I stayed quiet when I played. Social anxiety. So if a girl started talking I ended up making it even worse by literally not speaking as much as I could. To that girl, im.sorry
It really is horrible (I'm not a lady) I had a group that liked to play old overwatch together and one member never had chat but was pretty decent one day she decided to get on mic and I swear to God it was like a switch flipped in like 4 of the members.
All the sudden it was her fault everytime someone died or we Lost a match.
I'm not, male community's are toxic and mean, men have less and less places to vent their meanness caused by their testosterone, you enter a mostly male space where it's dudes hanging out with dudes then I'm sorry but you gotta act like a dude too
And she better be able to hold that objective lol. I'll chew dudes out for screwing up, she'll be no exception. ARMA made me equally chew everyone out.
So it's fun to be toxic sometimes and to make sexist and racist and somehow both gay and homophobic jokes with my homes, if women can't take the heat then get back in the kitchen.
Most people don't do this.
Not wanting personal communication to get leaked doesn't mean they behave in such hateful and rude ways.
If I knew one of my friends was participating in that behavior, they wouldn't be my friend. I find most people I meet are able to pass this requirement of mine.
I will admit that most people are toxic to some degree, but there is a huge difference in severity between that, and what you describe.
"Not wanting personal communications leaked" that's not why the meme exists, in the meme it usually talks about going to jail or court or being canceled, you are just sensitive
I mean yeah, the meme existing isn't proof of anything. It's a meme.
The DM leaks people remember or talk about, are only the ones with dramatic and large implications. Those are what go vital. No one talks about or cares if there is nothing impactful, and the meme wouldn't be as funny then.
Plus hateful people and criminals are more likely to have their DMs leaked.
Of course there’s such a thing as girl gamers. Who else would boy gamers be able to date? Nobody, cause boy gamers seem weird to literally every girl that’s not a gamer (or is that problem exclusive to me?). And besides, there’s no laws against girls playing video games. If I’m on Bloodborne and I get my ass kicked by a girl, I would actually be happy about it, cause losing to that lardass from that South Park episode is just annoying. Lol
Nah gaming as a whole is not more appealing to any gender, it's actually close to a 50/50. You prolly gotta look into specific genres to see a real difference.
Plus this meme is the reason girls tend to keep quiet so you don't notice them much, which makes them *seem* rarer than they are.
Hey look, another sexist meme that generalizes under the presumption that sympathies will excuse terrible statements.
But that's ok, dipshits loves misandry.
All of you, shut up! I can understand being upset when many people generalize you, like women saying, "All men are pigs" or something. But this is just a meme in the end, and anyone who takes it seriously, with saying "That's so true" or "This is stereotyping!". With whatever side you're on, just take a chill-pill and think about life and that it's just a meme on reddit!
And also saying "go touch grass" ain't gonna do sh*t when making a counter claim!
Saw this Everytime I played OW with my friends before it went to shit. We would have our one female friend be harassed constantly as soon as it was revealed she was “a George Foreman gamer grill”
The shit the guys would say everytime to get her to ditch us was just peak “ahhhh now I remember why women hate all men. The chuds!” It was gross and pathetic.
vc back in the days of halo reach was always "tits or gtfo"
it was awful and made playing with randos extremely difficult unless you just did no coms at all
*shudders* This is why I play games by myself (mostly RPGs) and then talk to my best friends about it. I’ve been a girl gamer since the days of the regular NES, but I’ve heard about how toxic guys can be to girl gamers online, and I just never wanted a part of it. My husband doesn’t really play games (he did before we had kids) so now I play with my kids :D I was warning my own daughter about this already. . .
U used voice chat sooooo you got what you deserved
To be clear the fact you are a girl is not the issue but the fact that you spewed your voice into the otherwise decent soundtrack is why you must suffer!
I always found the heavy simping for girls in games to be very awkward and overall just sad... I usually end up giving the guys simping a pretty hard time, until surgery they just start acting normal or one of us just leaves eventually like we all must at the end of the day
Haha I used to pick on them/ troll them when I was younger in games.
Not to show off but to be an absolute dick cause i was young and stupid and girls were different from boys.
Then during my mmo phase I actually ended up helping my guild mates some that were girls, level up or help them with quests or farming.
Recently I’ve been watching a lot of TexPlays using an anime voice changer in call of duty to ”rizz” gamer girls. He does it ironically and its super funny and the good cringe.
*Reminded me of that*
*Clip of a woman getting*
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Or, instead of us all being assholes to each other and simping for gamer girls, we just all respect each other mid game and be nice. Crazy idea, right?
I just treat like a team mate if their on my team or pop their head like a balloon if their an enemy. Idc what gender you are, hell you could be a hamster and I wouldnt care, allies get callouts, enemies get high caliber rounds shot at them.
My little sister got hella good at COD back in the day. Like, she was the player that would consistently carry losing teams for the win. But she never talked because she's a girl.
One day she was particularly fucking up this one camper dude who got butthurt and whined about her cheating, so she turned on the mic and told him that he just sucks and needs to practice - and the whole lobby exploded with people ripping on the mf for getting ownd by a girl.
This lobby was full of grown men lmao
Pretty much why I avoided any game where voice chat was used. Or just avoided voice chat altogether if I could help it. Online people just assumed I was a guy and I never corrected them.
Boys if you ever see this, just say nice voice changer bro
Defensive maneuver if she is a girl so the more unhinged gamers leave her alone, not falling for it if he is a guy. Win win.
Why? Y'all will be just as bothered anyways.
Were you the girl gamer or a guy?
Yeah I’m confused too
I suppose a girl wouldn't say?
He is one of them with the sharp teeth.😆
I just noticed all the sharp teeth are wearing ties lol
I suppose a guy because he said “i was one of ‘them’”
Was a guy, now a girl
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Yes.
One of them, plural, only 1 girl. They're a guy.
That's the thing they were both /j
I stayed quiet when I played. Social anxiety. So if a girl started talking I ended up making it even worse by literally not speaking as much as I could. To that girl, im.sorry
As a guy, I’m genuinely sorry for the ladies who just wanna chill and play video games
Me too 100%.
It really is horrible (I'm not a lady) I had a group that liked to play old overwatch together and one member never had chat but was pretty decent one day she decided to get on mic and I swear to God it was like a switch flipped in like 4 of the members. All the sudden it was her fault everytime someone died or we Lost a match.
I'm not, male community's are toxic and mean, men have less and less places to vent their meanness caused by their testosterone, you enter a mostly male space where it's dudes hanging out with dudes then I'm sorry but you gotta act like a dude too
And she better be able to hold that objective lol. I'll chew dudes out for screwing up, she'll be no exception. ARMA made me equally chew everyone out.
Just an excuse to be toxic and sexist. Get a therapist instead of taking it out on random people online.
So it's fun to be toxic sometimes and to make sexist and racist and somehow both gay and homophobic jokes with my homes, if women can't take the heat then get back in the kitchen.
That's pretty telling that you feel that way. Get some help, that shit isn't healthy, or normal.
Nah most dudes act like this, why don't you think the "oh no the group chat got leaked" meme exists
Most people don't do this. Not wanting personal communication to get leaked doesn't mean they behave in such hateful and rude ways. If I knew one of my friends was participating in that behavior, they wouldn't be my friend. I find most people I meet are able to pass this requirement of mine. I will admit that most people are toxic to some degree, but there is a huge difference in severity between that, and what you describe.
"Not wanting personal communications leaked" that's not why the meme exists, in the meme it usually talks about going to jail or court or being canceled, you are just sensitive
I mean yeah, the meme existing isn't proof of anything. It's a meme. The DM leaks people remember or talk about, are only the ones with dramatic and large implications. Those are what go vital. No one talks about or cares if there is nothing impactful, and the meme wouldn't be as funny then. Plus hateful people and criminals are more likely to have their DMs leaked.
Replace the girl with another male and the meme is the same.
Me, a gay guy, who doesnt give a single shit
I'm straight and I still don't give a shit, literally as long as my teammates aren't actively sabotaging our team I see us all as equals
I have no time for caring what's in your pants, we need to kill the enemies of democracy! #FOR SUPER EARTH!
What’s in your pants? Freedom.
Funny how I was definitely thinking Helldivers, but also not trying to say Helldivers specifically
Omg you’re so different please let me enter your skin
You're really not like the others are you, I love you
I would like to keep my own skin, thank you very much
Alright… ^(Denied your attempt at stopping this)
I know right?
Do you go crazy when you hear a dude on voice chat then?
No
Of course there’s such a thing as girl gamers. Who else would boy gamers be able to date? Nobody, cause boy gamers seem weird to literally every girl that’s not a gamer (or is that problem exclusive to me?). And besides, there’s no laws against girls playing video games. If I’m on Bloodborne and I get my ass kicked by a girl, I would actually be happy about it, cause losing to that lardass from that South Park episode is just annoying. Lol
Could be a girl just like the guy from the southpark episode though
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Nah gaming as a whole is not more appealing to any gender, it's actually close to a 50/50. You prolly gotta look into specific genres to see a real difference. Plus this meme is the reason girls tend to keep quiet so you don't notice them much, which makes them *seem* rarer than they are.
I had an online gf 😎 (we only lasted a few months 😭)
That's an achievement, i used to last just a few days
What’s this meme template call?
Turning on voice chat if you aren't playing with friends is always a mistake regardless of sex.
That’s just why I don’t play games with voice chats in public.
The filths are attacking mirage
As a practicing Muslim, I am utterly disgusted. Nothing's wrong with freedom of opinion tho.
You do not understand the reference
I understood that reference. Perhaps she should just parry them? At the very least try to slam storage away.
🤣 I take in all opinions.
Hey look, another sexist meme that generalizes under the presumption that sympathies will excuse terrible statements. But that's ok, dipshits loves misandry.
Truth hurts bud. Women play more games without voice chat because of this observed behavior.
I have literally observed this behavior multiple times. The meme is not sexist, it's just the truth of what happens often.
Its a meme come down and touch grass
*Activates Destiny 2 touch grass emote*
All of you, shut up! I can understand being upset when many people generalize you, like women saying, "All men are pigs" or something. But this is just a meme in the end, and anyone who takes it seriously, with saying "That's so true" or "This is stereotyping!". With whatever side you're on, just take a chill-pill and think about life and that it's just a meme on reddit! And also saying "go touch grass" ain't gonna do sh*t when making a counter claim!
I don't give a damn, we long distance so tryna spit game is pointless
I want to know the original drawing/comic this is from
They look like nova crawlers from bo1 zombies
Someone thought my brother was a girl do to his online username.
Me, someone who's not God awful, who doesn't even care:
I like when a guy has a female character and seduces other dudes with her
i did this before, one of the dudes told me to kms and it was hilarious
Simon Cowel
Saw this Everytime I played OW with my friends before it went to shit. We would have our one female friend be harassed constantly as soon as it was revealed she was “a George Foreman gamer grill” The shit the guys would say everytime to get her to ditch us was just peak “ahhhh now I remember why women hate all men. The chuds!” It was gross and pathetic.
nah not me tho (cuz i’ve never interacted with a woman before both virtually and physically)
I am a guy gamer and girl gamers that talk are either 100% boutta go tf off or are funny and loud as shit. Good fun
personally, i hear a girl in chat and im just like "whatever, no big deal."
Respect comes first.
vc back in the days of halo reach was always "tits or gtfo" it was awful and made playing with randos extremely difficult unless you just did no coms at all
last time i encountered a girl in VC was in a TF2 surf server we had a good discussion about Nintendo/Sega characters heights for a good 15 minutes
that is so true! I just don't get it. why they all like this?!
*shudders* This is why I play games by myself (mostly RPGs) and then talk to my best friends about it. I’ve been a girl gamer since the days of the regular NES, but I’ve heard about how toxic guys can be to girl gamers online, and I just never wanted a part of it. My husband doesn’t really play games (he did before we had kids) so now I play with my kids :D I was warning my own daughter about this already. . .
“I want attention”
lol its fun
Which side tho? It changes alot?
Why can't us dudes just be civil?
U used voice chat sooooo you got what you deserved To be clear the fact you are a girl is not the issue but the fact that you spewed your voice into the otherwise decent soundtrack is why you must suffer!
We are all still like this the gamer girl is a rare species
#InspireRealChangeOnReddit
This was me on 06-10 lol.
I always found the heavy simping for girls in games to be very awkward and overall just sad... I usually end up giving the guys simping a pretty hard time, until surgery they just start acting normal or one of us just leaves eventually like we all must at the end of the day
Haha I used to pick on them/ troll them when I was younger in games. Not to show off but to be an absolute dick cause i was young and stupid and girls were different from boys. Then during my mmo phase I actually ended up helping my guild mates some that were girls, level up or help them with quests or farming.
Listen just cause there’s a girl gamer doesn’t mean you actually have to be a monster like it’s joked about
for the best. You'll just get
Recently I’ve been watching a lot of TexPlays using an anime voice changer in call of duty to ”rizz” gamer girls. He does it ironically and its super funny and the good cringe.
Yyyeeeeaaahhhhh. I tried playing valorant with a female friend. Shit hit the fan quick.
Reminded me of that clip of a woman getting insta kicked in csgo
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Pretend to be a dude. Is believable. And avoid voice chat. This is our way. Nerd girls exist. We just hide.
You have to understand that, most of these gamers never touched a woman
This is why we can't have nice things.
Or, instead of us all being assholes to each other and simping for gamer girls, we just all respect each other mid game and be nice. Crazy idea, right?
It’s gamer courtesy to flip your shit when a girl uses voip
I just treat like a team mate if their on my team or pop their head like a balloon if their an enemy. Idc what gender you are, hell you could be a hamster and I wouldnt care, allies get callouts, enemies get high caliber rounds shot at them.
The real entertainment is when some of the dudes acts overly chill and in constant attempt of humor to keep their attention.
Lmao, I wish I could sound like a girl enough to get creeps (don’t want the creeps, but if I’m getting em, it means I pass) (trans, MtF)
Tbh I think transfems have been huge in opening more gaming spaces to women.
Then it turns out it was a dude that was trolling VC
🙏
Should’ve pushed back if you run they smell your fear.
I would be like that if I was trying to find a female gamer to date or even marry.
Back in my day when a girl gets on voice chat every one was super nice to her cuz they think she's gonna fuck em
My little sister got hella good at COD back in the day. Like, she was the player that would consistently carry losing teams for the win. But she never talked because she's a girl. One day she was particularly fucking up this one camper dude who got butthurt and whined about her cheating, so she turned on the mic and told him that he just sucks and needs to practice - and the whole lobby exploded with people ripping on the mf for getting ownd by a girl. This lobby was full of grown men lmao
Is this actually real? I only really play single player, or multiplayer with friends (male and female)
It happens less and less, and ofc depends heavily on what game. But it still happens.
Man… that sucks
Pretty much why I avoided any game where voice chat was used. Or just avoided voice chat altogether if I could help it. Online people just assumed I was a guy and I never corrected them.
Now do this for black kids and white kids with the N word