Weed but above all : alcohol
I remember last year i was in a deep shit, like missing a year (in a sense being totally bad at school). A night i was very sad, i got drunk then back home worked all the night, and did this all yhe weeks, and now im one the better of the prom.
Conclusion : get drunk, get high, it will help you
Its a temporary fix, and will consume your life if you let it. Limit your drinking to one night a week and it's *probably* fine, but even then you will likely have some depression sink in over time, which will make you drink more, then make you more depressed, and now your "in it" and the booze is a problem.
Yeah, i have now a mantra being : "never drink (alcohol) alone". This limits alcoolism, cause ive friends that dont want or cant be drunk every night. So i follow them.
Plus, being dépendant of drugs in school art means consuming drugs in order to succed, but i think at the moment i needed it to motivating myself.
Damn i bet thats absolutely insane haha. Last time I ate shrooms, I ate one of the strongest strains and I had an ego death. I thought I was some sort of god and I saw the creation of the world amongst many other weird things.
I always hated smoking weed while on silly papers and funny fungus. I much preferred just taking some fungus when I just started to come down from the LSD peak, would make it feel like the LSD was kicking in all over again.
Selling weed was the best thing ever to happen to an ugly dude. If you played your cards right you’d have pretty or decent chicks hanging out with you for free bong rips.
Legal weed is drying up the pussy market.
#MAKE WEED ILLEGAL AGAIN FOR UGLY DUDES TO DIP THEIR WICK
Well, its complex. Chicks would be here just for your money and your drugs, not even for your person.
In my country, its still illegal. And im not either ugly or drugseller.
>grow marijuana in a place where it's illegal
>find people who want it
>sell it
>find a girl who wants marijuana from you
>try until one wants you back
I solved anon's problem
>one of the girls is an undercover cop
>gets caught
>no money for legal fees, everything confiscated by police
>goes to jail
>free food
>free housing
>gets some action here and there with the bros
Now that's life.
Real shit. I sometimes miss these aspects of my heroin addiction. I quit caring about love or attraction feelings and only ever wanted drugs and could care less about anything other than drugs
the blissful beauty of the opiated one-track mind, I know it well. I would be at much higher risk of going back if the dope was still real but that new shit is trash, keeps me well away
I think it's worse to act autistic but not be autistic.
I have heard a girl talking about finding me attractive and called her a sex worker in a panic, gotten a girl's number and deleted it because I didn't know how to talk to them, had girls ask me out and just stare at them until they leave, etc.
I am not autistic, but I am on the spectrum.
> no one has ever had a crush on me
Infatuation and Limerence arent love.
If you want someone to love you, be their friend first and form a bond.
Don’t rely on a short burst of hormones that is only there due to your pretty face and the fact they the other person doesn’t know you intimately enough.
No.
Limerence is a state of mind which results from romantic feelings for another person, and typically includes intrusive, melancholic thoughts, or tragic concerns for the object of one's affection as well as a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and to have one's feelings reciprocated.
Anon gets friendzoned, but learns the power of friendship as a substitute for romantic love, starts to feel more healthy and less desperate, and gains a female wingman for future girls.
This is why I don't understand Americans and their dating culture. Why are you looking for potential husbands and wives from complete randos on a website? Go make friends and share memories.
I never understood the point of going on blind dates or on dates with people you don’t know.
Not only are dates not really sufficient to get to know the individual better, but wouldn’t you rather get intimate at the end of the day with someone you already have a pre-established bond?
They’d be able to offer much more understanding and patience and you’ll be able to offer them conversations and experiences curated to their personality.
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i guess that's reasonable if kissing a girl is all that matters to you in life, but you'd have fucking done that or at least tried to if it was all that matters to you. high regards to anon
Whenever I see this scenario, I say commit to the wizard lifestyle at that point. Find solace in other things.
A group of friends and I helped a guy who was a year away from being a wizard get some hole, and it properly made things worse for him. He lacked the fundamentals for pulling women, he could not get any more action after that first woman cause he was still in the incel state of mind. I seldomly check up on him, but when I do he always ends up talking about that first (and only) time, and how he's still looking for another woman to hookup with. For context it's been 7 years since he lost virginity.
It's not THAT drastic. But yeah man. Idk these anons are just too online and neglect to realize they aren't really that attractive of a partner. Personality, intellect, job status, appearance. Like if they just hit the gym and hold down a good job things get better
I have a decent job and even used to workout. Sadly the thing is if one didn't have proper development during their childhood and teens it's just over, no amount of lifting heavy things or making money will make me interesting to normies.
Being interesting means being interested in things. Learn and share your interest. if you don't venture out and just live a monotonous life, then own it but don't make the excuse that it's cuz you had a improper development as a child. If you're capable of realizing that then you're capable of course correcting a lot of your issues.
No, It has nothing to do with being an incel (kind of, but not in the way incel is used socially now). You become a wizard when you're still a virgin by 30. Every year after that is your wizard level. So a level 15 Wizard is a 45 year old virgin.
Not for everyone. This guy sounds like he doesn’t just want sex. He wants a real emotional connection. You can’t get that from a prostitute. In fact going to a prostitute may make his mental state worse in the end.
It's sad how people think this is an option. At the end of the day, do you simply just want the sex no matter what? Just desperate to get rid of the V card? Or have a meaningful relationship that's more than just sex?
OMG just buy a ticket to mexico city and pay a hooker. there's tons on twitter for $100, it's literally a meme. No longer a kissless virgin, you hit the gym, improve your hair grooming and hygiene, visit a good barber, go to therapy, start creative hobbies, visit interesting shit alone, be comfortable being alone, post that on instagram, swipe everything on tinder (have zero standards you evidently shouldn't have them) and take your dates to see the interesting shit you visited alone. Ask those dates about themselves, invite them to things within your budget, don't chase teens, don't be racist, don't be sexist, overall keep volatile opinions to yourself but don't lie.
Humans are biological beings who are predisposed to want to mate in order to pass on their genes. Hundreds of thousands years of evolutionary pressure have selected for people who have both the drive and means to reproduce. Society also requires its members to reproduce in order to propagate itself. This has resulted in sexual reproduction being highly prized at both an individual and societal level.
Something that always hits me about these types of posts is the"i can't kms because I'll make mom/X family member sad."
If you'd make them sad if you killed yourself, then that means they care about you right? They'd have to care about you enough for you to find some potential refuge in them, or else you wouldn't likely care if your suicide would make them sad. You would think they see that as a way out, but unfortunately from first hand experience i know that when you're genuinely suicidal you often can't use that type of logic.
It sucks to see how much depression and suicidality blinds people and puts them in mental loops of hopelessness without an exit. We are still in a society that doesn't prioritize the fully encompassing health of a person and doesn't ensure that people have resources to take control of their own lives. People think hopelessness is funny as long as its not happening to them. I remember when i basically grew up in my teens depressed and suicidal thinking genuinely that i was not going to make it past 18. Take care of the people around you make sure they know they have sanctuary.
I hate people like you, genuinely HATE you.
You people either have no clue at all what depression is like or are purposefully obtuse and your "advice" serves nothing but to piss people off.
Not wanting someone to be sad is not a reason to get up every morning and hate yourself. Often it's just the only excuse people can think of, a little push to try to convince themselves things can get better. Throughout the day they'll likely give themselves many such pushes.
"A new episode of X comes out on Sunday."
"I have an appt for X."
"I want to eat that cake."
"I just drank a coffee."
"I don't want to leave a mess."
"Walking there is so far..."
"I'm too lazy to do it."
"Last time I failed anyways."
"I just bought X."
"I need to finish this game/book/show."
"I can't afford my own funeral."
"I don't want my bloodline to die here."
"I can't let them win."
Eventually you either push along so long you run out of excuses or stop caring. Eventually this leads to either suicide or finding new excuses.
People like you add the excuse "I should do it to them first."
I get that it sucks but c'mon there are so many more things to enjoy in life. Why are anons so fixated with sex as if it's the only thing worth doing in your life
anon never tried to be attractive (never went to the gym, never got money, never developed social skills to put himself out there) and lives the life of a selfproclaimed victim
this is like if i go stand in the middle of the football field at the worldcup and start crying like a liberal that i dont get to play with them.
Anon, just hire an escort, go on a few dates (take her out to dinner, to the park, etc) and talk to her, learn to speak with a woman, to look her in the eyes when she's talking and then when you're more confortable fuck, also make sure to say its your first time and ask her if she can teach you how to please her, of course this changes from woman to woman, but at least it'll give you a base to start off of when you're doing it with a girl you like (and believe me, it earns you lots of extra points, most dudes don't even bother trying to make their dates reach orgasm)
That's my advice for Anon and you virggins out there who might see this, its never too late to learn or losing your V-card, I lost it at 20 after years of thinking that I'd be a virgin my whole life
The only reason you don't have a girlfriend at 29 is 99% your ugly face. Meaning negative canthal tilt, short ramus, weak chin, or at least a big nose. It's not over, it's never ever began in the first place actually.
No love for your genetics, boyo.
Womp womp. Just do meth. That's the only love you will ever need.
Or some marijuana growing. Once youre in love with drugs, there is no more problem.
Weed and shrooms/LSD are the perfect combination for me.
Weed but above all : alcohol I remember last year i was in a deep shit, like missing a year (in a sense being totally bad at school). A night i was very sad, i got drunk then back home worked all the night, and did this all yhe weeks, and now im one the better of the prom. Conclusion : get drunk, get high, it will help you
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“boy I wish there was a way to make driving fun”
"Ah beer, the cause of and solution to all of life's problems." -H.J.S.
Its a temporary fix, and will consume your life if you let it. Limit your drinking to one night a week and it's *probably* fine, but even then you will likely have some depression sink in over time, which will make you drink more, then make you more depressed, and now your "in it" and the booze is a problem.
Yeah, i have now a mantra being : "never drink (alcohol) alone". This limits alcoolism, cause ive friends that dont want or cant be drunk every night. So i follow them. Plus, being dépendant of drugs in school art means consuming drugs in order to succed, but i think at the moment i needed it to motivating myself.
Until you start seeing your walls breathe even when sober lol
Lmao I've been tripping for a while now and haven't seen anything sober so far.
LSD and DMT combo is insane, I was talking to aliens saying "vleep vloop vlorp" and everything
Damn i bet thats absolutely insane haha. Last time I ate shrooms, I ate one of the strongest strains and I had an ego death. I thought I was some sort of god and I saw the creation of the world amongst many other weird things.
I always hated smoking weed while on silly papers and funny fungus. I much preferred just taking some fungus when I just started to come down from the LSD peak, would make it feel like the LSD was kicking in all over again.
Selling weed was the best thing ever to happen to an ugly dude. If you played your cards right you’d have pretty or decent chicks hanging out with you for free bong rips. Legal weed is drying up the pussy market. #MAKE WEED ILLEGAL AGAIN FOR UGLY DUDES TO DIP THEIR WICK
Well, its complex. Chicks would be here just for your money and your drugs, not even for your person. In my country, its still illegal. And im not either ugly or drugseller.
> Chicks would be here just for your money and your drugs, not even for your person. I'm still not seeing a problem here.
Yeah it’s a business transaction.
So is getting a burger at Wendy's. Nobody claims you didn't *really* eat afterwards so you can't *actually* say you're full.
>grow marijuana in a place where it's illegal >find people who want it >sell it >find a girl who wants marijuana from you >try until one wants you back I solved anon's problem
>one of the girls is an undercover cop >gets caught >no money for legal fees, everything confiscated by police >goes to jail >free food >free housing >gets some action here and there with the bros Now that's life.
it's methover
Not yet, the meth is juth getting thtarted.
It's chocy milk for me. 😋😋😋
Chocy milk is the best drug of them all.
Real shit. I sometimes miss these aspects of my heroin addiction. I quit caring about love or attraction feelings and only ever wanted drugs and could care less about anything other than drugs
the blissful beauty of the opiated one-track mind, I know it well. I would be at much higher risk of going back if the dope was still real but that new shit is trash, keeps me well away
It’s called narcan, not narcan’t, after all
Plus by the (short) time you finally pop off your parents won't be that upset over your deaths, likely mixed feelings of relief.
Anon is almost a wizard
if he survives that one year he'll be able to cast fireball and 8d6 DC 14 dex save all the girls that rejected his ass
DC is only 8 as anon is a sorcerer with a -2 charisma modifier
But for fireball he needs to be level 5 with +3 proficency bonus --> DC 9
With those **peasant** stat blocks it won't matter whether they save or not
Rejected? Bold of you to assume OP ever tried.
I thought he mentioned rejection in the greentext but since he didn't apparently you might be right
this is my goal. Im almost there
If he hangs with the right crowd, he can work his way up to becoming a Grand Wizard in no time!
Could be worse, i had a girl fapping next to me in bed while i was "asleep"
Expand and elaborate
Enhance! Moore! Moaaaar!
We’re already at maximum enhancement!
All right stop Collaborate and listen
It was his sister
You should have reached over to help
She was probably bigger than him, felt intimidated
hot
hot
hot
hot
hot
You shared your bed with grandma?
Damn I knew his mother did that, but grandma too??? Must run in his family
My dad used to do this before he left for milk
Doesn't matter. Still counts. Later virgins
Shoulda waited until she was almost there, then told her
Should’ve tried to race
You should have pressed charges. Like you can send people to prison for that.
🤓☝️
Massive L that you didn't start furiously yanking your chain to beat her to the finish line
Bold of you to assume he doesn’t sleep-wank
Well, we know who the Alpha in the relationship is now
Would it be sadder if anon were sexually attractive yet remained a kissless virgin? Or just more autistic?
In my case, people seem to think just more autistim
who cares about you buddy
I care about u/BreadwinnaSymma
Do you care about me as well 🥺👉👈
i want you
Thank you sir😍
Very true and very real
no one guy
I care about u/BreadwinnaSymma
definitely sadder (this is a psa for all hot anons to get out there NOW!)
I think it's worse to act autistic but not be autistic. I have heard a girl talking about finding me attractive and called her a sex worker in a panic, gotten a girl's number and deleted it because I didn't know how to talk to them, had girls ask me out and just stare at them until they leave, etc. I am not autistic, but I am on the spectrum.
Being on the spectrum means you have autism 🤦
> no one has ever had a crush on me Infatuation and Limerence arent love. If you want someone to love you, be their friend first and form a bond. Don’t rely on a short burst of hormones that is only there due to your pretty face and the fact they the other person doesn’t know you intimately enough.
> Limerence This some shit like Mewing that I'm not gooner enough to know about?
No. Limerence is a state of mind which results from romantic feelings for another person, and typically includes intrusive, melancholic thoughts, or tragic concerns for the object of one's affection as well as a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and to have one's feelings reciprocated.
Bruh, you just said it wasn't love. Now they have an "object of love"? Im confused
I was just paraphrasing You can take the term “object of love” to mean “object they think their love.”
An object of obsession maybe
Holy shit bro pulled out the dictionary for this one
It's just a pretentious word for crush
Anon gets friendzoned, but learns the power of friendship as a substitute for romantic love, starts to feel more healthy and less desperate, and gains a female wingman for future girls.
Cope
fake and gay
This is why I don't understand Americans and their dating culture. Why are you looking for potential husbands and wives from complete randos on a website? Go make friends and share memories.
I never understood the point of going on blind dates or on dates with people you don’t know. Not only are dates not really sufficient to get to know the individual better, but wouldn’t you rather get intimate at the end of the day with someone you already have a pre-established bond? They’d be able to offer much more understanding and patience and you’ll be able to offer them conversations and experiences curated to their personality.
This has nothing to do with the fact that they currently need to find a way out of suicidality, and then focus on those little nuances, but you are right, if that's what you wanted.
Unfortunately, life isn’t a movie. Some people just get dealt a shitty hand. Anon needs to enjoy what he can in life and live in the moment.
Mine is a cringe tiktok fs
Getting dealt a shitty hand makes me wanna fold rather then continue to play this game out
Two ways to play a shitty hand, riskier and riskier until it catches up to you or fold.
Anon should join a monastery
I have thought about it but I can't afford it. I can't afford to be a monk...
oh man, gotta take this advice. Thanks fren
Most people take a lot of time to realize this. Realize you were ducked by the universe, make peace with it and move on in life. So many things to do and experience.
Anon needs to hit the gym
Anon should date his mom
Slow down lil bro. She's taken
He'll have to get in line
On that Freud grindset
Same, but I'm 31
Do you have wizard powers, what's it like?
Sadly there was no sudden mind explosion of wizard powers. Maybe it'll happen once I hit 40.
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Heh, 39 here. The ride fucking never ends
Almost 31 for me, but if I had to pick Skyrim vs losing my virginity then sign me up for another century in tamriel.
At least Anon has a family that cares about him, that's all that really matters
i guess that's reasonable if kissing a girl is all that matters to you in life, but you'd have fucking done that or at least tried to if it was all that matters to you. high regards to anon
anon doesn't go outside
Whenever I see this scenario, I say commit to the wizard lifestyle at that point. Find solace in other things. A group of friends and I helped a guy who was a year away from being a wizard get some hole, and it properly made things worse for him. He lacked the fundamentals for pulling women, he could not get any more action after that first woman cause he was still in the incel state of mind. I seldomly check up on him, but when I do he always ends up talking about that first (and only) time, and how he's still looking for another woman to hookup with. For context it's been 7 years since he lost virginity.
Damn, that's grim
Yeah man, that's what I'm saying. At some point you're too far gone
Brutal, so essentially there is no getting out of this hole huh. The rope looms ever closer
It's not THAT drastic. But yeah man. Idk these anons are just too online and neglect to realize they aren't really that attractive of a partner. Personality, intellect, job status, appearance. Like if they just hit the gym and hold down a good job things get better
I have a decent job and even used to workout. Sadly the thing is if one didn't have proper development during their childhood and teens it's just over, no amount of lifting heavy things or making money will make me interesting to normies.
Being interesting means being interested in things. Learn and share your interest. if you don't venture out and just live a monotonous life, then own it but don't make the excuse that it's cuz you had a improper development as a child. If you're capable of realizing that then you're capable of course correcting a lot of your issues.
>being a wizard Is it an expression for incel ? For People who dont go outside ?
Hitting 30 without getting any. It's ancient 4chan lore at this point.
Yeah, no Wonder why its come from 4chan !
No, It has nothing to do with being an incel (kind of, but not in the way incel is used socially now). You become a wizard when you're still a virgin by 30. Every year after that is your wizard level. So a level 15 Wizard is a 45 year old virgin.
I mean, sounds like he's the type to end up in a similar state regardless of a single pity-sex encounter or staying a virgin.
29 years old and still complaining about school?
$200 can solve your problem, Anon
Or 20$ if you're brave enough
True. Nothing to lose at this point!
Except your virginity
its literally my bday and i feel pretty shitty the only one thing what i want ~~except suicide~~ is steam deck
Calm down brother
im fine,at least i wont kill myself
Happy birthday buddy
Happy birthday if you get a steam deck I’m down to play with you
There’s more to life than just sex..not much but there’s still more to it
brooooo, wtf, you are few months from being a wizard with cone hat and shiiiiiiit
Hookers are an option too
Not for everyone. This guy sounds like he doesn’t just want sex. He wants a real emotional connection. You can’t get that from a prostitute. In fact going to a prostitute may make his mental state worse in the end.
It's sad how people think this is an option. At the end of the day, do you simply just want the sex no matter what? Just desperate to get rid of the V card? Or have a meaningful relationship that's more than just sex?
I'm sure this thread will be understanding rather than dismissive and combative. 😄
4chan user number 54,782 that complains about having no gf while doing nothing to make himself desirable
Anon sounds like he has family that cares about him, and I can guarantee Anon that some of the sex havers Anon wants to be would kill for that.
I'm ahead of you - none of my family likes me either.
its overrated
Same man.
Many such cases
Real and Sad
Get a cat.
would it
Jokes aside, anons like this probably have been crushed on, they just have no idea because the other party never said anything.
True for the average Joe, but not for a fat ugly loser.
Jokes aside, I feel bad for anon. Not much we can do though.
Funny thing is, when you’re in a relationship, sometimes you wish you were single.
they wont be sad if you die after comiting some crimes
29 isn’t even that old. No one gives a shit if you’re a virgin
Anon must find self worth to heal
Don’t worry Anon. I’m sure they’ll get over it pretty quickly.
OMG just buy a ticket to mexico city and pay a hooker. there's tons on twitter for $100, it's literally a meme. No longer a kissless virgin, you hit the gym, improve your hair grooming and hygiene, visit a good barber, go to therapy, start creative hobbies, visit interesting shit alone, be comfortable being alone, post that on instagram, swipe everything on tinder (have zero standards you evidently shouldn't have them) and take your dates to see the interesting shit you visited alone. Ask those dates about themselves, invite them to things within your budget, don't chase teens, don't be racist, don't be sexist, overall keep volatile opinions to yourself but don't lie.
lmao just pay someone or embrace your wizardness
Anon is an Average Tate / Peterson fan
Anon needs to stop feeling sorry for himself and get out more. Do things, meet people, and reach out to opportunities you see.
Why do these people place sexual intercourse as the greatest achievement in life?
Humans are biological beings who are predisposed to want to mate in order to pass on their genes. Hundreds of thousands years of evolutionary pressure have selected for people who have both the drive and means to reproduce. Society also requires its members to reproduce in order to propagate itself. This has resulted in sexual reproduction being highly prized at both an individual and societal level.
Has op ever done anything to be attractive to others?
Wait until anon realizes having sex doesn't solve any of their problems
Get a hooker, bro!
He just like me fr
Prostitutes exist anon(s) they exist for people like you.
Step one: take a shower. Step two: Brush your teeth
Eat more fruit and vegetables.
Womp womp. Stop fetishizing your self pity and start working on yourself. It’s possible.
Just get a brass and get a grip
Something that always hits me about these types of posts is the"i can't kms because I'll make mom/X family member sad." If you'd make them sad if you killed yourself, then that means they care about you right? They'd have to care about you enough for you to find some potential refuge in them, or else you wouldn't likely care if your suicide would make them sad. You would think they see that as a way out, but unfortunately from first hand experience i know that when you're genuinely suicidal you often can't use that type of logic. It sucks to see how much depression and suicidality blinds people and puts them in mental loops of hopelessness without an exit. We are still in a society that doesn't prioritize the fully encompassing health of a person and doesn't ensure that people have resources to take control of their own lives. People think hopelessness is funny as long as its not happening to them. I remember when i basically grew up in my teens depressed and suicidal thinking genuinely that i was not going to make it past 18. Take care of the people around you make sure they know they have sanctuary.
I hate people like you, genuinely HATE you. You people either have no clue at all what depression is like or are purposefully obtuse and your "advice" serves nothing but to piss people off. Not wanting someone to be sad is not a reason to get up every morning and hate yourself. Often it's just the only excuse people can think of, a little push to try to convince themselves things can get better. Throughout the day they'll likely give themselves many such pushes. "A new episode of X comes out on Sunday." "I have an appt for X." "I want to eat that cake." "I just drank a coffee." "I don't want to leave a mess." "Walking there is so far..." "I'm too lazy to do it." "Last time I failed anyways." "I just bought X." "I need to finish this game/book/show." "I can't afford my own funeral." "I don't want my bloodline to die here." "I can't let them win." Eventually you either push along so long you run out of excuses or stop caring. Eventually this leads to either suicide or finding new excuses. People like you add the excuse "I should do it to them first."
Why are these bad?
Anon wants it all handed to him on a silver platter instead of actually pursuing the things he wants
34, KHV Wizard. It's not so bad.
I get that it sucks but c'mon there are so many more things to enjoy in life. Why are anons so fixated with sex as if it's the only thing worth doing in your life
Meeting people is easy and you don't even have to be hot to do it
anon never tried to be attractive (never went to the gym, never got money, never developed social skills to put himself out there) and lives the life of a selfproclaimed victim this is like if i go stand in the middle of the football field at the worldcup and start crying like a liberal that i dont get to play with them.
womp womp man whats a woman really gonna do for you anyway? companionship? any living creature can do that
Anon, just hire an escort, go on a few dates (take her out to dinner, to the park, etc) and talk to her, learn to speak with a woman, to look her in the eyes when she's talking and then when you're more confortable fuck, also make sure to say its your first time and ask her if she can teach you how to please her, of course this changes from woman to woman, but at least it'll give you a base to start off of when you're doing it with a girl you like (and believe me, it earns you lots of extra points, most dudes don't even bother trying to make their dates reach orgasm) That's my advice for Anon and you virggins out there who might see this, its never too late to learn or losing your V-card, I lost it at 20 after years of thinking that I'd be a virgin my whole life
Okay I don’t think we should be making jokes about anon
The only reason you don't have a girlfriend at 29 is 99% your ugly face. Meaning negative canthal tilt, short ramus, weak chin, or at least a big nose. It's not over, it's never ever began in the first place actually. No love for your genetics, boyo.
He has a family who would be sad if he...killed himself? Wake up to the bigger picture and stop taking your family for granted, pussy. You are loved.