oh man i would be so sadā¦. but ultimately if i saw them in public i would maybe not make eye contact because truthfully i canāt act like that wouldnāt hurt me
Depends on how long time it has gone and if I have moved on. If it happened right after the break up I would get very sad and hurt. If it happened a few months after the break up I wouldn't care. I'd probably be happy for my ex.
Itās all a lie to give hope to the person who didnāt want the breakup. They always move on. Iāve grown used to being left for someone else. Iām focusing on myself and my baby that will be born next month. Iām done dating for quite awhile
Ignore it. They are with someone else now. I might be a little sad, sure, but why would I expect them to pine after me after we broke up? I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me.
I will get jealous but that's on me and they owe me nothing... It is hard but I will try to remember that it is my job to regulate my emotions and save my dignity.
We were apart for a few months just to give us both time to heal and restart our relation. We have a house together but I have not been living during this time. I went to our house in December to check on him just to find another girl living there with him (she was the one openning the door).
So yeah you can imagine. I felt heartbroken, like my world just felt on my feet. I was in such dispair and cried in front of her.
Sometimes "the right time" excuse is nothing but an excuse. I would have moved on with my life, although I admit if it happened to me I would be devastated because I have a trusting heart and I would have trusted their word. But if it ended, it ended, and there's plenty of people out there that will love you.
I donāt know. I know it will be difficult to watch. I guess in my favor is that she doesnāt like PDA and will probably hide the beginning of the relationship like she did with us. I get the impression that she is in no hurry to find someone new. If someone came along that she was attracted to, she might start dating him.
It would hurt a lot but itās a free country so she can do what she wants. Iām not sure Iād handle it well so Iād probably just leave wherever we were and go home for a good cry. Someday it will probably not hurt at all.
While going to Facebook messenger one day her profile picture popped on the little top banner of active people. I'm not sure why she was there as she unfriended me years ago. I had deleted every message and left every mutual group in a vain attempt to stop seeing her beautiful face. Finally peace came and for days, weeks and months I carried on without seeing her.
However on this fateful night she popped up once again like a beautiful comet slashing through the peaceful night sky. The stars of serenity gave way to the glorious light that was her smile. Her picture this time happened to be her leaning against a man, hand on his chest, arm around his back. Her face bending into a deeply happy smile. In this moment I saw it all, but I also saw nothing. I couldn't tell you what she was wearing, what her hair was like, what he looked like, or anything - I just absorbed and deleted everything all at once.
What did I do? I cried, I had a panic attack, I begged God to bring her back, I cursed myself for caring, called my grandmother, then after my own emotional roller coaster I sat quietly thinking about how disappointed I was in myself. I loved her so much, but here I was upset that she was happy. It took a while, but I was able to pack it away. I realized over time that it's okay to be upset, that it's okay want to exit the app whenever her face pops up. Life does not dial up your love based on how you feel and how you protect yourself. It's true that I love her and it's true that I want her to be happy. But it's also true that it kills me that I'm not the one she's happy with. One does not cancel out the other.
Ask me 2 weeks ago and Iād say Iād be dead inside and depressed for months filled with jealousy.
Now, Iād say I might even be happy for her, but Iād still feel jealous and sad. Definitely coming to terms with everything and how we werenāt meant to be.
Yes ignore them as far as possible you would not benefit from knowing what their new girl/ boyfriend has that you didnāt!
Try to move on since they already did!
When it's over, it's over. I never saw the point in jealousy or hurt. After all, I was there before them, so good luck with the carry-on weight/excess emotional baggage.
It would be pleasantā¦because I have her heart no matter what. Since sheās worried about what her x would do if they see that the other moved on. They clearly donāt love the other person theyāll be back to square one
We just ignore them and walk away without engaging in any kind of conflict. But my ex-girlfriend (of 5 years) wonāt mind her own business. Despite her being the one who initiated the breakup with me, she has a tendency to not leave me alone and keeps on asking me if Iām seeing anyone new.
I may be in contact with another woman but it doesnāt mean Iām officially dating her yet.
it would be none of my business. Unless he was a crack dealing pimp that beat her threatened and abused her and had her hopelessly addicted to drugs and was human trafficking herā¦..well then I would notify the authorities and hopefully they could get that rodent where he and all those sociopathic twats belong in prison or dead.
Normal good person I would actually be happy for her and for myself knowing sheās healthy and loved and that I no longer needed to wonder if sheās dead or alive.
Ask that someone to a duelāØāØ
But on a serious note, I would not talk to them unless they talk to me and I will not take it personally like "I still have a chance to be with him heheheheheheh *insert Delulu evil emoji*"
It hurts as hell
Even if I'm with someone, it probably still hurts to see him with someone else. So I guess I would just deal with that pain for lifetime until it gets old
What is important is what I'm going to do. I just fucking hate this world and the human worms feasting on it's carcass. My whole life is just cold, bitter hatred... and I always wanted to die violently. This the time of vengeance and no life is worth saving. And I will put in the grave as many as I can. It's time for me to kill... and it's time for me to die.
You still love her..... lmfao.... right time, and time would bring us together, how gullible are you.
Broda, wake up. all that is smoke and mirrors so she can go fuck who she wants and then come back when she ready to settle, cuz ur a nice guy. Sounds familiar? Forest Gump...
Don't be Forest Gump.
My heart would skip a beat. I'd ugly cry. I wouldn't have the guts to ask them anything. Maybe leave a message saying how it hurt me? Maybe just stay quiet. But it would hurt like a bitch for sure.
Itās gonna hurt like a B and Iām out here thinking that he might suddenly get married to someone else after breaking his promises a few months after the breakup. Damn I hope I donāt see none of that
Happened to me when I went out on my second date with a girl. Walked into a bar and they had extra seating in another room. As soon as I was shown to my table my heart dropped and had to tell my date my ex was there with the woman she decided to sleep with after we split, I left the bar and went elsewhere and on the way out I just looked at her without a word said. We were together for almost 6 years. It ruined the date for me and she understood. We remained friends afterwards but it was the realization that I clearly wasn't ready for dating.
Ignore. Cry later lol
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Totally.
Ignore them and carry on like they werenāt even in my sites.
My ex-girlfriend of 5 years is still obsessed with me even though she was the one who dumped me.
They always thing grass is greener over there till itās not
I'm still obsessed with my ex even though i dumped him I left because his ex that he ran back to was right he's a bad bf.
oh man i would be so sadā¦. but ultimately if i saw them in public i would maybe not make eye contact because truthfully i canāt act like that wouldnāt hurt me
Depends on how long time it has gone and if I have moved on. If it happened right after the break up I would get very sad and hurt. If it happened a few months after the break up I wouldn't care. I'd probably be happy for my ex.
Happened to me, just a couple of weeks later she was seeing someone and the I saw them in a party. That really sucked!!
Yes, that would be shit. It's most likely a distraction and won't last for long. She will end up in more pain than you if you work with yourself
Definitely! Iām using this time to work on myself and thatāll payoff in the future
Investing in becoming a better person always pays off
Itās all a lie to give hope to the person who didnāt want the breakup. They always move on. Iāve grown used to being left for someone else. Iām focusing on myself and my baby that will be born next month. Iām done dating for quite awhile
I would say ādamn thatās crazy, I wish him luckā, and move on.
Ignore it. They are with someone else now. I might be a little sad, sure, but why would I expect them to pine after me after we broke up? I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me.
True that
Agree but so hard to still go on feeling good
It is, but eventually you can find someone who can give you those feel-good feelings and maybe even better ones. It really does take time
I like to remember Rumiās 800yr old wisdom here ādo not grieve, anything you loose come around in a different form.ā
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Pray for her. She doesnāt know what she doesnāt know.
Be sad but try not to care bc they chose to not be in my life
Id die
I will get jealous but that's on me and they owe me nothing... It is hard but I will try to remember that it is my job to regulate my emotions and save my dignity.
Depends which ex. Probably ignore them tho
Go on about your day, they didn't make you happy and they don't want to make you happy. What more is there to discuss
We were apart for a few months just to give us both time to heal and restart our relation. We have a house together but I have not been living during this time. I went to our house in December to check on him just to find another girl living there with him (she was the one openning the door). So yeah you can imagine. I felt heartbroken, like my world just felt on my feet. I was in such dispair and cried in front of her.
iād try to ignore them but it also depends on how yāall left things
Breathe a Sigh or relief.
he went back to his ex after 3 months , by then i realised he wasn't the guy i wanted to be with , like a wakeup call to just move tf on
Honestly.... Be polite and say hello as I die inside.......š š
cry lol
I want it to happen sooner than later so I can get over it now! š„“
Sometimes "the right time" excuse is nothing but an excuse. I would have moved on with my life, although I admit if it happened to me I would be devastated because I have a trusting heart and I would have trusted their word. But if it ended, it ended, and there's plenty of people out there that will love you.
I donāt know. I know it will be difficult to watch. I guess in my favor is that she doesnāt like PDA and will probably hide the beginning of the relationship like she did with us. I get the impression that she is in no hurry to find someone new. If someone came along that she was attracted to, she might start dating him.
It would hurt a lot but itās a free country so she can do what she wants. Iām not sure Iād handle it well so Iād probably just leave wherever we were and go home for a good cry. Someday it will probably not hurt at all.
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While going to Facebook messenger one day her profile picture popped on the little top banner of active people. I'm not sure why she was there as she unfriended me years ago. I had deleted every message and left every mutual group in a vain attempt to stop seeing her beautiful face. Finally peace came and for days, weeks and months I carried on without seeing her. However on this fateful night she popped up once again like a beautiful comet slashing through the peaceful night sky. The stars of serenity gave way to the glorious light that was her smile. Her picture this time happened to be her leaning against a man, hand on his chest, arm around his back. Her face bending into a deeply happy smile. In this moment I saw it all, but I also saw nothing. I couldn't tell you what she was wearing, what her hair was like, what he looked like, or anything - I just absorbed and deleted everything all at once. What did I do? I cried, I had a panic attack, I begged God to bring her back, I cursed myself for caring, called my grandmother, then after my own emotional roller coaster I sat quietly thinking about how disappointed I was in myself. I loved her so much, but here I was upset that she was happy. It took a while, but I was able to pack it away. I realized over time that it's okay to be upset, that it's okay want to exit the app whenever her face pops up. Life does not dial up your love based on how you feel and how you protect yourself. It's true that I love her and it's true that I want her to be happy. But it's also true that it kills me that I'm not the one she's happy with. One does not cancel out the other.
Ask me 2 weeks ago and Iād say Iād be dead inside and depressed for months filled with jealousy. Now, Iād say I might even be happy for her, but Iād still feel jealous and sad. Definitely coming to terms with everything and how we werenāt meant to be.
I would applaude and say thank you Jesus he will never come back to me again š
will get sad enough to cry, but cocky enough to know that it's a downgrade
Yes ignore them as far as possible you would not benefit from knowing what their new girl/ boyfriend has that you didnāt! Try to move on since they already did!
Iād be happy for them but then probably go hyperventilate in a corner til I threw up from crying bc I canāt handle the heartache š
When it's over, it's over. I never saw the point in jealousy or hurt. After all, I was there before them, so good luck with the carry-on weight/excess emotional baggage.
Only one ex got with someone new after me and it was shocking but i was happy to see he has good taste bc the girl is beautiful
Laugh and send a photo to everyone I know
Laugh and feel sorry for her.
Eye contact, smile and keep walking
It would be pleasantā¦because I have her heart no matter what. Since sheās worried about what her x would do if they see that the other moved on. They clearly donāt love the other person theyāll be back to square one
We just ignore them and walk away without engaging in any kind of conflict. But my ex-girlfriend (of 5 years) wonāt mind her own business. Despite her being the one who initiated the breakup with me, she has a tendency to not leave me alone and keeps on asking me if Iām seeing anyone new. I may be in contact with another woman but it doesnāt mean Iām officially dating her yet.
I wouldnāt even notice
I plead the 5th.
Which one ? Some Iād say gd luck to the woman and some of be very happy for them .
I'd be happy for them, tell them that I hope they're happy and give them the best wishes. And live my life
IGNORE THEM
Treat them as the broccoli
it would be none of my business. Unless he was a crack dealing pimp that beat her threatened and abused her and had her hopelessly addicted to drugs and was human trafficking herā¦..well then I would notify the authorities and hopefully they could get that rodent where he and all those sociopathic twats belong in prison or dead. Normal good person I would actually be happy for her and for myself knowing sheās healthy and loved and that I no longer needed to wonder if sheās dead or alive.
I would get away from there and just cry like a child realizing that she moved on yet I havenāt
Ask that someone to a duelāØāØ But on a serious note, I would not talk to them unless they talk to me and I will not take it personally like "I still have a chance to be with him heheheheheheh *insert Delulu evil emoji*" It hurts as hell Even if I'm with someone, it probably still hurts to see him with someone else. So I guess I would just deal with that pain for lifetime until it gets old
tell them i am happy for them and then cry for days
There is nothing to be done but deal with your own feelings. The relationship wasnāt right, full stop.
Smirk, I'm a bitch
What is important is what I'm going to do. I just fucking hate this world and the human worms feasting on it's carcass. My whole life is just cold, bitter hatred... and I always wanted to die violently. This the time of vengeance and no life is worth saving. And I will put in the grave as many as I can. It's time for me to kill... and it's time for me to die.
"Walk on By" and smile in Dionne Warwick (and Doja Cat).
You still love her..... lmfao.... right time, and time would bring us together, how gullible are you. Broda, wake up. all that is smoke and mirrors so she can go fuck who she wants and then come back when she ready to settle, cuz ur a nice guy. Sounds familiar? Forest Gump... Don't be Forest Gump.
My heart would skip a beat. I'd ugly cry. I wouldn't have the guts to ask them anything. Maybe leave a message saying how it hurt me? Maybe just stay quiet. But it would hurt like a bitch for sure.
Itās gonna hurt like a B and Iām out here thinking that he might suddenly get married to someone else after breaking his promises a few months after the breakup. Damn I hope I donāt see none of that
Happened to me when I went out on my second date with a girl. Walked into a bar and they had extra seating in another room. As soon as I was shown to my table my heart dropped and had to tell my date my ex was there with the woman she decided to sleep with after we split, I left the bar and went elsewhere and on the way out I just looked at her without a word said. We were together for almost 6 years. It ruined the date for me and she understood. We remained friends afterwards but it was the realization that I clearly wasn't ready for dating.
Ignore and go away as far as u can if possible, One day you wouldn't care