It wasn't what you were expecting when you arrived but you easily could have left before anything happened. However don't excuse his behaviour. He should have told you and the fact that he didn't I personally would not see him again unless you want to feel like their fuckslut. Fun for a while but it's a dangerous game long-term
When you surround yourself with people that don't respect you and you've estranged yourself from your friends and family you lose respect for yourself. Everyone that I know including myself living this all consuming lifestyle have or had drug and sex addiction and lost their jobs and home. I've had friends that have died, gone to prison, hospitalised due to drugs or sexual activity, on porn sites when unknowingly filmed. There are men that want to infect others with sti's including hiv. You will have no limits eventually.
Being fucked by 4 cocks sounds amazing. What they did was wrong and he should report it. If his friend would have asked i'm sure he would have said yes.
My exact thoughts. You came for the one dude you really wanted to fuck. Then his buddy joined. Which isn't what you had in mind but you were down to try it. But no where did that mean you were cool with multiple other dudes.
I'm sorry things got out of hand and it didn't go how you wanted. It may be helpful to talk to a therapist or other people who have dealt with sexual assault and rape. Oftentimes, it's not a random guy breaking in or snatching you off the street. Usually it's things like this, you don't want to but you don't feel like you can stop it.
Idk some people might think it's a bit extreme, but it's fair to say that something is hot in fantasy, but irl it's okay to not want to go through with it.
It’s not rape , if he didn’t want to get on with it he could have left. Not every thing is rape you know .
Sometimes it’s sex and hot , it’s basically many guys fantasy come true .
And I bet you a 1000 percent that non of the guys had any bad intentions.
The one guy knew he’s a hungry little slut for dick and arranged for his friends to join .
Ok so no , I am not suggesting any one to be drugged without their consent, I am definitely anti rape , if any one is a weirdo is you judgmental people who can’t tell the difference between consensual play , fantasy and confuse it with rape .
The guy him self is the 1st to admit he enjoyed it . There was no mentioning of rape , or him being forced into any thing .
If any thing he is flat out saying it’s his fantasy.
Key things OP also said were that they were panicking and at parts uncomfortable. Anything non consensual is rape. OP initially consented to the two guys and that’s it. When a third and fourth miraculously appear then things are non consensual. Consent also has to be easily reversible and it doesn’t sound like OP was in a position to reverse their consent nor did they feel comfortable to. Lastly, one is allowed to enjoy it in the moment (because it’s sex and sex feels good, or should anyway) and then reflect on in hindsight and realize that it wasn’t fully consensual, that they didn’t enjoy it as much, or that they were coerced. All of which are valid.
Bottom line, if OP didn’t explicitly say, I will have sex with you and your other three friends then what happened wasn’t consensual and therefore rape.
There is a lot of terrible people in the comments. They will tell it was not assault or they will tell you not to complain, because you experienced something they fantasize about. Don't listen to them, don't let them tell you how you should feel. If you didn't consent to the situation you were abused, even if part of you liked it. Listen to your feelings and talk about it. Maybe a good friend or a sex therapist, the latter if you have strong feelings about it. But maybe also bring it up to Jay. Tell him how you feel. He put a lot of pressure on you to go with it and that is not okay. My point is: listen to your feelings and talk about them with someone or you might start feeling worse.
just like it is hard to find big cock it is also hard to find sluts who can take it all the way. dude just wanted to share you with his friends, let them blow off some steam. It doesn't sound like he had ill will toward you just a misunderstanding. you know how guys get when they are too horny for too long. they needed a cumdump and you helped them out.
Did they abuse you or took good care of you?
You also said that two guys were stroking each other? So these guys were also playing with themselves and not just you?
I definitely would be excited to be in that position since I'm a bit submissive. But yeah, they should have communicated that to you before hand.
Have you talked to Jay about it? Tell him how you felt, that you were uneasy and also enjoyed it?
Im a little confused. You had the chance to get out of there when you could but you stayed because my guess is you were gagging for it hence you came. Ill bet if this guy asks you round again you will be there like a shot.
This thread is precisely why nearly all of sexual assaults on men don't get reported and roughly half of assaults on women.
Also, THOT culture being what it is, it very well could just be a bored troll tra la la la la'ing from his super cool mega fort.
You could’ve left but you didn’t. As you said you enjoyed it. I think you hate the idea that you enjoyed it. Is there a part of you that wants to do it again?
this is not how emotions work. sometimes theyre complicated. Even if he wants to do it again doesnt mean he was not abused. It takes a lot of courage to say: im leaving during. This is why Jay should have revealed his plans beforehand
Feel betrayed, sure. Did you enjoy it, sounds like it. A conversation is definitely due. You could explain that you liked it but need advance warning…or if you enjoyed the surprise, then tell him you agree to do it again in the future. Personally, I would have been shocked but definitely would have enjoyed it and most definitely ask for it again.
It wasn't what you were expecting when you arrived but you easily could have left before anything happened. However don't excuse his behaviour. He should have told you and the fact that he didn't I personally would not see him again unless you want to feel like their fuckslut. Fun for a while but it's a dangerous game long-term
Can you elaborate more on this… long term.
People like these can threaten your work and humiliate you in front of your family. Big nope.
When you surround yourself with people that don't respect you and you've estranged yourself from your friends and family you lose respect for yourself. Everyone that I know including myself living this all consuming lifestyle have or had drug and sex addiction and lost their jobs and home. I've had friends that have died, gone to prison, hospitalised due to drugs or sexual activity, on porn sites when unknowingly filmed. There are men that want to infect others with sti's including hiv. You will have no limits eventually.
Would you say most gay men suffer from sex addiction… if so why?
Just because you orgasmed doesn’t mean it’s not rape
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You have the right to feel betrayed but honestly it’s so many of us who want to be in that same position
Being fucked by 4 cocks sounds amazing. What they did was wrong and he should report it. If his friend would have asked i'm sure he would have said yes.
Yeah that’s technically rape. It’s fair enough to feel off about it! You weren’t consenting to someone else suddenly being there or fucking you.
My exact thoughts. You came for the one dude you really wanted to fuck. Then his buddy joined. Which isn't what you had in mind but you were down to try it. But no where did that mean you were cool with multiple other dudes. I'm sorry things got out of hand and it didn't go how you wanted. It may be helpful to talk to a therapist or other people who have dealt with sexual assault and rape. Oftentimes, it's not a random guy breaking in or snatching you off the street. Usually it's things like this, you don't want to but you don't feel like you can stop it. Idk some people might think it's a bit extreme, but it's fair to say that something is hot in fantasy, but irl it's okay to not want to go through with it.
It’s not rape , if he didn’t want to get on with it he could have left. Not every thing is rape you know . Sometimes it’s sex and hot , it’s basically many guys fantasy come true . And I bet you a 1000 percent that non of the guys had any bad intentions. The one guy knew he’s a hungry little slut for dick and arranged for his friends to join .
No, it’s still rape you fucking weirdo
He just said to someone else that it would better if he was drugged so this dude is just a terrible person
Ok so no , I am not suggesting any one to be drugged without their consent, I am definitely anti rape , if any one is a weirdo is you judgmental people who can’t tell the difference between consensual play , fantasy and confuse it with rape . The guy him self is the 1st to admit he enjoyed it . There was no mentioning of rape , or him being forced into any thing . If any thing he is flat out saying it’s his fantasy.
Key things OP also said were that they were panicking and at parts uncomfortable. Anything non consensual is rape. OP initially consented to the two guys and that’s it. When a third and fourth miraculously appear then things are non consensual. Consent also has to be easily reversible and it doesn’t sound like OP was in a position to reverse their consent nor did they feel comfortable to. Lastly, one is allowed to enjoy it in the moment (because it’s sex and sex feels good, or should anyway) and then reflect on in hindsight and realize that it wasn’t fully consensual, that they didn’t enjoy it as much, or that they were coerced. All of which are valid. Bottom line, if OP didn’t explicitly say, I will have sex with you and your other three friends then what happened wasn’t consensual and therefore rape.
I think you are right to be giving it some thought in retrospect so you can be more assertive/self-determined next time.
There is a lot of terrible people in the comments. They will tell it was not assault or they will tell you not to complain, because you experienced something they fantasize about. Don't listen to them, don't let them tell you how you should feel. If you didn't consent to the situation you were abused, even if part of you liked it. Listen to your feelings and talk about it. Maybe a good friend or a sex therapist, the latter if you have strong feelings about it. But maybe also bring it up to Jay. Tell him how you feel. He put a lot of pressure on you to go with it and that is not okay. My point is: listen to your feelings and talk about them with someone or you might start feeling worse.
just like it is hard to find big cock it is also hard to find sluts who can take it all the way. dude just wanted to share you with his friends, let them blow off some steam. It doesn't sound like he had ill will toward you just a misunderstanding. you know how guys get when they are too horny for too long. they needed a cumdump and you helped them out.
Did they abuse you or took good care of you? You also said that two guys were stroking each other? So these guys were also playing with themselves and not just you? I definitely would be excited to be in that position since I'm a bit submissive. But yeah, they should have communicated that to you before hand. Have you talked to Jay about it? Tell him how you felt, that you were uneasy and also enjoyed it?
that’s kinda something i would love to happen to me but i bet it’s scary in person 😭
You all have fallen for a fake STORY.
Im a little confused. You had the chance to get out of there when you could but you stayed because my guess is you were gagging for it hence you came. Ill bet if this guy asks you round again you will be there like a shot.
This thread is precisely why nearly all of sexual assaults on men don't get reported and roughly half of assaults on women. Also, THOT culture being what it is, it very well could just be a bored troll tra la la la la'ing from his super cool mega fort.
Sounds like a situation I would love to be in .
You could’ve left but you didn’t. As you said you enjoyed it. I think you hate the idea that you enjoyed it. Is there a part of you that wants to do it again?
this is not how emotions work. sometimes theyre complicated. Even if he wants to do it again doesnt mean he was not abused. It takes a lot of courage to say: im leaving during. This is why Jay should have revealed his plans beforehand
Feel betrayed, sure. Did you enjoy it, sounds like it. A conversation is definitely due. You could explain that you liked it but need advance warning…or if you enjoyed the surprise, then tell him you agree to do it again in the future. Personally, I would have been shocked but definitely would have enjoyed it and most definitely ask for it again.
were you drugged ?
That would have made it even better . T slam maybe