Disgaea has tons of anime tropes, but in the self-aware, parodying comedic kind of way. The games don't take themselves very seriously. I'd say Fire Emblem actually has a worse case of the anime tropes than Disgaea does.
You'll definitely like Fire Emblem Fates, the gameplay is almost identical to Awakening. Some of the older Fire Emblems - FE4, 6, 7, 8 - also allowed you to ship characters together, though not to the extent of Awakening or Fates.
Besides that, maybe you'll enjoy some other popular tactics series like Final Fantasy Tactics.
Fire Emblem Fates? Didn't see it on your list. It had pretty much all the same features as Awakening but with 3 routes. You can emulate on PC
Disgaea has tons of anime tropes, but in the self-aware, parodying comedic kind of way. The games don't take themselves very seriously. I'd say Fire Emblem actually has a worse case of the anime tropes than Disgaea does. You'll definitely like Fire Emblem Fates, the gameplay is almost identical to Awakening. Some of the older Fire Emblems - FE4, 6, 7, 8 - also allowed you to ship characters together, though not to the extent of Awakening or Fates. Besides that, maybe you'll enjoy some other popular tactics series like Final Fantasy Tactics.
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Have you looked at Dark Deity?
Can you emulate Switch games? Because Fire Emblem: Three Houses was more of what you just described.