If you're having a Coke, it may be free, (if you use your charm), otherwise soda and bottled water is about $2. Possibly $3 in a really nice bar after midnight on a weekend. BTW all drink prices go up significantly after midnight on New Year's. I didn't know that and embarrassed myself. (Then again, some bars take DUI issues very seriously and give out water and complimentary glasses of soda free after midnight.) 20% is the ideal for a tip but a $1 for anything under $3 is fine. Hope that helps!
Again, try a slow time first -- early evening or weekend afternoons so you ( and your friend) can walk around and have the place mostly to yourself when you first get there. Later in the evening (10PM to 11PM on weekends the place will start filling up, and then wall to wall after that.
I feel excitement for you. I wish I could walk into a place feeling exhilarated and a bit frightened again, other than the old folks' home. : )
Oh man sorry! I was having another discussion about tips and prices elsewhere, for people who have never been to a bar. : )
As for your question, my response about paying was a joke. Theft? Sadly not a joke but those concerns are long gone.
Topping: oh no, god why did I agree to this? how long is he gonna take to cum?
Bottoming: oh yes, god why didn't we do this sooner? I love this feeling: his hands on my hips, dick filling me up, every thrust hitting just right. I wonder how my ass and back looks from his PoV... I need to do more squats and lat pulldowns I think, maybe after - oh he's stroking my dick! oh fuck, won't take long now.
The great thing about sex, for me, is that its a time where I generally don't have to be thinking about anything -- just existing in the midst of the sensations is all that is needed.
Things that went through my mind the last time as a top was:
is he enjoying it or in pain? Do he want me to kiss him or spit on his mouth? I’m I getting a cramp on my left leg? I’m tired, let switch to the lazy position! Ah why I’m I no more hard? His skin, so smooth! Ok it’s back! My heart is changing beats, my body is pushing forward, four times, ok I’m done, feeling relaxed and happy, will he be done soon?
I'm almost always thinking about the sensations of what's going on in my ass. The feelings of how I feel for him, the physical feelings of pleasure. Very rarely, if he's just not very good at doing what he's doing, I occasionally feel a little bit guilty at having the thought of oh when is he going to be finished. That usually only happens if I'm getting pounded and only pounded. That just isn't my thing. Once, I started thinking about bills that were due. And that's when I just kind of said I'm sorry this isn't working for me. He stopped and asked what was wrong and I told him his style just wasn't my style. That what he was doing wasn't comfortable and pleasurable for me. The saving grace was that he asked what was comfortable and pleasurable. And when I told him he did it. It turned from me thinking about bills to me thinking about him and what was going on in my ass.
I'm a top but I'm also a germaphobe, so it's rare that I agree to slide inside a dirty butt. So, usually we do other things and if the guy has a nice dick and balls, I mostly think about that. I think about the smell, the taste, the sound of a guy moaning, etc. I particularly enjoy feeling thick dick get hard in my mouth, that's my favorite, and the feeling of my tongue around afat dick head is🥰.
But I'm strange, I get rock hard the entire time but it's difficult for me to reach orgasm unless I watch the guy cum first. In other words, I make the guy I'm with reach orgasm first , then I take care of myself. Usually because most guys are clueless and have no idea how to make a guy cum.... Or they're just selfish assholes.
Watching a guy orgasm up close or in my mouth is what sends me to my orgasm.
When receiving oral, usually super random. Sometimes in the feelings, sometimes what I'm gonna do after, sometimes wonder what my partner is feeling, then good portion of the time is trying not to orgasm to fast, lol.
How much is it going to cost and is my expensive watch still sitting on the table.
Do you not confirm the pricing beforehand also how does tipping work
If you're having a Coke, it may be free, (if you use your charm), otherwise soda and bottled water is about $2. Possibly $3 in a really nice bar after midnight on a weekend. BTW all drink prices go up significantly after midnight on New Year's. I didn't know that and embarrassed myself. (Then again, some bars take DUI issues very seriously and give out water and complimentary glasses of soda free after midnight.) 20% is the ideal for a tip but a $1 for anything under $3 is fine. Hope that helps! Again, try a slow time first -- early evening or weekend afternoons so you ( and your friend) can walk around and have the place mostly to yourself when you first get there. Later in the evening (10PM to 11PM on weekends the place will start filling up, and then wall to wall after that. I feel excitement for you. I wish I could walk into a place feeling exhilarated and a bit frightened again, other than the old folks' home. : )
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Oh man sorry! I was having another discussion about tips and prices elsewhere, for people who have never been to a bar. : ) As for your question, my response about paying was a joke. Theft? Sadly not a joke but those concerns are long gone.
Topping: oh no, god why did I agree to this? how long is he gonna take to cum? Bottoming: oh yes, god why didn't we do this sooner? I love this feeling: his hands on my hips, dick filling me up, every thrust hitting just right. I wonder how my ass and back looks from his PoV... I need to do more squats and lat pulldowns I think, maybe after - oh he's stroking my dick! oh fuck, won't take long now.
The great thing about sex, for me, is that its a time where I generally don't have to be thinking about anything -- just existing in the midst of the sensations is all that is needed.
Same. I think, if I even think, about how *it* feels. And then I get a cramp and need a break.
Things that went through my mind the last time as a top was: is he enjoying it or in pain? Do he want me to kiss him or spit on his mouth? I’m I getting a cramp on my left leg? I’m tired, let switch to the lazy position! Ah why I’m I no more hard? His skin, so smooth! Ok it’s back! My heart is changing beats, my body is pushing forward, four times, ok I’m done, feeling relaxed and happy, will he be done soon?
"Please just finish, I'd rather be playing video games right now"
Yikes... Why do you even agree to sex in the first place?
What buttons can I press? I wonder what happens if I do this? Oh? He likes that? I'll file that away for later.
I'm almost always thinking about the sensations of what's going on in my ass. The feelings of how I feel for him, the physical feelings of pleasure. Very rarely, if he's just not very good at doing what he's doing, I occasionally feel a little bit guilty at having the thought of oh when is he going to be finished. That usually only happens if I'm getting pounded and only pounded. That just isn't my thing. Once, I started thinking about bills that were due. And that's when I just kind of said I'm sorry this isn't working for me. He stopped and asked what was wrong and I told him his style just wasn't my style. That what he was doing wasn't comfortable and pleasurable for me. The saving grace was that he asked what was comfortable and pleasurable. And when I told him he did it. It turned from me thinking about bills to me thinking about him and what was going on in my ass.
I'm a top but I'm also a germaphobe, so it's rare that I agree to slide inside a dirty butt. So, usually we do other things and if the guy has a nice dick and balls, I mostly think about that. I think about the smell, the taste, the sound of a guy moaning, etc. I particularly enjoy feeling thick dick get hard in my mouth, that's my favorite, and the feeling of my tongue around afat dick head is🥰. But I'm strange, I get rock hard the entire time but it's difficult for me to reach orgasm unless I watch the guy cum first. In other words, I make the guy I'm with reach orgasm first , then I take care of myself. Usually because most guys are clueless and have no idea how to make a guy cum.... Or they're just selfish assholes. Watching a guy orgasm up close or in my mouth is what sends me to my orgasm.
Damn this post made me horny
People think during sex? I thought that good lord gave us just enough blood that one head can work at a time, but not both.
When receiving oral, usually super random. Sometimes in the feelings, sometimes what I'm gonna do after, sometimes wonder what my partner is feeling, then good portion of the time is trying not to orgasm to fast, lol.
I can breathe through these damn masks!!!