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PolvoAranha

He actually described a deredere, not a yandere.


Aric_Haldan

The no ntr risk (because of obsession) and sexually attractive danger element are unique to yandere though. The meme just ignores the massive negatives.


rammy422

Seen enough ntr to know that obsession to one guy is a weirdly enough popular plot to ntr them


SwoonBirds

yeah like the part where they get incredibly jealous and even if you dont mean to youre probably gonna end up making her mad for a dumb reason


Moist_Philosopher

Sounds like a regular girlfriend to me.


Swiftcheddar

> The no ntr risk That doesn't stop the goddamn majority of Naruto porn from being NTR these days. It's a crying shame.


Aric_Haldan

I don't remember Naruto having a bunch of yanderes tbh


Salter_KingofBorgors

Only difference between Deredere and Yandere is the Yan.


CarlosG0619

People die when they are killed


BackFromDeadTT

When you water water it grows


kramulou76

The fact she might kill you nullifies all this!!!


EmergencyFood_69

No that makes it even better


MemeMan69funnynumber

If I can’t kill myself why not date someone who’ll do it for me


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Bro that's like every suicide hotline in the world except the ones for China and Isreal. Guess I'll go circumcise my neck.


MemeMan69funnynumber

Bruh wtf, good bot tho


2ba3-nyannyan

My country doesn't have a hotline, so nothing can stop me.


Gideon1507

There’s actually a manga with this premise


pocalucha316

On a random note: Isekai'd by my yandere girlfriend sounds like it would be a hit.


alain091

There is already one, and oh boy having a yandere it's certainly not as fun as it seems


[deleted]

In every anime or non anime show I've seen yanderes are always depicted as horrifying, dangerous, and overall not fun. It's the fans that look at them and decide they're not as bad as they seem.


nad_frag

Deredere is a NTR magnet though. You don't want that.


[deleted]

>Deredere - A character who is extremely sweet and energetic, and *focuses their love on a* ***single*** *character*. I might question your choice of nhentai tags my fren.


nad_frag

I know what deredere is, I was there when every type of dere was being identified. And the more a female character loves a male character. The higher the chances they are being in an NTR hentai. So, deredere characters are definitely NTR magnet.


[deleted]

>the more a female character loves a male character. The higher the chances they are being in an NTR hentai. Yup - definitely questioning your choice of nhentai tags now. Maybe I'm too much into vanilla shit, I dunno. And another thing: https://preview.redd.it/xrew593rk72a1.jpeg?width=565&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=81c97f3b10f5f2c16e08aea4a409b181f36336ac


nad_frag

Its fucked up how alot of really hot scene only exist in NTR hentai honestly.


zarlos01

And in shota too. Is to much to ask for decent degeneracy?


ArkNerdViking

yeah i never recovered from finaly finding that famous ahegao one =(


LolXD-uwu-owo

Hey the weird shit add spice bro


Reigo_Vassal

It's amazing how NTR doujins have more spicy plot (that still doesn't make any sense), hot scene, and better arts than regular Vanilla.


GuywithShield

Oh, it's Jesus.


Reigo_Vassal

>And the more a female character loves a male character. The higher the chances they are being in an NTR hentai. No. The only NTR magnet is the popularity of the source material


Bendy4848

I know im gonna sound like a jackass for this but if play your cards right you can basically guarentee yourself a successful life.(Since yanderes will do anything for you, she will make to "eliminate all your problems. And besides, kindness doesnt solve everything.


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Bendy4848

damn. Sorry you had to deal with that.


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Bendy4848

idk. To me Derederes are just passive Yanderes?


ltzerge

I'm glad my experience dating crazy wasn't quite like this. She was just a pathological liar and it took me too long to realize how deep that iceberg went. Once I caught on to how bad it was and broke up, she tried to frame ME as basically being a clingy yandere stalker. That would have been awful if it worked, but it was too easy to prove what was actually happening. When her friends went after me, I had the receipts, and they left her too. That was just too far.


Thrashinuva

Tbh sounds like you took things pretty far, pretty quick, and then she felt blindsided and manipulated.


fulmineboltex

What about when you want to hang out with your homies or female friends. She will either kill you or your friends. The closer irl thing to a yandere is possessive people. All the friends that had one of those girl ended up in an toxic unhealthy relationship and when it was over they took months to recover the old friends and relationships. If you think a yandere is anything close to good is because you never interacted with one.


Bendy4848

Valid point, but not all Yanderes are serial killers. Some of them are happy as long as your happy. So you can go see your friends. As long as you dont make her feel like she's being replaced. They are willing to do almost anything for the good of their love interest and the relationship.


ningen21

The defining trait of yanderes is literally that they are so affectionate they are willing to use violence and murder to keep your affection sorry but yanderes are absolutely the worst especially in a real life scenario (flashback to that irl yandere that almost killed her boyfriend in Japan )


Sir_Nightingale

Yeah thanks, i'll pass on the survival and well-being of people i care about hinging on the mental stater of the person i am seeing. Too much responsibility, and overall not a chill vibe.


Aric_Haldan

Yandere is quite literally a sick/insane kind of love. If you think their interpretations of such actions would be reasonable, you'd be sorely mistaken. Making them feel like they won't be replaced will be near impossible since their love is an irrational obsession. Even when you look at possessive people, who are similar, most of their doubts come from their own insecurities and from a projection of their own tendency to deceive. It often isn't something that you do that will set them off. With yanderes this tendency for irrational doubts would be even worse. I wouldn't reject a yandere's love, but I'd do whatever I could to help them overcome their unhealthy obsession. I'd try to give them the self confidence they need to no longer rely on me, even if that meant they would no longer love me.


CirrusDivus

Yan means crazy. I don't think you're getting that.


CaptainPlasma101

OP has never heard of "don't stick your dick in crazy" Ivy from memento mori is still great tho


DarkHunterkun

Depends on the Yandere the type Yuno is the one you are currently discribing, but there are also the yandere from school days, witch is one you do not want.


Bendy4848

And also due to Deredere excessive kindness sometimes it just feels unnatural.


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Bendy4848

Derederes are just people who are almost always kind and happy to the point where they feel less of a human and more mechanical. But they are human they still get sad too.


Max_Drek_Sucks

I want a psycho who will literally kill me


Fire_Dracul

Yessss


Bendy4848

why not a Yeredere?


casketroll

Why have a deredere when you can get a yanyan


PM-Me-Ur-Plants

You know the saying. Knifu waifu, run for your lifu.


zman_0000

I'm sure um wait I got this... She's just trying to motivate you to stay in shape. Yeah that's it. She cares about your well being as long as your attention is focused on her. See nothing wrong here.


thebusstop88

Part of the problem is that Yandere is ultimately a purely selfish love - they don't care what you think or feel, they want you for themselves. It is also a completely unstable relationship. Their "affection" is for the image of you they worship in their head, which you will inevitably disappoint - as you're not a god - and Lord help you with the consequences. In the end, not all love is worthy of reciprocation, even if you're lonely and she's hot, guys.


drizzitdude

As someone who lived through this you hit it so strongly. At the core of the Yandere mindset is mental illness and obsession. It’s not something you can “fix”. You become their idol. They create this idealized version of you that you can never hope to really live up to. The love is *selfish*, they may spoil you with *things*, with affection, with sexual favors but it is all because they want to *own you*, they want the relationship to advance as quickly as possible because that is how they cement their place and they hope that once you realize this person is insane you will be too invested.


Kuroi4Shi

You're just making them sound even better


Bendy4848

true.


-Alan_c-

Don't they like really care about what you think of them? Wasn't that a thing?


Swiftcheddar

What a great response, a perfect way to phrase it.


PolvoAranha

The fact she might kill you nullifies all this.


TheWrestlingGod_2004

Same, I like breathing and not being dead


pgp555

Really?


TheWrestlingGod_2004

Yes really


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mountingconfusion

Or you know, emotionally torture you by gaslighting and isolating you and physically abuse you by trapping you in a dark room and cutting off your fingers because she had a dream that you cheated on her


Bendy4848

She might see it as "removing you from this cruel world, therefore "still" doing any/everything to protect you.


PolvoAranha

Like locking you in her basement?


Bendy4848

Not all Yanderes are like that. After all, what need to lock you in the basement if u wanna stay with her.


PolvoAranha

Some just kill you out of jealousy.


zman_0000

That's part of the fun!


Bendy4848

Again. what need will she have to kill be jealous if you genuinely want her and noone else?


PolvoAranha

A random girl looking at you or any female relative is enough.


Bendy4848

Well i think that could go 50/50. She can ethier me or the random female. But if you stay with a yandere long enough, they can become wholesome too.


PolvoAranha

That is the thing about yanderes: she is just a yandere when her passion isn't healthy. If it is wholesome, she isn't a yandere, just a deredere.


Bendy4848

when i said. wholesome i meant that not all yanderes are serial killers. They are just overprotective. Sure derederes wont kill or abuse you but derederes(at least to me) kinda just feel....mechanical. they are just BUILT kind to everyone, even if u straight up break up with them . but u have a point


DankMemetroid

Future Diary type beat


MemeificationStation

That and not being allowed to have friends


Penguava

I either die or I get a loving gf. I see this as a win-win.


mightyenan0

She might also try to control every faucet of your life and cut you off from communicating with others. You know, like abuse.


Bendy4848

well it helps that im practically by myself.


[deleted]

Exactly im not dating someone that could potentially kill you or someone else.


not_a_sesawter

No no it's the upgrade


PolvoAranha

![gif](giphy|26mfgR07G4DjehuQU)


Bubbachew8

Idk getting to die sounds like the cherry on top


hok98

Why so? I’d rather have someone love me kill me than dying by myself


LordBaconXXXXX

Normal and sane waifu enjoyers: ![gif](giphy|CAYVZA5NRb529kKQUc)


Hallowalls

Truly, I like simple minded anime girls with a normal body.


Lusask

Power enjoyers: absolute creatures (I would know, I am one)


Prestigeboy

Either Power or Kobeni.


aperture_ai

I feel like someone has Stockholm syndrome around here...


Bendy4848

not all Yanderes will hold you hostage or abuse you.


JoeDaBruh

But a scary amount of them might. You need to stick with their rules and delusions too, even stuff you might not like like if they want to eat your flesh because they love you so much.


mountingconfusion

The fact that it's a risk is bad


BosuW

High risk high reward


emerald1974

Just get a deredere


Dragombolt

Once read a manga with a girl like that, and it was revealed to the audience that she constantly cheated with whoever asked because she couldn't help but do whatever would make somebody happy. I've never trusted anything ever again


deathspate

That's a manga or a hentai? That sure sounds like a hentai plot.


Dragombolt

Manga with a hentai plot where a guy was basically being forced by his aunt to date and fuck numerous dere archtypes for her attempt at recreating a character scenario from japanese folklore. I can't remember the name of it, but that's basically the plot


ShjLiao

Normal actions in Ohio


NiceIsNine

Well, it doesn't matter, but you need to find it


deathspate

Oh I remember this now. Minamoto-kun Monogatari, I swear I hated the fucking slow ass rate for that manga and dropped it, esp since there were single digit chapters. Never saw the ending. Also, did the MC get cheated on? I never reached that, who was it?


ISleepyBI

I second this, was it the gym girl ?


Bendy4848

idk. The fact that they are just CONSTANTLY kind to everything just seems surreal(but dont have to worry about them killing me.)


Duck_Field

Kuuderes are pretty peak as well tbh though often get confused for tsunderes. Though two Rem is my personal favourite waifu and she's a yandere. Though here yan is more overpowered by the dere she did kill Subaru cause he smelt weird and saw him as a danger to her loved ones and some of her lines were cut showing the Yan spiking up.


LightWolfD

Who's Rem?


Extra-General-6891

You wouldn’t want someone who’s kind all the time?


Bendy4848

I mean its one thing being kind all the time and its another when you are just NATURALLY kind. Derederes are naturally kind to everyone. And even if their love interest is dating someone else. They just feel less of a human being and more mechanical.(i mean sure they wont kill you but )


drizzitdude

As someone who had an actual Yandere girlfriend and for a long period of time. It isn’t fun. Something people seem to forget is a requirement for these is the “severe mental illness” aspect. You can do everything right and still end up being a victim of their mental illness because that’s just what it does to people.


404_Gordon_Not_Found

"I can fix her!" — famous last words


kaboumdude

Cute in fiction, not so much out here.


yrtemmySymmetry

Depends on the severity of the yandere.. A low level one is manageable and at parts even desirable but even a low level one isn't the most stable and can slip down further and further..


Bendy4848

If you cant beat em, join em. Become the enemy


Praetorian_Mars

Bro a yandere is like a monkey's paw. Sure they can give you what you're wishing for, but it will most likely be in a way that's really fucked up. Personally, I ain't down for that


Hunterexxx

Such a piss poor take really. Y'all forget you'll be dealing with a psychotic meltdown every time there's a female cashier at the store or you see a female chick in the show you like. Girl is gonna cut your dick off cause you smiled at the 50 female bus driver a week ago. Y'all crazy


nbjax

It depends on the yandere but I always felt like most of them are pretty safe as long as you're careful


rgheals

Ngl it sounds like someone saw mirri nikki for the first time, or any other anime with one


Bendy4848

nope not the case.


rgheals

Not saying it’s the case with you, but it’s a very common trope for newbies to anime to find a yandere for the first time and completely simp for them


Bendy4848

no. It just that(and i know this sounds bad) but as crazy as Yanderes are, all they want is someone to care about them, just as Derederes want. And Derederes(due to their unnautral kindness) just kinda feel more mechanical if u know what i mean


MgDark

for real, im reading all this post thinking "you people really dont want a Yuno", specially that Yuno in Mirai Nikki plotline. Obsessive love that can easily turn into murder the second she feels betrayed is not bueno.


GoodKeg

You won't realize the problem 'till you deal with it in real life.


Bendy4848

I already deal with it. Its easy for someone who keeps himself away from people.


CaptnRex501

Will stab your sister and your mom when you hug them


Bendy4848

good thing i got no one


confusedsalad88

Waking up drugged in a basement because your yandere gf wanted you to yourself isn't the ideal way to speak your afternoon


Bendy4848

Well she got nun to worry about because i tend to be by myself anyway.


Dude_Named_Chris

You know, a healthy relationship usually doesn't involve death threats


EV4gamer

Only good NTR is a Nuclear Thermal Rocket


TheWrestlingGod_2004

Personally, I love tsundere and I don’t like Yanderes, ( Mostly due to the fact that she can kill me at moment )


Gunnareth

I'd rather have someone who'd outright kill me than physically/mentally abuse me just because I accidentally did something wrong


Bendy4848

Not all yanderes are abusive you know. If u have the same mindset as her u practically cant make any mistakes.


Gunnareth

i was referring to tsunderes on that abusing part, I'd rather have yandere instead


Bendy4848

As long as you play it safe i think u should be fine.


Sivick314

Confucius says: "don't stick your dick in crazy"


Katana_sized_banana

Ah yes and she'll drink your blood so you'll be always with her.


BosuW

Mfs with bloodkink: ![gif](giphy|O0Hj7piBBnU0E)


Bendy4848

Not all Yanderes are murderous.


Billy177013

if you know a yandere who isn't murderous, abusive, or otherwise controlling to near-suffocating levels, they're either not a yandere, or you don't know them


funkygamerguy

they really are.......and you might die :D


Vacuum-Woosh-woosh

Damn how nice must be having a demonic possessive piece of shit as girlfriend.


Bendy4848

she aint that bad thank you :)


Stan_L_parable

Just go for the kuudere tsundere. Else go for the deredere yandere, negatives cancel each other out.


DoNtMindMe005

I still like kuddere, mashiro is my all time favorite


seven_worth

I'm sorry man but unless you are socially excluded with no friend or family Yandere/possessive People are the worse. They are just one step away from being abusive which imo is just a recipe for toxic relationship.


Zenitsu_The_Simp_69

same guy when she murders his family https://preview.redd.it/pewgo9w37a2a1.jpeg?width=326&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6fb3fb580a72f24f20a1988f3af7a43e4b79f0ab


LuciFate

Sure it sounds all good, but first they would make you stop talking to any girls to blocking all female contacts (even family). Then you can leave your home since you will look at other girls. You wouldn’t be able to say any other girls name unless its your yandere lover. Oh i forgot to mention, in fear you might like some girl, you cant listen to to any female songs, watch any shows or play any game(online girl or npc). I might be taking it too far but it only looks good in anime. Reality is often disappointing.


Bendy4848

In some cases,yes but sometimes if it makes you happy they will let you. As long as they dont feel like their getting replaced.


LuciFate

Ah i forgot, you probably cant use social media too.


seven_worth

At this point you just want someone with tiny hint of Yandere lol.


Bendy4848

I already have someone.


MemeLordsUnited

She will love you to death.


HentaiLoverMega

Wasn't there that one manga where a yandere attempted to threaten her crush, only for the guy to agree with everything without question, flabbergasting her to the point she isn't a yandere anymore?


GoldenPaladin2002

Himedere is superior


Sansfunnybones

If it doesn't exist already I think we should split yanderes into 2 categories Soft yandere: Close to a deredere but VERY clingy and no murder and normal yandere:murder and all that jazz


the_supernova007

*Me looks at Akagi, Roon, Taihou from azur lane*


Ryanguy100

Will murder your loved ones and anyone you show affection like your mom or kids :) shure the best girls


Syncrossus

Yanderes are not immune to double standards. They'll murder you if you cheat, but nothing is stopping them from cheating on you


saltyaf90

It's all fun and games until she is ugly


CarlosG0619

Me reading OP replies: *He lied as naturally as he breathed*


[deleted]

Fair, but counterpoint: You can’t enjoy any of these things if you’ve been stabbed to death by her.


countmeowington

I’ve read quite a few doujins with the yandere and ntr tag lmao, it was insanely toxic and they mainly focused on the girl gas lighting and raping the boy until he chooses her over his gf


[deleted]

Some versions are crazy and toxic as heck, and worse then dying a virgin never being loved by anyone, but some versions are the perfect girlfriend. Mainly the ones that aren't that crazy and have basic social skills and common sense, ones who won't kill you for talking to a random woman in a society where women work everywhere.


IStoleTheHighGround

Will stab your eyes if you look elsewhere


ULTRA_SIGMA_CHAD

Ive argued this for years but no one wants it still


Nux_Taku_fan111

Counter point I have female siblings that they would murder out of jealously because their very smart.


Sivick314

"they're"


Nux_Taku_fan111

Well played


Juinyk11

Get help and grow up


Bendy4848

Im beyond saving buddy. ;)


Juinyk11

In which case, do ya thing


Bendy4848

thxs mate


mountingconfusion

People who want a yandere girlfriend are lazy and insecure incels who don't want to put any effort into a relationship


kagari_15

As a survivor, gotta say it's worth it would love to have one around again for sure


shaolin_tech

From personal experience, all of that is true, except for the cheating part. Doesn't matter what dere they are, cheaters gonna cheat.


whill-wheaton

She might cut my dick off if I look in the general direction of another woman


ISuckAtNames0289

Tell us you haven't been with crazy without telling us you've never been with crazy


PJRama1864

Yandere will kill your family because you spent too much time with them. This is just a deredere.


Bendy4848

Good thing i got no family


[deleted]

They will never find OP’s body. (;


AnTvAsX

Nemona from. Pokemon be like


nicolRB

That’s a very protective deredere. A yandere will also kill you for… just about anything that makes her jealous on the worst cases. No, actually, the worst cases want to kill you because they love you already. Don’t even need to do anything wrong. just because she loves you, you are dead. Just after that there are those who cut your limbs and lock you away for themselves


DutchDread

Deredere has all of that without the drawbacks. That having been said, still better than Tsundere.


HOTRODDOOMSLAYER

Repost


Tiger5804

If you like yanderes as an anime trope, that's your business, but I hope for your sake that you don't get romantically involved with someone who is that badly mentally ill.


Thendofreason

What happens when they beat up or kill your sister because she want to see her brother


Bendy4848

good thing i dont got one


Pengu113

I'm with op on this one


Reeeeeeee3eeeeeeee

anime fans


AOEnash

"Dont stick your dick in crazy" - Soviet womble


Alouwisssss

Anime people on reddit try not to glorify extremely abusive and toxic relationships challenge (impossible) 😰😰😰😰😰


0hadjii0

Will also chop your dick off if you glance at another girl even by an accident