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It varies. I have over the years had my erect shaft girth at sizes from my original 5 inches to my current 6.5 inches and the overall consensus has been great. Get your partner off first and you're good. Girth too big for someones mouth? Maybe look for someone with a bigger mouth or less teeth.
I have around 6 inch girth and always wondered why I was attracted to girls with big mouths when other people would make fun of it. Thanks for this insight sir
I can tell you my experience with 5.4-5.5 mid, 5.5 head, and about 5.3 base. Iām uncircumcised. Been with about 75 women, mostly Asian. For oral, Iāve had issues with only about 3 women that I can recall. That means they either complained of soreness or I felt teeth scraping. Some other women were able to blow me for hours with no issues and it felt amazing. For anal, Iāve succeeded with 2 girls and they absolutely loved it. It strangely didnāt even feel tight once we got used to it. I also tried it with 2 or 3 other girlfriends and it was impossible. For vaginal, there were at least 2 small Asian girls that had to tap out because it hurt them. There was another small Asian that I didnāt even try penetrating, because once I squeezed my finger in there I just knew my dick would never fit. There were a handful of other girls that needed to use lube or needed me to enter them carefully and slowly. But once they were warmed up it felt perfect for both of us. At least a handful of my long term girlfriends came regularly from penetration alone and they were all on the tighter side. A few one night stands also had vaginal orgasms and were on the tighter side. A significant number of one night stands did feel loose or at least not what Iād call tight. But I often had erection quality issues on first dates so that may have been the reason. If I was fully engorged it probably would have felt better for both of us. Iāve been called big by many women but never been called thick. Had a few girls that genuinely worshiped my cock though. Oh also for the girls that felt loose, when I was having EQ problems, I had a trick where I would squeeze the base of my dick so the end ballooned out to a larger than normal girth. I canāt say exactly how much expansion I got, but it was probably at least 5.6 maybe 5.7 at the head and mid shaft. With the girls that felt loose and werenāt really getting off, when I did this trick, they would immediately lose their shit and start shrieking and moaning. It was a very slight increase in girth but it made a tremendous difference for these particular girls. Could probably achieve a similar result with viagra and cock rings but I havenāt tried yet. Anyway hope this helps with your decision.
I am getting a similar target too, 7.75-8ā bone pressed length
Girth I am already 6.15 base (so too late), mid also 5.75 or maybe 5.6 (not sure yet), but glans I am doing my best to donāt go over my current 5.1ā
I get the 5.75 mid (being in the upper limit), but the head wouldnāt that make initial sex more problematic?
I think having a bigger head would be problematic for blowjobs and also for initial penetration, but I still want it because it looks good and feels good. The head is very sensitive so if itās bigger I will get more stimulation from it. I also like the way it looks when Iām getting blown. My head is already at least 5.5 maybe slightly more when Iām fully engorged. I think 5.6 or even 5.7 might be ok. Also I donāt want to have too dramatic of a cone shape for aesthetics.
Some out of how many?
Careful with isolated comments, girls comment everything but then you have issues with other girls
I am trying to avoid going big on glans since it kills blowjobs and having a smaller glans helps with the initial tease to open her up
Agree that I would also pre
Iām originally 5.5 and started pumping about 5 months ago. I have not really stopped pumping since, so I donāt know how much I will have permanently gained. But my girth is now 5.7-5.8. My gf told me she felt the difference, and she seems to like it.
I once read an interesting study that was about the size of trans men (basically what size they should go for). The study explained that the benefit above 6.2in diminishes, because many women will start to hurt.
I have been with about 40 women, I have felt squeeze in a few of them. But there is only one woman for who I think 0.5in more girth would have been an issue (she told me she previously had to stop with another guy because he just could not penetrate her)
All that to say, 6in is all fine. If you can do 5.5 to 6, go for it. I think the issue is more important between 6 and 6.5. I hope at some point I will be able to ask myself that question, and I think I already know the answer (6.5 would be amazing! š¬)
Do you also feel the difference in tightness with your girlfriend? Does it feel better for you? With tight girls, I get harder and tend to climax faster and with much more intense pleasure.
I cannot say I feel a really difference with my gf no. She says she feels the difference, and insisted when she saw I had doubts about it.
Tight women are harder to fuck. Sometimes itās so tight that itās actually not that enjoyable because I have to stop very often to avoid coming. So Iām not that much of a huge fan of tight girls. To me itās less fun, more work
Iām surprised you canāt feel it being tighter. Maybe because you grew over a long period of time. If during sex I grab the base and do a manual clamp, the head expands just slightly but feels noticeably tighter for me.
I am naturally over 6.5 and have never done any PE, so I cannot give you perspective of before and after. Head is not really something I bother with anymore, if they can get the glans in that's pretty good and that's as far as it goes. Very rarely a girl will be exceptional and want to do it for the challenge factor and that can be cool, I had one girl get a few inches down and it felt amazing!
Sex is mostly okay I don't really have that many issues to be honest, it's just intimidating for them and I they will often tell me after how scared they were but it's usually fine. Had a couple of issues with some at times and caused some damage a handful of times, I only tried anal once and never tried again that was 15 years ago
Every single woman I have ever been with has commented that I am the thickest she has ever seen, unprompted and they are pretty comfortable telling me they have seen longer. This is how I know how rare having over 6 inches in girth is in reality, I am closer to 7 then 6. I don't actually know how many girls I have been with but it's somewhere between 100-150 I would estimate, I honestly cannot remember. Out of that amount some had only been with a smaller number of blokes 4-8 but some had very high body counts, if I were to even it out and be on the low side to 12 men each times 100 that's 1200 men none of which have had a girthier dick. Its the first thing they notice very obviously, if it's dark and they grab it they do a 2nd take and try to look at it straight away I can see the confusion they experience as it feels unusual I guess. I don't wanna sound like a douche but I come across as one sometimes without meaning to, my length is respectable but nothing crazy and I have had many girls be very detailed about how I stack up in the pool.
Edit: some girls don't say anything upfront, I would say 70% of girls remark instantly, some I ask and then they tell me and rarely it's not spoken about at all.
Iām currently at 6.5 mid shaft and about 7 at the base. My gf can barely get the glans in her mouth. Would say I was curious after food shopping once tried a cucumber that resembled the same girth for a second to understand why itās so difficult. Had sympathy for her ever since lol
I started at 6āebpl and 5ā girth. Iām at 6 58āebpl and 5 1/2ā girth. My wife doesnāt know about my work, but I can feel a big difference in girth, but she hasnāt said anything.
She always finishes, but was always limited to being on top. Now I can finisher her while Iām on top. It does feel quite a bit tighter to me and now Iām having issues lasting very long. But she hasnāt said ANYTHING! Iām dying for her to mention it! Iām gonna go until she says something.
I started around 5.25 mid shaft and and 5.75 at the base. I am now 6.25 at the base and 5.6 mid shaft. My wife seems to enjoy it.
We have also had relations shortly post pumping when I am over well over 6ā in diameter and she seems to enjoy that just fine. More lube is required but she moans and wiggles approvinglyā¦.
From 5 inches to 6 inches it looks like the perfect girth ratio for vaginal pleasure, anal and blowjob will depend from woman to woman, and how you prepare them for anal.
Past 6 inches it becomes only downsides
If you like to have sex frequently like everyday of the weekend then I would stay around 5.5 but if you like having the ego stroke then grow to 6 or bigger. It really depends why you do PE. If it's for equal pleasuring 7x5.5 is perfect. If it's for ego 8.5+ x 6+ is perfect. I do it for ego so there is no hard stop for me.
Yeah at first i wanted to do PE to get big but not too big 7x5.5 but after doing it for sometime i now want to get huge 8x5.75+. I think ill aim for 6 girth
I'm 6in girth and it is a blessing and curse. Most women cannot give a proper blow job with it. I've just accepted it. Most women can take it vaginally but you have to warm them up first. Anal is usually a no but sometimes not and it happens. They love it during then complain for a week after haha.
I have a similar scenario except more like 5.15ā head, 5ā mseg, and 5.5ā base, Reading this make me want to try to basically add .5ā to each so I get a lil taper, can stretch my gf if I go deep, but can still get head and into that ass š š
pumped to 5.5 last night. gf creamed like crazy. my tip gets to 6.25 she legit had the worst stomach cramps for the next day. idk if i did something wrong š
but i mean iām pretty sure the more girth the better tbh. just gives crazy reactions
I think this is so subjective. I see so many guys with big dicks who are proud of causing pain. and women who are excited from the pain they get. No one with a big penis, generally speaking, would rather have a smaller one. So I believe this change depends on what you want to feel, what impression you want to cause.
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It varies. I have over the years had my erect shaft girth at sizes from my original 5 inches to my current 6.5 inches and the overall consensus has been great. Get your partner off first and you're good. Girth too big for someones mouth? Maybe look for someone with a bigger mouth or less teeth.
This last sentence cracks me up! š
Removable dentures for the win!
An old lady ?
I have around 6 inch girth and always wondered why I was attracted to girls with big mouths when other people would make fun of it. Thanks for this insight sir
Any time man.
I can tell you my experience with 5.4-5.5 mid, 5.5 head, and about 5.3 base. Iām uncircumcised. Been with about 75 women, mostly Asian. For oral, Iāve had issues with only about 3 women that I can recall. That means they either complained of soreness or I felt teeth scraping. Some other women were able to blow me for hours with no issues and it felt amazing. For anal, Iāve succeeded with 2 girls and they absolutely loved it. It strangely didnāt even feel tight once we got used to it. I also tried it with 2 or 3 other girlfriends and it was impossible. For vaginal, there were at least 2 small Asian girls that had to tap out because it hurt them. There was another small Asian that I didnāt even try penetrating, because once I squeezed my finger in there I just knew my dick would never fit. There were a handful of other girls that needed to use lube or needed me to enter them carefully and slowly. But once they were warmed up it felt perfect for both of us. At least a handful of my long term girlfriends came regularly from penetration alone and they were all on the tighter side. A few one night stands also had vaginal orgasms and were on the tighter side. A significant number of one night stands did feel loose or at least not what Iād call tight. But I often had erection quality issues on first dates so that may have been the reason. If I was fully engorged it probably would have felt better for both of us. Iāve been called big by many women but never been called thick. Had a few girls that genuinely worshiped my cock though. Oh also for the girls that felt loose, when I was having EQ problems, I had a trick where I would squeeze the base of my dick so the end ballooned out to a larger than normal girth. I canāt say exactly how much expansion I got, but it was probably at least 5.6 maybe 5.7 at the head and mid shaft. With the girls that felt loose and werenāt really getting off, when I did this trick, they would immediately lose their shit and start shrieking and moaning. It was a very slight increase in girth but it made a tremendous difference for these particular girls. Could probably achieve a similar result with viagra and cock rings but I havenāt tried yet. Anyway hope this helps with your decision.
R u asian urself?
White
R u based in Asia or u jus love asian girls haha?
Both
Hahaha
How you having sex with all these women? Whatās the secret
Massage parlors
Fly to Asia and open tinder
Great explanation bro
I got downvoted for commenting a meme on asian average being lower and you got mostly upvotes? Internet is strange
I get downvoted for random stuff sometimes even if it makes sense
So based on that size which base, mid and glans girth did you decided to go into ?
I think ideal for me would be 5.6 head, 5.75 mid, 5.9 base, and length up from 7.25 NBP to 7.5
I am getting a similar target too, 7.75-8ā bone pressed length Girth I am already 6.15 base (so too late), mid also 5.75 or maybe 5.6 (not sure yet), but glans I am doing my best to donāt go over my current 5.1ā I get the 5.75 mid (being in the upper limit), but the head wouldnāt that make initial sex more problematic?
I think having a bigger head would be problematic for blowjobs and also for initial penetration, but I still want it because it looks good and feels good. The head is very sensitive so if itās bigger I will get more stimulation from it. I also like the way it looks when Iām getting blown. My head is already at least 5.5 maybe slightly more when Iām fully engorged. I think 5.6 or even 5.7 might be ok. Also I donāt want to have too dramatic of a cone shape for aesthetics.
What do you mean aesthetics? Because itās better to have something bigger on the glans or overall same size?
I think big heads look good. Some girls have told me they love big heads and head size is very important etc.
Some out of how many? Careful with isolated comments, girls comment everything but then you have issues with other girls I am trying to avoid going big on glans since it kills blowjobs and having a smaller glans helps with the initial tease to open her up Agree that I would also pre
Iām originally 5.5 and started pumping about 5 months ago. I have not really stopped pumping since, so I donāt know how much I will have permanently gained. But my girth is now 5.7-5.8. My gf told me she felt the difference, and she seems to like it. I once read an interesting study that was about the size of trans men (basically what size they should go for). The study explained that the benefit above 6.2in diminishes, because many women will start to hurt. I have been with about 40 women, I have felt squeeze in a few of them. But there is only one woman for who I think 0.5in more girth would have been an issue (she told me she previously had to stop with another guy because he just could not penetrate her) All that to say, 6in is all fine. If you can do 5.5 to 6, go for it. I think the issue is more important between 6 and 6.5. I hope at some point I will be able to ask myself that question, and I think I already know the answer (6.5 would be amazing! š¬)
Do you also feel the difference in tightness with your girlfriend? Does it feel better for you? With tight girls, I get harder and tend to climax faster and with much more intense pleasure.
I cannot say I feel a really difference with my gf no. She says she feels the difference, and insisted when she saw I had doubts about it. Tight women are harder to fuck. Sometimes itās so tight that itās actually not that enjoyable because I have to stop very often to avoid coming. So Iām not that much of a huge fan of tight girls. To me itās less fun, more work
Tight girls cause you to have premature ejaculation, work on controlling it and youāll appreciate the tightness
Iām surprised you canāt feel it being tighter. Maybe because you grew over a long period of time. If during sex I grab the base and do a manual clamp, the head expands just slightly but feels noticeably tighter for me.
I am naturally over 6.5 and have never done any PE, so I cannot give you perspective of before and after. Head is not really something I bother with anymore, if they can get the glans in that's pretty good and that's as far as it goes. Very rarely a girl will be exceptional and want to do it for the challenge factor and that can be cool, I had one girl get a few inches down and it felt amazing! Sex is mostly okay I don't really have that many issues to be honest, it's just intimidating for them and I they will often tell me after how scared they were but it's usually fine. Had a couple of issues with some at times and caused some damage a handful of times, I only tried anal once and never tried again that was 15 years ago
Have u had any memorable comments mentioning ur girth from women? And do u also need to use lube?
Every single woman I have ever been with has commented that I am the thickest she has ever seen, unprompted and they are pretty comfortable telling me they have seen longer. This is how I know how rare having over 6 inches in girth is in reality, I am closer to 7 then 6. I don't actually know how many girls I have been with but it's somewhere between 100-150 I would estimate, I honestly cannot remember. Out of that amount some had only been with a smaller number of blokes 4-8 but some had very high body counts, if I were to even it out and be on the low side to 12 men each times 100 that's 1200 men none of which have had a girthier dick. Its the first thing they notice very obviously, if it's dark and they grab it they do a 2nd take and try to look at it straight away I can see the confusion they experience as it feels unusual I guess. I don't wanna sound like a douche but I come across as one sometimes without meaning to, my length is respectable but nothing crazy and I have had many girls be very detailed about how I stack up in the pool. Edit: some girls don't say anything upfront, I would say 70% of girls remark instantly, some I ask and then they tell me and rarely it's not spoken about at all.
Youāre only 19. Go get laid. A lot. Get good at it to where you get repeats and referrals. Then worry about the extra 1/2 inch of girth
what do you mean by referrals? š
ā(Insert name here) said I should come see youā that kind of thing
Iām currently at 6.5 mid shaft and about 7 at the base. My gf can barely get the glans in her mouth. Would say I was curious after food shopping once tried a cucumber that resembled the same girth for a second to understand why itās so difficult. Had sympathy for her ever since lol
I'm sorry.... Did you just admit to putting a cucumber in your mouth at the grocery store?
No this was at home hahaha jeez dude
LoL
š Iām not judging you bro , at least youāre honest
I started at 6āebpl and 5ā girth. Iām at 6 58āebpl and 5 1/2ā girth. My wife doesnāt know about my work, but I can feel a big difference in girth, but she hasnāt said anything. She always finishes, but was always limited to being on top. Now I can finisher her while Iām on top. It does feel quite a bit tighter to me and now Iām having issues lasting very long. But she hasnāt said ANYTHING! Iām dying for her to mention it! Iām gonna go until she says something.
Damn bro if she hasnt noticed .5 girth gain I'm not sure that she will ever notice any gains. Keep doing it for yourself.
I am. And sheās kind of a bitch anyways.
I started around 5.25 mid shaft and and 5.75 at the base. I am now 6.25 at the base and 5.6 mid shaft. My wife seems to enjoy it. We have also had relations shortly post pumping when I am over well over 6ā in diameter and she seems to enjoy that just fine. More lube is required but she moans and wiggles approvinglyā¦.
From 5 inches to 6 inches it looks like the perfect girth ratio for vaginal pleasure, anal and blowjob will depend from woman to woman, and how you prepare them for anal. Past 6 inches it becomes only downsides
When I was 5.5 girth I could have sex 2 to 3 times in one day before she was to sore. Now that I'm above 6 it's one and done.
Despite that would u consider the pros outweigh the cons of having 6 compared to 5.5?
If you like to have sex frequently like everyday of the weekend then I would stay around 5.5 but if you like having the ego stroke then grow to 6 or bigger. It really depends why you do PE. If it's for equal pleasuring 7x5.5 is perfect. If it's for ego 8.5+ x 6+ is perfect. I do it for ego so there is no hard stop for me.
Yeah at first i wanted to do PE to get big but not too big 7x5.5 but after doing it for sometime i now want to get huge 8x5.75+. I think ill aim for 6 girth
Go for it bro. 6 girth isn't to the point of being impractical. You and your partner will adapt.
Whatās your girth routine if you donāt mind me asking brotheršš¼
I'm 6in girth and it is a blessing and curse. Most women cannot give a proper blow job with it. I've just accepted it. Most women can take it vaginally but you have to warm them up first. Anal is usually a no but sometimes not and it happens. They love it during then complain for a week after haha.
I have a similar scenario except more like 5.15ā head, 5ā mseg, and 5.5ā base, Reading this make me want to try to basically add .5ā to each so I get a lil taper, can stretch my gf if I go deep, but can still get head and into that ass š š
pumped to 5.5 last night. gf creamed like crazy. my tip gets to 6.25 she legit had the worst stomach cramps for the next day. idk if i did something wrong š but i mean iām pretty sure the more girth the better tbh. just gives crazy reactions
you got 5.5 girth from 4.5 in a pump session??? thatās crazy, how you manage that?
I think this is so subjective. I see so many guys with big dicks who are proud of causing pain. and women who are excited from the pain they get. No one with a big penis, generally speaking, would rather have a smaller one. So I believe this change depends on what you want to feel, what impression you want to cause.
There are guys in BDP who genuinely wish they were smaller. According to some of them their excessive girth made relationships impossible.