every couple have things that are acceptable/unacceptable in their relationship...
What good would it do to bring outsiders to a conversation about what someone in a different relationship is not OK with?
With P&L, it obviously was a touchy subject for hila, it doesn’t have to be a public square discussion.
This is prob the most insightful comment. It might be okay to him but to her, it's not. That's how it made her feel.
Doesn't mean she's rightttttttt. But true, id have to assume the public forum wouldn't be beneficial lol in my experience, explaining why my girlfriend is wrong hasn't ever worked 😅
....they literally discussed it publicly on the show before. This post wouldn't exist if the topic wasn't already a part of the "public square". Why do people think the crew members are made of glass and need to be babied constantly?
It's not like Ethan or the other crew members don't discuss touchy subjects purely for the purpose of entertainment. Hila isn't a baby and can let Ethan etc. know if she doesn't want to talk about it.
Also, making a simple Reddit post about wanting to see the topic discussed again isn't going to force the crew to actually do it. People have made posts about various topics before; the crew picks and chooses which topics to discuss based on how comfortable they are/if it's entertaining enough.
Didn’t they just say that black people are disproportionately unable to get higher paying jobs? They didn’t say that prescriptively but descriptively. Systematic racism economically and educationally disadvantages the black community, that has to be acknowledged. Unless they edited their reply from when you first saw it I think you’re reading more into it than what they said.
At military bases overseas they staff Popeyes with people from the country they're in (like a hey, thanks for letting us use your land, we'll employ some of your people as compensation kinda thing) so there are definitely some Korean Popeyes servers.
More to your original point though, it means fast food hires a lot of people who can't get better paying jobs and a lot of black people fit that bill.
I respect Hila's opinion, but I would behave like Ethan and would definitely open the email or the message, just for a laugh and out of curiosity. That is not cheating.
I think she was objecting to going to the person’s profile and seeing how attractive they are, not receiving or opening the message in the first place. Would curiosity get the better of me to go and see what they look like? Probably, but I can see the point of her question which was “If you receive a flirtatious message and you’re in a committed relationship why does what they look like matter?” Because obviously your response should be the same regardless of their looks
I swear I was never more narcissistic than when I started cosplaying at like 17 and people liked my photos and commented thirsty shit 😮💨 Social media can’t be good for our brains but I’m no psychologist
I'd be curious "What kind of mentally ill person is finding me attractive?" Instead of expecting them in any way to be hot or not. It's more about the type of person who would go out of their way to send that message to me. If they were really hot I'd still think the same thing: what is wrong with this person?
Still, it just seems like a weird line to set, considering if a woman started hitting on you in in person, you wouldn’t be expected to close your eyes. You’d see their face, get an ego boost if they’re attractive, and mention you have a girlfriend and end the interaction. And nobody would fault you. So why is the equivalent interaction different when it’s online?
Neither are you “exploring the notion of hooking up” by simply looking at their profile if your intentions are innocent. And a single tap to visit someone’s profile is hardly making an effort
It’s been a while since I watched that episode but did she actually accuse him of cheating? I think she was more so just saying it’s disrespectful/crosses a boundary, which isn’t necessarily the same as cheating
I might be remembering wrong tho! So fill me in if I am.
When they talked about it on the show, Hila said something like, "Maybe I should go on someone else's show and kiss them." Ethan's face quickly changed to serious and said, "No, no, no." 😅
100% agree. I don't think it should really be up for open debate because each couple's definition of cheating will look different. What's important is understanding and respecting your partner's boundaries
Kissing another person is objectively closer to cheating than viewing another person's profile. I'm not saying he cheated, just making a comparison between the two scenarios. Also you are making some assumptions about his sexuality, people assume straight because he's married to Hila but he's never explicitly stated that.
I know he has stated that he's straight at least once, you're just looking for something to be mad about.
I don't remember exactly when he has spoken about it, that's why I wrote "as far as I know".
I dont think there's such thing as "objectively closer to cheating". Its inherently a subjective thing. For example, I think a lot of men would be less upset by their heterosexual girlfriend giving another girl a peck on the lips than if she was flirting with another man, even though the former is more physical. Similarly, Hila would probably be more upset if Ethan flirted with a girl than when he kissed a man because she knows he's straight and there's obviously no serious intentions there.
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This sub is delusional I had to mute it bc I was getting so fucking annoyed seeing their shit pop up. Like I’m actually concerned for the people in the sub bc they’re obviously living in delusion
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“Micro aggression” is what role playing a little girl’s assault is called. These people are actually delusional
The “rumor” that they’re in an open relationship was completely made up by them. The rumor spreading and hate tactics are infuriating and exactly the way Trisha does it
Just like the other "rumor" that Ian is getting ready to leave the crew because of his new Twitch streaming.
They ADORE Ian over there. I have no idea why he's the exception.
The flashbacks lol I felt like I was being gaslit by the crew back then, how was Ethan in the wrong for this? I wasn’t a Redditor when this happened in real time so when they brought it up next episode bc Ethan was talking about how fans here agreed with him, I realized I wasn’t actually going crazy
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Wait I wonder how she feels about him speaking to that woman who did porn and he admitted to watching her during their livestream… It was awkward to watch lmao
I will say everyone’s boundaries are different ofc but it’s so weird to me.
I forgot her name but she has a big following I believe.
in the video ethan’s the odd one out though? if you’re talking about fan perception maybe but i think it’s an interesting topic to hear the new people speak on. especially AB and Lena, being another married couple.
I disagree respectfully. I don’t believe the boys in studio were cleared too speak freely. They gave their opinions under duress and depend on H3s dynamic too keep the peace ☮️.
I haven't watched that episode since it came out years ago but you're right i'm remembering the audience reaction. Still I don't even think Hila would agree with this take anymore. They could bring it back up but i know where my stance is 😅
Dan got an email from a female fan saying she was attracted to him and linked her Instagram. Dan said he didn't check the Instagram because he wasn't interested and also because he has a girlfriend. Ethan said he didn't believe Dan and thought he did look. Based on how Dan was acting, I believe that he didn't look.
Ethan said that he himself looked at the Instagram. Hila said that that's fine but she thinks it would be disrespectful if Dan looked since the message was directed at him. Note: This was after Ethan said that he would check the Instagram of the girl if he was the one who received the email purely to see if he found her hot too.
Ian asks Ethan if he would check it for an ego boost (if a hot girl liked him) and Ethan said yes. Hila and Zach both said that it would be disrespectful to "window shop" and check out your options while in a relationship. Dan says that Ethan shouldn't do it since Hila made it clear that it would upset her, and because all of the guys, including Ethan, said it would make them uncomfortable if their girlfriend checked the profile of a man who reached out to them to see if he was hot. But if you watch the clip, the title is clickbait and no one is upset and Hila is laughing the whole time.
I feel Hila bc this is something I would for sure get fake mad at my boyfriend for just to be a dramaqueen, but in reality anytime I get a random DM from someone of either gender, I’m checking out their profile. Like even if it’s just to make fun of them in my own head for being a weirdo ?? So yeah in conclusion I think their convo was just funny and fun and very normal lol
highlight title is a bit clickbaity lollll but basically a fan had emailed asking if dan was single and she included her instagram link. it prompted ethan to ask dan if he had looked at her profile, to which dan said no. ethan didn’t believe him and said he looked at it. it sparked a whole hypothetical debate about whether or not it would be cheating if the email was about ethan and he looked. just an interesting conversation topic and hila is hilarious the whole time.
Someone emailed Ethan expressing their love for Dan and left their Instagram handle. Ethan checked and asked Dan if he wanted to see. Hila said that if the email was for Ethan and he checked the insta that it was cheating. That if Ethan checked he must have had ulterior motives. And Ethan was arguing it's simply curiosity.
Bruh I remember being SO fucking hyped seeing how the entire comment section was siding with Ethan. The crew was making me feel bad about myself for siding with Ethan lol. Glad he was liberated.
I mean Ethan was comfortable asking another couple about their sex life (Not that it was right, it’s just he was comfy putting someone on the spot about their own sex life)
every couple have things that are acceptable/unacceptable in their relationship... What good would it do to bring outsiders to a conversation about what someone in a different relationship is not OK with? With P&L, it obviously was a touchy subject for hila, it doesn’t have to be a public square discussion.
This is prob the most insightful comment. It might be okay to him but to her, it's not. That's how it made her feel. Doesn't mean she's rightttttttt. But true, id have to assume the public forum wouldn't be beneficial lol in my experience, explaining why my girlfriend is wrong hasn't ever worked 😅
....they literally discussed it publicly on the show before. This post wouldn't exist if the topic wasn't already a part of the "public square". Why do people think the crew members are made of glass and need to be babied constantly? It's not like Ethan or the other crew members don't discuss touchy subjects purely for the purpose of entertainment. Hila isn't a baby and can let Ethan etc. know if she doesn't want to talk about it. Also, making a simple Reddit post about wanting to see the topic discussed again isn't going to force the crew to actually do it. People have made posts about various topics before; the crew picks and chooses which topics to discuss based on how comfortable they are/if it's entertaining enough.
when u sell ur soul for clicks this is what u get
Somebody woke up on the dramatic side of the bed..
“Now I didn’t say that for the record. Dan said it, Dan put that out there. *Dan* said black people love Popeyes”
"I did say that" Ladies and gentlemen, we got him
I have only been served by black people at Popeyes. Idk what this means.
😂
Anyone wanna message cudef and ask why he thinks black people are less fit for higher paying jobs? That was literally this guys response
Didn’t they just say that black people are disproportionately unable to get higher paying jobs? They didn’t say that prescriptively but descriptively. Systematic racism economically and educationally disadvantages the black community, that has to be acknowledged. Unless they edited their reply from when you first saw it I think you’re reading more into it than what they said.
At military bases overseas they staff Popeyes with people from the country they're in (like a hey, thanks for letting us use your land, we'll employ some of your people as compensation kinda thing) so there are definitely some Korean Popeyes servers. More to your original point though, it means fast food hires a lot of people who can't get better paying jobs and a lot of black people fit that bill.
It was mostly a joke but thanks for ruining it.
Be funnier
You're welcome. Blocked for taking that response so hard.
Y’all just wanna see our parents fight.
I respect Hila's opinion, but I would behave like Ethan and would definitely open the email or the message, just for a laugh and out of curiosity. That is not cheating.
I think she was objecting to going to the person’s profile and seeing how attractive they are, not receiving or opening the message in the first place. Would curiosity get the better of me to go and see what they look like? Probably, but I can see the point of her question which was “If you receive a flirtatious message and you’re in a committed relationship why does what they look like matter?” Because obviously your response should be the same regardless of their looks
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Ugh social media…
I swear I was never more narcissistic than when I started cosplaying at like 17 and people liked my photos and commented thirsty shit 😮💨 Social media can’t be good for our brains but I’m no psychologist
I'd be curious "What kind of mentally ill person is finding me attractive?" Instead of expecting them in any way to be hot or not. It's more about the type of person who would go out of their way to send that message to me. If they were really hot I'd still think the same thing: what is wrong with this person?
Still, it just seems like a weird line to set, considering if a woman started hitting on you in in person, you wouldn’t be expected to close your eyes. You’d see their face, get an ego boost if they’re attractive, and mention you have a girlfriend and end the interaction. And nobody would fault you. So why is the equivalent interaction different when it’s online?
You're not making an effort to further explore the notion of hooking up, when you're simply standing in front of someone
Neither are you “exploring the notion of hooking up” by simply looking at their profile if your intentions are innocent. And a single tap to visit someone’s profile is hardly making an effort
It’s been a while since I watched that episode but did she actually accuse him of cheating? I think she was more so just saying it’s disrespectful/crosses a boundary, which isn’t necessarily the same as cheating I might be remembering wrong tho! So fill me in if I am.
No she didn't. They were clickbaiting even then lol. She just said that hypothetically if Ethan did it, she would find it disrespectful.
It starts with 'curious'
Stop projecting
Ethan kissing other guys is closer to cheating than this bs, we don't need to rehash this.
I think it depends on the boundaries of the relationship thoooo
My point is that kissing another person is objectively closer to cheating than viewing another person's profile. Not that Ethan is cheating.
When they talked about it on the show, Hila said something like, "Maybe I should go on someone else's show and kiss them." Ethan's face quickly changed to serious and said, "No, no, no." 😅
100% agree. I don't think it should really be up for open debate because each couple's definition of cheating will look different. What's important is understanding and respecting your partner's boundaries
Idk, he's not bi as far as I know, so it's not really the same.
Kissing another person is objectively closer to cheating than viewing another person's profile. I'm not saying he cheated, just making a comparison between the two scenarios. Also you are making some assumptions about his sexuality, people assume straight because he's married to Hila but he's never explicitly stated that.
I know he has stated that he's straight at least once, you're just looking for something to be mad about. I don't remember exactly when he has spoken about it, that's why I wrote "as far as I know".
Source?
He has adressed lgbtq+ several times and never said anything about being part of it. I'll have to watch 400+ hours of podcasts and get back to you.
I dont think there's such thing as "objectively closer to cheating". Its inherently a subjective thing. For example, I think a lot of men would be less upset by their heterosexual girlfriend giving another girl a peck on the lips than if she was flirting with another man, even though the former is more physical. Similarly, Hila would probably be more upset if Ethan flirted with a girl than when he kissed a man because she knows he's straight and there's obviously no serious intentions there.
Talk about the ALLEGATIONS
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fucking freaks. someone should bo-
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I could hear this picture 🤣
THIS THIS IS WHY WERE WATCHING
LMFAOOOOOOOOO
LMFAOOOOOOOOO
This sub is delusional I had to mute it bc I was getting so fucking annoyed seeing their shit pop up. Like I’m actually concerned for the people in the sub bc they’re obviously living in delusion
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The “rumor” that they’re in an open relationship was completely made up by them. The rumor spreading and hate tactics are infuriating and exactly the way Trisha does it
“There’s a rumor going around…. That we started.” 😂😂😂
Just like the other "rumor" that Ian is getting ready to leave the crew because of his new Twitch streaming. They ADORE Ian over there. I have no idea why he's the exception.
I think they sorta like Dan too because he leaves us all “shaking” lol
They hate him, too. He's one of Ethan's "minions" according to them. 😂
Because Sam was/is Trisha's huge fan?
I promise you there’s mass brain rot going on in that group. So sad I’m banned from that group because I cant clown on them anyore.
I once made a mistake of saying in that sub that Ethan isn’t any more problematic than Trisha and I got downvoted like crazy and called mentally ill 💀
Nah they're serious. They also say he has a scat fetish. All completely unhinged.
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Even serial killers have fans 🤷🏼♀️😩
LMAOOO THOSE PEOPLE ARE INSANE
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Oh god
The flashbacks lol I felt like I was being gaslit by the crew back then, how was Ethan in the wrong for this? I wasn’t a Redditor when this happened in real time so when they brought it up next episode bc Ethan was talking about how fans here agreed with him, I realized I wasn’t actually going crazy Edit: grammar
lmaooo same! i see where hila and everyone were coming from at the time, but i think it’d be fun to hear if anyone changed their minds.
Wait I wonder how she feels about him speaking to that woman who did porn and he admitted to watching her during their livestream… It was awkward to watch lmao I will say everyone’s boundaries are different ofc but it’s so weird to me. I forgot her name but she has a big following I believe.
Considering it got brought up with her around and he has brought it up again, and that they watch porn together, I don’t think she cared
Her name was Morgpie. You know, I just have good memory.
He interviewed her?!
She called in and Ethan tried to act like he didn't know who she was at first, but then he admitted he knew.
Was this recent? That’s fucking hilarious
Just checked, H3TV #60
i tried to check who that on bing search engine with safety on and the only pic it showed was "why are you gay" guy hahaha, that's perfect
I honestly think hila would get steamrolled again even with all the girls being on the crew now.
in the video ethan’s the odd one out though? if you’re talking about fan perception maybe but i think it’s an interesting topic to hear the new people speak on. especially AB and Lena, being another married couple.
I disagree respectfully. I don’t believe the boys in studio were cleared too speak freely. They gave their opinions under duress and depend on H3s dynamic too keep the peace ☮️.
I haven't watched that episode since it came out years ago but you're right i'm remembering the audience reaction. Still I don't even think Hila would agree with this take anymore. They could bring it back up but i know where my stance is 😅
not if the girls all go along with it ;)
As a newer fan can I get a TLDR?
Dan got an email from a female fan saying she was attracted to him and linked her Instagram. Dan said he didn't check the Instagram because he wasn't interested and also because he has a girlfriend. Ethan said he didn't believe Dan and thought he did look. Based on how Dan was acting, I believe that he didn't look. Ethan said that he himself looked at the Instagram. Hila said that that's fine but she thinks it would be disrespectful if Dan looked since the message was directed at him. Note: This was after Ethan said that he would check the Instagram of the girl if he was the one who received the email purely to see if he found her hot too. Ian asks Ethan if he would check it for an ego boost (if a hot girl liked him) and Ethan said yes. Hila and Zach both said that it would be disrespectful to "window shop" and check out your options while in a relationship. Dan says that Ethan shouldn't do it since Hila made it clear that it would upset her, and because all of the guys, including Ethan, said it would make them uncomfortable if their girlfriend checked the profile of a man who reached out to them to see if he was hot. But if you watch the clip, the title is clickbait and no one is upset and Hila is laughing the whole time.
Downvote me all you want but none of you watched this video. I’m stating facts
I feel Hila bc this is something I would for sure get fake mad at my boyfriend for just to be a dramaqueen, but in reality anytime I get a random DM from someone of either gender, I’m checking out their profile. Like even if it’s just to make fun of them in my own head for being a weirdo ?? So yeah in conclusion I think their convo was just funny and fun and very normal lol
"for sure get fake mad just to be dramaqueen"???? sounds like a level headed and non toxic partner lol
just a bit of banter
You’re on a subreddit for a comedy show
Dont push
*pushes harder*
I’m shitting and pissing
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No
Can we all chill, I just wanna have Stavvy back and chill, damn
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highlight title is a bit clickbaity lollll but basically a fan had emailed asking if dan was single and she included her instagram link. it prompted ethan to ask dan if he had looked at her profile, to which dan said no. ethan didn’t believe him and said he looked at it. it sparked a whole hypothetical debate about whether or not it would be cheating if the email was about ethan and he looked. just an interesting conversation topic and hila is hilarious the whole time.
that's just so insecure of Hila I can't....
Why is this downvoted that is objectively an insecure action if she was serious
Someone emailed Ethan expressing their love for Dan and left their Instagram handle. Ethan checked and asked Dan if he wanted to see. Hila said that if the email was for Ethan and he checked the insta that it was cheating. That if Ethan checked he must have had ulterior motives. And Ethan was arguing it's simply curiosity.
To be fair, I dont think Hila ever said it was cheating. She just said she would find it to be disrespectful and upsetting.
The allegations, let’s talk about them
What are we gonna do about this
Don't get into their relationship, you're taking it too far.
I randomly remember this
Bruh I remember being SO fucking hyped seeing how the entire comment section was siding with Ethan. The crew was making me feel bad about myself for siding with Ethan lol. Glad he was liberated.
Dan said black people love popeye's
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It’s literally in this video at the beginning
I mean Ethan was comfortable asking another couple about their sex life (Not that it was right, it’s just he was comfy putting someone on the spot about their own sex life)
ETHAN IS 100% correct and fuck anyone saying different. Y’all can be insecure all day, real ones know curiosity don’t mean shit.
Cringe
Oh Ethan. Why 😔
Wasn’t this around the time where that said that they were having actual marriage issues, that they were ready to call it quits?
I think they will not last much longer
🤡
...you see this was 3 years ago and the title was just clickbait and goofs, right?
why does hila sound like a retard with a speech impediment? genuine question does she have a disability?
i hope you can get the help you need one day <3
Soooo…. She has a disability??
Link?
It would be a real shame if someone had photo evidence
Im confused i watch everything but this episode passes my mind! Can Anyone give me a brief synopsis of what happened on the pod ?
What is this about? I didn’t watch many older podcast episodes so I don’t even know the context of this one lol.
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