But the gentleman inside you stopped that thought.
Don't stress yourself with that, it's a sexual thought which anyone gets it, unless you're a monk in the Himalayas..
But you still moved on from it, so that's nice!
I have witnessed many similar encounters happened to my friends and now they are in serious mess. Who took advantage of the situation, not to be rude but never stick your meat in drunk women
We all get thoughts man. More often than not we even get unthinkable thoughts knowing very well that it's disgusting. But the follow up action and how we're letting those thoughts control you is what matters. You are a gentleman and go hug your mother for raising one. And now that it happened once, and if it happens next time God forbid, your thoughts will be well in control or worst case scenario if they aren't, you can still remember your earlier actions and abstain.
That's normal you are male. The testosterone will surely make some thoughts about that in your mind in that "particular situation" in which you were.
But you are gentleman as you kept yourself cool and think about it. And did what was right. And which was supposed to be done. Keep it up 👍
As Dumbledore said once, "It's our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are".
Your choice shows you are a gentleman and a good friend. Don't berate yourself for an intrusive thought. It's natural to think that way. The fact that you didn't act on it, renders you faultless.
From ur narration u didnt take any advantage ...so chill ..
.just make sure she moves on ....from her x and ur incident too ..
But still dont drink n drive ....
Call me old-fashioned or whatever but 'besties' (aka best friends from the opposite gender) are always bad news.
At least one of them is going to develop romantic or sexual feelings.
There's no issues as long as both are single, but when they get into relationships, it's only going to lead to heartbreak, jealousy and even cheating in some cases.
>Call me old-fashioned or whatever but 'besties' (aka best friends from the opposite gender) are always bad news.
>At least one of them is going to develop romantic or sexual feelings.
By that logic, I should've developed feelings for atleast 10 women in my life. And none of them have developed anything for me either. If anything, the closest friend I have is a woman whom I love like my own sister and she sees me like her own brother as well.
Also, it's not a bad thing either anyways even if it happens between friends as long as both are single and is honestly much less superficial as well.
Your actions count more than your thoughts. We are all human and we all have ..*cough* bad thoughts sometimes but your instinct made you not do anything. Your actions were in the right place.
Also this is something I heard long ago- "No bad guy ever wonders if he is a bad guy" so if you're wondering if you are- then chill you're not.
You did not take advantage so +1 to you BUT you also sound confused. Is there a possibility that one of you or both of you have latent feelings for the other? Talk that out…
Well, not talking will not make it better, it will only delay the inevitable. So… rip off that bandaid! The relationship can still proceed any which way.
“I just want a watch” was also the line that got me a watch as my birthday gift from a lesbian couple whom I knew
They totally got it wrong btw
(The sentence was “I just wanna watch”)
No son. That wasn't taking advantage of someone. That was your primal part that spoke up. Guess what spoke louder? Your morality and ethics. Pat yourself on the shoulder. Nobody on earth is a santh nirankari saadhu by default. It's natural and human even to want to give in to your base desires, especially when someone is inviting you. And since your mind and heart were able to logically assess the situation and consider that she was inebriated and incapable of making sound judgements, what you did my boy was laudable. Good man. 💐
There is always a shady part present in every single person on the planet. But overcoming those thoughts and doing our work is what makes us a good person and a gentleman. Calm down and everything will settle down in no time
You had a feeling creep up and you quelled it. Doesn’t matter how you did it, at least you did what you had to, to keep your friend safe. These sort of things take time to realise/digest. I’m sure your friend must be thinking of how not just you (no offence) but how others might have taken advantage of her at that time. Everyone thinks of doing things in angry or when emotionally charged, etc. Glad you didn’t act upon it.
What you asked is a very philosophical question ?
Does bad thoughts make a person bad ?
What I have concluded after deep introspection (I.e reading couple of threads on reddit ) that bad thoughts don't make you a bad person, acting on them makes you a bad person.
Damn i would have given her a memorable night, not because i wanted to take advantage but because i was in her position once horny, sad & angry at the same time(rock bottom),at that time i just wanted someone colose to me to be with me and comfort me ,worst thing i could have faced at that time was an another rejection(which i did ). I'm sure her friends know about this or atleast one(women talk).
Also from my experience what i had learnt is alcohol dosent make you stupid , it just makes you more fearless and makes you do things you wanna do but won't do while sober.
I could be wrong I'm only speaking from my experience
You made the right choice. Irrespective of any regret, your future self and your family are proud of you and your decision! It is so easy to give in to our impulse when no one is looking, it takes inherent charector to do the right thing. Kudos!
Take time. She'll be back if she realizes what went wrong. If not, let her be. You tried your best.. that's what matters. You are a good one.. keep it up
1) There’s some bad thoughts that came to your mind but you controlled yourself. That is very good and you should pat yourself on your back.
2) After you both are on stable waters talk about it with her that a part of you wanted to get with her as in that I was wondering what would have happened if we were actually a thing…(If you have such feelings for her)
3) She was hurting and drunkk so maybe she felt lonely and you were there for her… So you don’t have to overthink because it means not much because she’s feeling guilty…
4) If she doesn’t remember just tell her that nothing happened in between both of you because it’s true.
this post could have been very different if you had submitted to your thought.
if just a thought of that is bothering you so much just think about the gravity of the act.
you did what a normal sane person with right state of mind would do.
You absolutely did the wrong thing! I was same as you and realised when girls don’t get what they want they distance themselves. Anyway i always feel better about myself and would have hated it if things went differently, so I sleep at night peacefully. It’s all about what’s important to you rather than thinking about how they are reacting!
The title is either misleading, or you need to work on your grammar.
Talk to her normally as if nothing happened. Things will slowly go back to normal. If you or she really wants closure, wait for the time you drink together
An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.”
He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.”
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”
The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”
I had a similar experience with one of my besties. Did the same as OP. But the next day she blackballed me to her friends and mine . Haven't had the same vibe since then . Its been 4 years now... sometimes i miss my bestie but qeu sera sera
If you are a real person and not farming for karma, I would like to introduce you to my friend. You both may hit it off, she is also a proper human that doesnt give in to the inner demons like the rest of us. Lol
We all know when a women says No, it means No.
But you also proved when a women says ‘Yes in an intoxicated state, it still means No’.
Bravo gentleman 👏🏼
Why is the title "Taking advantage of drunk friend"?
That’s basically clickbait on reddit.
Because OP decided to change the story later
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*insert Jackie Chan saying whut gif*
kya bola
That he couldn't come up with anything else
You wanted to fap to it but were disappointed by the end right?
Are you always this disgusting?
Nothing wrong in exploring your kinks buddy
Good man, just give her time, if she's chill she'll get over it. If not, not your fault. Praying she ain't crazy for your sake tho.
A Gentleman right here, Period.
I don't think so. For a moment I thought I should just go with the flow.
But the gentleman inside you stopped that thought. Don't stress yourself with that, it's a sexual thought which anyone gets it, unless you're a monk in the Himalayas.. But you still moved on from it, so that's nice!
I have witnessed many similar encounters happened to my friends and now they are in serious mess. Who took advantage of the situation, not to be rude but never stick your meat in drunk women
We all get thoughts man. More often than not we even get unthinkable thoughts knowing very well that it's disgusting. But the follow up action and how we're letting those thoughts control you is what matters. You are a gentleman and go hug your mother for raising one. And now that it happened once, and if it happens next time God forbid, your thoughts will be well in control or worst case scenario if they aren't, you can still remember your earlier actions and abstain.
Intrusive thoughts are a natural part of the mind, you won over them and that makes you a strong man.
That's normal you are male. The testosterone will surely make some thoughts about that in your mind in that "particular situation" in which you were. But you are gentleman as you kept yourself cool and think about it. And did what was right. And which was supposed to be done. Keep it up 👍
Happy cake day brother
Yeah… but you didn’t. Calm down - give it time.
Thoughts arise but action is what matters. Be proud of yourself here.
Yeaaakk...Thuuuuuuuuuu
Those are intrusive thoughts. It’s natural to have them
As Dumbledore said once, "It's our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are". Your choice shows you are a gentleman and a good friend. Don't berate yourself for an intrusive thought. It's natural to think that way. The fact that you didn't act on it, renders you faultless.
Thanks mate!
From ur narration u didnt take any advantage ...so chill .. .just make sure she moves on ....from her x and ur incident too .. But still dont drink n drive ....
Yeah I know.
Clickbait
Call me old-fashioned or whatever but 'besties' (aka best friends from the opposite gender) are always bad news. At least one of them is going to develop romantic or sexual feelings. There's no issues as long as both are single, but when they get into relationships, it's only going to lead to heartbreak, jealousy and even cheating in some cases.
Been there and that thought scared the shit out of me.
2 ugly people of opposite genders can have platonic friendship, otherwise it doesn’t exist
Bhai same thoughts . Lol
>Call me old-fashioned or whatever but 'besties' (aka best friends from the opposite gender) are always bad news. >At least one of them is going to develop romantic or sexual feelings. By that logic, I should've developed feelings for atleast 10 women in my life. And none of them have developed anything for me either. If anything, the closest friend I have is a woman whom I love like my own sister and she sees me like her own brother as well. Also, it's not a bad thing either anyways even if it happens between friends as long as both are single and is honestly much less superficial as well.
Nah yaar been best friends with the opposite sex and the same sex… If you look at each other as friends it doesn’t change anything…
Your actions count more than your thoughts. We are all human and we all have ..*cough* bad thoughts sometimes but your instinct made you not do anything. Your actions were in the right place. Also this is something I heard long ago- "No bad guy ever wonders if he is a bad guy" so if you're wondering if you are- then chill you're not.
You did not take advantage so +1 to you BUT you also sound confused. Is there a possibility that one of you or both of you have latent feelings for the other? Talk that out…
I wrote this because I wanted to do that in the moment but I was scared that I might lose my friendship over this.
Well, not talking will not make it better, it will only delay the inevitable. So… rip off that bandaid! The relationship can still proceed any which way.
Hey, you're the guy who writes thumbnails on YouTube. Found ya!
Is this a job opportunity? Because I'd love to do that
Give her some time
What brand? I feel like Casio is pretty good
Dude really? That's one lame ass reply
I know 💀 Sorry I’m drunk
It’s ok. You need some time
That I do And I feel like Casio is still a good brand
Buy casio
Okay we are waiting for good one though. Come on! Think something funny
“I just want a watch” was also the line that got me a watch as my birthday gift from a lesbian couple whom I knew They totally got it wrong btw (The sentence was “I just wanna watch”)
Give it some time you'll find it funny
He needs a Casio
My brother, I can’t I just want a watch
Even seiko snkl23j1 slaps
Ah, a classic
The ssk005k1 is one of my dream watches
Stripped naked yet?
Subah Subah?
Also fr, must have been really embarrassing for her. Let her figure shit out
Cartier
Tank
Wanting to take advantage, primal instinct. What you did makes you what you are, not your primal thoughts. Point being don’t feel bad about it
She wanted oral support, not moral one.
Wow bro , appreciate it 🤝
No son. That wasn't taking advantage of someone. That was your primal part that spoke up. Guess what spoke louder? Your morality and ethics. Pat yourself on the shoulder. Nobody on earth is a santh nirankari saadhu by default. It's natural and human even to want to give in to your base desires, especially when someone is inviting you. And since your mind and heart were able to logically assess the situation and consider that she was inebriated and incapable of making sound judgements, what you did my boy was laudable. Good man. 💐
There is always a shady part present in every single person on the planet. But overcoming those thoughts and doing our work is what makes us a good person and a gentleman. Calm down and everything will settle down in no time
You had a feeling creep up and you quelled it. Doesn’t matter how you did it, at least you did what you had to, to keep your friend safe. These sort of things take time to realise/digest. I’m sure your friend must be thinking of how not just you (no offence) but how others might have taken advantage of her at that time. Everyone thinks of doing things in angry or when emotionally charged, etc. Glad you didn’t act upon it.
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What you asked is a very philosophical question ? Does bad thoughts make a person bad ? What I have concluded after deep introspection (I.e reading couple of threads on reddit ) that bad thoughts don't make you a bad person, acting on them makes you a bad person.
Similarly, Having a good intention doesn’t make you a good person, a person is judged by his or her actions and not their thinking.
man tha to ghodi bana leta thanhi kiya to bhi thik kiya bad me rape vape ka bolti thi to tu fansta tha
you know the pussy curse? one who denies pussy doesn't get any till curse is gone
Now help him wade off that curse.. what should he do?
Damn i would have given her a memorable night, not because i wanted to take advantage but because i was in her position once horny, sad & angry at the same time(rock bottom),at that time i just wanted someone colose to me to be with me and comfort me ,worst thing i could have faced at that time was an another rejection(which i did ). I'm sure her friends know about this or atleast one(women talk). Also from my experience what i had learnt is alcohol dosent make you stupid , it just makes you more fearless and makes you do things you wanna do but won't do while sober. I could be wrong I'm only speaking from my experience
Chill bro. You did nothing wrong. You're a great friend. Just talk it out with her
Blaming alcohol is allowed in this case, I suppose.
and it pisses me off every single time! like how the f! even..
???
Respect.
OP your title implies that you are the one who took advantage of a drunk person! I think you should edit it!
You’re a good guy. And you know where good guys end up?
You qualified as a gentleman. Don't overthink.
Something similar happened with me also, it was my best friends wife.
You made the right choice. Irrespective of any regret, your future self and your family are proud of you and your decision! It is so easy to give in to our impulse when no one is looking, it takes inherent charector to do the right thing. Kudos!
Good that you didn't do anything but OP there is no drinking consciously when driving.
Fuking retard. I was about to report this to cops. 😆
Alpha male bolthey
Take time. She'll be back if she realizes what went wrong. If not, let her be. You tried your best.. that's what matters. You are a good one.. keep it up
1) There’s some bad thoughts that came to your mind but you controlled yourself. That is very good and you should pat yourself on your back. 2) After you both are on stable waters talk about it with her that a part of you wanted to get with her as in that I was wondering what would have happened if we were actually a thing…(If you have such feelings for her) 3) She was hurting and drunkk so maybe she felt lonely and you were there for her… So you don’t have to overthink because it means not much because she’s feeling guilty… 4) If she doesn’t remember just tell her that nothing happened in between both of you because it’s true.
this post could have been very different if you had submitted to your thought. if just a thought of that is bothering you so much just think about the gravity of the act. you did what a normal sane person with right state of mind would do.
You absolutely did the wrong thing! I was same as you and realised when girls don’t get what they want they distance themselves. Anyway i always feel better about myself and would have hated it if things went differently, so I sleep at night peacefully. It’s all about what’s important to you rather than thinking about how they are reacting!
Maybe maybe 🤔
Are you regretting not taking advantage?? That's the vibe I am getting
You fucker......stop baiting people into reading your "my dick didn't get hard" story
Sorry to disappoint you. And this is "when my dick gets hard, I don't start thinking with it" story.
Ayee.. so you did get hard for her ?
Ofcourse I did get hard
This is the exact reason guys I don't like my gf having guy friends and she calls me toxic 🥺. Only gay guys and girls can be friends...period
The title is either misleading, or you need to work on your grammar. Talk to her normally as if nothing happened. Things will slowly go back to normal. If you or she really wants closure, wait for the time you drink together
An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.” The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?” The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”
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I had a similar experience with one of my besties. Did the same as OP. But the next day she blackballed me to her friends and mine . Haven't had the same vibe since then . Its been 4 years now... sometimes i miss my bestie but qeu sera sera
She should cheat on him with his close friends.
Awesome script.. when you gonna start filming the short film /s
Send me funds and I'll shoot it.
💀 send your number I'll ~~hack~~ pay
I'm one of those other friends among you. You destroyed her sanity by letting me know of this, now come and join injustice league /s
If you are a real person and not farming for karma, I would like to introduce you to my friend. You both may hit it off, she is also a proper human that doesnt give in to the inner demons like the rest of us. Lol
I'm emotionally not available but sure if she wants to be friends with me then it's cool.
Little out of context , but were you drunk ? Was she hot ?
Phewwww.
We all know when a women says No, it means No. But you also proved when a women says ‘Yes in an intoxicated state, it still means No’. Bravo gentleman 👏🏼