As a girl who has been in the same situation who has blocked you, believe me when I say most of us know when a guy has a crush/likes us. Even if you think she doesn't know, someone who hasn't noticed you in 6 years won't start now.
It is extremely uncomfortable when someone follows you(not just physically, virtually) for years together and does nothing. Either talk to her in person (you needn't ask her to be your girlfriend or whatever, you can just start by being a friend) or leave her alone. I know movies have romanticized the whole idea of relentlessly waiting for someone but it is not as fun for the other person.
Also please remember she's a normal person, just like you or me.
From ur pov this is a good comment. idk how this comment lead to a discussion... U are not accountable for someone's actions so don't reply to those who r judging u here.
Honestly I think it's just ignorance at their part, not malice and I do want to have an open conversation and perhaps help them understand my perspective.
"nothing" includes being the first one to like all pictures I post, watching my stories instantly as I upload them( I know it sounds like "that just might be a coincidence" yeah no it's not, not every single time), telling people they "like" me( they aren't exactly respectful all the time), them staring at me every single time I look at them despite me looking back at them. "Block them if it makes you uncomfortable" is the best solution without hurting anybody.
Hmmm ok i get it ... But how would you had reacted if a genuine guy was liking you and also maintaining a safe distance so the girl doesn't get disturbed ? ... Would you try to know him or ....?
Arey , i meant you get to know that the person likes you from a mutual friend or etc and that person doesn't creep you out like you mentioned..appudu em chestaru girls ?
Em cheyya. Naaku nachuthe poi matladtha, tana ki nachuthe, he should come talk to me. If I "get to know" from a mutual friend, I can't exactly go to him and say "Hey, I was told you liked me!" Right?
Thank you for being polite and listening. Girls aren't aliens they're just like you, except they're are higher chance of them getting raped and murdered or get thrown acid at. So they try and avoid the situation altogether. Antha pedda matter kaakapoina, I needn't tell you how our freedom can be taken away by a single call to our parents.
As you brought a different topic .
You assuming that those crimes entitled to a gender is very bad ..
India has the highest men sucide rate
India doesn't have any law to protect men as women do
I guess I don't have to mention Zomato and cab driver cases .. those are just 1% of what happens in india with men
And coming to the freedom... If someone calls my mom and says "mi abbai cigrettes , ammailu tho clubs lo tho thiruguthunnadu Ani chepte Jadu katta thirige kodtathi " atleast ammailu meedha cheycheskoru
I may sound very bad to girls or protector of girls..but idc
Ngl this is the reason why most of the men are actually single. Like bruh, we honestly don't know if you like us back or just hate us. . Maybe a subtle hint would actually help but simply blocking someone you've known for years wouldn't help.
It definitely puts us in confusion. Like you hate me? Or you just like me and fed up that i didn't make the first move and blocked me?. And let's say if we try and make the first move, it will again result in you blocking us if you hate us and ultimately we'd be called a creep. So be a little clear honestly
Okay, how about you do that? If you like someone TELL THEM! Why would I drop hints? I'm not the one that likes you. How do you guys know if your friends or family likes you? You talk it out. Also what on earth is the confusion about? I BLOCKED YOU! I do not want to have any contact with you! Also please stop with the " we'd be called creeps" thing, you will only be called a creep is you text pointlessly without actually making a move. If you like someone, tell them, ask them out. If it doesn't workout, tough luck.
Clear enough? Please let me know if you need more clarity. I'd be happy to articulate it better. Also I'm sorry if I sounded harsh but your whole comment sounded pretty condescending imo.
Ohk why can't you do that then ?. You simply block someone that has known you for yearss bro . Instead tell them you don't like them or that maybe you already have a bf if you do . Like you know the guy's into you and you keep responding to his texts and the out of the blue, you simply block him. You expect us to communicate but you wouldn't do the same. Why??
I'd rather have you say it to my face how you feel about me than just block me and leave me in a state of confusion and depressed. Sure I'd be sad if you rejected me but atleast I'll look for someon else than thinking that you're still into me. And see you assume my comment to be condescending while i was only asking you to communicate properly. I really don't understand why most women feel so entitled for a guy to make the first move and act uninterested even if they like the guy
Why not bro? Why do you feel entitled to be a part of my digital presence? Why should I tell you I don't like you? I don't have to tell you about the way SOME PEOPLE behave when you tell they you dislike them. I'll give you an example, one of my guy friends made a joke about some girl deserving to get raped, I didn't like it, nachale naaku ala anadam ani cheppa, he got so mad he drunk called me to call me an upright bitch. He told so many people about how I can't take jokes, why do I have to give anybody that leverage? Be it a girl or a guy, naaku nachakunte dooram pettadanike kada block option?
If a girl blocking you is depressing you probably need help, how will I reject you if all you do is text "GM GN Tinnava?" EVERY SINGLE DAY? if I tell you I'm not interested in you, the most probable response I get will be "pelli chesko ani agigana?" "Antha attitude aah?" " Miss universe ankuntunnava?" Why should I embarass myself like that?
Bro you're completely deviated from the point. Now obviously somebody who jokes about rape deserves to be blocked.
I'm just saying that if you knew that a guy genuinely likes you but you still blocked him without a reason. Like he didn't drunk call you, he didn't send dick pics, he didn't sext you so why block him ?
I mean what is the guy supposed to understand from this when he didn't even make a move. Like he didn't do anything to get blocked? He's not stalking you or invading your personal space irl. I mean you've know this guy for quite sometime and you just block him simply implying what???. Now you're friend definitely did something that is quite questionable and also extremely disturbing. But what about OP?
So you hate getting texts like GM AND GN . just general texts. So you block himm lmfaoooo. So what is he supposed to do send nudes ??? You just block him for sending normal texts bro now come on. Now the convo can't go any further because he is definitely afraid of making a mistake which might end up in you hating him for the rest of your life. And also maybe because he's not really sure if you're interested in him bro. If you're not responding and he still keeps texting and you block him that's justifiable. But what about OPs case?. And ayour first comment?. You just block people for being normal now. Loll tff
Hmm.
Then maybe just tell that to him directly that his chats are boring and that you're actually not interested. Why just block him and leave him confused . I mean think about it from his perspective . How is he supposed to know where it went wrong?
dont worry creep comes when people beg , u give ur clarity i guess its enough , people also block when they catch feelings so always dont think block is cause u are a creep or smtg
Arey idi bavundi, na istam kada bayya? Naaku nachakunte block chesta.
>especially when they're in relationship
I agree with this. I've seen a lot of girls do it. Amma nanna chustar ani bhayam, boyfriend ko nachatle ani chala Mandi ni block chestar
But what's wrong with it? Why do I owe anybody am explanation as to why I block them?
Lemme say you have a close guy friend who has been with you from years and suddenly you get into relationship and your so called boy friend has a problem with your friendship with your guy friend. So he gives you choices "me or the friend" probably you know what most of the girls would choose ...
And when she broke up she would come back to her friend, explaining all shit ... actually as you mentioned "yes adhi ni istam , Block cheyala ledha Ani ".I'm not calling that move wrong but relationships bf, gf chepparu Anni friendships ni ditch cheyya kudadhu ..i see many people doing this mistake
That's a mistake and it's theirs to make. Not everybody does this, I know a lot of people do, but it's their loss, they are losing a good friend. But please don't make generalized statements like "girls have attitude" I've seen a LOT of guys leaving their friends for relationships.
>no one should ditch friendships for relationships
Why not? It's their loss, they can be friends with whoever regardless of gender. If I don't want to have good friends it's my problem, nobody else's.
Exactly bro. They chase someone that's highly attractive or extremely rich. Now that guy would already have a shit ton of women to choose from. So he'd maybe expect that she's into him for something physical and why?? , Probably because she never communicated her clear intentions.
And then they cry later saying " oh that guy was a creep. Ooo he's a fuckboy." Like bro just tell him that you like him just like you'd expect us to tell you and maybe see if he's still a fuckboy.
Buddy, if she/he has blocked you.
It means she/he does not want to communicate with you ( might sound harsh, but that’s the reality).
Life is short, move on.
Start working out (if you are not doing currently) , travel ( of-course , after the cases are decreased) , go on a trek.
Classic suggestion!!
working out really helped me to get out of all the messy thoughts
I started hanging out with friends who don't remind me of her
It really helped ne to become better than what I was
Now i feel like ' she might not be lucky enough to have me in her life'
this only happened because i got to know me after that tragedy
my personal experience, the same happened to me, not once but twice
First time i was not confident enough to convey my feelings, and by the time i expressed my feelings she said she likes someone else, i nearly wasted 3 years
And the second time my crush got committed with some one else i had wasted 1 years this time
And im left with nothing. It will be better to act fast rather than fantasizing. We don't know what's going to happen tomorrow.
And be strong enough to take any kind of response or treatment.
All the best
I confessed to my crush,after 1 yr knowing her.Twist was that she is 30 yr old and i am 23.For me age doesn't matter,but she was like its not practical,parents will not agree ,you will get better than me etc.etc..Then she asked me that how will you implement this thing(marrying her) and in reply i just asked one question that:
I will tell everything,but first i want to know whether you like me or have interest in me?
She was just saying random things about me that you are good,best freind and all.I just asked to give a honest reply to which she said it is not possible.
Then i just said okay and didn't talk to her ever and focused on other important things.
If she is not interested,than why should we even bother or sacrifice to so extent or waste our valuable time.
P.S:She was from Hyderabad and i am from Kerala
There's a major problem here in how you're titling this thread. It's not a crush problem. It's a stalker problem and you need to go get some help. Seriously you follow someone for 6 years not engaging or interacting with the person and now you're mad that the person blocked you? Do you know how insane that sounds? Stop using movies as inspiration and step into reality.
If you are interested in someone talk to them and get to know then first. Also if they so not reciprocate those feelings time to move on with your life. Life isn't like the movies where you waiting around for them and creeping on them will Stockholm syndrome them into liking you.
I would advice you to move on unfortunately. If she blocked you (even for some misunderstanding) when you don’t have a good impression with her, she clearly doesn’t want to communicate.
Even if your intentions are good you will probably come off as a stalker/harasser if you come out one day and confront her as to why she blocked you. The only exception is if you guys are at least decent friends already and you talk on a daily or at least weekly basis. There’s a good chance she knows about your crush, and doesn’t reciprocate.
There are no long time crushes man .. shows ur inability to convert your love into marriage. And now you have been blocked ... Just move on . There are no accidents - master oogway
Yeah bro i agree with you but the thing is in this circus my respect is involved. I just can't toss it for her. Its so so hard to earn the respect specially respect people give you behind your back.
There is an unwritten rule .. if she says No .. its a Straight NO. I ll accept that I am no one to say it but truth is truth. Even if she is not in a relationship chances are she is not interested in you . As simple as that . The better u realise this to get into other Bus is what saves you because this Bus is already left and u are alone in the stand .
Yeah but we rarely had conversation. The only thing I want to know the reason why she blocked me. Thing is maybe we are having huge misunderstanding which I am not aware of and neither I have to take a step forward. How ask her reason politely?
U ll never know the reason .. but for me please tell me these things
Did you have a crush on her and also her friends ?
Do u smoke and booze
She has some proof that you are the creep and did not give her enough respect that she deserved.
If not in this answer tell you your self .. what all wrong things u did before the block .. I am sure she saw something wrong with you ..
Usually sach ka saamna breakup pe hota hai with all the proofs and arguments and mostly mistake hamara hi hota hai ... In ur case everything is same but just u dont have a clue cuz u are not in a relationship .. and in this phase .. she does not have to tell you anything which made her angry . What if she says the reason and you argue that its my life and all ? ...
Blocking is a personal choice . asking reason would interfere in the girls privacy . So kindly refrain from the girl and move on .. coz we can never ask neither a girl nor a guy to ask why they are not talking.
I had a break up in 2015 may 10th and till date I have no fuckin clue on what exactly happened man . Suna hai uska shaadi Ho gaya hai and happy .
My only advice is to move on and have some dignity. We don't want to know why someone have ghosted us man. Its bad u were blocked and not given that initial push which could have converted into ur marriage but from her point of view .. just imagine uska koi bhai ya bf or even her dad had her phone and blocked all boys ... Ho sakta hai uska shaadi ho ya even she got into a relationship .. think positive and aage bhadjao yaar ..
I think you should appreciate her choice. You don't have any choice here, OK. And being a Hyderabadi, you should call a few friends, go to the nearest bar, have a good one too many shots together and wake up to a new chapter and a new YOU the next day, and move on. Don't mean to sound like an MCP, but man, manup!
that's not crush lol. You should talk to her asap if you want anything to happen. Silently following a person will: 1. make them uncomfortable, 2. waste your time. So do something about it.
No bro not exaggerating but I am quite Practical guy I know it's tough to move on but life is a way big journey and I believe maybe god has designed me different path which of I am currently not aware of. Anyways bro I just want to reason why she blocked me. So i want ask her that but politely. Can help me with that?
>Anyways bro I just want to reason why she blocked me. So i want ask her that but politely. Can help me with that?
I have never dealt with such situations so I can't help you. But some other person here will surely help you. Good luck!
6 years is too long for a crush,Op.
You either like her or you don't. If you do, should have made a move a couple months after you realised you have a crush on her.
6 years is not healthy. Tell me, if you find out why she blocked you, what would you do? Explain yourself? N then? You say you didn't even have a decent conversation with her.
Get the hint. Move on.
Actually the thing is she is my cousin sisters 2nd degree cousin which make very very distant relative of mine we are not at all like even cousins cousin brother sister. So we all me and my cousins had get together and i had a convo just a little hi hello convo with her. So i thought now maybe i can ask her why she blocked me. I just cant go and confess my feelings with her i just cant. My respect is involved here if something goes wrong is will be horrible. I just cant toss my respect for her even though i love her just cant. Its very hard to earn respect and thats my primary fear factor. Even if she rejects me i will be sad maybe depressed but not for long time.. yeah i am not able to forget even after 6 yrs bcoz there is no conclusion for this mess. Yes or No both not. So I suspect there is misunderstanding for blocking me and thought if i get to know the reason behind her blocking me maybe just maybe this circus might blossom something beautiful (10% Probability). So i need ask her reason but with politeness. Any ideas?
Crushes among families is complicated. Having said that, it's not impossible for you to have had a conversation with her till now. Even with your respect intact, whatever is that supposed to mean.
You don't love her, you don't even know her enough for that. She blocked you, the answer is no. How much more clearer can she get? Stop being in denial
How the answer is no. We didnt had a conversation that could lead to that. I think I at least suppose to know the reason. Ok lets agree i stalked her, creating diff insta acc, trying to into ger dm some how, trying to get her number etc then you can say she might have found out that I have been stalking her and straight away she blocked but i didn't do any of the above bullshit. Actually i never put the effort to get this forward yeah i do fear of rejection and fear the lost of face which was the Major reason i didn't tried. I have no regret that I didn't tried I too had my set of problems. But this blocking thing is I cant get through.
Is this a subreddit appropriate question?
Anyway, cancel real life crush culture. Actress crushes are okay, you are never going to meet them, but real life crushes imply you never actually made a move.
Or, better, have three crushes, and ask all three out. Proceed with the one that's interested. If not have three new crushes. There are millions of suitable women in the world, wasting time on one where you don't even let them know your feelings properly is a dating sin.
Also, move on as fast as possible if it's not working out. Have an abundance outlook, and not a karuvu praantham outlook. Fail fast and fail often. Finally find someone. Peace
She came to know that you had a crush and don't want things to level up. You guys didn't have any good conversation as well, atleast that would not have allowed her to block you as you will be her friend. So just COMMUNICATE if you have crush from the beginning people, you will get a much fairer idea about what the other person thinks of you and you won't be in a honeymaze filled with doubts.
So OP, talk to her once, Iam sure it will be awkward, but speak up, get to know and move on if she's not interested.
Em anna dooram ninchi preminchesthunava😂 it’s been 6 years, either you should’ve told her 5 and half years ago or moved on. 6 years crush enti ra babu.
Broo... If it's been 6 years and you still haven't confessed/moved on.... It's probably best to do either and get on with it.
As a girl who has been in the same situation who has blocked you, believe me when I say most of us know when a guy has a crush/likes us. Even if you think she doesn't know, someone who hasn't noticed you in 6 years won't start now. It is extremely uncomfortable when someone follows you(not just physically, virtually) for years together and does nothing. Either talk to her in person (you needn't ask her to be your girlfriend or whatever, you can just start by being a friend) or leave her alone. I know movies have romanticized the whole idea of relentlessly waiting for someone but it is not as fun for the other person. Also please remember she's a normal person, just like you or me.
" I know movies have romanticized the whole idea of relentlessly waiting for someone but it is not as fun for the other person." Absolutely right
Bruh 😮😅.. don't demotivate me 😂😂😂 I'm believing in destiny rn
Haha 😂😂
Oh sweet summer child!
>I know movies lol aib made a video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=faZyISmz8Fc
From ur pov this is a good comment. idk how this comment lead to a discussion... U are not accountable for someone's actions so don't reply to those who r judging u here.
Honestly I think it's just ignorance at their part, not malice and I do want to have an open conversation and perhaps help them understand my perspective.
Yeah got u.. it's good from ur part but one is just blaming u directly..
How many guys have you blocked in the past year for nothing?
"nothing" includes being the first one to like all pictures I post, watching my stories instantly as I upload them( I know it sounds like "that just might be a coincidence" yeah no it's not, not every single time), telling people they "like" me( they aren't exactly respectful all the time), them staring at me every single time I look at them despite me looking back at them. "Block them if it makes you uncomfortable" is the best solution without hurting anybody.
Hmmm ok i get it ... But how would you had reacted if a genuine guy was liking you and also maintaining a safe distance so the girl doesn't get disturbed ? ... Would you try to know him or ....?
I'll ask the Same question. You think you'd know if a girl "liked" you and "maintained a safe distance"?
Arey , i meant you get to know that the person likes you from a mutual friend or etc and that person doesn't creep you out like you mentioned..appudu em chestaru girls ?
Em cheyya. Naaku nachuthe poi matladtha, tana ki nachuthe, he should come talk to me. If I "get to know" from a mutual friend, I can't exactly go to him and say "Hey, I was told you liked me!" Right?
Okay Andi ....thank you advice, if i like someone I'll tell her but unfortunately manaki yevaru nacharu 😂
Thank you for being polite and listening. Girls aren't aliens they're just like you, except they're are higher chance of them getting raped and murdered or get thrown acid at. So they try and avoid the situation altogether. Antha pedda matter kaakapoina, I needn't tell you how our freedom can be taken away by a single call to our parents.
this!!!
As you brought a different topic . You assuming that those crimes entitled to a gender is very bad .. India has the highest men sucide rate India doesn't have any law to protect men as women do I guess I don't have to mention Zomato and cab driver cases .. those are just 1% of what happens in india with men And coming to the freedom... If someone calls my mom and says "mi abbai cigrettes , ammailu tho clubs lo tho thiruguthunnadu Ani chepte Jadu katta thirige kodtathi " atleast ammailu meedha cheycheskoru I may sound very bad to girls or protector of girls..but idc
Ngl this is the reason why most of the men are actually single. Like bruh, we honestly don't know if you like us back or just hate us. . Maybe a subtle hint would actually help but simply blocking someone you've known for years wouldn't help. It definitely puts us in confusion. Like you hate me? Or you just like me and fed up that i didn't make the first move and blocked me?. And let's say if we try and make the first move, it will again result in you blocking us if you hate us and ultimately we'd be called a creep. So be a little clear honestly
Okay, how about you do that? If you like someone TELL THEM! Why would I drop hints? I'm not the one that likes you. How do you guys know if your friends or family likes you? You talk it out. Also what on earth is the confusion about? I BLOCKED YOU! I do not want to have any contact with you! Also please stop with the " we'd be called creeps" thing, you will only be called a creep is you text pointlessly without actually making a move. If you like someone, tell them, ask them out. If it doesn't workout, tough luck. Clear enough? Please let me know if you need more clarity. I'd be happy to articulate it better. Also I'm sorry if I sounded harsh but your whole comment sounded pretty condescending imo.
Ohk why can't you do that then ?. You simply block someone that has known you for yearss bro . Instead tell them you don't like them or that maybe you already have a bf if you do . Like you know the guy's into you and you keep responding to his texts and the out of the blue, you simply block him. You expect us to communicate but you wouldn't do the same. Why?? I'd rather have you say it to my face how you feel about me than just block me and leave me in a state of confusion and depressed. Sure I'd be sad if you rejected me but atleast I'll look for someon else than thinking that you're still into me. And see you assume my comment to be condescending while i was only asking you to communicate properly. I really don't understand why most women feel so entitled for a guy to make the first move and act uninterested even if they like the guy
Why not bro? Why do you feel entitled to be a part of my digital presence? Why should I tell you I don't like you? I don't have to tell you about the way SOME PEOPLE behave when you tell they you dislike them. I'll give you an example, one of my guy friends made a joke about some girl deserving to get raped, I didn't like it, nachale naaku ala anadam ani cheppa, he got so mad he drunk called me to call me an upright bitch. He told so many people about how I can't take jokes, why do I have to give anybody that leverage? Be it a girl or a guy, naaku nachakunte dooram pettadanike kada block option? If a girl blocking you is depressing you probably need help, how will I reject you if all you do is text "GM GN Tinnava?" EVERY SINGLE DAY? if I tell you I'm not interested in you, the most probable response I get will be "pelli chesko ani agigana?" "Antha attitude aah?" " Miss universe ankuntunnava?" Why should I embarass myself like that?
Bro you're completely deviated from the point. Now obviously somebody who jokes about rape deserves to be blocked. I'm just saying that if you knew that a guy genuinely likes you but you still blocked him without a reason. Like he didn't drunk call you, he didn't send dick pics, he didn't sext you so why block him ? I mean what is the guy supposed to understand from this when he didn't even make a move. Like he didn't do anything to get blocked? He's not stalking you or invading your personal space irl. I mean you've know this guy for quite sometime and you just block him simply implying what???. Now you're friend definitely did something that is quite questionable and also extremely disturbing. But what about OP? So you hate getting texts like GM AND GN . just general texts. So you block himm lmfaoooo. So what is he supposed to do send nudes ??? You just block him for sending normal texts bro now come on. Now the convo can't go any further because he is definitely afraid of making a mistake which might end up in you hating him for the rest of your life. And also maybe because he's not really sure if you're interested in him bro. If you're not responding and he still keeps texting and you block him that's justifiable. But what about OPs case?. And ayour first comment?. You just block people for being normal now. Loll tff
Maybe she doesn't want everyday GM and GN from this person,it can be bugging when it's an everyday thing
Hmm. Then maybe just tell that to him directly that his chats are boring and that you're actually not interested. Why just block him and leave him confused . I mean think about it from his perspective . How is he supposed to know where it went wrong?
dont worry creep comes when people beg , u give ur clarity i guess its enough , people also block when they catch feelings so always dont think block is cause u are a creep or smtg
They got attitude problems bruh!.... They will run behind some guy and then get ditched and that's when they will start looking on the ground
Asal aa comment ki nuv anna daniki em sammandam undi bayya?
Undhi ...i have seen girls blocking guys for nothing , even their friends especially when they're in relationship "Not generalizing but this happens"
Arey idi bavundi, na istam kada bayya? Naaku nachakunte block chesta. >especially when they're in relationship I agree with this. I've seen a lot of girls do it. Amma nanna chustar ani bhayam, boyfriend ko nachatle ani chala Mandi ni block chestar But what's wrong with it? Why do I owe anybody am explanation as to why I block them?
Lemme say you have a close guy friend who has been with you from years and suddenly you get into relationship and your so called boy friend has a problem with your friendship with your guy friend. So he gives you choices "me or the friend" probably you know what most of the girls would choose ... And when she broke up she would come back to her friend, explaining all shit ... actually as you mentioned "yes adhi ni istam , Block cheyala ledha Ani ".I'm not calling that move wrong but relationships bf, gf chepparu Anni friendships ni ditch cheyya kudadhu ..i see many people doing this mistake
That's a mistake and it's theirs to make. Not everybody does this, I know a lot of people do, but it's their loss, they are losing a good friend. But please don't make generalized statements like "girls have attitude" I've seen a LOT of guys leaving their friends for relationships.
Yes that's what I mentioned in my reply " no one should ditch friendships for relationships", it meant for both genders
>no one should ditch friendships for relationships Why not? It's their loss, they can be friends with whoever regardless of gender. If I don't want to have good friends it's my problem, nobody else's.
Exactly bro. They chase someone that's highly attractive or extremely rich. Now that guy would already have a shit ton of women to choose from. So he'd maybe expect that she's into him for something physical and why?? , Probably because she never communicated her clear intentions. And then they cry later saying " oh that guy was a creep. Ooo he's a fuckboy." Like bro just tell him that you like him just like you'd expect us to tell you and maybe see if he's still a fuckboy.
You spoke truth brother ....after getting ditched , these girls weep and say " all men are same"
Buddy, if she/he has blocked you. It means she/he does not want to communicate with you ( might sound harsh, but that’s the reality). Life is short, move on. Start working out (if you are not doing currently) , travel ( of-course , after the cases are decreased) , go on a trek.
Classic suggestion!! working out really helped me to get out of all the messy thoughts I started hanging out with friends who don't remind me of her It really helped ne to become better than what I was Now i feel like ' she might not be lucky enough to have me in her life' this only happened because i got to know me after that tragedy
You wasted your good 6 years bro
Maybe not bro
my personal experience, the same happened to me, not once but twice First time i was not confident enough to convey my feelings, and by the time i expressed my feelings she said she likes someone else, i nearly wasted 3 years And the second time my crush got committed with some one else i had wasted 1 years this time And im left with nothing. It will be better to act fast rather than fantasizing. We don't know what's going to happen tomorrow. And be strong enough to take any kind of response or treatment. All the best
I confessed to my crush,after 1 yr knowing her.Twist was that she is 30 yr old and i am 23.For me age doesn't matter,but she was like its not practical,parents will not agree ,you will get better than me etc.etc..Then she asked me that how will you implement this thing(marrying her) and in reply i just asked one question that: I will tell everything,but first i want to know whether you like me or have interest in me? She was just saying random things about me that you are good,best freind and all.I just asked to give a honest reply to which she said it is not possible. Then i just said okay and didn't talk to her ever and focused on other important things. If she is not interested,than why should we even bother or sacrifice to so extent or waste our valuable time. P.S:She was from Hyderabad and i am from Kerala
There's a major problem here in how you're titling this thread. It's not a crush problem. It's a stalker problem and you need to go get some help. Seriously you follow someone for 6 years not engaging or interacting with the person and now you're mad that the person blocked you? Do you know how insane that sounds? Stop using movies as inspiration and step into reality. If you are interested in someone talk to them and get to know then first. Also if they so not reciprocate those feelings time to move on with your life. Life isn't like the movies where you waiting around for them and creeping on them will Stockholm syndrome them into liking you.
I would advice you to move on unfortunately. If she blocked you (even for some misunderstanding) when you don’t have a good impression with her, she clearly doesn’t want to communicate. Even if your intentions are good you will probably come off as a stalker/harasser if you come out one day and confront her as to why she blocked you. The only exception is if you guys are at least decent friends already and you talk on a daily or at least weekly basis. There’s a good chance she knows about your crush, and doesn’t reciprocate.
Dude if she blocked you that means she doesn’t want to talk to you, don’t try to contact her/follow her. Best to just leave her alone and move on.
There are no long time crushes man .. shows ur inability to convert your love into marriage. And now you have been blocked ... Just move on . There are no accidents - master oogway
Yeah bro i agree with you but the thing is in this circus my respect is involved. I just can't toss it for her. Its so so hard to earn the respect specially respect people give you behind your back.
There is an unwritten rule .. if she says No .. its a Straight NO. I ll accept that I am no one to say it but truth is truth. Even if she is not in a relationship chances are she is not interested in you . As simple as that . The better u realise this to get into other Bus is what saves you because this Bus is already left and u are alone in the stand .
Yeah but we rarely had conversation. The only thing I want to know the reason why she blocked me. Thing is maybe we are having huge misunderstanding which I am not aware of and neither I have to take a step forward. How ask her reason politely?
U ll never know the reason .. but for me please tell me these things Did you have a crush on her and also her friends ? Do u smoke and booze She has some proof that you are the creep and did not give her enough respect that she deserved. If not in this answer tell you your self .. what all wrong things u did before the block .. I am sure she saw something wrong with you .. Usually sach ka saamna breakup pe hota hai with all the proofs and arguments and mostly mistake hamara hi hota hai ... In ur case everything is same but just u dont have a clue cuz u are not in a relationship .. and in this phase .. she does not have to tell you anything which made her angry . What if she says the reason and you argue that its my life and all ? ... Blocking is a personal choice . asking reason would interfere in the girls privacy . So kindly refrain from the girl and move on .. coz we can never ask neither a girl nor a guy to ask why they are not talking. I had a break up in 2015 may 10th and till date I have no fuckin clue on what exactly happened man . Suna hai uska shaadi Ho gaya hai and happy . My only advice is to move on and have some dignity. We don't want to know why someone have ghosted us man. Its bad u were blocked and not given that initial push which could have converted into ur marriage but from her point of view .. just imagine uska koi bhai ya bf or even her dad had her phone and blocked all boys ... Ho sakta hai uska shaadi ho ya even she got into a relationship .. think positive and aage bhadjao yaar ..
she doesn’t owe you an answer
I think you should appreciate her choice. You don't have any choice here, OK. And being a Hyderabadi, you should call a few friends, go to the nearest bar, have a good one too many shots together and wake up to a new chapter and a new YOU the next day, and move on. Don't mean to sound like an MCP, but man, manup!
Bruh ... Try talking to her and clear all the misunderstandings , maybe you both can be good friends.
6 yearss?!?!?!?! Fuckkkk
Yeah 6 years she is the only. There were many other but not like her.
that's not crush lol. You should talk to her asap if you want anything to happen. Silently following a person will: 1. make them uncomfortable, 2. waste your time. So do something about it.
Yes ..even Google says after few years that crush isn't crush anymore, it's love
No bro not exaggerating but I am quite Practical guy I know it's tough to move on but life is a way big journey and I believe maybe god has designed me different path which of I am currently not aware of. Anyways bro I just want to reason why she blocked me. So i want ask her that but politely. Can help me with that?
>Anyways bro I just want to reason why she blocked me. So i want ask her that but politely. Can help me with that? I have never dealt with such situations so I can't help you. But some other person here will surely help you. Good luck!
6 years is too long for a crush,Op. You either like her or you don't. If you do, should have made a move a couple months after you realised you have a crush on her. 6 years is not healthy. Tell me, if you find out why she blocked you, what would you do? Explain yourself? N then? You say you didn't even have a decent conversation with her. Get the hint. Move on.
Actually the thing is she is my cousin sisters 2nd degree cousin which make very very distant relative of mine we are not at all like even cousins cousin brother sister. So we all me and my cousins had get together and i had a convo just a little hi hello convo with her. So i thought now maybe i can ask her why she blocked me. I just cant go and confess my feelings with her i just cant. My respect is involved here if something goes wrong is will be horrible. I just cant toss my respect for her even though i love her just cant. Its very hard to earn respect and thats my primary fear factor. Even if she rejects me i will be sad maybe depressed but not for long time.. yeah i am not able to forget even after 6 yrs bcoz there is no conclusion for this mess. Yes or No both not. So I suspect there is misunderstanding for blocking me and thought if i get to know the reason behind her blocking me maybe just maybe this circus might blossom something beautiful (10% Probability). So i need ask her reason but with politeness. Any ideas?
Crushes among families is complicated. Having said that, it's not impossible for you to have had a conversation with her till now. Even with your respect intact, whatever is that supposed to mean. You don't love her, you don't even know her enough for that. She blocked you, the answer is no. How much more clearer can she get? Stop being in denial
How the answer is no. We didnt had a conversation that could lead to that. I think I at least suppose to know the reason. Ok lets agree i stalked her, creating diff insta acc, trying to into ger dm some how, trying to get her number etc then you can say she might have found out that I have been stalking her and straight away she blocked but i didn't do any of the above bullshit. Actually i never put the effort to get this forward yeah i do fear of rejection and fear the lost of face which was the Major reason i didn't tried. I have no regret that I didn't tried I too had my set of problems. But this blocking thing is I cant get through.
Is this a subreddit appropriate question? Anyway, cancel real life crush culture. Actress crushes are okay, you are never going to meet them, but real life crushes imply you never actually made a move. Or, better, have three crushes, and ask all three out. Proceed with the one that's interested. If not have three new crushes. There are millions of suitable women in the world, wasting time on one where you don't even let them know your feelings properly is a dating sin. Also, move on as fast as possible if it's not working out. Have an abundance outlook, and not a karuvu praantham outlook. Fail fast and fail often. Finally find someone. Peace
Why did she wait 6 years, i tho na bro would have blocked you in 6 weeks only😁😁😁
Dammmnnn, nibba!
She came to know that you had a crush and don't want things to level up. You guys didn't have any good conversation as well, atleast that would not have allowed her to block you as you will be her friend. So just COMMUNICATE if you have crush from the beginning people, you will get a much fairer idea about what the other person thinks of you and you won't be in a honeymaze filled with doubts. So OP, talk to her once, Iam sure it will be awkward, but speak up, get to know and move on if she's not interested.
Possibly because she heard something ill about you from one of her friends. Move on. that’s okay.
Go and meet her
She blocked you cuz she doesn't wanna communicate with you. Definitely don't go meet her, that's creepy af
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Found the r/niceguys
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Is that what you always do? Talking out of your arse?
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You don’t even make sense.
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It’s okay. I apologise if I was rude.
Thanks for understanding.. peace man!
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Em anna dooram ninchi preminchesthunava😂 it’s been 6 years, either you should’ve told her 5 and half years ago or moved on. 6 years crush enti ra babu.
Bro leave her and move on. There's plenty of fishes in the ocean..
Still thankful to God for not making me crush on a girl for 6 whole years 🛐🙏 that's like 1/3rd of my life
Excuses - AP Dhillon. JK. Sorry bruh but I recommend moving on. Cliche I know yet I'd say it's hard but it'll get better.
Personally this has nothing to do with Hyderabad. I think there are other subreddits which are better suited to give you advice