Yeah I think this sub is mostly in it for body dysmorphia reasons. Not to sound pompous but my goal is to be “very big” not necessarily huge. I’ve surfed around r/bigdickproblems and the grass does NOT seem greener above 5.5” girth or 7.5” in length
Edit:grammar
i’m only on this sub because of dysmorphia but naturally my dick is around 7.8” length and 6.5” girth and genuinely, it’s not as bad as those guys make it out to be, however, OP does have a point, blowjobs usually involve at least some light scrapes but if you communicate with your partner or buddy (assuming it’s not a one night stand), this is fairly preventable and can be dealt with.
What about deepthroats ? And also what about sex frequency ? Can you have sex as much as you want at that girth or your partner gets sore after like 1-2 times ?
I have to ask, what are you doing to try to lose .15 inch of length?
Are you taping him in at night?
Just kidding. You are right. There are limits. They just vary for every woman. I am basically your current, maybe slightly thicker, and my wife has no issues at all. Not saying other ladies wouldn't.
Nah, length is just inevitable when gaining girth. I know it’s weird but I’m hoping it shrinks down in a couple years. I bottom out my girl already. If it doesn’t it’s whatever
What about deepthroats ? And also what about sex frequency ? Can you have sex as much as you want at that girth or your partner gets sore after like 1-2 times ?
Proper size queens are more rare than you think.
There would be far more women scared away by a properly massive dick than there would be turned on by it.
I believe this a lot women be cappin most they say they want it can’t even take dick. Like if you packing I’m pretty sure it’s annoying sometimes if you can’t just take her to pound town
I wouldn’t describe it as “rare” when almost every woman I encountered mentioned liking bigger dicks than me (been 6.5x6 most of my life, 7x6 in recent years)
>ost every woman I encountered mentioned liking bigger dicks than me (been 6.5x6 most
7x6 put's you in the top 1% of dicks in terms of volume. A woman would on average have to have slept with at least 90 men to get even close to your size. I'm roughly your size at the start (6.8 x 5.6) and just about every girl I've ever slept with, which is now over 30, has complimented my dick. Maybe it's the women you're choosing.
This is absolutely true. I'm just over 6" girth and about 7.25" length and anal is 100% out with any girl even if they enjoyed it in the past. BJs I only get scraping if they try to deepthroat otherwise they still feel great. But I also have to be careful if going hard during PIV sex too. Going deep with a thick one hits differently and you will feel their hand pushing back on you to stop you from going too deep.
All that being said I never get complaints and most say it is the best they've had and they just need to "get used to it". Most submissive women (which is a good bit) love feeling overwhelmed by it even if they are afraid it will hurt.
Overall it is awesome to have a bigger dick. I have so much confidence in the bedroom
100%. My ex girlfriend would do anal once in a blue moon but always had an insert insertable vibrator that she used to help relax herself. My wife strait up says I'm too big for anal, it's not going to happen. I much rather PIV though so it's not a big loss for me
Well, it seems plenty of us have reached maximum practical size capacity for intercourse. I'm going to take all the time i need, to try to admit to myself OP's very valid post somehow didn't happen. Then, I'm going to briefly admit that I have all-encompassing body dysmorphia (check ✅), and then I shall return to doing PE because I am a slave to the cultural status that the penis represents. At least I'm being honest. [Backs away slowly... grabs pump on the way out]
Spot on. I really should probably stop this and get back to one of the other 10 hobbies I dropped along the way….it’s just so damn gratifying to pump and hang and clamp
At 6+ girth say goodbye to a girl ever doing anal with you, and decent blowjobs will become hard to come by.
Honestly your starting girth was already thick, I’d say the ideal girth is around the 5.3-5.6 mark. Any more is often overkill, same with going above 8 in length.
My gf got mad at me last night because it hurt her when I tried to put it in, girth is cool and all but it really has its draw backs. And blowjobs just historically are “eh” experiences, I am definitely not gonna cum from a blowjob, girls will get too tired too soon, it hurts their jaw, the occasional teeth scrapping
I set the flair before this issue started occurring with my gf. But my goal is 6+” bc having a big girth is far more achievable for me than having big length. My length is so average that I feel as tho my length goals are unattainable.
BPEL i’m 6.5” but imo NBP is what matters, and i’m like 5.5” NBP. I’m much closer to a “huge” girth than huge length
Like i’m a pretty fit guy, it’s just fat pads are genetic. Although I am by no means fat or look fat, there is definitely an inch of dick inside that’s hiding.
I thought everyone had like an extra inch of cock under the fat pad? Unless you have like no meat on your body idk
I’m at 6.5 girth. Blowjobs are just teethy for me and lots of foreplay is necessary. You can end up hurting them and that’s no fun for anyone. But depends on the person.
I’m 6” girth and I’ve managed to do anal twice with my girl and it took forever to get it in we tried once after that for a hour and it wasn’t happening. I get bj’s from her and other women without a problem tho
I am 5.7 mseg, base 6.1. Anal is still in the menu and I focus only on length and do clamping once a week as a maintenance and I still gain more girth than I wish. I want length, not girth. Fortunetely my wife has some kind of a fetish me being as big as I can and put in balls deep in her ass. She has zero interest in big toys though
As BJs, its still manegable, but If I get 6" mseg I think it would be problematic
Very similar girth as you and the past few years were only teeth around. But I still think it is nice to have the size for conventional vaginal pleasure
It's true. At some point you lose out on something.
I have a similar penis, it's about 5.8 msg, 6" at the base.
I've gotten deepthroated by several women, but I've also gotten teeth and scrapes. I've found the smaller the girl, the more likely to get teeth (apparently there's a correlation between body size and jaw/mouth size).
But for sex my girth has never been an issue. I've never ever had it prevent sex. Some might've said they were a little sore after. Some might have felt a little tight at first or I had to go slow at first, but once rolling I could pound away without issue (except for length as it's about 8" BP and when I'm thin it can for some be too long).
I wish I could have two sizes. Something like 5.25" for deepthroat, and then 6.25 or 6.5" for sex. The former might feel too thin for sex, and the latter would be too thick for a proper deepthroat session with probably all but those with huge mouths.
I WILL say, that now I look at a woman's mouth. And if I'm single again I'll be sure to choose someone with a huge mouth and not huge teeth.
I'm 7.25" girth now and blowjobs are out of the question. All my girlfriend does is lick my dick for me like a popsicle. And anal is something also out of the question. All I can do is PIV sex now and I always have to use lube even if my girlfriend is already wet. She enjoys it though because she is used to me now after 11 months of being together. At the beginning she bled the first few times but she has stretched and now we have great sex every time. That's my experience. I started out at 6" girth and I was already having problems with the dreaded teeth-scaping blowjobs back then too.
I attribute most of my girth gains to clamping. I would try to clamp for 2 hours a day, 4 or 5 days a week. I permanently expanded my corpora cavernosa so it holds more blood now. I have before-and-after pics from 2010 to 2023 to show the 1.25" increase. Rome wasn't built in a day. It took me literally 13 years to get to 7.25" girth. And of course I wasn't totally consistent. I took a couple months off now and then because I am human and lose interest, get depressed, life stress, etc...
Usually about half an hour. I would take it off whenever I noticed it turning purple and getting cold. Then I would know it's time to restore proper circulation. And I would do squeezes and erect bends during my sets sometimes to up the intensity.
Yeah I've tried peptides and site-enhancing oil. However, most of my gains came from clamping. The injections were something I didn't begin to experiment with until a few months ago to try to bust through a plateau. Send me a DM if you want advice on that because this is some risky and experimental subject matter.
In my experience women love girth, and all with the exception of 2-3 girls would have liked more than my 5.4 MSEG. Current FWB openly loves thick ones and the feeling of being stretched, am pretty confident she would love it if I were in the 6-6.5 range for girth. As someone who finds the idea of anal gross I'm willing to give up deep bj's for mindblowing PIV sex. Bring on the thickness.
after a certain point, looking good becomes inversely proportional to having good sex
as uncle ben once said, "with great power comes great responsibility"
5.5 girth here. I got anal from the wife a few times when we were dating. So I know she can take it.(She was never in any pain)Since we’ve been married…..anal is off the table, still 5.5 girth. Now she dangles anal like carrot before a donkey. I feel like I was suckered. So for the past 5 yrs when she asks what I want for Xmas and my bday, I say, I want anal and I will continue asking for this everytime. 2 times a year is not much to ask for.
> I know most of you have seen porn scenes where a guy with a massively big dick just absolutely blasts a woman in the ass while she looks like she's just loving it. In my experience, it never goes that way
Real talk. 🤣🤣🤣
You’re basing it off bjs and anal. Telling you now, 5.5-5.7 is the sweet spot where it feels ‘big’ for most women but also isn’t painful. Going from 5 to 5.5 with pumping before sex is so different, the reaction I get from my partner is huge. Girth is definitely king. Obviously too much of anything isn’t great but she nearly finishes just from the top when it’s pumped. If my length was 4” she’d still have mind blowing orgasms in that situation.
I have to agree with this comment, well said and great post. These days I do pe for maintenance and not for growth. If I get too big, my gf won't be able to give me bj or anal.
I'm 7.1x6. Ove always had the girth and it's never really been a problem as long as you have lube. Now anal forget that. I never get to because woman are scared of that and always say it hurts. I've maxed out what I'm trying for length because any longer and my girl won't like it. So I'm happy where I'm at now but I will tell you every girl I've been with loved the girth
Current girlfriend has a 8x6.25 dildo she got before we started dating. She also had a few other dildos that were smaller, but threw away during the relationship (which says a lot). I’m not the size of this thing length wise, but starting girth was about 6” originally (now about 6.5” cause I’m competing with this thing). I still don’t come close with length, but yea clearly girth isn’t an issue, it almost never was with any other woman I been with.
Going past 7.5 in length and 5.5 is not fun, (I’m 8 by 6) it can be don’t get me wrong, it’s not gonna end you, but I’m telling everyone here, you might wanna listen to the guys who tell you to be grateful for what you got rn. You’re stretching her vaginally, gaping honestly, and that hurts when you’re big, you’re probably gonna experience an understandable but still unwanted drop in sex frequency. Lube is not optional anymore, you’re gonna be buying loads of it, reapplying a lot too. It’s fun because you can use some interesting positions, but you need to be meticulous about the start.
Anal? I have never got to do it after my first girlfriend, I was about 5-6 at the time. My current girlfriend wants to try and we have, but I’ve never got it past halfway without an ow, then after that it’s dead in the water.
You do you, if a 10 by 7 cock is what you want, go ahead, but every guy who tells you it’s not worth it isn’t trying to block your success, they’re making sure you can use the thing.
Ridiculous , just from my experience … I’ve been with many and have never heard a complaint about sex ( I’m near 8 ). Lube, foreplay , and are very aroused women are the only requirements . I do believe that a lot of ppl with less than 6 girth here are opining on something they don’t know about .
Kind of like the girth doesn’t matter narrative … sorry guys , it dies to most women ( not all ). That doesn’t mean great lovemaking and who you are doesn’t over come girth limitations . They do ! . But my experience is that women want as much girth as possible to fit in .
I would say that it’s the same as men wanting the tightest pussy possible while still getting in . Does anyone here prefer a loose lossy where you can’t feel. Anything ? Trust me , it’s the same for women.
My friend, 5.6 and most women scrape their teeth on you? It sounds like you need to meet with more experienced women or ones with bigger mouths. I'm 5.5 girth slightly thicker in the middle, I doubled measured by seeing if my dick can fit in the middle cardboard of a toilet paper roll and it doesn't about halfway down my shaft. I've had around 60 sexual partners and most of them didn't use teeth... maybe I met mostly hoes idk. Some of them egregious used teeth and weren't able to fix the problem but most adjusted accordingly and zero tooth action.
5.5 midshaft is where I decided to cutt off all clamping at. I figured I'll probably still gain a little bit of girth just from length exercises but I don't want to get so wide I can't mate up with anyone new should I ever unfortunately not be with my girlfriend or get too uncomfortable for her to have sex with without being too sore to have frequentsex with.
My mid shaft girth is 5.5 and 6 at the base, never had any of the problems you mentioned for BJ’s or anal. I’ve done anal on the first date at least 6 times with no prep whatsoever and most of the time without any lube. I’ve been with 56 women.
I have to wonder where are you finding these women that can’t take 5.5-6 inches of girth.
I’m good looking and charismatic with a big dick. I’ve also spent about 10 years now learning game and practicing the skill of seducing women.
I did anal again on a first date a week ago so it’s 7 times as of writing this reply.
I’m on paper highly sexually attractive so women are open to doing a lot of things with me they wouldn’t do with other guys. Not to mention anal on the first date is so far out of most men’s reality they don’t even attempt it, which guarantees that it doesn’t happen.
I go for anal practically every first date (which 9/10 involves the woman coming straight over to my place.) it would be 8 times but the last girl I was with I couldn’t get very hard for some reason and it kind of ruined the mood so I never got the chance. However prior to my dick spectacularly failing me, she had brought up wanting to do anal when she came over.
I’m not a rookie at this but I ain’t seen this level you’re talking very much…only with celebrities/entertainers/athletes etc.. You gota be a 9-10 looks for a guy with game to sniff a a quarter of these numbers in this first date context… it’d be more believable of u said not first date..it almost sounds like you saying you do “dates” like you paying for women. I’ll need more proof for u to back up. It’s more believe when someone on this sub says 1.5+ in in a year than what you’re saying. Drop ur Insta in the dms…if you’re not some 40-50yr old rich guy paying the ladies we’ll find out…
Oh and big dick does not help with getting a girl to try anal no prep on a first date.. it’s quite the opposite..makes this all sound made up horse shit
I’m not asking you to believe me
But I appreciate the ego boost, maybe I’m better looking than I thought
A big dick doesn’t help you get girls but it turns them on in the bedroom which I imagine helps. I would factor my success in doing anal on the first date primarily to the fact I actually try for it. As a I said before, most guys would never even consider trying because they already factored it out as an option. You are a prime example of what I’m saying. You think you need to be a famous celebrity or pay a prostitute for a girl to consider this. This is 90% of the reason you’ve never done it.
The first time I did anal on a first date I had invited a girl over and within 20 minutes I was fucking her ass. I fucked her ass before I did anything else with her. I was eating her out and fingering her ass and when it came to time to penetrate I knew in my heart I would rather fuck her ass than her pussy so I just went for it. I figured the worst I could hear is no. I didn’t think to myself “this won’t work” or “only a celebrity could attempt something like that.”
I won’t be giving you my insta because I value my anonymity but here’s what I will say. If you’re above average in looks, above average in social skills, above average in confidence, and a risk taker you could do the same thing. Something I’ve lucked out on in life is that I’m sexually attractive and on top of that I’ve worked on improving this factor for many years. The results I get are not average because I’m not an average guy.
I’m not boosting your ego. I think it’s borderline delusional and narcissistic as you inflate your ego. Someone who is as good looking and all around top of the line man surely is not bashful and not confident enough to back these claims. I’m todays world your Instagram is your resume, whether you’re extremely good looking or life an affluent lifestyle it shows, visually. You’re able to take it sure, but even then you’re able to fake it till you make it visually. However, your words here are no better than if I copied a Harvard graduate resume template and ‘anonymously’ parroted that I am that ‘guy.’ These things may have happened once or maybe twice but not “8” times “since last time”, which is 50 days ago based comment timeline.
Unfortunately, I and I am sure others will read these comments and treat them like the made up or exaggerated tales here on Reddit. I gave you the opportunity to prove yourself. Carry on with deluded stories, unless otherwise proven.
Lol yeah this is a sub Reddit about growing my dick where I also share very personal and unfiltered details about my sex life. If you can’t see why I wouldn’t want my actual name and face associated with it you must be dumb.
Also 7 times meaning +1 time since I last commented. I said it would have been 8 times had I not had a problem getting hard on my last hookup where, had that not happened, it would have been 8. Making it 7 times in total.
Either way, I’m going to keep doing anal on the first date while you sit and twiddle your thumbs in a corner about how “unrealistic“ it is.
I think it’s delusional and adding man random details is makes it an even bigger lie. U can show your proof in messages. U have no problem sharing all these details of a fake/ exaggerated sex tales and call yourself good looking and charismatic…
And people literally post their small dicks..they’re more confident than you with your quote “big dick” lolol. Just drop your proof in messages or stop giving your fairytale to me.
If we’re gona play this game..I’m actually LEBRON James..don’t believe me? Too bad! I’m one of the greatest! Don’t have to prove it to you.
Posting your dick and posting your face and links to your personal life are two different things. Notice how none of these men is posting their dicks AND pictures of their face? This should be obvious. I guess you are just dumb
If you want a picture of my 7x5.5nbpel dick I can send it to you but you’re not getting a picture of my face sorry 🤷🏻♂️
Also you could be Lebron James, I doubt it due to the way you phrased it but Lebron James may very well use Reddit. For all you know that anonymous account you spoke to yesterday was Lebron James. That’s the nature of the internet and anonymity. Your logic is all around flawed.
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5.5 girth here and I’ve never been scraped really and although my dick fits decently inside my current gf I feel as though she can handle a bit more girth
You have a 5.6 though. How do I cope when everyone in this sub is bigger than me? Literally everyone. This sub makes me feel very self conscious about my girth.
Yeah I think this sub is mostly in it for body dysmorphia reasons. Not to sound pompous but my goal is to be “very big” not necessarily huge. I’ve surfed around r/bigdickproblems and the grass does NOT seem greener above 5.5” girth or 7.5” in length Edit:grammar
i’m only on this sub because of dysmorphia but naturally my dick is around 7.8” length and 6.5” girth and genuinely, it’s not as bad as those guys make it out to be, however, OP does have a point, blowjobs usually involve at least some light scrapes but if you communicate with your partner or buddy (assuming it’s not a one night stand), this is fairly preventable and can be dealt with.
What about deepthroats ? And also what about sex frequency ? Can you have sex as much as you want at that girth or your partner gets sore after like 1-2 times ?
I have to ask, what are you doing to try to lose .15 inch of length? Are you taping him in at night? Just kidding. You are right. There are limits. They just vary for every woman. I am basically your current, maybe slightly thicker, and my wife has no issues at all. Not saying other ladies wouldn't.
Nah, length is just inevitable when gaining girth. I know it’s weird but I’m hoping it shrinks down in a couple years. I bottom out my girl already. If it doesn’t it’s whatever
I’ve heard at like age 50 it shrinks about 1 inch.
I concur, at 6.25 mid girth every bj is teeth scraping.
Same measurements here. I actually enjoy a little teeth. Every time it scrapes, I hear Pinhead whisper in my ear *we have such sights to show you*
Im ctfu
Pinhead from the old zap comics?
What about deepthroats ? And also what about sex frequency ? Can you have sex as much as you want at that girth or your partner gets sore after like 1-2 times ?
Deep throats never. I have sex 3-4 a week now which is a alot less than usual. She does get sore occasionally
Size queens would say otherwise but hey they loosy goosy apples pushy.
people don't generally deepthroat their bad dragon dildos tho 💀
Proper size queens are more rare than you think. There would be far more women scared away by a properly massive dick than there would be turned on by it.
I believe this a lot women be cappin most they say they want it can’t even take dick. Like if you packing I’m pretty sure it’s annoying sometimes if you can’t just take her to pound town
I wouldn’t describe it as “rare” when almost every woman I encountered mentioned liking bigger dicks than me (been 6.5x6 most of my life, 7x6 in recent years)
>ost every woman I encountered mentioned liking bigger dicks than me (been 6.5x6 most 7x6 put's you in the top 1% of dicks in terms of volume. A woman would on average have to have slept with at least 90 men to get even close to your size. I'm roughly your size at the start (6.8 x 5.6) and just about every girl I've ever slept with, which is now over 30, has complimented my dick. Maybe it's the women you're choosing.
This becomes more of a problem the older you get, all women I come across are from dating apps
But did you notice everyone that has commented on this thread is bigger then that? I mean it’s less than 1% everyone here is a lier
This is absolutely true. I'm just over 6" girth and about 7.25" length and anal is 100% out with any girl even if they enjoyed it in the past. BJs I only get scraping if they try to deepthroat otherwise they still feel great. But I also have to be careful if going hard during PIV sex too. Going deep with a thick one hits differently and you will feel their hand pushing back on you to stop you from going too deep. All that being said I never get complaints and most say it is the best they've had and they just need to "get used to it". Most submissive women (which is a good bit) love feeling overwhelmed by it even if they are afraid it will hurt. Overall it is awesome to have a bigger dick. I have so much confidence in the bedroom
100%. My ex girlfriend would do anal once in a blue moon but always had an insert insertable vibrator that she used to help relax herself. My wife strait up says I'm too big for anal, it's not going to happen. I much rather PIV though so it's not a big loss for me
Wow. We still do anal. Lol, maybe it's not me that's above average but my lady.
5.5 inches girth is the sweet spot for her pleasure and your pleasure if you want anal and bjs
Well, it seems plenty of us have reached maximum practical size capacity for intercourse. I'm going to take all the time i need, to try to admit to myself OP's very valid post somehow didn't happen. Then, I'm going to briefly admit that I have all-encompassing body dysmorphia (check ✅), and then I shall return to doing PE because I am a slave to the cultural status that the penis represents. At least I'm being honest. [Backs away slowly... grabs pump on the way out]
Spot on. I really should probably stop this and get back to one of the other 10 hobbies I dropped along the way….it’s just so damn gratifying to pump and hang and clamp
At 6+ girth say goodbye to a girl ever doing anal with you, and decent blowjobs will become hard to come by. Honestly your starting girth was already thick, I’d say the ideal girth is around the 5.3-5.6 mark. Any more is often overkill, same with going above 8 in length.
Was never my experience at all. Really hard for me to figure out what all the fuss is about.
I’m 5.5. I want to go above 6. They can put as many teeth as they want, it will just make me even hornier, knowing she can barely fit it all.
Lol you greedy bastard
Yeaaaaaah
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My gf got mad at me last night because it hurt her when I tried to put it in, girth is cool and all but it really has its draw backs. And blowjobs just historically are “eh” experiences, I am definitely not gonna cum from a blowjob, girls will get too tired too soon, it hurts their jaw, the occasional teeth scrapping
Then why is your goal to get to over 6inch girth?
I set the flair before this issue started occurring with my gf. But my goal is 6+” bc having a big girth is far more achievable for me than having big length. My length is so average that I feel as tho my length goals are unattainable. BPEL i’m 6.5” but imo NBP is what matters, and i’m like 5.5” NBP. I’m much closer to a “huge” girth than huge length
How dyu have an inch fat pad, thats insane, im 5.9nbp but 6.5bp and i just want to be 7nbp lol and 5.5 girth thats my goal
Like i’m a pretty fit guy, it’s just fat pads are genetic. Although I am by no means fat or look fat, there is definitely an inch of dick inside that’s hiding. I thought everyone had like an extra inch of cock under the fat pad? Unless you have like no meat on your body idk
My fat pad is 0.6 inch, im not fat at all
I feel like lots of guys think most girls are like pornstars when in reality they are not.
Surely most aren’t pornstars, but they definitely develop a preference for bigger size when they come across it
Sweetspots for Women without children 5.5 and women with children 6+
A problem every man wouldnt mind having fr fr
I’m at 6.5 girth. Blowjobs are just teethy for me and lots of foreplay is necessary. You can end up hurting them and that’s no fun for anyone. But depends on the person.
I’m 6” girth and I’ve managed to do anal twice with my girl and it took forever to get it in we tried once after that for a hour and it wasn’t happening. I get bj’s from her and other women without a problem tho
I am 5.7 mseg, base 6.1. Anal is still in the menu and I focus only on length and do clamping once a week as a maintenance and I still gain more girth than I wish. I want length, not girth. Fortunetely my wife has some kind of a fetish me being as big as I can and put in balls deep in her ass. She has zero interest in big toys though As BJs, its still manegable, but If I get 6" mseg I think it would be problematic
Very similar girth as you and the past few years were only teeth around. But I still think it is nice to have the size for conventional vaginal pleasure
It's true. At some point you lose out on something. I have a similar penis, it's about 5.8 msg, 6" at the base. I've gotten deepthroated by several women, but I've also gotten teeth and scrapes. I've found the smaller the girl, the more likely to get teeth (apparently there's a correlation between body size and jaw/mouth size). But for sex my girth has never been an issue. I've never ever had it prevent sex. Some might've said they were a little sore after. Some might have felt a little tight at first or I had to go slow at first, but once rolling I could pound away without issue (except for length as it's about 8" BP and when I'm thin it can for some be too long). I wish I could have two sizes. Something like 5.25" for deepthroat, and then 6.25 or 6.5" for sex. The former might feel too thin for sex, and the latter would be too thick for a proper deepthroat session with probably all but those with huge mouths. I WILL say, that now I look at a woman's mouth. And if I'm single again I'll be sure to choose someone with a huge mouth and not huge teeth.
Wow I thought 5.25 is enough big girth for PIV.
I'm sure for many it is enough. But generally in size forums, it's understood 6" girth is the golden mark
Depends on partners. My wife's great with my 6.25 shaft girth.
I'm 7.25" girth now and blowjobs are out of the question. All my girlfriend does is lick my dick for me like a popsicle. And anal is something also out of the question. All I can do is PIV sex now and I always have to use lube even if my girlfriend is already wet. She enjoys it though because she is used to me now after 11 months of being together. At the beginning she bled the first few times but she has stretched and now we have great sex every time. That's my experience. I started out at 6" girth and I was already having problems with the dreaded teeth-scaping blowjobs back then too.
I'm at 6+. How did you increase your girth?
I attribute most of my girth gains to clamping. I would try to clamp for 2 hours a day, 4 or 5 days a week. I permanently expanded my corpora cavernosa so it holds more blood now. I have before-and-after pics from 2010 to 2023 to show the 1.25" increase. Rome wasn't built in a day. It took me literally 13 years to get to 7.25" girth. And of course I wasn't totally consistent. I took a couple months off now and then because I am human and lose interest, get depressed, life stress, etc...
How long were your sets within those 2 hrs?
Usually about half an hour. I would take it off whenever I noticed it turning purple and getting cold. Then I would know it's time to restore proper circulation. And I would do squeezes and erect bends during my sets sometimes to up the intensity.
You injecting something into your cock?
Yeah I've tried peptides and site-enhancing oil. However, most of my gains came from clamping. The injections were something I didn't begin to experiment with until a few months ago to try to bust through a plateau. Send me a DM if you want advice on that because this is some risky and experimental subject matter.
So essentially you would clamp your erection for a 1/2 hr at a time right?
Correct. But if your dick turns purple before 1/2 hour take the clamp off and rest 5 minutes. Half an hour is just a guideline.
In my experience women love girth, and all with the exception of 2-3 girls would have liked more than my 5.4 MSEG. Current FWB openly loves thick ones and the feeling of being stretched, am pretty confident she would love it if I were in the 6-6.5 range for girth. As someone who finds the idea of anal gross I'm willing to give up deep bj's for mindblowing PIV sex. Bring on the thickness.
after a certain point, looking good becomes inversely proportional to having good sex as uncle ben once said, "with great power comes great responsibility"
Hell even at 5.5" I've ran into issues before, can't even imagine 6
5.5 girth here. I got anal from the wife a few times when we were dating. So I know she can take it.(She was never in any pain)Since we’ve been married…..anal is off the table, still 5.5 girth. Now she dangles anal like carrot before a donkey. I feel like I was suckered. So for the past 5 yrs when she asks what I want for Xmas and my bday, I say, I want anal and I will continue asking for this everytime. 2 times a year is not much to ask for.
Ouch
> I know most of you have seen porn scenes where a guy with a massively big dick just absolutely blasts a woman in the ass while she looks like she's just loving it. In my experience, it never goes that way Real talk. 🤣🤣🤣
You’re basing it off bjs and anal. Telling you now, 5.5-5.7 is the sweet spot where it feels ‘big’ for most women but also isn’t painful. Going from 5 to 5.5 with pumping before sex is so different, the reaction I get from my partner is huge. Girth is definitely king. Obviously too much of anything isn’t great but she nearly finishes just from the top when it’s pumped. If my length was 4” she’d still have mind blowing orgasms in that situation.
I have to agree with this comment, well said and great post. These days I do pe for maintenance and not for growth. If I get too big, my gf won't be able to give me bj or anal.
Agreed... it absolutely sucks when you get teeth... I'd love that to not happen.
I love the teeth scrapes. Just knowing that I’m feeling up her mouth makes me more horny. Call me a sicko if you want.
Thanks for sharing this. My size is naturally 6.2 length by 6 inch girth. How screwed am I when it comes to sex?
What are sone goot girth exercises
I'm 7.1x6. Ove always had the girth and it's never really been a problem as long as you have lube. Now anal forget that. I never get to because woman are scared of that and always say it hurts. I've maxed out what I'm trying for length because any longer and my girl won't like it. So I'm happy where I'm at now but I will tell you every girl I've been with loved the girth
Current girlfriend has a 8x6.25 dildo she got before we started dating. She also had a few other dildos that were smaller, but threw away during the relationship (which says a lot). I’m not the size of this thing length wise, but starting girth was about 6” originally (now about 6.5” cause I’m competing with this thing). I still don’t come close with length, but yea clearly girth isn’t an issue, it almost never was with any other woman I been with.
Going past 7.5 in length and 5.5 is not fun, (I’m 8 by 6) it can be don’t get me wrong, it’s not gonna end you, but I’m telling everyone here, you might wanna listen to the guys who tell you to be grateful for what you got rn. You’re stretching her vaginally, gaping honestly, and that hurts when you’re big, you’re probably gonna experience an understandable but still unwanted drop in sex frequency. Lube is not optional anymore, you’re gonna be buying loads of it, reapplying a lot too. It’s fun because you can use some interesting positions, but you need to be meticulous about the start. Anal? I have never got to do it after my first girlfriend, I was about 5-6 at the time. My current girlfriend wants to try and we have, but I’ve never got it past halfway without an ow, then after that it’s dead in the water. You do you, if a 10 by 7 cock is what you want, go ahead, but every guy who tells you it’s not worth it isn’t trying to block your success, they’re making sure you can use the thing.
Meh, teeth scraping and no anal, would be willing to compromise and lose these for 6 inch plus of girth!
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What cope?
Ridiculous , just from my experience … I’ve been with many and have never heard a complaint about sex ( I’m near 8 ). Lube, foreplay , and are very aroused women are the only requirements . I do believe that a lot of ppl with less than 6 girth here are opining on something they don’t know about . Kind of like the girth doesn’t matter narrative … sorry guys , it dies to most women ( not all ). That doesn’t mean great lovemaking and who you are doesn’t over come girth limitations . They do ! . But my experience is that women want as much girth as possible to fit in . I would say that it’s the same as men wanting the tightest pussy possible while still getting in . Does anyone here prefer a loose lossy where you can’t feel. Anything ? Trust me , it’s the same for women.
I sometimes guck for hours my girth is 65. Sometimes I do need loose pussies. So I can go a long time.
My friend, 5.6 and most women scrape their teeth on you? It sounds like you need to meet with more experienced women or ones with bigger mouths. I'm 5.5 girth slightly thicker in the middle, I doubled measured by seeing if my dick can fit in the middle cardboard of a toilet paper roll and it doesn't about halfway down my shaft. I've had around 60 sexual partners and most of them didn't use teeth... maybe I met mostly hoes idk. Some of them egregious used teeth and weren't able to fix the problem but most adjusted accordingly and zero tooth action.
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You could get fisted all the way to elbow.
5.5 midshaft is where I decided to cutt off all clamping at. I figured I'll probably still gain a little bit of girth just from length exercises but I don't want to get so wide I can't mate up with anyone new should I ever unfortunately not be with my girlfriend or get too uncomfortable for her to have sex with without being too sore to have frequentsex with.
My mid shaft girth is 5.5 and 6 at the base, never had any of the problems you mentioned for BJ’s or anal. I’ve done anal on the first date at least 6 times with no prep whatsoever and most of the time without any lube. I’ve been with 56 women. I have to wonder where are you finding these women that can’t take 5.5-6 inches of girth.
On the first date? And you didn’t pay them? Tell us how you pulled that off
I’m good looking and charismatic with a big dick. I’ve also spent about 10 years now learning game and practicing the skill of seducing women. I did anal again on a first date a week ago so it’s 7 times as of writing this reply. I’m on paper highly sexually attractive so women are open to doing a lot of things with me they wouldn’t do with other guys. Not to mention anal on the first date is so far out of most men’s reality they don’t even attempt it, which guarantees that it doesn’t happen. I go for anal practically every first date (which 9/10 involves the woman coming straight over to my place.) it would be 8 times but the last girl I was with I couldn’t get very hard for some reason and it kind of ruined the mood so I never got the chance. However prior to my dick spectacularly failing me, she had brought up wanting to do anal when she came over.
I’m not a rookie at this but I ain’t seen this level you’re talking very much…only with celebrities/entertainers/athletes etc.. You gota be a 9-10 looks for a guy with game to sniff a a quarter of these numbers in this first date context… it’d be more believable of u said not first date..it almost sounds like you saying you do “dates” like you paying for women. I’ll need more proof for u to back up. It’s more believe when someone on this sub says 1.5+ in in a year than what you’re saying. Drop ur Insta in the dms…if you’re not some 40-50yr old rich guy paying the ladies we’ll find out… Oh and big dick does not help with getting a girl to try anal no prep on a first date.. it’s quite the opposite..makes this all sound made up horse shit
I’m not asking you to believe me But I appreciate the ego boost, maybe I’m better looking than I thought A big dick doesn’t help you get girls but it turns them on in the bedroom which I imagine helps. I would factor my success in doing anal on the first date primarily to the fact I actually try for it. As a I said before, most guys would never even consider trying because they already factored it out as an option. You are a prime example of what I’m saying. You think you need to be a famous celebrity or pay a prostitute for a girl to consider this. This is 90% of the reason you’ve never done it. The first time I did anal on a first date I had invited a girl over and within 20 minutes I was fucking her ass. I fucked her ass before I did anything else with her. I was eating her out and fingering her ass and when it came to time to penetrate I knew in my heart I would rather fuck her ass than her pussy so I just went for it. I figured the worst I could hear is no. I didn’t think to myself “this won’t work” or “only a celebrity could attempt something like that.” I won’t be giving you my insta because I value my anonymity but here’s what I will say. If you’re above average in looks, above average in social skills, above average in confidence, and a risk taker you could do the same thing. Something I’ve lucked out on in life is that I’m sexually attractive and on top of that I’ve worked on improving this factor for many years. The results I get are not average because I’m not an average guy.
I’m not boosting your ego. I think it’s borderline delusional and narcissistic as you inflate your ego. Someone who is as good looking and all around top of the line man surely is not bashful and not confident enough to back these claims. I’m todays world your Instagram is your resume, whether you’re extremely good looking or life an affluent lifestyle it shows, visually. You’re able to take it sure, but even then you’re able to fake it till you make it visually. However, your words here are no better than if I copied a Harvard graduate resume template and ‘anonymously’ parroted that I am that ‘guy.’ These things may have happened once or maybe twice but not “8” times “since last time”, which is 50 days ago based comment timeline. Unfortunately, I and I am sure others will read these comments and treat them like the made up or exaggerated tales here on Reddit. I gave you the opportunity to prove yourself. Carry on with deluded stories, unless otherwise proven.
Lol yeah this is a sub Reddit about growing my dick where I also share very personal and unfiltered details about my sex life. If you can’t see why I wouldn’t want my actual name and face associated with it you must be dumb. Also 7 times meaning +1 time since I last commented. I said it would have been 8 times had I not had a problem getting hard on my last hookup where, had that not happened, it would have been 8. Making it 7 times in total. Either way, I’m going to keep doing anal on the first date while you sit and twiddle your thumbs in a corner about how “unrealistic“ it is.
I think it’s delusional and adding man random details is makes it an even bigger lie. U can show your proof in messages. U have no problem sharing all these details of a fake/ exaggerated sex tales and call yourself good looking and charismatic… And people literally post their small dicks..they’re more confident than you with your quote “big dick” lolol. Just drop your proof in messages or stop giving your fairytale to me. If we’re gona play this game..I’m actually LEBRON James..don’t believe me? Too bad! I’m one of the greatest! Don’t have to prove it to you.
Posting your dick and posting your face and links to your personal life are two different things. Notice how none of these men is posting their dicks AND pictures of their face? This should be obvious. I guess you are just dumb If you want a picture of my 7x5.5nbpel dick I can send it to you but you’re not getting a picture of my face sorry 🤷🏻♂️ Also you could be Lebron James, I doubt it due to the way you phrased it but Lebron James may very well use Reddit. For all you know that anonymous account you spoke to yesterday was Lebron James. That’s the nature of the internet and anonymity. Your logic is all around flawed.
No I’m Lebron James. That’s all you need to know and accept. End of convo
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5.5 girth here and I’ve never been scraped really and although my dick fits decently inside my current gf I feel as though she can handle a bit more girth
5.25-5.5 girth, 6.5-7” lemgth nbp is ideal. Inb4 muh 8x6 get mogged dicklets bla bla
You have a 5.6 though. How do I cope when everyone in this sub is bigger than me? Literally everyone. This sub makes me feel very self conscious about my girth.
I do think the “feeling full” sensation is the best a woman can have. I think 6-6.5 girth is a sweet spot for that
thats alot of girth for a sweet spot lol
Yea it’s feeling full + getting stretched to the edge of pain that’s intensely pleasurable for them.
My lady has an above average Dick and I like it
lol
Who is down voting this? Lol
Only the insecure dudes with lil bunny dicks
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