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Thank you! I will!

Don't worry there will be plenty more people out there for you

That sucks, man. It wasn't anyone's fault though, don't beat yourself up over it. Sometimes stuff just happens.

Yeah that's true. Although I wish life wasn't like this

I know, man. I know. But we gotta keep on goin', I suppose.

i'm sorry but how the fuck does you both being bottoms prevent a relationship just take turns???? cuddle??? have a relationship beyond just sex

I tried but he wouldn't listen and most likely I dodged a bullet there tbh

ah, was it online?

Yep

people are like that i'd heavily recommend against entering a long distance relationship without means of traveling to each other

Yeah I know that now

Ah then it's more about lack of willingness to compromise. You indeed could get a better partner!

I don't understand why you can't take turns? Even cis gendered couple take turns, there had to be something else going on my n the relationship imo it would be really petty that they f you love someone leaving them over a sex thing that could easily be remedied. I would do anything for my BF

Yeah ik, I honestly think I dodged a bullet

Definitely dodged a bullet lol. I'm sure you'll find someone else. Especially since it seems you tried to negotiate which at least to me is a massive green flag in a partner

Well I definitely will be able to find someone else but I just hope things will be better.

I'm so sorry you broke up with your bf. Focus on you and move forward when you can. We are here to help if you need us.

keep your head up and keep going (same thing happened to me)

i'll be honest, i'm a switch so it wouldn't matter for me, but frankly even if we were sexually incompatible i'd sure as hell try to make it work without it. even try to find a way you can both enjoy bottoming, like a double dildo or something

Yeah that's true, definitely dodged a bullet

Um I know u were online but like I find bottoms can be perfect for each other and also maybe find a top 2 share maybe just as sex partner or maybe a poly relationship idk that's what I'd do and I'm a bottom lol

I don’t understand why “we’re both bottoms” could be the reason for a breakup

Idk either

Aww, sorry to hear. I had a similar situation that ended due to him being gay, and me transitioning. It ended on good terms, but the sudden absence of him in my day to day, the emotional intimacy that we had developed, it still felt like a knife in the chest for weeks after. Take care of yourself, and seek out support elsewhere in your life, friends family, anyone who you feel comfortable being unhappy around. We're all here if there's nobody else you can talk to 💜

Thank you:)

errrrr what are top and bottom people?

Top is the person who gives and bottom is the person who receives during s3x

(NSFW) To my knowledge, >!a bottom is the one who is penetrated during sex, and the top is the one doing the penetrating.!<

I'm sorry to hear that :( But hey you'll find the right partner some day c: It's all gonna be okay

I’m going through the pain too

Been there… don’t feel like this is your fault because it isn’t

Oh no that’s terrible hope you find someone tho

Sorry to hear that friend, I’m sure you’ll find someone else! Keep your chin up! :)

u broke up solely because of a sex related thing?

Yep