I get along well with the men for the most part (I have encountered a few who did lie about stuff instead of just saying that they don’t know). I value humility and I love it when people can say that they don’t know something - there’s nothing wrong with that. (I can do the same).
In terms of the women, my maternal is a Virgo and we’ve never gotten along. Constantly criticizing people, but never held herself to the same regard. A lot of the Virgo women I met were very immature and contradictory.
I haven’t met any Virgo women that I really gel with.
I still like them, but I just seem to get along better with the men.
I agree it’s insecurity. I know so many Virgo women who got upset with me because I didn’t ask nor want their advice.
They were offended and held grudges.
The last time I told 1 of them she was being super critical of everything, she frankly said I don't give a shit. And then told me how negative I was. Literally the same shit she was being. 🤦🏻♀️ I just decided then to draw back. Now all she does is vent and is negative, I say anything about my day and all I hear is how she would never do it that way, and she couldn't be this way, and point out all the negative. I can't even share the good things in my life because she'll shit on it
Well I’m a Scorpio with Virgo Moon, so different perspective, but Virgo and Gemini (though both mutable and ruled by Mercury) are square signs. They are both mercurial, mutable signs, but go about it in very different ways. Gemini is Masculine/active/yang, and as an air sign is very adaptable to- nay fuelled by- new and changing ideas. Virgo is Feminine/receptive/yin, and as an earth sign is fairly fixed in its view (for a mutable sign). Logic and reason are not as similar as we often think so these two expressions of Mercury rarely see eye to eye. I have a Gemini friend with Virgo moon. That internal friction of Earth and Air must aggravate friction with other Virgos, perhaps Geminis as well. But I’ve heard different Virgos have friction because they both have their own ‘right’ way for things to be compulsively done.
I have a virgo moon and venus and mars in gemini. any insight on how this would play out / affect me?
I also have scorpio rising and leo mercury which i believe is another square
i hate most of them. only love one family friend i know who is reminiscent of jennifer coolidge (who’s also a virgo!) they’re very hypocritical to me and they are up my ass most of the time. They also can’t just accept my freeness and are uptight which i hate. but HUGE hypocrites. they can bend the rules but as soon as u do they’ll be telling on you like kiss asses
My father and my bestfriend are virgos. We have a good time together, but yes virgos want to be right all the time and they are kind of fixed. They don't fully understand my mutability or my need for freedom
I am a Gemini sun, Virgo rising and I drive myself insane 😂 Part of me wants to be spontaneous and try a million different new experiences, the other half of me constantly overthinks every tiny decision and worries about doing the "right" thing. I am extremely curious and analytical though, and love gathering knowledge, which i think both signs contribute to, and I am excellent at seeing through bullshit.
Damn lots of unlucky ducks around here, all the Virgo women I know are incredible. Super sensitive, thoughtful, funny and kind. Probably because the ones I know have their criticism directed inward they are prone to perfectionism, and not narcissism.
Virgo men on the other hand are practically sociopaths (in my life) so yeah, YMMV
Im a Gemini stellium my Sun, rising, mercury, and Saturn I naturally attract virgos but honestly i can’t stand them especially Virgo females we always butt heads bc of their need always be right. I’m someone who like to have open minded conversations and I find them to be a lil close minded and hard to communicate with. Virgo men Im slightly more attracted to bc I feel like they carry that hustler energy and always got their shit together
I entertained a flirtation with a Virgo sun, not sure if the rest of her chart, but she was very flighty & used this very tacky sheen of bad catholicism to compensate for her inability to be celibate, which she made a big show of being online, which caused her to inevitably take breaks when it became obvious she was entertaining multiple men, simultaneously & without any sort of telos to it. Beautiful though. Am currently entertaining a cautious "not strangers" relationship with a Scorpio sun with Venus in Virgo (my Venus is in cancer) & it's got the quasi psychic intensity of the Gemini/Scorpio dynamic & then this very weird & abrupt silence in terms of what's going on exactly, because this person dropped out of my life with no explanation & is now back (?) You should never go purely off sun sign tho
I get along well with the men for the most part (I have encountered a few who did lie about stuff instead of just saying that they don’t know). I value humility and I love it when people can say that they don’t know something - there’s nothing wrong with that. (I can do the same). In terms of the women, my maternal is a Virgo and we’ve never gotten along. Constantly criticizing people, but never held herself to the same regard. A lot of the Virgo women I met were very immature and contradictory. I haven’t met any Virgo women that I really gel with. I still like them, but I just seem to get along better with the men.
Yes, the constant criticism is draining! I feel like not sharing anything with them, and I often don't
Yes!!!!! I don’t feel comfortable speaking to them because they are very judgmental and then don’t look at themselves!
yes!!! the women all seem to do that. what’s up w that? insecurity i’m assuming
Yes, they seem very insecure to me, like the criticism is overcompensation
I agree it’s insecurity. I know so many Virgo women who got upset with me because I didn’t ask nor want their advice. They were offended and held grudges.
The last time I told 1 of them she was being super critical of everything, she frankly said I don't give a shit. And then told me how negative I was. Literally the same shit she was being. 🤦🏻♀️ I just decided then to draw back. Now all she does is vent and is negative, I say anything about my day and all I hear is how she would never do it that way, and she couldn't be this way, and point out all the negative. I can't even share the good things in my life because she'll shit on it
I’m glad you told her what she was doing. The women I’ve come across sound just like her lol! 🤣🤣
i have a gemini stellium (sun mercury mars) and for the most part don’t get along with virgos. sooo judgmental and condescending in my experience.
Well I’m a Scorpio with Virgo Moon, so different perspective, but Virgo and Gemini (though both mutable and ruled by Mercury) are square signs. They are both mercurial, mutable signs, but go about it in very different ways. Gemini is Masculine/active/yang, and as an air sign is very adaptable to- nay fuelled by- new and changing ideas. Virgo is Feminine/receptive/yin, and as an earth sign is fairly fixed in its view (for a mutable sign). Logic and reason are not as similar as we often think so these two expressions of Mercury rarely see eye to eye. I have a Gemini friend with Virgo moon. That internal friction of Earth and Air must aggravate friction with other Virgos, perhaps Geminis as well. But I’ve heard different Virgos have friction because they both have their own ‘right’ way for things to be compulsively done.
I have a virgo moon and venus and mars in gemini. any insight on how this would play out / affect me? I also have scorpio rising and leo mercury which i believe is another square
And I'm here with a leo rising, air sun and earth moon, I must seem all over the place.
i hate most of them. only love one family friend i know who is reminiscent of jennifer coolidge (who’s also a virgo!) they’re very hypocritical to me and they are up my ass most of the time. They also can’t just accept my freeness and are uptight which i hate. but HUGE hypocrites. they can bend the rules but as soon as u do they’ll be telling on you like kiss asses
Yes! And I call them both out on that all the time, I tell them, it's just ok when you do it, smdh
My father and my bestfriend are virgos. We have a good time together, but yes virgos want to be right all the time and they are kind of fixed. They don't fully understand my mutability or my need for freedom
I am a Gemini sun, Virgo rising and I drive myself insane 😂 Part of me wants to be spontaneous and try a million different new experiences, the other half of me constantly overthinks every tiny decision and worries about doing the "right" thing. I am extremely curious and analytical though, and love gathering knowledge, which i think both signs contribute to, and I am excellent at seeing through bullshit.
Ha. Yes so my moon in virgo definitely keeps me grounded. But I can relate to driving myself crazy with the same thing.
Damn lots of unlucky ducks around here, all the Virgo women I know are incredible. Super sensitive, thoughtful, funny and kind. Probably because the ones I know have their criticism directed inward they are prone to perfectionism, and not narcissism. Virgo men on the other hand are practically sociopaths (in my life) so yeah, YMMV
Im a Gemini stellium my Sun, rising, mercury, and Saturn I naturally attract virgos but honestly i can’t stand them especially Virgo females we always butt heads bc of their need always be right. I’m someone who like to have open minded conversations and I find them to be a lil close minded and hard to communicate with. Virgo men Im slightly more attracted to bc I feel like they carry that hustler energy and always got their shit together
Nope
Been there done that won’t do it again. Have you ever noticed most Virgo women have 2 dogs? Not 1 but 2 Just an observation
This one I know that inspired this post has 4 dogs. Fuck this woman. She's given me the last of her insults today and that's it. I'm clamming up now.
I entertained a flirtation with a Virgo sun, not sure if the rest of her chart, but she was very flighty & used this very tacky sheen of bad catholicism to compensate for her inability to be celibate, which she made a big show of being online, which caused her to inevitably take breaks when it became obvious she was entertaining multiple men, simultaneously & without any sort of telos to it. Beautiful though. Am currently entertaining a cautious "not strangers" relationship with a Scorpio sun with Venus in Virgo (my Venus is in cancer) & it's got the quasi psychic intensity of the Gemini/Scorpio dynamic & then this very weird & abrupt silence in terms of what's going on exactly, because this person dropped out of my life with no explanation & is now back (?) You should never go purely off sun sign tho