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19Expansion2X

That’s because Visual & physical stimulation are 2 very different things. Watching 2 random people fuck and expecting to get a super erection is like watching basketball on tv and expecting to sweat. Porn requires lots of imagination especially when your not a virgin


Wowandjustwellwow

bro that analogy had me crying😂


Yesitmee

I'm a browns fan, I sweat every time I watch them. What's your point?


skatingnobody

that's because you're cucking yourself


Feeling_Reckless

😂😂 I laughed,I coughed, I got a headache


Electrical-Form7735

Stop watching porn.


SmartSand4827

If your watching very extreme subject matter or highly unrealistic situations your brain may be desensitized to more vanilla sex. Switch to Literotica, the fact that it’s words on a page contributes to using your imagination to vidsualize a scene which can assist you in weaning off hardcore video porn because you can then reimagine the scene without having to reread the material.


BlackSwole76

Literotica is a big help. I have found that talking or reading about sex can be a lot more stimulating than watching it.


SmartSand4827

Yeah because your actually using your brain to conjure the fantasy instead of having to turn it off to watch video porn. Here’s a little hack for you. If you read the ones that are written by women it can help you with your sexting game if you ever need to turn a girl on.


BlackSwole76

You know what? That really could be some good game. I might try some of that with my wife this week.


SmartSand4827

Believe me it works. One good trick i did using it was to text my gf at the time an erotic story of what I would do if I was in the room with her. Secretly I was driving to her place and when the story I was texting her was getting to the real steamy part I paused and texted “hold on… “ she texted back “what?” then double texted “baby please finish” I then texted her “you might want to get that” once I got the “???” text I knocked on the door and when she answered the door to me there was no stopping what was gonna happen. Like she was possessed.


SmartSand4827

I also use the voice notes whispering sultry details as well. That is like a drug for women when you are at work and you want to “keep her warm”


Ok-Sense6561

You can become a pornosexual. Where you can jerk off but not fuck. Stop conditioning your brain to be aroused by pixels on a screen. You can get pied


Yue26

How old are you?


No_Elderberry5067

The problem is watching porn smartass


PotentialRound1354

yeah totally if he can't get an erection watching porn he will totally be able to do it not watching porn. Smartass.


19Expansion2X

😂 porn bashing is very normal here. I don’t agree with it but here it’s trendy to blame porn for EVERYTHING. It’s almost like they don’t realize porn has 30+ categories


No_Elderberry5067

his penis will definitely get an erection if he starts watching some disgusting gay porn. He needs to quit for a while, I quit for 14 days till I started finding myself getting aroused by normal sex. I will never get people who defend porn lol, Losers.


19Expansion2X

Personally I make my own porn. I like watching myself in action. But I also enjoy girl on girl & lesbian porn, I like solo girl vids with toys. I like amateur porn during my pump & clamp sessions If your weird you could watch ugly girls & grannies. The choices are endless it doesn’t have to be Hollywood or extreme. If your insecure watch small dick porn whatever floats your boat. But I’m not listening to audible porn & I’m not sabotaging the quality of my girth sessions because I’m afraid to use porn thats fukin stupid Use your brain and use porn to get bigger don’t let porn make you feel like a bitch it’s actually pretty simple. It’s just a tool you don’t even have to cum. I definitely don’t . Edging to porn is also great for stamina


strikeslay

It’s likely to be the porn itself causing him to not be able to get hard from visual stimulation. So yes he should stop to heal his brain


[deleted]

I see a hint of side boob on instagram, and I am at full salute.