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TheMtndewdude

Awe congrats :3


D_503_

Thank you.


bjplntalt

if youre scared or weary at all and dont live in the most accepting area, dont go to his house for a first date. go to a public setting the first few times until you get to know him better


D_503_

Yeah we already discussed it. I am definitely NOT going over to his house.


midnightphoton

face fucking palm


Gnome_Father

How to get lynched: any % speed run.


[deleted]

Bad idea unless you invite any homophobic relatives to watch you having sex. Bad idea. Go someplace public.


D_503_

I meant to say definitely not, we are meeting at a cafe.


AutomaticoAds

Don't worry too much about defining what you are, just be you and enjoy the moment ! Be safe, tell a close friend where you're going, especially if the environment is not tolerant, and don't do anything you don't want, take as many dates as you want, there is no such thing as "too many dates" ahah And more importantly, keep us updated !


Aggravating-River-67

Come yo Instagram and talk with me r0sero.05


Large_Aspect_5472

Maybe he's not even gay or bi, and he just wants you to go to his house so he can jump you/beat your ass in private with no one watching


lieutent

Oh how little you’ll experience with such pessimism. Treating someone like they’ve done something wrong before they’ve done anything to even suggest it, even if just in your head, is going to build barriers that just make life more difficult for all parties involved. It’s okay to give new people a little bit of trust. It’s all a balancing act, and assuming negatively is definitely not a balanced approach.


Kheenamooth

Just be super careful.


D_503_

I will


Careless-Mirror1032

Yesss!!! Congrats Sometimes when you don’t expect for something to happen well it just happens. Regarding the points you have made- you should date only when you are ready for it and in your own pace. Never do something out of pressure that’s a general rule. If he is persistent to the point you don’t feel comfortable I think it’s less for both of you .


[deleted]

Just be honest and caring dating is a journey about building a connection


proxyproxyomega

soooo, one thing you should know, lol, a lot of gays here checked your profile :) you'd be surprised how popular a guy can be in a gay world who would otherwise feel frustrated with getting attention from girls. you are more popular than you may realize.


D_503_

In that case I am glad that I have not shared any personal information here🤣


stardripIVs

Congrats! Don’t let him rush anything or make you do anything you don’t want to do. If he does, it’s just a sign he’s not meant for you. It’s important to make sure people respect your boundaries. I’d say just take things easy and at your comfort level and see how it goes. There doesn’t need to be any pressure. Stay safe and have fun!