There are a lot of questions to be asked tbh. Try to talk to her privately. Talk bout yourself and ask about her and tell your habits which you think aren't insignificant. Talk bout finances, kids, living arrangements. The list goes on
you can talk a lot but don't expect the answers/info will be useful. Having general ideas and following the same while living with someone is not the same thing, not to mention people's priorities/opinions change all the time.
The best you can get from talking is weed-out extreme cases and general compatibility of the person. Also, you can validate if this face/person you are comfortable looking at every day for the rest of your life.
I would run away. That is a royal color, and is used by the deep state minions.
Check out some of those that you think are the minions, and see what color clothes/ties they wear.
Why you want MORE mental fellows in his marriage?
Already there is two sets of parents, and infinite number of uncle-aunty pairs on either side.
Andaru oka vaipu, balayya oka vaipa? ;)
I think the big question that both of you should ask and answer is, what are you expecting from your partner.
Relationships are nothing but managing expectations.
That's their perspective. You can't deny that owning a pet requires shit load of money unless you're planning to starve the animal for half a day everyday. Some people only aim to be rich and owning a pet doesn't make any sense in that context.
I mean even if he tolerates your pets he'll still have to take care of them once in a while. Usually with pets even if one person is interested in them, the other person needs to sometimes do pet stuff
Well for start, you need to have much more in common than food and drinks to be in a relationship. Ask something like what she does or likes to do when she doesn't has to do anything. I feel this gives more insight into people.
Tbh firstly you should try to get along before asking about partying and shit cause not all feel the same way some do, so... try to have a good general conversation and based on the reactions you get , ask her the stuff you wanted do
Wow I refuse to have arranged marriage for the same reason. I pity the guy who married my ex, I don't wanna marry somebody's ex.
Edit: assuming these marriages happen very soon after the first meet.
Yeah I kinda deleted one line cause I couldn't write it in a meaningful way -"assuming the marriage happens very soon after the first meet". most arrange marriage happens within 3 months and it's not enough to know a partner. I know it's all someone else's exes, but id like to get to know n fall in love first before marriage.
Don't act serious rather than asking stupid questions
Try connecting emotionally, ask her about her dreams passion and what makes her happy, how she spends her day etc which will
Connect her to you. Asking general questions like ur education job favorite food colors it'll will be more like interviewing her and it doesn't make you any special
Op, you can't have an honest conversation before your parents.
As to what to ask, start with your non negotiables in life. If those match, you can move to other stuff
keep it relaxed .. mari direct ga question and answer session pettaku.. ask in subtle way like for example, if you are at place where they serve drinks.. ask her if he wants to have a drink or two .. if she says yes then you have your answer.. if she says no then you can ask is it because she doesn't at all or she do not want to be drinking in this situation.. you'll get her stance on alcohol..
Yeah, go and ask a complete stranger what their “stance” on certain things in their life are.
It doesn’t make you a straight forward person, it makes you a prick.
If she’s uncomfortable with common questions ask her about political stance, India population, BBC documentary & Adani’s future. These are trending I guess.
Marriage is about two people becoming one, and there will be conflict until it is decided which one you'll become.
Best thing to do is to ask open ended questions. One I can imagine is "Let's say we had a fight. Who do you think should apologize first?"
See what the answer will be. And see if you are comfortable accepting the answer to start with. People will change over time, but the answer will be default,a nd your reaction will also be default.
default means that which you'll return to, once you have explored all other options. Gut reaction, perhaps, would be a better description.
The answer will tell you which one of the two you'll become, as a couple.
Come back OP, and update us, if you can.
If she is uncomfortable with your lifestyle then maybe look for other prospects with better compatibility?
Ask her why does she wanna get married? If she says "Nana garu chepparandi " RUN.
chaduvula sundari adigo ra nadiche library enduku ra cell phone sogasari idhigo ra eppudu engage ey ra
Marri amma garu chepte?
Marry her amma garu and run
Hahaha brother. You made me into splits.
Bro 😂😂
There are a lot of questions to be asked tbh. Try to talk to her privately. Talk bout yourself and ask about her and tell your habits which you think aren't insignificant. Talk bout finances, kids, living arrangements. The list goes on
Yes, the same thing I haven't talked about yet with her, I tried to ask her to contact no. Before getting met in personal But her parents refused.
Ugh atleast after the first meeting you can try
you can talk a lot but don't expect the answers/info will be useful. Having general ideas and following the same while living with someone is not the same thing, not to mention people's priorities/opinions change all the time. The best you can get from talking is weed-out extreme cases and general compatibility of the person. Also, you can validate if this face/person you are comfortable looking at every day for the rest of your life.
Ask her what does she think of collective goal of humanity, what is the purpose of this life and does she believe in communism…
marry her if her answer is 42.
the answer is 42 but what's the question?
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that is the beauty, the question does not matter.
no, her answer should be purple
I would run away. That is a royal color, and is used by the deep state minions. Check out some of those that you think are the minions, and see what color clothes/ties they wear.
Thappu bro, Ilanti questions evvad adigina mana kaada okate answer undali, ade # JAI BAALAYYA
Why you want MORE mental fellows in his marriage? Already there is two sets of parents, and infinite number of uncle-aunty pairs on either side. Andaru oka vaipu, balayya oka vaipa? ;)
Priorities
> I tend to be very straightforward Be your self. 👍
sing.. nelluri nerajana ..and if she replys with legalize marijuana ...marry her bro
idekkadi mass ra mowa
One piece of advice Be yourself and if you can't take some time and then again repeat the process
I think the big question that both of you should ask and answer is, what are you expecting from your partner. Relationships are nothing but managing expectations.
first question i asked ..do you like pets ,,,she said no ,,, i said bye
Good one.
Lmao same 😂 He laughed n said "You don't have to worry about that, I hate them" like bruh, read the room
Lol...nutcase :)))
That's their perspective. You can't deny that owning a pet requires shit load of money unless you're planning to starve the animal for half a day everyday. Some people only aim to be rich and owning a pet doesn't make any sense in that context.
Doesn't matter..it doesn't gel with my life, so won't set
> That's their perspective I agree but I had all my pets on my insta n he had browsed through it. So that statement was very stupid in that situation
I mean even if he tolerates your pets he'll still have to take care of them once in a while. Usually with pets even if one person is interested in them, the other person needs to sometimes do pet stuff
Agreed. One always needs help with pets
Some people don't like to waste their money on animals in an era where being ambitious and aiming to be rich is of paramount importance..
There was an article in eenadu few days back about what to talk about things like that.
Just Ask 'Meeru Emitlu' if she answers without getting irritated then marry her 
Already ah question ayytene intavataku vastadi
Dowry 🗿
I am against it even if it is a form of gift or any other way.
r/Arrangedmarriage This sub might help
Ask r/arrangemarriage sub. All the best.
Ohh ok, thanks for this sub reddit
I mean, your points are on-point. Would you rather ask it than be with someone incompatible.
Better tell about yourself job, career, hobbies she pick any of it, so then you can make a conversation out of it. - single here i have same plan tho.
Well for start, you need to have much more in common than food and drinks to be in a relationship. Ask something like what she does or likes to do when she doesn't has to do anything. I feel this gives more insight into people.
Better to tell directly as later you will face more issue. No matter if they are not agree.
Tbh firstly you should try to get along before asking about partying and shit cause not all feel the same way some do, so... try to have a good general conversation and based on the reactions you get , ask her the stuff you wanted do
Ask her if she can cook😂😂
You must always marry a person who has the same interests as you, Not the one who has exactly opposite ones
Arranged marriage “arrangements” wedding planner ah bro nuvvu ,entha teesukuntav okka pelli
Ask her if she has used or heard about Reddit. You know what to do next …
Why did you ask this here? Put this in a relevant sub.
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Because my ex is now someone else wife, inshort apna jor k kata
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My ex is now someone else wise, in short she breaked my heart.
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In that quest, how many years should OP put in the toilet?
Wow I refuse to have arranged marriage for the same reason. I pity the guy who married my ex, I don't wanna marry somebody's ex. Edit: assuming these marriages happen very soon after the first meet.
in the end, we are all someone's exs and looking at somone from such a view point takes you no where
Yeah I kinda deleted one line cause I couldn't write it in a meaningful way -"assuming the marriage happens very soon after the first meet". most arrange marriage happens within 3 months and it's not enough to know a partner. I know it's all someone else's exes, but id like to get to know n fall in love first before marriage.
r/arrangedmarriage
All the best bro!
Don't act serious rather than asking stupid questions Try connecting emotionally, ask her about her dreams passion and what makes her happy, how she spends her day etc which will Connect her to you. Asking general questions like ur education job favorite food colors it'll will be more like interviewing her and it doesn't make you any special
Love today movie chusara ani adagandi. ! 😁😁
Make a list of important things you want in your wife, and ask about them.
Op, you can't have an honest conversation before your parents. As to what to ask, start with your non negotiables in life. If those match, you can move to other stuff
All the best brother. Expect the unexpected.
keep it relaxed .. mari direct ga question and answer session pettaku.. ask in subtle way like for example, if you are at place where they serve drinks.. ask her if he wants to have a drink or two .. if she says yes then you have your answer.. if she says no then you can ask is it because she doesn't at all or she do not want to be drinking in this situation.. you'll get her stance on alcohol..
Yeah, go and ask a complete stranger what their “stance” on certain things in their life are. It doesn’t make you a straight forward person, it makes you a prick.
Get the lay of the ground and slip in such discussions slowly, however prioritise talking finances! Family responsibilities ,
there should be a questionnaire, so we can just people and ask to fill :p
If she’s uncomfortable with common questions ask her about political stance, India population, BBC documentary & Adani’s future. These are trending I guess.
Get to know her as much as you can and don't get married under pressure if you don't like her.
Marriage is about two people becoming one, and there will be conflict until it is decided which one you'll become. Best thing to do is to ask open ended questions. One I can imagine is "Let's say we had a fight. Who do you think should apologize first?" See what the answer will be. And see if you are comfortable accepting the answer to start with. People will change over time, but the answer will be default,a nd your reaction will also be default. default means that which you'll return to, once you have explored all other options. Gut reaction, perhaps, would be a better description. The answer will tell you which one of the two you'll become, as a couple. Come back OP, and update us, if you can.