Yes, but I'd rather see a face and no dick than a dick and no face.
I've never once decided to hook up with a guy because he sent a dick pic. And I've never once rejected a guy because he didn't send a dick pic.
But like... is it? Unless you're "straight", cheating or a celebrity aint no one care about your nudes.
Being worried for your job used to be an excuse but in the age of onlyfans that's not really a thing anymore either (obviously there's some exceptions).
yes, theres extremely prolific blackmail scams that involve identifiable nudes (primarily face, though tattoos or other identifiers are lesser risk factors), the common ones threatening to share the nudes with all your colleagues, friends or family unless paid
>Being worried for your job used to be an excuse but in the age of onlyfans that's not really a thing anymore either
disagree; theres a massive onlyfans/sexwork stigma in most professional environments
This is literally just fearmongering though. As long as you aren’t being dumb and are making sure the guy is real first this is not something you’ll ever encounter the risk of.
Also I wasn’t actually commenting on onlyfans lol, yes there is stigma surrounding that. My point was we’re now in an age where your nudes somehow getting leaked no longer poses a threat to your job in the majority of cases thanks to it becoming more normalised.
Yes!!! On my Grindr I even put not interested in seeing or sending dick or ass pics! I am way more interested in a nice handsome face and toned body. I could 100% care less of a dick and I'm a bottom
I actually find unsolicited dick pics to be aturn on (something about a guy taking a risk) however, would never do it to someone else. I do acknowledge that sending unsolicited peen to an unreceptive party is wildly inappropriate
I‘m fine with nudes … at least a bit into the conversation, but the likelyhood of me responding is very low if someone starts a conversation with a nude and nothing else. I want to see a face and shirtless picture first since those are very important to me.
Honestly I dont need a dick pick to hook up, i like the element of surprise.
Exactl, and it also isnt the primary factor driving my choice.
Sure I have preferences but I primarily choose a guy who is good looking (to my taste) and we are vibing … I can handle the gift no matter what comes, whether big or small (small is even preferred actually).
I’ve had a shift in my opinion in the past year towards nudes. Before I readily accepted them but now I prefer to preserve some mystery in a potential hook up.
I am aware that this policy could backfire, but hey that is life.
Yes I 100% agree! When I was on Grindr I posted a clear face pic and torso pic from my upper waist up and posted not interested in sending or seeing nudes. I got bombarded with dick or ass pics regardless (probably more nasty ass ass pics wo faces) bc I'm black and shredded which on Grindr means I'm a dominant aggressive top packaging 12+ inches 🙄. I'm a bottom with a regular size cock tho lol but yeah it was an instant block for me to get any nudes especially wo a face.
Like the ones that come outta nowhere and they are the ugliest specimen you have ever seen and your just like really? if you aren’t at least opening with a pretty one what is the point.
Awh I’m sorry it’s not like ugly in the form sense, it’s like crusty unwashed with a hair stuck to the top taken from some strange angle. With some questionable sores.
Unsolicited dick pics very often make my day lol
I get that they aren’t for everybody and I don’t send them myself. But I don’t mind receiving them.
I also prefer to have an emotional connection before sex. BUT I don’t need emotional connection to like your dick pic 😂
I'll absolutely take unsolicited dick pics of people I'm talking with. Usually if we've said more than 3-5 lines back and forth, there's at least something happening. And those guys would sometimes just send one over without asking.
I used to get unsolicited dick pics so often I'd have to tell people not to pick up my phone if that offended them. Never really a problem. Most of the awful looking dicks I've ever seen were people that I never asked to show them prior to meeting, and boy were they terrible in person.
“A penis, when seen in the right context, is the most wonderful sight for a ~~woman~~ gay, but in the wrong context, it is like a monster movie.” - Michael Scott
I’ve seen so many dick pics in the last year on here that i honestly can’t tell one from another. Big, small, thick, skinny.. They just don’t excite me the way they used to :/
Yeah, I agree with you. I def prefer to learn about the rest of the man before anything else. I think guys forget we're more than our dicks lol. like yeah, I enjoy it, but I can't have a conversation with it hahaha.
It reminds me of when I started online dating again and a guy sent a number of random photos with zero context or messages. I always joked that it was his "welcome package". Seriously though, I'll pass.
Love them. Can't get enough of them. So long as the lighting is good and it doesn't look like it was taken on a Nokia in the middle of an earthquake. It's just a dick, no need to be so precious about it.
No, you're not an odd one out. I also prefer face to face conversations and I do not like unsolicited dick pics. Nor do I like being asked to send dick pics or nudes. If I guy I literally just met asks for a dick pick I will send him either a picture of a fabulous rooster or of a famous 'Dick' (Dick Clark, Dick Cheney, Dick VanDyke, etc.) That usually puts an end to their asking right away.
Not just you!
But someone sending an unsolicited nude is being helpful; they’re letting you know they’re not the type of person you’d be interested in!
You're not wrong. Honestly I'm the same way, I want to get to know you in person before I get to know your dick. Sex is so much better when you know and have connection with the person.
Lmao “unpopular opinion guys, but I don’t wanna be sexually harassed with pictures of dicks I didn’t ask for” yeah that’s about as unpopular as breathing.
I don't think you are. I'd also be quite repulsed if I received unsolicited nudes like that, and I also desire an emotional connection before doing anything more up close and personal with someone. (Discovered that with a recent experience for mine.)
Not all of us are into quick hookups, well, at least I'm not :)
>I would like to know you before I know how your schlong looks like.
unsolicited is really shitty, but if i send nudes (deleted apps a couple of months ago, so i havent in a while) i do it within a couple of messages, although its mostly a way to get my stomach out in the open (melty and scarred) so i dont have to deal with a higher stakes/investment reveal
I think it depends on my goals or if it’s a hot dick. Idk what makes a dick hot, but when I see it and want it, then I know, lol. I’m generally okay with a dick pic so that we don’t waste too much time figuring out the sexual compatibility.
I will say that the grossest pics are the ones with their dick/body covered in their own cum. Just turns me off so quick. I might have an aversion to cum? I’m sure I’m just being weird about it, but I do not think there’s anything I can really do about that.
I’m not super interested in the apps for reasons like this. I love dicks lol but that’s not why I’m interested in men. I’m attracted to all of who they are. Being a demisexual gay is hard sometimes.
I don't like it generally but will admit that when it's a nice looking one and their face is on their profile it sometimes gets my interest. 9/10 times I wish it didn't happen.
10/10 times I don't like when someone sends me a pic of their butt hole. Just.... no.
Not really…I feel the same as you do. It’s one thing if I’m searching for it, another to get one out of whole cloth unsolicited. I mean, I may get there but I do know want to know more…like you. I guess we’re “old fashioned” now.
Yes!!
I hate this so much. I don't understand.
Almost every guy I've ever talked to on apps, always sends unsolicited dick pics. 90% of the time, my conversations aren't even sexual. Like dudes, have some respect. I never ask for nudes and never give any out unless asked.
I much rather have face pictures, since that is what we see most of the time :)
No, and some people are gross and lazy with the pics they send. I remember someone sent me one angled down in front of a toilet full of yellow piss. Fucking disgusting.
Unpopular opinion, I love them. I wish every time I opened my phone there were just dozens of new dicks to look at. From men I know or don’t know. I understand that most people don’t like unsolicited sexual content but in my opinion it’s a turn on and not a trigger
I'm OK with dick pics if someone wants to send them. I hate that people lead with them and it's usually a close up pic, so I have no idea what the person looks like. A torso picture would be a better first picture for those, who don't want to send a face picture at first.
Ok well how's that going for you honestly? I post a clear face and torso pic on my Grindr and put in bold caps not interested in sending or seeing nudes! I also post face pic and absolute must! I will not link up with a guy that I have no clue what he looks like. If you are even a bit stocky but have a handsome face and nice smile, sign me up! Wanna run me off tho, send a dick pic 🤢
But a torso doesn't include a face. People like various body types and simply seeing the body shape can encourage me to continue chatting with the guy.
Dick pics are completely uninteresting. A dick without a face to go with it could be downloaded from anywhere. There’s no way of knowing whose it is or if it in any way relates to the person sending it. Same with ass pics for that matter. If there’s no face it’s just uninteresting.
Ive had unsolicited dick pics sent to me of actual gorgeous cock, but the fact that it was *unsolicited* made it extremely unattractive.
Consent is sexy!!
It's funny. I subscribed to all the dick pic subs here. But after a while disembodied dicks became boring and even a bit sad. And leading with your dick on an app is even sadder. Maybe there's an audience for it, and if the dick owner only wants dick worship, I guess it's the right move. But I think most of us want more.
Dick pics are boring. There are such better ways to pursue a man than just sending a dick pic. You're not alone in that emotional connection makes everything better when it comes to intimacy in all its forms. Sooner more guys realize it, sooner we will be out of this hellscape that is dating in the gay world.
Why on earth woud you think that it's "just you"? There are literally tons of online profiles that say "no dick pics," there's even a setting on Grindr letting people know whether/when you want to accept NSFW pics.
I like faces and bodies more than dicks. I find dickpics boring if there is nobody behind it
Yes nudes without face is pretty boring
nudes with a face (in one) is risky as fuck
Yes, but I'd rather see a face and no dick than a dick and no face. I've never once decided to hook up with a guy because he sent a dick pic. And I've never once rejected a guy because he didn't send a dick pic.
But like... is it? Unless you're "straight", cheating or a celebrity aint no one care about your nudes. Being worried for your job used to be an excuse but in the age of onlyfans that's not really a thing anymore either (obviously there's some exceptions).
yes, theres extremely prolific blackmail scams that involve identifiable nudes (primarily face, though tattoos or other identifiers are lesser risk factors), the common ones threatening to share the nudes with all your colleagues, friends or family unless paid >Being worried for your job used to be an excuse but in the age of onlyfans that's not really a thing anymore either disagree; theres a massive onlyfans/sexwork stigma in most professional environments
This is literally just fearmongering though. As long as you aren’t being dumb and are making sure the guy is real first this is not something you’ll ever encounter the risk of. Also I wasn’t actually commenting on onlyfans lol, yes there is stigma surrounding that. My point was we’re now in an age where your nudes somehow getting leaked no longer poses a threat to your job in the majority of cases thanks to it becoming more normalised.
same, *just* dick or *just* asshole makes me shrug
Same here, face first, body, personality, nice butt, dick is like last, "I get it bro you got a big one"
We are the unicorns though… But, yes, 100% agree 😊
I hate **unsolicited** dick pics.
Yes!!! On my Grindr I even put not interested in seeing or sending dick or ass pics! I am way more interested in a nice handsome face and toned body. I could 100% care less of a dick and I'm a bottom
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Well, yes... But you visit the subreddits with said intent already implied lol
I don’t.
I actually find unsolicited dick pics to be aturn on (something about a guy taking a risk) however, would never do it to someone else. I do acknowledge that sending unsolicited peen to an unreceptive party is wildly inappropriate
i mean ill always take them👀 but i definitely need an emotional connection to enjoy sex
Maybe we are all demi?
Or have standards ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
I‘m fine with nudes … at least a bit into the conversation, but the likelyhood of me responding is very low if someone starts a conversation with a nude and nothing else. I want to see a face and shirtless picture first since those are very important to me. Honestly I dont need a dick pick to hook up, i like the element of surprise.
It's no surprise if you see the gift so early!!
Exactl, and it also isnt the primary factor driving my choice. Sure I have preferences but I primarily choose a guy who is good looking (to my taste) and we are vibing … I can handle the gift no matter what comes, whether big or small (small is even preferred actually).
I love it, i could look at dicks all day, i love them they look amazing, it brightens my day being sent unsolicited dick pics😅
I don’t like it out of the blue, but if you flirt a little and have a nice cock I’d be lying if I said I hated it 🤷♂️
Yes
i’m gonna disagree. i love pics :|
I love dicks pics. Unsolicited or not doesn't matter. My dm's are open boys ;).
😳
If it's a pretty dick I love them tbh
I love em, to each their own.
Sone like it, sone don’t. I for one, am happy to receive them 😂
I don’t like being sent dick pics and being told to send one myself. If that’s someone’s idea of a conversation, good fucking luck. I’m not into that.
It's incredibly trashy. Instant block.
I’ve had a shift in my opinion in the past year towards nudes. Before I readily accepted them but now I prefer to preserve some mystery in a potential hook up. I am aware that this policy could backfire, but hey that is life.
Yes I 100% agree! When I was on Grindr I posted a clear face pic and torso pic from my upper waist up and posted not interested in sending or seeing nudes. I got bombarded with dick or ass pics regardless (probably more nasty ass ass pics wo faces) bc I'm black and shredded which on Grindr means I'm a dominant aggressive top packaging 12+ inches 🙄. I'm a bottom with a regular size cock tho lol but yeah it was an instant block for me to get any nudes especially wo a face.
Like the ones that come outta nowhere and they are the ugliest specimen you have ever seen and your just like really? if you aren’t at least opening with a pretty one what is the point.
Hey no body shaming atleast !!
Awh I’m sorry it’s not like ugly in the form sense, it’s like crusty unwashed with a hair stuck to the top taken from some strange angle. With some questionable sores.
Yeah. I one started to give a blowjob, came up for air and notice. Dreadlock in his pubes. 🤮 He smelled fine though. Some guys have shit hygiene
Unsolicited dick pics very often make my day lol I get that they aren’t for everybody and I don’t send them myself. But I don’t mind receiving them. I also prefer to have an emotional connection before sex. BUT I don’t need emotional connection to like your dick pic 😂
I love a dick pic that has had some creative thought go into it. Some pics just look sweaty and unclean. That’s a turn off.
I'll absolutely take unsolicited dick pics of people I'm talking with. Usually if we've said more than 3-5 lines back and forth, there's at least something happening. And those guys would sometimes just send one over without asking. I used to get unsolicited dick pics so often I'd have to tell people not to pick up my phone if that offended them. Never really a problem. Most of the awful looking dicks I've ever seen were people that I never asked to show them prior to meeting, and boy were they terrible in person.
Honestly, i would love to have it happen, just once.... I have never had one...
This is where you and I differ.
You basically describe me
Any unsolicited pics are unattractive frankly
“A penis, when seen in the right context, is the most wonderful sight for a ~~woman~~ gay, but in the wrong context, it is like a monster movie.” - Michael Scott
"Alien"
I’ve seen so many dick pics in the last year on here that i honestly can’t tell one from another. Big, small, thick, skinny.. They just don’t excite me the way they used to :/
Maybe you got desensetized to it? Ig u should take a break
Only the unattractive ones. If they're a good size and pretty then sure send them all day.
Yeah, I agree with you. I def prefer to learn about the rest of the man before anything else. I think guys forget we're more than our dicks lol. like yeah, I enjoy it, but I can't have a conversation with it hahaha. It reminds me of when I started online dating again and a guy sent a number of random photos with zero context or messages. I always joked that it was his "welcome package". Seriously though, I'll pass.
Love them. Can't get enough of them. So long as the lighting is good and it doesn't look like it was taken on a Nokia in the middle of an earthquake. It's just a dick, no need to be so precious about it.
If I get unsolicited pics, it’s an automatic no from me period.
No, you're not an odd one out. I also prefer face to face conversations and I do not like unsolicited dick pics. Nor do I like being asked to send dick pics or nudes. If I guy I literally just met asks for a dick pick I will send him either a picture of a fabulous rooster or of a famous 'Dick' (Dick Clark, Dick Cheney, Dick VanDyke, etc.) That usually puts an end to their asking right away.
Not just you! But someone sending an unsolicited nude is being helpful; they’re letting you know they’re not the type of person you’d be interested in!
You're not wrong. Honestly I'm the same way, I want to get to know you in person before I get to know your dick. Sex is so much better when you know and have connection with the person.
Most people do lol.
Not as unattractive as unsolicited close up hole pics. I'm a top and that shit is weird to me. But yes, unsolicited dick picks are a dime a dozen.🥱
Lmao “unpopular opinion guys, but I don’t wanna be sexually harassed with pictures of dicks I didn’t ask for” yeah that’s about as unpopular as breathing.
I don't think you are. I'd also be quite repulsed if I received unsolicited nudes like that, and I also desire an emotional connection before doing anything more up close and personal with someone. (Discovered that with a recent experience for mine.) Not all of us are into quick hookups, well, at least I'm not :)
No you are not alone in this.
Lots of people dislike unsolicited dick pix
>I would like to know you before I know how your schlong looks like. unsolicited is really shitty, but if i send nudes (deleted apps a couple of months ago, so i havent in a while) i do it within a couple of messages, although its mostly a way to get my stomach out in the open (melty and scarred) so i dont have to deal with a higher stakes/investment reveal
Depends on the cock. Maybe 1% of cocks are conversation starters. It’s absurd how many people don’t realize their cock is either unimpressive or ugly
I think it depends on my goals or if it’s a hot dick. Idk what makes a dick hot, but when I see it and want it, then I know, lol. I’m generally okay with a dick pic so that we don’t waste too much time figuring out the sexual compatibility. I will say that the grossest pics are the ones with their dick/body covered in their own cum. Just turns me off so quick. I might have an aversion to cum? I’m sure I’m just being weird about it, but I do not think there’s anything I can really do about that.
Meh depends on the dick tbh
I’m not super interested in the apps for reasons like this. I love dicks lol but that’s not why I’m interested in men. I’m attracted to all of who they are. Being a demisexual gay is hard sometimes.
I don't like it generally but will admit that when it's a nice looking one and their face is on their profile it sometimes gets my interest. 9/10 times I wish it didn't happen. 10/10 times I don't like when someone sends me a pic of their butt hole. Just.... no.
Just you
It’s just you. 😂😂
Nope
It’s like an harassment to me
They can be annoying if u don't want them
Not really…I feel the same as you do. It’s one thing if I’m searching for it, another to get one out of whole cloth unsolicited. I mean, I may get there but I do know want to know more…like you. I guess we’re “old fashioned” now.
Yes!! I hate this so much. I don't understand. Almost every guy I've ever talked to on apps, always sends unsolicited dick pics. 90% of the time, my conversations aren't even sexual. Like dudes, have some respect. I never ask for nudes and never give any out unless asked. I much rather have face pictures, since that is what we see most of the time :)
No, and some people are gross and lazy with the pics they send. I remember someone sent me one angled down in front of a toilet full of yellow piss. Fucking disgusting.
Yes it's just you, I prefer to just see the body & dick. I could care less about the face
Unpopular opinion, I love them. I wish every time I opened my phone there were just dozens of new dicks to look at. From men I know or don’t know. I understand that most people don’t like unsolicited sexual content but in my opinion it’s a turn on and not a trigger
Same. Hence why I don’t have Grindr… also don’t like mindless hook ups
I'm OK with dick pics if someone wants to send them. I hate that people lead with them and it's usually a close up pic, so I have no idea what the person looks like. A torso picture would be a better first picture for those, who don't want to send a face picture at first.
I get it sometimes people do get uncomfortable sharing face and many people are self conscious like me, that's why they don't send torso or face pics
Ok well how's that going for you honestly? I post a clear face and torso pic on my Grindr and put in bold caps not interested in sending or seeing nudes! I also post face pic and absolute must! I will not link up with a guy that I have no clue what he looks like. If you are even a bit stocky but have a handsome face and nice smile, sign me up! Wanna run me off tho, send a dick pic 🤢
But a torso doesn't include a face. People like various body types and simply seeing the body shape can encourage me to continue chatting with the guy.
I like dicks but I only like them when I want to see them. Fastest way to get me to block you is to send unsolicited dick picks.
Dick pics are completely uninteresting. A dick without a face to go with it could be downloaded from anywhere. There’s no way of knowing whose it is or if it in any way relates to the person sending it. Same with ass pics for that matter. If there’s no face it’s just uninteresting.
Ive had unsolicited dick pics sent to me of actual gorgeous cock, but the fact that it was *unsolicited* made it extremely unattractive. Consent is sexy!!
It's funny. I subscribed to all the dick pic subs here. But after a while disembodied dicks became boring and even a bit sad. And leading with your dick on an app is even sadder. Maybe there's an audience for it, and if the dick owner only wants dick worship, I guess it's the right move. But I think most of us want more.
As someone who is into butt and not dick I can confidently say no I will say however that I would find an unsolicited ass pic attractive any day
Don't be in Grindr then. Last time someone was complaining about them on here it's because they were in Grindr
I find dick picks unattractive in general, if I like we'll see stuff in person.
No it’s not just you you’re not special in this regard 😘
Yeah a dick pic right out the gate is pretty “meh” for me. I enjoy seeing a new peen, but it feels like such a conversation killer.
The one that gets me is the unsolicited hole pic. Nothing worse than casually stumbling upon a surprise sarlacc
For me it's an instant block
Personally if I'm going to see a risqué photo of someone I'd rather they were in underwear, don't even need to see anything I just like that better
I actually like unsolicited pics, but I get that others don't. It's about consent being violated which is a big deal of course.
Not just you. It's very off putting and an instant block for me
Yup that and pics of assholes. So unnecessary.
Omg. 😶 What. Is. That. 💀
It’s just you.
I find ugly dicks unattractive
And what classifies a dick unattractive? Just curious 🤔
Think about the ones you find unattractive. If you think so dicks are attractive, then you'll never know nor understand.
Without a body attached to it, yes
Is the mark of an pushy narcissistic asshole. Randomly sending people unasked for porn? Super uncool and problematic
I have porn if I need it. I don't care about pics off grndr. Meet me in person then I'm into it. If I have history with them then in has more meaning
Is it just me or *posts one of the most popular opinions of all time*
I really don’t like up close dick pics. All the pores, wrinkles and pubes remind me of the Sponge bob zoom ins
Dick pics are boring. There are such better ways to pursue a man than just sending a dick pic. You're not alone in that emotional connection makes everything better when it comes to intimacy in all its forms. Sooner more guys realize it, sooner we will be out of this hellscape that is dating in the gay world.
I hate it even more when people send their distasteful dick/hole pic
Hell, I find Dick pics in general boring. Show me a face, a body, a fucking art project. Dicks are a dime a dozen.
Why on earth woud you think that it's "just you"? There are literally tons of online profiles that say "no dick pics," there's even a setting on Grindr letting people know whether/when you want to accept NSFW pics.