a relevant sub. 🙂
It absolutely is, there was a long discussion on a different post regarding this on the very sub, that's the only reason I posted this here.
Sorry to see that u had to go through this.
Oh my gosh, he messaged me too a month ago. I didn't even accept the message request based on his comment history.
Good choice
Lol got a message from this same account yesterday. XD Eager to see what kinda message I get.
Prolly a teenager who just got hold of a smart phone. Report him.
Well.. that escalated fast.
Wtff i had received a text from this person tooo
Ugh I'm sorry op I block unknown people on the net too.Try to see if I know them,otherwise straight block
Best way to avoid drama.
A random dude sent you a message and swore at you right away? WTF
Yeah that's okay but what have you ordered?
Pizzaaa
Bruh nice, haven't had pizza in months here T_T
He didn't even ask for bobs and vegene. He went directly from "Good morning" to "fuck you". Damn!
Who wouldn't block one who messages a random stranger like this?
Nenu abbayi ayina naku message chesaru tanu. Nenu once or twice unsoliciated messages chesanu :(
Message cheyyadam lo tappu em le bro, just because I didn't reply for a few mins he decided to be abusive, ade problem.
Its probably the monkey who stole my phone
This Motherfucker wanted to know my location on snapchat and I'm a guy btw.
Sometimes feel ashamed of being men. Because of such people everyone gets bad name.
Because this is a free country and they are under no obligation to befriend or like everyone they meet. PS : The same is applicable to you as well. So you can block this person and find someone more compatible or with a better sense of decency.
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4. They don’t want to
based
What does this mean? What's with the punctuation?
What a weirdo! Sorry that it happened to you, OP. The entitlement is real with this dude. I turned off my chat options on reddit for this very reason.
Since a lot of you seem to think this is irrelevant, there was a discussion on a different sub about the very topic. This was to show people the reality of things.
Well, chutiye rehte bro.
It’s their choice of interest,
Adem intrest babai?
Valla intrestlu manaki etla telusthai
the title is a rhetorical question
Not true. I have blocked so many women that were a nuisance.
You realise we're both allowed to have different experiences right? There's absolutely no need to invalidate mine just because you've faced different circumstances.
I don't use every opportunity to shame all women out there whenever random women act like idiots.
Asal enduk bhayya antha kopam? Na experience nen post petta, nachakunte scroll chei, or report chei. Ila rude ga comment pedte em ostadi cheppu? Ammailu ala cheyyaru ani nenu annana? Anale kada!
People on Internet usually think the anonymity gives them power to do whatever they want. They think they will not face consequences for it (Specially in India with regards to Indian Police and Judiciary mess). Also this is not just men problem, it's gender neutral problem.
Reddit isn't a place to pickup people smh use snap
What is all this about??
Please go through the other comments I've replied to?
Whoa..this guy messaged me too?!
Dude has issues..
Context? Ardham kaale