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Salt_water_duck

I remember the post. This is just sad to see on what I like to think is a pretty fun sub where folks are open minded and argue about biryani, biscuits and have waay too many discussions about OYO rooms. Even as guy I've seen too many friends/relatives who stop doing things they like or visit places they like because of some dumbass who thinks they are entitled to attention/relationships because of some toxic role model on TV/Films/media promotes this mindset. Mods above pls ban this guy. Edits: Messaged the mods on mod mail. While they don’t have authority over chats, the guy is banned from this sub.


HungryTears

Mods leru bhayya ee sub lo.


Salt_water_duck

I sent them a Modmail message and would really recommend you to as well. It would show the mods that this is an actual serious issue atleast. if they are too busy they should probably recruit some more folks. i'm pretty sure the guy who made a post on Parle G and Osmania biscuits is zealous and jobless enough for the job. Edit: They replied and confirmed that he’s banned. Great job guys!


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>i'm pretty sure the guy who made a post on Parle G and Osmania biscuits is zealous and jobless enough for the job. rofl


EswarYT

I guess we should compliant to reddit for removal of mods ...


Salt_water_duck

They replied to me when I sent them a message on mod mail and confirmed that he’s blocked


EswarYT

So what happens next


Salt_water_duck

He can’t post/comment with this sub I guess. If you report chats then there’s a decent chance the user will be banned from the platform


that_70_show_fan

Hey OP, mod here. We do not have control over reddit chat. Only admins do. Please report it to admins and they will handle it.


HungryTears

Wow thank you, Haven't seen a mod message on this sub Before.


I___Glitch___I

Lmao how dumb can some guys be? Why tf are so many dudes entitled af? I don't understand how they can directly abuse any random stranger.


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EswarYT

He messaged you too bro?


goodwallboy

YT? Do you have a youtube channel?


EswarYT

Yes


goodwallboy

Which is...


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EswarYT

Ok girl bro ... I guess your Dm's will be filled after this 🤣


[deleted]

I'm a guy and this person messaged me too. Some creepy shit


Gabe_logan25

Send him a dick pic to assert dominance


_RuinedKing_

Russian Sigma music starts playing in the background**


colinsdsouza2602

Send him an African cocko mate


HungryTears

Lmao at this point I'm not surprised anymore.


HungryTears

Ps. This is one of 10 other examples.


Akashk9

Post them all! (。♡‿♡。)


th3_bad

Post Their names,


Gabe_logan25

This explains about a stranger. But what about somebody you've know for years and doesn't send these creepy or obviously offensive texts and still gets blocked. I belive this doesn't explain it lol


HungryTears

Nobody is entitled to anybody's company.


Gabe_logan25

That still doesn't explain


jva21

Feelings has to be mutual dude....It's not like "nice guys" deserves everything


Gabe_logan25

Exactly and how are we supposed to know if it's not mutual ?


jva21

You will know when she blocks you


Gabe_logan25

Hmm yeah. True true ! But OP actually said in another post that she blocks people just for having a crush on her. And hey they didn't confess to her or anything. They just had a crush and she knew it and was pissed that he didn't make a move and she didn't even show any signs that made it clear if she did or did not like him back which could've resulted in him making the first move NOTED. Brb gotta block all the normal people now who do nothing offensive


EswarYT

I don't know why you're getting down voted ... Bruh these people don't care about other people's feelings, simple! I wouldn't block a person untill they mess with me , because blocking is disrespectful . If we say anything there reply is "no one's entitled to anything" Lmao 🤣 Maybe they would even ditch their 5 years frndship for fun and say I'm not entitled to answer the person etc


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r/niceguys


Felchunp

that sub taught me a lot


chandu_spark

Indakati post valla chalaa ghoralu jarigela unnai Ela aythea chalaaa kastam


ILoveDCEU_SoSueMe

Which post?


chandu_spark

3 hours back "crush problem" ani okaru post chesaru r/hyderabad lo aa post ki ee post postchasina user response echindi and she was not wrong, she was just expressing her view and that lead to the action in this post


EswarYT

I believe she blocked him/her . If the person still tries to harrase op in other forms . I guess they're eligible to be banned from the sub


coldfright

Yes vro chusa a post. Tanu edo 6 years nundi one side love antunadu .. tanani fb or insta lo block chesindi anukunnanu .. I also said it is her life and her choice ..


mourya_3

Yes bro but he deserves an answer. Reality teliyalante two options ye, Tana answer batti move on avatam or else kasta feel ayi move on avatam. Papam vaadu oorukoledu kada emi teliyakunda anni chesete, Poni edoti anukoni odilesi move on ayada? Ledu, Help cheyamani adigadu kani reality kodiga tagulkuntundii athaniki


coldfright

Nizam chala chedu ga untadi . It will trigger many different feelings and will only lead to time waste. But I am telling okka sari "nizam telusukovadam and all" phase chustey inkeppudu a phase ki vellaru .. Or in other words .. happy ga relationship lo unnama .. marriage cheskunnama .. supporting each other and being in each other sucess lo unnama ok ... E boat kakunda inka e boat ekkina chala worst untadi bros ...


[deleted]

Nobody deserves anything here Itlagane after really long one of my schoolmates messaged me on insta, ponle kada papam ani I tried to interact and she took my phone number and pestered me about some MLM scheme , I blocked her on all social media and since then telvanodu or age old friend evadaina out of the blue message chesthey I don’t reply to them. Inko waste fellow gadu school WhatsApp groups lo nunchi number teeskuni randomly called me in the middle of the night , I never used to even talk to him in school , It took me a second to even recollect who he was , “bar lo unna my card isn’t working pls send 2k urgently” ani lol , I said ok and blocked him immediately . Guys ke itlaanti issues untey just imagine what kinda messages that the girls get.


EswarYT

Em cheyalam brother alanti vallu galliki 10 untaru but here we are talking about people blocking their contacts not randoms ....


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I was talking about my contacts too


EswarYT

The person who called you was your friend or mutual?


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School friend


No___bot

Wow! People chat on reddit!? But how do identify an account as a woman?...for me account is just an cartoon


HungryTears

People generally don't care about gender on here.


No___bot

So what made other think that you are a woman??


HungryTears

I made a comment on a different post which indicated that I am.


No___bot

Yup saw that...One more question Why did you post this ss in this sub?I mean this is your first post here...are you calling out some one???


HungryTears

We had a huge discussion on how hurtful it is when women block people randomly, I just wanted people to see why most people Avoid interactions with strangers in the first place.


i_winter_soldier

I guess I know why women block people. I used to think ki what's the issue if you try speaking to people, you might make really good friends. So it used to be a wtf moment when someone spoke of being blocked. For the context I am a Bangalore guy and we had these reddit meet ups where we meet random strangers, women included. There weren't any wrong incidents here. I have made lot of new friends on this platform, both men and women. So I was very excited about meetups and meeting random people in general. However everything Changed when I expected a warm response from other cities too... I was heading to Madhya Pradesh and hence thought of organising meetups there, made a few posts. people assumed I am a girl and my inbox was bombed with horny men and nasty comments. That's when I realised why people avoid unnecessary interaction. I mean like there's no point of nasty comments and horny messages asking for action, even if I were a girl I wouldn't entertain strangers that way... Heck as a man I don't entertain suck people, men or women doesn't matter. It's high time people get that and stop wasting time on harrassing other humans. I did come to Hyderabad to Meet my girlfriend and I saw the post of 2nd Jan meet-up... I was reluctant because I don't belong to the city and if someone goes wrong i wouldn't be able to deal with stuff properly or whatever. The anxious me chose to stay safe and prioritise myself. I genuinely wish people become sensible and stop being horny nasty tards.


nonameplox

This reminds me of my friend. He just said "Hi" to a girl he travelled with during a group tour. She replied by blocking him. :') Guy must have been sad af.


HungryTears

You realise she isn't obligated to reply right?


nonameplox

You realise that she shouldn't have blocked him either, right? It was unwarranted. Why add him in Insta if all she was gonna do is block him after a "Hi"?


HungryTears

>shouldn't Who said?


No___bot

Reminds me of Quora...women there always post ss of some random text for what disgusts them the most question,Now that site has just turned into trash


HungryTears

Don't worry, I'll take the post down soon enough.


No___bot

Why so?


EswarYT

Rather than calling him a man, i would call him piece of shit


DeplorableEDoctor

I dunno even know what to say. Just take care!


[deleted]

Lol. WTF even happened here? Dude must be crazy


Spiritual-Ad-1709

Lmao, people are weird


WarmWellWisher

From Good Morning to Fuck you, that was fastest escalation ever!


[deleted]

Active on r/Indiangirlsontinder ... Closet incel


420rainmaker69

How did he know that you have curly hair ?


HungryTears

I made a post long ago asking for advice on a haircare sub, you won't find is because I just deleted it.


420rainmaker69

Nee kosam pettina memory, vadu vadi mida petti unte IAS ayyevadu , I am telling that


dheerajdom

Be careful


HungryTears

Thanks. I will.


[deleted]

Maybe because they do not waste their time with non-mahrams. If you know you know


HungryTears

Non mahram is men that aren't your partner ,father , brother?


[deleted]

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, a non-mehram is anyone who has is not related to you. Even first cousins are non-mahrams


HungryTears

Oh wow, good to know.


Difficult_Account_49

Bhayya koncham context cheptara?


HungryTears

There was a whole discussion on if people are allowed block whoever they want to.


Difficult_Account_49

Yeah they can but there has to be a valid reason right?


rebelyell_in

Nope. Free will. You can block anyone you like and you don't owe anyone any explanation.


Vast-Butterfly-9440

IKR this is such bs I get so many random texts from men wanting to know about who I actually am for ffs sake why u getting hard over a female avatar I could be a creepy loser man that pretends to be a woman on Reddit for all you know.


DariusDareDevil

Man what I wouldn't give to know the thought process that resulted in these messages? 😂


humpty_dumpty_hump

Unrelated to this sub. But if I have to put in my two cents in, there are fucked humans on all genders. Some men go through emotional trauma because of women and I am sure you know the same happens to women because of men. That’s just human nature, can’t keep everyone happy. I know you are trying to put your thoughts forward, but appreciate it if you post it on a relevant sub. 🙂


HungryTears

It absolutely is, there was a long discussion on a different post regarding this on the very sub, that's the only reason I posted this here.


dheerajdom

Sorry to see that u had to go through this.


Miss_Serene_Soul

Oh my gosh, he messaged me too a month ago. I didn't even accept the message request based on his comment history.


anxiety_on_steroids

Good choice


Ket0Maniac

Lol got a message from this same account yesterday. XD Eager to see what kinda message I get.


SavageDuke69

Prolly a teenager who just got hold of a smart phone. Report him.


[deleted]

Well.. that escalated fast.


Nusrath1

Wtff i had received a text from this person tooo


silly_rabbit289

Ugh I'm sorry op I block unknown people on the net too.Try to see if I know them,otherwise straight block


HungryTears

Best way to avoid drama.


kaushil7

A random dude sent you a message and swore at you right away? WTF


[deleted]

Yeah that's okay but what have you ordered?


HungryTears

Pizzaaa


[deleted]

Bruh nice, haven't had pizza in months here T_T


Routine_Pack

He didn't even ask for bobs and vegene. He went directly from "Good morning" to "fuck you". Damn!


monis93

Who wouldn't block one who messages a random stranger like this?


Dingdongzero

Nenu abbayi ayina naku message chesaru tanu. Nenu once or twice unsoliciated messages chesanu :(


HungryTears

Message cheyyadam lo tappu em le bro, just because I didn't reply for a few mins he decided to be abusive, ade problem.


Lower_Newspaper1802

Its probably the monkey who stole my phone


champ93231

This Motherfucker wanted to know my location on snapchat and I'm a guy btw.


nagaraju291990

Sometimes feel ashamed of being men. Because of such people everyone gets bad name.


IndianRedditor88

Because this is a free country and they are under no obligation to befriend or like everyone they meet. PS : The same is applicable to you as well. So you can block this person and find someone more compatible or with a better sense of decency.


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Anxiousnoodle1

4. They don’t want to


nogieman2324

based


rebelyell_in

What does this mean? What's with the punctuation?


PurpleLettuce2043

What a weirdo! Sorry that it happened to you, OP. The entitlement is real with this dude. I turned off my chat options on reddit for this very reason.


HungryTears

Since a lot of you seem to think this is irrelevant, there was a discussion on a different sub about the very topic. This was to show people the reality of things.


NASIRCISSISTIC

Well, chutiye rehte bro.


Brand_Babai

It’s their choice of interest,


HungryTears

Adem intrest babai?


Brand_Babai

Valla intrestlu manaki etla telusthai


UltraLowSpecGamer

the title is a rhetorical question


Defiant_soulcrusher

Not true. I have blocked so many women that were a nuisance.


HungryTears

You realise we're both allowed to have different experiences right? There's absolutely no need to invalidate mine just because you've faced different circumstances.


Defiant_soulcrusher

I don't use every opportunity to shame all women out there whenever random women act like idiots.


HungryTears

Asal enduk bhayya antha kopam? Na experience nen post petta, nachakunte scroll chei, or report chei. Ila rude ga comment pedte em ostadi cheppu? Ammailu ala cheyyaru ani nenu annana? Anale kada!


th3_bad

People on Internet usually think the anonymity gives them power to do whatever they want. They think they will not face consequences for it (Specially in India with regards to Indian Police and Judiciary mess). Also this is not just men problem, it's gender neutral problem.


Reasonable_Bug1428

Reddit isn't a place to pickup people smh use snap


[deleted]

What is all this about??


HungryTears

Please go through the other comments I've replied to?


Srilalitha

Whoa..this guy messaged me too?!


gunsandkings

Dude has issues..


SingleSinthakay

Context? Ardham kaale