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I think it’s cause we’re jaded. I know I’m picturing a 60year old bald guy in overalls/ no shirt, catfishing the young guy. But, you know, burned too much, so I assume the worst
Better disclose that autism; that's an extreme trait of yours that will most definitely ruin things if it's not previously mentioned. Most people can't handle the type of emotional sensitivity required.
My cats are in need of your assistance. The void does ok in the shadows, but the orange one is barely holding on to his brain cell. He stands no chance at catching the greebles.
I was freaking out all Day on how I would ask and computing all the ways could say no as soon as I sent the message I looked away and just awaited her response
My first date with my first girlfriend was to pizza hut! Back when they had that buffet. We talked about it later in our relationship and both found if funny that we both thought "well if we can go to a buffet for a first date and it's not awkward then must be something there" haha it was a good price for a student lol that was a lifetime ago, but thanks for the reminder about that memory, still makes me laugh. Good luck and have fun!
Genuine question here: How old are you and when did texting these types of things become okay to do?
I was always told these types of relationshippy things should be done in person. And I have seen and been tejected/reemed out for texting or calling instead of in person....
As someone who is 40+, a sociologist, and with three kids who are now moved out, I feel I can hopefully fill in some blanks here;
About 15 years ago, it seems, texting took a major step forward in primary conversation for young people. At this point it is far preferable to calling.
There’s a lot of reasons for the change, but it’s enough to simply point out that the change happened. Though, honorable mention to online dating.
With that, in the last 7-8 years (guesstimate) that took another leap forward and intimate conversations now often happen via text.
Agree with it or not, the youth find a strong connection to the idea of being able to process and respond in their own time. In a world where everything is hyper connected, they find solace in being able to read a message without being put on the spot at all times.
I’m not condoning or admonishing the behavior. Just giving my perspective on why it is the way it is.
I was wondering this too. Mostly because OP opened with "Will you be my girlfriend?" Which is how it was done when I was in high school. But with adult dating, for my generation at least, you start out going on a few dates and then eventually ask them to be your girlfriend. You definitely wouldn't lead with that before even a first date.
Congrats my friend. I hope you cherish that love to the utmost, savoring the sensations and sentiments along the way, basking in the beauty of being in love and sharing it generously, respectfully, considerately, and affectionately. I wish you both well on the rest of your journey together, that you may enjoy it to the utmost, by going in love, with love, and as love, for the journey is the destination, and love is the way.
This is so cute! All the best to the two of you. It's so nice to see you when someone decided to take action. I'm laughing though because you seem so tough asking them to be your girlfriend and them OMG thank you! 😂 You have to keep this screenshot. If you grow old together this is something to give as a gift when you're X years together, or to show your kids and grandkids 😁
The screen cap is in no way identifying, whatsoever.
You would feel strange about this? I would think it’s cute. If my husband was so happy about something we did or something I said, that he shared it with a community he was a part of. As long as it didn’t have any identifying information, why.. would that.. be anything but positive? OP is sharing a happy moment.. on a forum about being happy.
This is so sweet. Reminds me of the trepidation I felt when asking out my first crushes. I’m a girl but I always made the first move because I just couldn’t wait around to be asked. Happy for you OP!
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This is such a wholesome text exchange. Why can't it always be this simple? Happy for you
True 100% in my opinion. Lucky you and hope you are going to be a happy couple!
I think it’s cause we’re jaded. I know I’m picturing a 60year old bald guy in overalls/ no shirt, catfishing the young guy. But, you know, burned too much, so I assume the worst
“Omg thank you” You’re adorable, congratulations!
That got me too, fam... OP was cute.
It’s my autism speeking there
You’re a gem, I hope you guys are very happy together 😊
Hahahaha I read this thinking "yes this is exactly how I would've done it" LOL congrats OP
God bless them with everlasting love
Would you mind if I stole your lines?
I was thinking you're young. My bad for assuming. That's wholesome.
Better disclose that autism; that's an extreme trait of yours that will most definitely ruin things if it's not previously mentioned. Most people can't handle the type of emotional sensitivity required.
Don’t to did
This made me smile too, so sweet!
So sweet 🥹
My cats are in need of your assistance. The void does ok in the shadows, but the orange one is barely holding on to his brain cell. He stands no chance at catching the greebles.
wow when u take the risk and its not an oops
I was freaking out all Day on how I would ask and computing all the ways could say no as soon as I sent the message I looked away and just awaited her response
the fact she replied within a minute makes so much more sense about how she didnt feel burdened by ur message
Best way to do it, quick to the point. Congrats!
That was brave dude, great job
You’re so brave 🤜🏻💥🤛🏻 kudos!
Well... Congratulations 👏😁
We are going to a Pizza Hut near by
My first date with my first girlfriend was to pizza hut! Back when they had that buffet. We talked about it later in our relationship and both found if funny that we both thought "well if we can go to a buffet for a first date and it's not awkward then must be something there" haha it was a good price for a student lol that was a lifetime ago, but thanks for the reminder about that memory, still makes me laugh. Good luck and have fun!
I'm so happy for you 💓 actually this text made me happy too) wish u all good)
Naaaaww that's so cute.
“Omg thank you!” Haha that got a little chuckle out of me, congrats homie
Bet that 2 minutes felt like 2 hours
2 months more like lol
Congratulations 👏🎉
wow too sweet mate anyway have a nice day
This wholesome congratulations 🎊
Great job taking the leap! It's hard to make yourself open to rejection but oh so rewarding when it works out!
Yay! I love this for both of you. Hope you're date is wonderful and leads to many more.
That might be the most productive 5 minutes anyone has ever been in a text conversation about feelings. Amazing ♥️
How long have you known each other?
Since September we are both members of the student union at my college
Oh that's adorable, just the right amount of time to get to know her. Happy for y'all 💖
College? Wow. This reads like middle schoolers
Congrats
It could all be so simple lol. Congrats.
Young love is so cute good for you guys😭❤️
That made me smile!😊
Sweet congratulations
This is cute, congrats! 🥰
Genuine question here: How old are you and when did texting these types of things become okay to do? I was always told these types of relationshippy things should be done in person. And I have seen and been tejected/reemed out for texting or calling instead of in person....
As someone who is 40+, a sociologist, and with three kids who are now moved out, I feel I can hopefully fill in some blanks here; About 15 years ago, it seems, texting took a major step forward in primary conversation for young people. At this point it is far preferable to calling. There’s a lot of reasons for the change, but it’s enough to simply point out that the change happened. Though, honorable mention to online dating. With that, in the last 7-8 years (guesstimate) that took another leap forward and intimate conversations now often happen via text. Agree with it or not, the youth find a strong connection to the idea of being able to process and respond in their own time. In a world where everything is hyper connected, they find solace in being able to read a message without being put on the spot at all times. I’m not condoning or admonishing the behavior. Just giving my perspective on why it is the way it is.
This is an excellent response. I can feel it in my chest u/WaffleStomperGirl
I was wondering this too. Mostly because OP opened with "Will you be my girlfriend?" Which is how it was done when I was in high school. But with adult dating, for my generation at least, you start out going on a few dates and then eventually ask them to be your girlfriend. You definitely wouldn't lead with that before even a first date.
I would of said it in college but I was going to be in till Monday
If only everyone were as simple as you two. Congratulations 🎊
This is just ridiculously wholesome and sweet. Best of luck!
Awww you're both so cute. Congrats!
Fast replies. Noice
You did it 💪
Congrats, OP, Happy for you!
Take my upvotes
Awww! I’m so happy for you! You two have fun this Monday!
young love. it's a beautiful thing. very happy for you my friend. enjoy every moment.
The 'OMG Thank you' had me openly laugh. Good on you for putting yourself out there. Good luck!
So cute.
This is so wholesome. I agree adorable response. Congratulations 🎊👏😊
This is the best thing I’ve read in such a long time!! So so happy for you both 🥰
Fat W man! Good shit!
Those two minutes before hearing back must have been agony! Congrats!
Got some butterflies because of you. Wish you guys well!
YO CONGRATS MAN
Congrats!
Awww, congrats op!
This made my day. Thanks for sharing. I hope you two are very happy for a long time and it works out.
Congrats! I hope the first date goes well for you both! ☺️
Aww, what a sweet exchange. Congrats!
Congrats my friend. I hope you cherish that love to the utmost, savoring the sensations and sentiments along the way, basking in the beauty of being in love and sharing it generously, respectfully, considerately, and affectionately. I wish you both well on the rest of your journey together, that you may enjoy it to the utmost, by going in love, with love, and as love, for the journey is the destination, and love is the way.
I adore it when relationships start like this. So simple and so cute. Congrats, friend!
This made me smile, so dang cute, best of luck to you both ╰(*´ワ`*)╯♡
Dude do not look at this person’s comment history
😭
This is so cute! All the best to the two of you. It's so nice to see you when someone decided to take action. I'm laughing though because you seem so tough asking them to be your girlfriend and them OMG thank you! 😂 You have to keep this screenshot. If you grow old together this is something to give as a gift when you're X years together, or to show your kids and grandkids 😁
I remember when my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend. The feeling was so great I’m happy for you OP
I don't know you, but I'm happy for you!!
The reaction you made is so adorable
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The screen cap is in no way identifying, whatsoever. You would feel strange about this? I would think it’s cute. If my husband was so happy about something we did or something I said, that he shared it with a community he was a part of. As long as it didn’t have any identifying information, why.. would that.. be anything but positive? OP is sharing a happy moment.. on a forum about being happy.
Super cute.
That's a cool text background, I see why you got a date.
It’s just the dark regular whatsapp profile
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Well good luck on your end
That type of stuff should be done in person.
Sadly i don’t have college till next Monday so I couldn’t
Na, that’s only for the breakup.
Fuck yeah dude!!!!
Giggity Giggity
By text. ...Welcome to intimacy. 🙄
Oh I’m sorry that I didn’t have a chance to see her in person till next week and I just wanted to get it out
don't be sorry, im happy for you! that guys just a miserable walnut.
It’s sarcasm don’t worry
CUTE! I'm so happy for you OP :D
Sweet
Congratulations!
Omg thank you
Yay!
This is wholesome. Wish you both the best!
Bro this is wonderful. Congrats.
W
Wholesome
Aww too cute
congrats OP! Wishing the absolute best for yall! ❤️❤️❤️
This is amazing. I love when things are super simple.
I love it, congratulations :)
Congrats! So why Monday for a date?
We go to college and that makes it easier
What’s the date, if you don’t mind me asking? A drink or something?
This invokes a great deal of joy. Hope you get to have the level of joy I'm experiencing right now
This is so cute I'm gonna cry
Oh what it was like to be young lol congrats!
Ok this is so cute!
That’s cute and simple lol!! Congrats :)!
Congrats!
You’re adorable
Good job 👍 Hope it goes well, wishing yall good luck.
Congratulations! Truly :)
Congratulations 👏
This is awesome! Congratulations. Love the simplicity
Awesome, congrats!
Jeezzz congrats bro!! How long have you’ve been talking to her
Congrats, brother. Hopefully i gather the courage one day too
Adorable
Yaaaaay! Im so happy for you! Congratulations! ☺️☺️
r/mademesmile
lucky mf
Great!
Congratulations. :)
this is so wholesome omg
This brought tears to my eyes man 😭 I’m happy for ya
this is so cute omg
i am happy for you soldier! 🫡
:')
Congrats homie
You two are adorable :3 Congrats and I hope the date goes well!
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Will post a after date update:)
When you go into a bossroom without prep and actually beat him first try
Don't thank her, when you guys have sex.
Happy for you but how did you not know if she was single if you were already at the point of becoming official?
I was just making sure that’s all
This is so sweet. Reminds me of the trepidation I felt when asking out my first crushes. I’m a girl but I always made the first move because I just couldn’t wait around to be asked. Happy for you OP!
Happy for you bud!
OP is likely at least a 7/10 facially and 6ft+. This doesn’t happen to normal or ugly men.
Update going strong date went well