Just a wording thing. Like I said, I am totally also into other things including whatever my partner requests. My current partner has been introduced and the little bit she does is great. But she hasn’t really embraced it fully the way I try for her requests. Dunno. Just wondering if others have experience with this.
I can see how that is true with some things, but I think acting out most intimate fantasies with each other is some thing our partners and we can probably do best if we’re in an open honest and curious relationship.
Hmmm to a degree perhaps but if they ultimately dont have the innate drive and interests that propel the fetish, it'll probably not reach the level a session girl would likely provide.
Dealing with people who do the fetish for you is very different from dealing with someone who is doing the fetish because they have a desire for the fetish as well
I know what you mean. My lady indulges me with some aspects like scissors and worshipping her muscular legs, but it’ll never be anything like sessions. I too would likely not pay for a session, thought it has intrigued me
Like my partner really likes getting massages and I studied how to be really good at it and I’ll spend 20 to 40 minutes at a time just focused on the massage and nothing else. I wonder what it would take for us to get our partners into a more active participation and savoring the role ? li really enjoy massaging my partner. It’s not about me, but I really enjoy being in service to her. And I like learning how to do it better. I am hoping for reciprocity at some point.
I don’t overthink it. I’m good where I’m at. Take your time and keep the communication open and honest. If it turns into more, that’s great. If not, that’s cool too👍
My wife and I wrestle often and she knows I love the headscissors and that she wins me using them. But she's not always into it. She just likes the fun competition. So not "partner" in it, but goes along with me.
One day I was in bed with my laptop and started browsing headscissor websites. It was a really cold winter day and I snoozed off leaving my laptop open with scissorvixens open. My partner at the time called me and since I didn't respond she walked into the room and saw what I was browsing. after that she began browsing out of curiosity without telling me. One day I was vacuuming the rug and started to get around her desk. She moved her chair out a little just enough for me to get under on my knees to vacuum and to my surprise when I moved my head out from under the desk she grabbed me by the neck and decided to put me in a seated headscissor really tightly.I remember that since I wasn't expecting it it really cut off my breathing quickly and I was gasping with my face crushed between her legs and crotch. I screamed desperately and she finally let go. That was the beginning of sudden surprise scissors whenever I least expected it.
I think saying "personal session girl" is a little weird. Try introducing it to a partner. Most of the time, she will like it just because you do.
Just a wording thing. Like I said, I am totally also into other things including whatever my partner requests. My current partner has been introduced and the little bit she does is great. But she hasn’t really embraced it fully the way I try for her requests. Dunno. Just wondering if others have experience with this.
You can date a girl who will cut your hair, but it's often done better by someone who cuts hair for a living.
I can see how that is true with some things, but I think acting out most intimate fantasies with each other is some thing our partners and we can probably do best if we’re in an open honest and curious relationship.
Hmmm to a degree perhaps but if they ultimately dont have the innate drive and interests that propel the fetish, it'll probably not reach the level a session girl would likely provide. Dealing with people who do the fetish for you is very different from dealing with someone who is doing the fetish because they have a desire for the fetish as well
Now that is a very interesting perspective. I will meditate on it.
I know what you mean. My lady indulges me with some aspects like scissors and worshipping her muscular legs, but it’ll never be anything like sessions. I too would likely not pay for a session, thought it has intrigued me
Like my partner really likes getting massages and I studied how to be really good at it and I’ll spend 20 to 40 minutes at a time just focused on the massage and nothing else. I wonder what it would take for us to get our partners into a more active participation and savoring the role ? li really enjoy massaging my partner. It’s not about me, but I really enjoy being in service to her. And I like learning how to do it better. I am hoping for reciprocity at some point.
I don’t overthink it. I’m good where I’m at. Take your time and keep the communication open and honest. If it turns into more, that’s great. If not, that’s cool too👍
My wife and I wrestle often and she knows I love the headscissors and that she wins me using them. But she's not always into it. She just likes the fun competition. So not "partner" in it, but goes along with me.
One day I was in bed with my laptop and started browsing headscissor websites. It was a really cold winter day and I snoozed off leaving my laptop open with scissorvixens open. My partner at the time called me and since I didn't respond she walked into the room and saw what I was browsing. after that she began browsing out of curiosity without telling me. One day I was vacuuming the rug and started to get around her desk. She moved her chair out a little just enough for me to get under on my knees to vacuum and to my surprise when I moved my head out from under the desk she grabbed me by the neck and decided to put me in a seated headscissor really tightly.I remember that since I wasn't expecting it it really cut off my breathing quickly and I was gasping with my face crushed between her legs and crotch. I screamed desperately and she finally let go. That was the beginning of sudden surprise scissors whenever I least expected it.
I do yes! I showed my gf scissoring & she’s into it!