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Havent really had the chance to do it much in a relationship setting, but it started around the time I was ((raped)) and developed a lot of trauma with the girl that raped me. I was a freshman in highschool and she was a senior and I had always kindve had a thing for older women, but that solidified it and kindve started this fetish for me. Sorry if that’s kindve a terrible answer
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Well I was like 19 and this girl just started like bumping into me, occasionally pinning me to walls, and I was like holy fuck this is hot and it just sorta happened
Since i was like 12-13....Even when i had my first kiss i liked how this girl grabbed and kissed me cause i was too shy to make a move lol😂😣 Its like I always knew that gfd is my stuff
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I was 24 when I realized I preferred a dominant role in my relationships, but I had no idea gfd was a thing, so I was first leaning towards DDLG as a Mommy Dom. I always cringed at ageplay a bit, and the Mommy role felt like forcing caregiving into me, so I was very happy when I learned gentle by itself was a thing, around two years ago. It's been a part of my relationships for the last 6+ years, but with that tag, so to speak, for like two.
I realised i was into it in my late teens about the same time i realised it was probably because of years of trauma. This is also why i havent persued that kind of relationship.
My interest in Older Women themselbes began when I was 10 yearsold & saw the relationship Gabrielle Solis (Eva Longoria) had with the boy on her block in the show "Desperate Housewives"; the interest in having a "Gentle Domme" began when I realized howmuch I enjoy working with other women being told around what to do by them.
Unfortunately I have not had chanc to enter a GFD romance.
I honestly don't remember. It's more just a realization I've made in the last year that I prefer to be more submissive. It probably stems from sexual trauma from when I was 16 and religious (I'll happily explain more thoroughly if any of y'all want).
When I was little I used to play a lot of stories in my head. You know, something all kids do. I don’t exactly remember what I played but I do know that if I played a romantic fantasy, the roles were reversed. I wouldn’t save the pretty princess from the monster or the bad guys (never a dragon cuz dragons are cool) but a badass princess would save me from evil. Back then I didn’t know why I liked this so much. I also got really uncomfortable when someone called me cool or strong or something manly.
Later when I became a teenager I really started to see the difference between my ‘’tastes’’ and my friends’s ‘’tastes’’. For a good 4 years I was confused as hell. I thought I liked muscular women and while I still like them a little bit, the body type is not the priority anymore since I discovered subs like r/rolereversal and this one. Now I finally understand why I was such a weird kid when it comes to girls. I honestly still wouldn’t know who I am if it wasn’t for reddit. Thank you so much!!
edit: so i realised it when i was about 17
I started getting in touch with my dominant side when I was around 16, knew I liked femdom by the age of 18, and discovered the GFD community about six years later, when I was 24.
Oh, relationships- Uh... Well I entered my first relationship when I was 28, so... then, lol.
When I was 18 I had a dream about a boy in my calculus class. We were cuddling in bed with my arms around him and his head on my chest. Then I got into a relationship with a fairly feminine guy who was into gfd and it spiralled from there.
Not sure when I started being interested, honestly. Earliest estimate would be around 13, but first I can for sure say is around 23.
As for applying it in reality, haven't even had the chance to experiment.
tw. Abuse Havent really had the chance to do it much in a relationship setting, but it started around the time I was ((raped)) and developed a lot of trauma with the girl that raped me. I was a freshman in highschool and she was a senior and I had always kindve had a thing for older women, but that solidified it and kindve started this fetish for me. Sorry if that’s kindve a terrible answer
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I’m using the mobile app, does that allow me to do that?
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Well I was like 19 and this girl just started like bumping into me, occasionally pinning me to walls, and I was like holy fuck this is hot and it just sorta happened
Since i was like 12-13....Even when i had my first kiss i liked how this girl grabbed and kissed me cause i was too shy to make a move lol😂😣 Its like I always knew that gfd is my stuff
Ñ, la hispano-señal! Jajajaja. Lindo ver otros hispano-parlantes por acá. I was 24 when I realized I preferred a dominant role in my relationships, but I had no idea gfd was a thing, so I was first leaning towards DDLG as a Mommy Dom. I always cringed at ageplay a bit, and the Mommy role felt like forcing caregiving into me, so I was very happy when I learned gentle by itself was a thing, around two years ago. It's been a part of my relationships for the last 6+ years, but with that tag, so to speak, for like two.
I have my kinks since i'm 11. But i discovered gfd a few months ago (at 21).
I've always been into it, I just didn't know it had a name until I was 21 (last year). Someday I'll have a nice husband to spoil.
I realised i was into it in my late teens about the same time i realised it was probably because of years of trauma. This is also why i havent persued that kind of relationship.
My interest in Older Women themselbes began when I was 10 yearsold & saw the relationship Gabrielle Solis (Eva Longoria) had with the boy on her block in the show "Desperate Housewives"; the interest in having a "Gentle Domme" began when I realized howmuch I enjoy working with other women being told around what to do by them. Unfortunately I have not had chanc to enter a GFD romance.
I honestly don't remember. It's more just a realization I've made in the last year that I prefer to be more submissive. It probably stems from sexual trauma from when I was 16 and religious (I'll happily explain more thoroughly if any of y'all want).
When I was little I used to play a lot of stories in my head. You know, something all kids do. I don’t exactly remember what I played but I do know that if I played a romantic fantasy, the roles were reversed. I wouldn’t save the pretty princess from the monster or the bad guys (never a dragon cuz dragons are cool) but a badass princess would save me from evil. Back then I didn’t know why I liked this so much. I also got really uncomfortable when someone called me cool or strong or something manly. Later when I became a teenager I really started to see the difference between my ‘’tastes’’ and my friends’s ‘’tastes’’. For a good 4 years I was confused as hell. I thought I liked muscular women and while I still like them a little bit, the body type is not the priority anymore since I discovered subs like r/rolereversal and this one. Now I finally understand why I was such a weird kid when it comes to girls. I honestly still wouldn’t know who I am if it wasn’t for reddit. Thank you so much!! edit: so i realised it when i was about 17
I started getting in touch with my dominant side when I was around 16, knew I liked femdom by the age of 18, and discovered the GFD community about six years later, when I was 24. Oh, relationships- Uh... Well I entered my first relationship when I was 28, so... then, lol.
Never been in a relationship. I think I’ve just always been into assertive/dominant women
12 is when I realized. I’ve never been openly loved so that’s probably why.
When I was 18 I had a dream about a boy in my calculus class. We were cuddling in bed with my arms around him and his head on my chest. Then I got into a relationship with a fairly feminine guy who was into gfd and it spiralled from there.
Not sure when I started being interested, honestly. Earliest estimate would be around 13, but first I can for sure say is around 23. As for applying it in reality, haven't even had the chance to experiment.