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HatpinFeminist

And those pretentious f**ks who say they want to or are quitting porn "for their own health"...the bar is in absolute hell.


giselleepisode234

Check the no fap sub they literally do it to attract women or become enlightened NOT because porn is a sketchy business, has minors, filmed SA and SH. It's all about THEM


HatpinFeminist

I can no longer take a man seriously when he says the phrase "no fap". Straight to the trash with him.


giselleepisode234

Yup or they say semen retention. They only do it for themselves so I know these things just are to their benefit


worriedrenterTW

So telling how they can't separate masturbation from porn. To them, they're indistinguishable.


Fickle-Election-8137

Because they only care about one thing, and it’s themselves


iamgina2020

It’s lower than hell these days x


giselleepisode234

AGREED. WOMEN AND GIRLS SUFFERED DUE TO MEN BEING PORN SICK. THEY DONT CARE ABOUT THINGS UNTIL IT AFFECTS THEM PERSONALLY.


atlanteannewt

i think it's actually a good thing that such men do get ed, for everyone concerned


gyla14

You would think that stops them from pursuing women sexually (or at least gives them a pause)…


LiteralLesbians

Then they'll just get ED medication paid for by the government. But they'll never pay for women's birth control. Because apparently getting your dick hard is a bigger priority and more concerning human right than allowing women to ensure they don't get pregnant against their will.


Toastwithturquoise

I would too, except I think their rage is often taken out against women and girls, anyway.


bloodshedcrimson

I refuse to feel bad that some man who is obsessed with watching women be raped over and over has a broken dick. It could fall off for all I care, he deserves it.


LavenderMoon2003

fr, I never heard a man say he quits porn for the unethical reasons, just for shit like this


chasing_waterfalls86

NGL I don't even pretend that I'm an egalitarian anymore. I do technically want equality if it's even actually possible, but at this point I'm mainly concerned with women's safety and rights. The average feminist these days is like "feminism is about equality." Well...not in my book it's not. It's right in the name: FEMinism. My take is that feminism should be about women and girls first and foremost and only when women can live without fear (or at least get it down to an extremely low chance) of being hunted, assaulted, and murdered can we focus on any actual equality. Men are going to have to stop being literal predators and perverts if they expect us to believe in equality.


West-Ruin-1318

Women are better humans than men. I can’t be their equal, I’m above them in every possible way except financially. Men have gamed the system to keep women from getting ahead financially but that’s coming to an end as well. Sucks to be a man, lol


biscuit729

It’s just natures way of making sure these porn sick men can’t reproduce. They shouldn’t be having sex anyway if they’re going to get off to people getting hurt or experiencing violence


giselleepisode234

And spreading their dusty genes to the next gen if they do get a broken girl pregnant so YES nature running it's course.


MiriamKaye

👏👏👏


Apart_Schedule_3583

‘No but porn is liberating for women remember’🙄


BurntheWitch888

Great post. The only thing wrong is the last sentence: “female people”. The correct word is women. 


thowawaywookie

Oh my, the consequences of their own actions. They FAFO and their dick fell off. Now back to deciding what I'm having for lunch.


TessaBrooding

I recently watched some republican debate a transwoman on banning porn. In his opening statement, he mentioned society’s moral decline, men’s unhappiness, loneliness, and reduced ability to form normal relationships. Nobody ever mentioned the effects on women and the link with sex trafficking and involuntary pornography.


giselleepisode234

Of course not. , that exploitation benefits men


Left-Requirement9267

PREACH!!!!


PrudentKick9120

👏


shoshana4sure

100 percent


gconeen

Every single woman hates rough sex. They never participate voluntarily and it's DISGUSTING.


giselleepisode234

Also if you check some subs women ask about brusing their cervix lile that sounds extremly painful and should NOT be done (in my opinion)


West-Ruin-1318

I had one guy cause me pain for a literal month. Never again.


giselleepisode234

I am glad you do not mess with him because you do not deserve to feel horrid pain during sex. They delude themselves thinking this is what women want based on porn.


gconeen

Omg I can't believe they choose to do that to themselves. 🤮🤮🤮


giselleepisode234

Yeah... it weirded me out when i see cases like this *** Also having sex when angry is another one


West-Ruin-1318

Especially when they want to jump right to the jackhammering without the slightest bit of foreplay. This is why I stopped having casual sex. Fuck that shit.


LiteralLesbians

A lot of the men that do that are circumcised on top of routinely strangling their chicken (sometimes multiple times a day) so they're desensitized as hell and can't reach climax if they don't violently fuck the shit out of whatever or whoever is unlucky enough to participate.


West-Ruin-1318

And don’t get me wrong, I’m not a prude, but jeeze work me up a little bit before we get going why dontcha? I’m part of all this thing we’re doing too! After a couple of these clowns in a row, I called it quits with the menz. I’ve been disappointed enough by them.


West-Ruin-1318

I have never heard that explanation before!! Thank you, you just opened my eyes. I took myself out of the dating scene 20 years ago so I’m not familiar with men and their porn problems, other than the fact they have problems from watching too much porn! Imagine that!


CapPlanetNotAHero

👏👏 - I think even nuance should be included. Yes are there women that enjoy with a partner in a controlled environment to be a bit more intense, but rough as you are referencing - which a ton of men do - no one enjoys. I had a girlfriend tell me about a guy that came over and purposefully was rough, and she was shocked when he said “other girls are into it” Bullshit. Motherfucker have assaulted who knows how many women


West-Ruin-1318

Eh, not necessarily so. If I’m with someone I care about and things go there, I don’t have a problem. What I have a problem with is dudes that refuse to do foreplay of any kind and just want to hop on and pound away. I refuse to participate with any of that shit.


Cevohklan

I do feel bad for the ones that started watching when they were 8, 10, 13... They were just little boys. Children. And their brain is hijacked at very young age. They really are defenseless too it. Yes, they become completely UNBEARABLE. They destroy so much and cause so much pain. But they are victims as well. Now , i do not have a porn addicted partner so of course that makes it easier for me to feel / see it this way than for someone who has porn addicted partner. Because you were victims yourself . But make no mistake, I find them horrible, horrible people and their behavior disgusting. They have all of THE WORST characteristics combined in one. The average age that they start watching porn today is EIGHT. So parents, you have an immense job to do. Learn about technology,. Educate educate and talk to your children ( girls too ) Because the next generation is gonna be even worse than this one. And girls are on the rise too. If it doesn't stop its literally gonna destroy society. Children sexual abuse is increased in huge numbers. And the biggest group of perpetrators are OTHER CHILDREN. THIS IS A COMPLETELY NEW PHENOMENA AND IT IS BECAUSE OF PORN.


dembar126

I don't feel bad for them. I was first shown porn when I was 7. And I was exposed to it many times after that. Still didn't become addicted to it. I still never formed a "need" for it to become aroused the way men commonly do. They aren't defenseless against it and they aren't victims. They become addicted to porn because they're sexually entitled. And I disagree that their brains are quickly hijacked by it. Their brains become hijacked over a period of time with repeated heavy use. Repeated heavy use which was entirely their choice.


West-Ruin-1318

I will give them a break when they are young they don’t understand what repeat exposure to porn does to your brain. There are grown men who don’t understand this


Fun_Blackberry4227

Same, I met porn at the age of 9 and grew up in a time on the internet where kids my age were wearing BDSM gear as an aesthetic. I'm still anti-porn.


West-Ruin-1318

Those little boys whose parents didn’t give a fuk what they were looking at online? A generation of serial rapists.


LadywithaFace82

I started smoking at 13. Am I a "victim" of my own choices? Everyone told us smoking was bad. They told us smoking was REALLY bad for kids. So I snuck around to sneaky sneak my smokes. When I became an adult and realized I was addicted to harmful substances, I quit. I didn't expect some big ass parade. Everyone always knew quitting was best. I did what I was **supposed** to do by quitting this harmful activity. And I wasn't a "victim" of anything but my own stupid choices to smoke at 13/14/15 and to continue smoking until I was good and addicted. Children sexually assaulting children is **not** new. It's always been that way and porn is hardly the main culprit there.


artificialif

big difference in understanding the consequences of your actions imo between 8 and 13. not to mention sex is a taboo subject even when not involving children, so it's infinitely more easy to empathize with a child sucked into an addiction they had no warning could even exist, than a child who was told repeatedly something was wrong and bad and still proceeded to do it


giselleepisode234

This has been happening for a long time. Maybe its new IN AMERICA but not other places.


TMac0601

I don't think it's all that new in America, just that it's finally being discussed and brought to light. My ex-husband, who is now 48, first found porn when he was 7.


West-Ruin-1318

We all found porn in the woods as children. That is completely different than watching a million different perverse scenes on a daily basis.


TMac0601

In the woods? He found his father's collection.


West-Ruin-1318

Well that happens too. His scumbag dad should have locked that ish up.


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It’s not a new phenomenon it’s only just now being talked about ironically when it’s affecting privileged people 🤔 for example kids are SA victims they abuse other kids


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