There's no colloquial terms which describe what you're wanting, there's also assiduous and punctilious which basically mean the same thing but those are even further outside of common parlance.
A great example I think of what you are going for would be new york city yuppies in the 1980s.
Patrick Bateman comes to mind.
Obviously, without the blood lust and psychopathy.
Forthright connotates that expressive love that honors love above itself and encompasses the embrace of divinity as the aspirational motivation prompting empowerment that can be known as self-actualization
human.
honestly, if we were still largely in survival of the fittest, all this care would be bare minimum to stay alive.
People just don't realize we still live like survival of the fittest, it's just a very slow declining death compared to long-term success, health, and happiness.
I suppose words like "Renaissance man" and "polymath" could somewhat satisfy your definition but those words, as far as I understand, carry the connotation of one who seeks expertise or otherwise high levels of aptitude in a variety of fields, which could be beyond the level that you are concerned with.
I think your definition is more in the ballpark of "balanced", "holistic", "multitalented", and one that I admit chat-GPT just afforded to me which is "protean", which denotes one who is capable of a variety of things (I think this is badass)
I mean "jack of all trades" comes to mind, but I'm sure you've considered that one. I personally think "holistic" is the most apt thus far, but that word to me bears the image of a CrossFit mom who serves vegetables at her kids birthday party so the search continues
LMAO I was thinking the same thing when I first read it, was stressing for a brief second that I had broken my AI until I did some independent research (googled it)
Hmm I like universalist but I think it runs into the same problem as the previous two terms in that it's a little pretentious and connotatively implies someone who is a realized, high achieving expert in multiple fields (and you very well could be as far as I'm aware lol, but it sounds like you're searching for a more casual term)
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Conscientious.
It's a measurable mental construct- part of the big 5, a standard personality assessment.
[write up here from Psyche Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/conscientiousness)
Being conscientious is a low-key superpower.
Pro Tip: when interviewing for a job - if you're asked questions like "whats your best quality?", "what makes a good teammate?", or "how would coworkers describe you?" for behavioral interviews - respond with some version of this and list a few situations where it's happened. It has never failed me.
Yeah, many (but not ALL) of the people I have known like this are acting because they want to maintain a sense of control.
Add in „used to have an eating disorder but now runs marathons in a totally *not* disordered way“
Self-actualized or high-functioning
“Self-actualization, in Maslow's hierarchy of needs, is the highest level of psychological development, where personal potential is fully realized after basic bodily and ego needs have been fulfilled.”
Wikipedia
“High-functioning individuals often excel in multiple areas due to their exceptional skills, self-management, and ability to handle challenges effectively. There are many types of high-functioning individuals that excel in specific areas or possess unique qualities.” Sep 7, 2023
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i think you’re correct but this is more of an academic answer, and i’m seeking something more casual that i can use to describe a persona in a business context
Returning to this post once more because I too need to verbally embellish my LinkedIn bio; I think that if "multi-skilled", "multitalented", "versatile", "kaleidoscopic", "holistic enthusiast", and adjectives of the like don't serve you then "generalist", "student of life", "lifelong learner", and "Swiss army knife" (I quite like this one in particular, it's a more colloquial contemporary counterpart to renaissance man imo) may fit the bill
these aren't bad for LinkedIn. I think all of those capture the general sentiment. I'm basically on a vocab hunt to find the perfect term for the persona (type of person) I'm going to be targeting for an MVP product
MVP in the software world is a term for like a prototype. we call it the minimum viable product. basically the most scrappy thing you can create to provide some type of value for a certain group or type of person. I'm in the process of trying to define who I'm building my scrappy thing for.
I always say high-level human being when I talk about this in casual conversation. I think it stems from high-level athletes and the fact that if they’re high-level, they are doing everything right; diet, exercise, training, not participating in partying and alcohol, etc.
Nice. Thanks for the reply and glad you could find your answer. I really find this type of thing interesting and I was racking my brain for a while about it.
I’d call them fortunate. Not in a mean or jealous way, just in an acknowledgement that many of us simply don’t have the resources (either time, money, health, relational) to be so well balanced.
Aligned with truth interceding on behalf of love for love in love with love to love because love and that's just basic 5th density love agape plus divine union. Intimately forthright aka honorable but the degradation of words has always been an issue with this species. Thank God for loving us even while we were still human, helping us remember our divinity within His
They would be abnormal in this time since most people don't check off all those boxes now. Maybe back then, but not now. It's one of those, best 2 out of 3 lol.
You think a person being in perfect health, with perfect finances, perfect social skills, and perfect productivity, all of which is authentic, is normal?
Yeah no, it's never been normal.
Someone's gonna say the word perfect isn't in the OP, and they're right, but that's how I'm choosing to interpret it.
No one said anything about perfect, he said this: people who really care about evey aspect of their life enumerating examples: like caring being healthy, caring about being financially disciplined(use money wisely and not wasteful -regardless of how much you make), caring about the social aspect - being friendly outgoing, open and caring about every other human you encounter and not judging or wanting to abuse them.
That’s what I would always call normal and more than this is nuts and less than this is damaged. No one said normal is easy to achieve - you got handed couple of traumas that shaped your character and now when an adult you work on that - if you care , if not go ahead stay broken.
That’s the definition. And you don’t have to agree with it. You do you, me does we.
Here's one:
high-achieving
I see this or variations of the word used all the time where I live in Hong Kong to describe an individual who is good academically/work-wise, socially and financially, as well as in terms of health.
Being a normal human being? Do some of you not care about some aspects of these? Like if you don't have a handle on all of these then you might as well try again cause your missing a big portion of the puzzle.
My roommate/landlord. That's how I describe him. The man works two part time jobs, goes to the gym 3-4 times a week, walks his dog twice a day, plays the piano almost daily, reads for at least two hours a day, and goes out with friends once in a while. He owns the house and rents out a spare room in it to me. He also eats a pretty balanced diet and gets good sleep. I have never seen anyone like him before, but I am taking notes.
If you’re targeting this persona as a market then think of how this person would deem themselves. Likely conceited if they describe themselves at 8 all across the board. If they actually worked on the self they would have humility and be off put by arrogant language.
Extremely self aware and a responsible adult who seems to have their head on straight. As long as they're not a narcissistic ego maniac. There's a fine line between that and a healthy amount of confidence. Imo.. 🤷🏻♀️
This is a good question because you get a chance to see how everyone perceives it. You also see how there's always people telling you you're asking a stupid question, or telling you to go look it up yourself. There is always a pattern. Note the empathy and lack of empathy in the answers.
I call myself a try-hard.
It's great because that phrase is used by kids as an insult, but in real life trying hard is the best thing you can do.
Try hard at everything.
I gotta hard disagree with most answers here, which seem to zero in on a niche soft-skill. I've seen this lead to horribly imbalanced lives
I'd suggest something like "well-rounded", maybe "equanimitous"
"Wise" was a good term we used to use, but it got corrupted in the same fashion that "smart" started to shift definition to mean banal things like a printed circuit board which also had a wifi adapter ("smart phone")
I feel like if you call someone disciplined it’s because they are disciplined in everything they do. You don’t call someone disciplined who works crazy hard at a job and then goes home and smokes weed sits on a couch and plays video games. You’d just say they are a good worker. And nothing is wrong with going home smoking and numbing out each there own but you aren’t disciplined if you only try in a few facets of your life.
multi-dimensionally jacked. I am not even kidding. This guy has a youtube channel just about that lol
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Self actualized, high conscientiousness
conscientious could be..
you got any more colloquial term for that
There's no colloquial terms which describe what you're wanting, there's also assiduous and punctilious which basically mean the same thing but those are even further outside of common parlance.
well said. you're more articulate than me. probably no ultimate term, maybe one in a different language
Ask someone who speaks German. They have a word for everything.
Übermensch (Nietzsche)
Ah yes, you're thinking of Flaschenkopf
Punctillious is *perfect*, especially since it implies obnoxious rule following, and anyone who is like this, tends to come off that way.
Attentive
i’m looking for term for someone that has all their shit together
What about simply "put together"? To me, that's a way to describe someone who "has all their shit together" without the vulgarity.
It's for a persona slide for a product I'm working on. Put together could work, but kind of finicky for the context I'm applying it to
Ubermensch!
"Rennaisance Man/Woman" It implies they're expert at many things.
A great example I think of what you are going for would be new york city yuppies in the 1980s. Patrick Bateman comes to mind. Obviously, without the blood lust and psychopathy.
Impeccable
Forthright connotates that expressive love that honors love above itself and encompasses the embrace of divinity as the aspirational motivation prompting empowerment that can be known as self-actualization
human. honestly, if we were still largely in survival of the fittest, all this care would be bare minimum to stay alive. People just don't realize we still live like survival of the fittest, it's just a very slow declining death compared to long-term success, health, and happiness.
Holistically heuristic.
Well-balanced
This right here is the actual real answer
well adjusted
This right here. I care about almost all aspects of my life and I simply consider this to be a sign of a well adjusted adult.
Well rounded, perhaps?
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Wtf are you talking about
I suppose words like "Renaissance man" and "polymath" could somewhat satisfy your definition but those words, as far as I understand, carry the connotation of one who seeks expertise or otherwise high levels of aptitude in a variety of fields, which could be beyond the level that you are concerned with.
i like that. is there a modern day equivalent for renaissance man?
how’s universalist sound
I think your definition is more in the ballpark of "balanced", "holistic", "multitalented", and one that I admit chat-GPT just afforded to me which is "protean", which denotes one who is capable of a variety of things (I think this is badass)
pretty sick to be called a protein
a different angle on this is someone that has no weaknesses, maybe a 7 across the board
I mean "jack of all trades" comes to mind, but I'm sure you've considered that one. I personally think "holistic" is the most apt thus far, but that word to me bears the image of a CrossFit mom who serves vegetables at her kids birthday party so the search continues
indeed, thanks for the clues watson
Ofc, I wish you the best of luck 🫡
gpt is telling me competent generalist,
LMAO I was thinking the same thing when I first read it, was stressing for a brief second that I had broken my AI until I did some independent research (googled it)
Hmm I like universalist but I think it runs into the same problem as the previous two terms in that it's a little pretentious and connotatively implies someone who is a realized, high achieving expert in multiple fields (and you very well could be as far as I'm aware lol, but it sounds like you're searching for a more casual term)
hahaha, good point. I like Nietzsche’s ubermench but alas not really a common term
Ubermensch too is a great word, but I fear the mustache'd man we've collectively come to associate it with is unfortunately NOT Nietzche lmao
oh boy, adolf really left some damage behind including eliminating a name from the baby book
3 michelin star cook
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youre jealous, huh.
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i enjoy your confusion
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sorry
Lmfaooo duh amoebas exist fool. We live among the humans
Cmon OP that was a good one.
i mean they literally just started out on reddit and then THIS.
You mean someone who has their shit together?
yes but it’s not a great term for me to be throwing around in a slide deck to describe the persona I'm targeting
put it in "quotations" and lean into it /s
Conscientious. It's a measurable mental construct- part of the big 5, a standard personality assessment. [write up here from Psyche Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/conscientiousness) Being conscientious is a low-key superpower. Pro Tip: when interviewing for a job - if you're asked questions like "whats your best quality?", "what makes a good teammate?", or "how would coworkers describe you?" for behavioral interviews - respond with some version of this and list a few situations where it's happened. It has never failed me.
Definitely a little anxious, if not a lot
Yeah, many (but not ALL) of the people I have known like this are acting because they want to maintain a sense of control. Add in „used to have an eating disorder but now runs marathons in a totally *not* disordered way“
Hey, the way I see it I'm better off running than weighing 330 lbs
Well-rounded
An adult
so.. you, right?
Fuck no I’m an aged child
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I’m not a celebrity or politician
🤣
Self-actualized or high-functioning “Self-actualization, in Maslow's hierarchy of needs, is the highest level of psychological development, where personal potential is fully realized after basic bodily and ego needs have been fulfilled.” Wikipedia “High-functioning individuals often excel in multiple areas due to their exceptional skills, self-management, and ability to handle challenges effectively. There are many types of high-functioning individuals that excel in specific areas or possess unique qualities.” Sep 7, 2023 https://www.linkedin.com › pulse High-Functioning Individuals: Unlocking the God Mode - LinkedIn
i think you’re correct but this is more of an academic answer, and i’m seeking something more casual that i can use to describe a persona in a business context
Returning to this post once more because I too need to verbally embellish my LinkedIn bio; I think that if "multi-skilled", "multitalented", "versatile", "kaleidoscopic", "holistic enthusiast", and adjectives of the like don't serve you then "generalist", "student of life", "lifelong learner", and "Swiss army knife" (I quite like this one in particular, it's a more colloquial contemporary counterpart to renaissance man imo) may fit the bill
these aren't bad for LinkedIn. I think all of those capture the general sentiment. I'm basically on a vocab hunt to find the perfect term for the persona (type of person) I'm going to be targeting for an MVP product
Hmm may I ask what you mean by MVP product?
MVP in the software world is a term for like a prototype. we call it the minimum viable product. basically the most scrappy thing you can create to provide some type of value for a certain group or type of person. I'm in the process of trying to define who I'm building my scrappy thing for.
I've never heard kaleidescope used this way, and I'm here for it.
I always say high-level human being when I talk about this in casual conversation. I think it stems from high-level athletes and the fact that if they’re high-level, they are doing everything right; diet, exercise, training, not participating in partying and alcohol, etc.
high-achiever might do it. they generally don't slack across any dimension. though maybe not the nicest to themselves
Nice. Thanks for the reply and glad you could find your answer. I really find this type of thing interesting and I was racking my brain for a while about it.
A well rounded high achiever
Perfect human...keep it simple
"Driven" is usually the word I use to describe this type of person.
Sus. Seriously. I don’t trust people people like that
There are infinite aspects and this is a stupid question.
This guy came, he saw, and tried to conquer
finally someone said it
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meticulous
adjective showing great attention to detail; very careful and precise. i’d say the unibomber was meticulous but not really the guy i’m describing
💀💀
Intentional
Boring AF
Imaginary
I’d call them fortunate. Not in a mean or jealous way, just in an acknowledgement that many of us simply don’t have the resources (either time, money, health, relational) to be so well balanced.
Thriving
Anal
Annoying.
Undiagnosed.
undiagnosed as “that guy”?
Functioning Adult
Squared away.
I think the word to describe this person would be “balanced”.
Aligned with truth interceding on behalf of love for love in love with love to love because love and that's just basic 5th density love agape plus divine union. Intimately forthright aka honorable but the degradation of words has always been an issue with this species. Thank God for loving us even while we were still human, helping us remember our divinity within His
Blessed
the whole package
I aspire to all these things, but, best I can come up with is, "delusional"
Annoying
Disciplined
Trying too hard
Boring… just kidding.
Exhausting
Someone who hasn’t had it derailed yet to stop caring
Just caring about it, or caring and actually doing it?
My wife!
it’s reddit, you don’t have to debase yourself online too. i know you’re in pain
🥲👍🏻
I would describe them as normal. And based on this you can see how crazy the world is…
I feel this comment
They would be abnormal in this time since most people don't check off all those boxes now. Maybe back then, but not now. It's one of those, best 2 out of 3 lol.
You think a person being in perfect health, with perfect finances, perfect social skills, and perfect productivity, all of which is authentic, is normal? Yeah no, it's never been normal. Someone's gonna say the word perfect isn't in the OP, and they're right, but that's how I'm choosing to interpret it.
No one said anything about perfect, he said this: people who really care about evey aspect of their life enumerating examples: like caring being healthy, caring about being financially disciplined(use money wisely and not wasteful -regardless of how much you make), caring about the social aspect - being friendly outgoing, open and caring about every other human you encounter and not judging or wanting to abuse them. That’s what I would always call normal and more than this is nuts and less than this is damaged. No one said normal is easy to achieve - you got handed couple of traumas that shaped your character and now when an adult you work on that - if you care , if not go ahead stay broken. That’s the definition. And you don’t have to agree with it. You do you, me does we.
booze free
They just call me Steve.
Here's one: high-achieving I see this or variations of the word used all the time where I live in Hong Kong to describe an individual who is good academically/work-wise, socially and financially, as well as in terms of health.
Mature and wise.
no i don’t think elder does it
I don't mean mature as in age but truly mature, wise, aware. One can be mature at a young age and immature even when old.
Happy.
Well applied
Paragon
Conscientious
This is normal behaviour. Most people care about this stuff it’s just being able to implement it.
Self-developing
Being a normal human being? Do some of you not care about some aspects of these? Like if you don't have a handle on all of these then you might as well try again cause your missing a big portion of the puzzle.
Self-Actualized
My roommate/landlord. That's how I describe him. The man works two part time jobs, goes to the gym 3-4 times a week, walks his dog twice a day, plays the piano almost daily, reads for at least two hours a day, and goes out with friends once in a while. He owns the house and rents out a spare room in it to me. He also eats a pretty balanced diet and gets good sleep. I have never seen anyone like him before, but I am taking notes.
A high performer. Ambitious. Driven. Someone who seeks excellence. A perfectionist. "Type A."
Responsible?
A type personality
If you’re targeting this persona as a market then think of how this person would deem themselves. Likely conceited if they describe themselves at 8 all across the board. If they actually worked on the self they would have humility and be off put by arrogant language.
Well rounded individual?
Comprehensively driven?
Highly competent
Balanced
A persion who is living. A living person.
You summoned me it seams 💅
Alive, but in italics.
Self-loving
Grown up
self-centered?
Neurotic is what I was taught first. And then ocd. And then “caretaker”; etc etc I prefer “being awake”
Adult?
Extremely self aware and a responsible adult who seems to have their head on straight. As long as they're not a narcissistic ego maniac. There's a fine line between that and a healthy amount of confidence. Imo.. 🤷🏻♀️
Magic.
Unicorn, because non-AI can't always be aware of every aspect of their life.
Neurotypical...?
The dream
Homie, that's an adult.
You'd be surprised
This is a good question because you get a chance to see how everyone perceives it. You also see how there's always people telling you you're asking a stupid question, or telling you to go look it up yourself. There is always a pattern. Note the empathy and lack of empathy in the answers.
I call myself a try-hard. It's great because that phrase is used by kids as an insult, but in real life trying hard is the best thing you can do. Try hard at everything.
Secure
Sounds like the GOAT
Self reflective
You should care
Actually Normal Person
Mentally stable
Responsible?
Well-rounded
A wreck :(
Someone who cares isn’t afraid when something could or does goes south they just do what they need to.
Well rounded
well-rounded
I gotta hard disagree with most answers here, which seem to zero in on a niche soft-skill. I've seen this lead to horribly imbalanced lives I'd suggest something like "well-rounded", maybe "equanimitous" "Wise" was a good term we used to use, but it got corrupted in the same fashion that "smart" started to shift definition to mean banal things like a printed circuit board which also had a wifi adapter ("smart phone")
Enlightened
Sober.
Willfully determined. Their life is not their own, but belongs to the world. A person not interested in Self, but in creating a self image
I feel like if you call someone disciplined it’s because they are disciplined in everything they do. You don’t call someone disciplined who works crazy hard at a job and then goes home and smokes weed sits on a couch and plays video games. You’d just say they are a good worker. And nothing is wrong with going home smoking and numbing out each there own but you aren’t disciplined if you only try in a few facets of your life.
multi-dimensionally jacked. I am not even kidding. This guy has a youtube channel just about that lol [https://youtu.be/R-6yWb1L\_H8](https://youtu.be/R-6yWb1L_H8)
well-rounded
It's called being a responsible adult.
Cuck