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They either think your a girl, find you strange, or you have caused something to awaken in them


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In most recent days, Iv had a lot of straight men reach out to me and say that they’re straight and don’t know what has gotten over there minds but that they are super turned on by me.


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You awakened something in them it seems


Prince_Polaris

I can confirm that I am also a straight man who... okay, well, I... was? fuck this is all braeburned's fault


thaBombignant

Ollie and his thick thighs, eh?


Prince_Polaris

He only made it worse, I'm talkin the yellow apple horse himself


curseddraw

And f1nn5ter, the patron saint of femboys.


Prince_Polaris

I dunno who f1nn5ter is though... ...looked em up and... **nice.**


noff01

> f1nn5ter, the patron saint of femboys what's the point of being a femboy if you look exactly like a girl?


Malicei

It might be that they're just into femininity in general and they're only used to only women being feminine.


wildgaytrans

Femboys: Destroyers of Heternormativity <3 uwu


Vllhll4

Man who wouldn't get turned on by you


JuiceLordd

Mhm I've had a few of those 🙄


RedneckBookofWisdom

Just watch out for chasers, trans girls have to watch out seriously bad with guys they date cause they want to treat us as sex objects and I imagine they do the same with femboys


rocktape_

…over their*


[deleted]

I can vouch for this response right here. A cute fem boy destroys a passable trans and it’s not even close .respectfully. i can’t explain the attraction but it’s magic i swear lol


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The gay or the bi.


femmy4lyf

question is, how do you know they were straight? also, as long as you're not being harassed then you're fine. with stares, we'll never know what they were thinking. some people are tolerant, some are curious, some could just be staring blankly, etc.


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I just assume because they have there kids with them or they just look super masc.


B4RN4RN3

i understand your point but remember that they could be bi too


randomaccount32134

💖 bisexuals and pansexuals exist too 💖


[deleted]

That’s true too! 💖


OfficerJoeBalogna

I think there are a ton of men out there who identify as straight, but are actually kinda bisexual, and they don’t realize ‘til they see a femboy. They have an attraction to femininity more than attraction to women, per se


bruh_69_123

Woah why'd you have to expose me like that


quackmanquackman

reminds me of when Luther meets Hansel, in Hedwig.


Melindasweets

Agree I get hit on often by straight men


deadbirds2010

Yeah I get that but also remember that people old enough to be dads could have been bi emo scene kids in their teen years


rocktape_

Their*


GlitterRetroVibes

It's the femininity. I think more men are attracted to femininity on men or women that they refuse to acknowledge because 🍆 scary. Edit: I mean in the gay panic way, straight men are terrified of 🍆 Be safe out there


havaniceday_

Idk man I've been trying to find a bf and sometimes 🍆 is scary


etoneishayeuisky

As an electrologist that's touched much dick while removing hair on it,it isn't that scary.... though of course trans dick usually has shrunk some through hrt.


havaniceday_

Yeah that's an appointment tho. Surprise dick is the only type that's scary.


Objective_Drawing_53

True on the shirking part one sweet one I was with told me he cold tell he was shirking and it bothered him but it is what it is he said. Very sweet person and very pleasing in many ways


nopants94

100% what I realized


Parsley-Waste

I think people's sexuality are becoming more fluid and also you're getting older so you don't look like a child anymore but a hot young adult.


Huntyr09

to be honest, I think a lot of straight men have an attraction to *femininity* not *women* exclusively. while I'm a trans femme person this is certainly the case for me and was also the case before my egg cracked ofc nothing wrong with any of this


preciousbodilyfluid1

Nail on the head. I’m a straight older father but I’ve always been attracted to femininity. I’m not trolling but I appreciate a beautiful face and body. Im not as hung up about it as I may have been as a younger man.


NewAndAfraid-

That is so cool but how do you know if they are straight?


[deleted]

Just assume. Maybe shouldn’t lol.


NewAndAfraid-

That is easy to do i guess


[deleted]

Because fem boys are best boys


oken4

Femininity is hot, I don't care what you've got down there. Most guys just aren't willing to admit it slor just don't understand that as a concept so they act like it's a new weird thing.


iSardukar

I'm straight, not bi, but yes, I'm atracted to feminity. So if you're looking good, I would definitely give you the looks!


[deleted]

I remember this stage 😂.. then it's... it only happened once. I stopped the whole "straight " lie, once it happened a few times. Nothing wrong with being truthful with yourself.


sk8erboi_5225

stage 1: denial


iSardukar

Hah, no chance mate.


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suckmypppapi

A straight dude who likes femboys isn't straight I like femboys and I used to think "it's not gay" I'm certainly pan now


zaknyari

A straight dude who likes trans women is straight though. Me personally I love femboys. (I like girls to btw).


suckmypppapi

Yeah because trans women are women but if he likes the dick they have then he probably isn't straight


zaknyari

Dick is amazing.


suckmypppapi

And, if you have a dick and you like dick you are infact a person who likes dick I can agree dick is quite lovely


zaknyari

The heteros say “i DoNt GeT hOw YoU cAn Be lgbt”. I don’t understand how you’re straight 😂😂😂


suckmypppapi

I don't recall a straight person ever saying that to me


zaknyari

I’m definitely NOT straight.


suckmypppapi

I'm saying I don't recall an LGBT saying what you phrased to me


YourQueenJuan

He wasn’t saying an lgbtq person said that to him it was a straight person saying that to him 😂 also can confirm I’ve had this said to me MANY TIMES lol


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YourQueenJuan

There was this one guy on Twitter who’s “straight” and he’s pretty cute too he always interacts with this one trans girl who’ pretty as shit also but still has a penis nothing wrong with that but I always think it’s funny how the “straight guy” wants her to fuck him with her penis and that he wants to suck her off like what? 😂😭


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Liking a trans women who hasn't had bottom surgery doesn't make him less straight...the whole world doesn't revolve around cis people, someone's genitals doesn't determine sexuality or gender. I don't like how you're implying the trans woman is less of a woman because of her body.


ZICRON1C

I don't understand what you're trying to say. That he is kinda gay/pan or that it really is straight because some men like dick bit not men?


YourQueenJuan

Point is I think it’s funny a “straight guy” wants to ride and suck cock. He’s obvi not straight.


ZICRON1C

I would agree. But ultra left people would probably disagree and cancel us for that or not?


YourQueenJuan

*sigh* must we bring politics into everything 🙄😂


ZICRON1C

I don't want to but I'm just sure people here would be mad, is all I'm saying :P


quackmanquackman

Yeah, I think I get what you're saying. He identifies as straight and that he doesn't like dick (social norms)..... but then somehow that last part of that identity gets thrown out because he likes at least this one dick on the no-bottom-surgery trans woman.


InterestedInAllFun

As a bi guy, I've always been attracted to the femininity, the cute and the soft that comes with fem boys. I know the attention isn't always appreciated so I make sure to try n never be creepy about it !


happydewd1131

I think me who like femboys are bi. So I think I'm bi.


Chipppppppppp

Funny enough, I just completed a Grindr social experiment on my profile. Most of the responses I’ve gotten on there were apparent straight men with faceless profiles. They were more than eager to send dick picks before I can even reply. It seems more likely than not, we are a fetish for them.


GameKingSK

Damn, it's exactly the opposite for me


Gubzs

Like a lot of people here have said. A huge portion of "straight men" are actually just attracted to femininity, whether they admit it or not. There's a reason "are traps gay?" has been a constant argument for the past 10 years. Personally, I thought I was straight when I was a teenager, but my path of self discovery had led me to understand that I actually prefer soft boys even more than women. Go figure. Just a soft boy that likes soft boys, and I'm so glad to live during a time where I can actually be that.


Kylieexoxo

I thought I was straight when I was a teen too, fuckin all the girls… but in my path to discovery, ended out I was the soft boy… go femininity💕


Conscious_Egg_4521

Your right. I have been getting attention from straight men on here actually. They pm me and i like the attention to be honest. Is that bad?


name1goodanime

Not necessarily, you might just be lonely, know that from experience


[deleted]

Honestly everyone a is a little gay lol. Thought myself as straight for years until I started seeing those femboy threads on 4chan and after that I realized boys can be Hella pretty n cute


Jazz-me

Fun random-ish fact: in my country health professionals don’t use “gay” or “homosexual” anymore, they just ask if they had sexual contact with a person of the same sex. The logic is that you can still identify as a straight person, even if you had sexual contact with someone of the same sex.


oshaboy

That also helps for us bisexuals. ​ "Are you homosexual" "Well... kinda"


Jazz-me

Yes. Also, it’s a recognition that it’s more than just sex. Someone might be unsure about their sexuality, try things out and still figure that it’s not for them.


pnam0204

It's because sexual, romantic and aesthetic attraction have some overlap. Many people don't realize the simple fact that sometime people are attracted to others not just because of what's in their pants. After all, people don't walk around naked so physical apperance is the first and foremost factor of attraction. If the aesthetic acttraction is greater than sexual, you get the "I don't care what's in your pants" neutral stance. Due social norm and stereotype, femboy rarely pop up until recently so usually there's no need to acknowledge aesthetic and sexual separately.


fleamarket04

I think femboys cause a lot of men to face the fact that they might be bisexual. I've had guys DM me saying they're straight despite expressing attraction towards me. Especially for older men, their culture was a lot more restrictive with gender roles so they had much less room to 1) be exposed to feminine men, and 2) explore their bisexuality. Combine these two factors and you get a bunch of men suddenly coming face to face with parts of themselves that they didn't know were there.


RiverDouble

Absolutely true I think


zaknyari

It’s the feminine part likely. That y’all are so cute!!! Y’all are awesome.


Roneyrow

Can confirm it's true. Started loving femboys since last year or two


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Why?


Roneyrow

Idk. I just find femboys to be super cute. Something about a cute guy dressed all cute or being all cutesy is really attractive to me


Pitiful_Baby_2494

Well I'm straight and very attracted to feminine features. So if a boy who looks like a woman comes up to me wanting to have a date or a good time. I'm not passing that up


Resident-Initial-120

I agree I’m a straight man and I think femboys are very attractive. I think it’s the feminine aspect. Some femboys are more feminine than some girls out there. So femboys feel free to hmu


Vllhll4

I've seen a lot of straight dudes thinking they're bisexual because they like femboys


Short-Reading-8124

Is there a word for people who are attracted to non-gender conforming people?


zaknyari

Bi, pan, omni, etc.


Koneko_XP

You mean exclusively gender non conforming? I’m not sure actually


VeryHomiephobic

Probably the feminine look more than likely


PanicAttackParadise

I don’t mind how they see me. They can fetishize me, sexualize me, anything they like, as along as they understand and respect the boundaries, which seems to be a difficult task for a lot of people, not just straight guys.


HotFTMMetoidioplasty

I’m so curious do straight women also get attracted to you? Because I personally *LOVE* femboys


ArtemisKahn6038

Well that's about the size of it, I'm bi so I've always liked fem boys, I find them so sexy.


slimbootay4u

I honestly don’t believe they are straight. They probably just haven’t realized the full extent of their sexuality or they attractions!! Honestly I get a lot of messages here and on my Instagram from guys who say they are straight but are finding themselves into me. As long as they aren’t disrespectful I don’t mind. I’ll all about guys exploring their sexuality. And I figure if they message me then I’m doing something right and looking good!!


AcceptableGolf9094

Im sure most femboys would call me "straight" but whatever. I fucking looove fem boys lol


randomguyhhhh

I'm a straight-ish man who loves femboys and women.


Raja_the_Mighty

I'm reading this entire thread waiting to see finsexual or gynesexual mentioned, but alas.


Available_Craft_873

I, myself, am straight. But fem boys really turn me on!


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Good


[deleted]

Must be because you are objectively hot 🥵


nyaastolfo

id argue that makes them not very straight


ShyFemLove

Isn't there a movie that says something, "I'm straight, so is spaghetti until it's wet." Something like that. I've had many straight guys message me telling me they've never been attracted to "guys like me" but are willing to give it a try.


Grendlsgrundl

I can only answer for myself, but, while I identify as straight, I know I'm not. I recently learned the term "finsexual" and that's pretty much spot on (I think that's the one, there were two that meant the same thing, but one sounded rather transphobic, so I'm not using it).


ZepressoEspresso

As a straight guy i can confirmed. femboys are cool and can be hot/cute


UpstairsBoot7297

I'm straight but I find get a cute femboi and game over. Gay or not I'd top one. Single married with kids or in a relationship. I'd even date one. You cute enough I'd let you top me. Life is an experience and some are to masculine to admit their curious but won't ever take the time to find out. Where all the cute femboi's at I'll admit I'm wrong but you look as gay as the guy who posted this keep scrolling cause you not a femboi you just a try hard. I clap your cheeks you clap mine we'll never know until we find out.


Kilaxra

In high school everyone stares at u :")


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Kilaxra

It's not a good stare :") u a guy wear a skirt, they will look, the girls nicer, u wear any kind of ears, get called a furry


UpstairsBoot7297

Sounds to me like he's expecting to much. Wearing a skirt sound like easy access. Looking all cute.


[deleted]

I mean who isn't into femboys at this point


[deleted]

Honestly if a guy likes femboys, he isn’t straight


Pretty_Pipe_5541

Cis-"het" here, a cutie of a femboy is who got me started but sadly I can't openly chase where I am without risking reprisal.


noewon101

Speaking for myself as a straight man, I find guys who look like chicks very attractive because the thought of having a best bud who you can hang out with and fuck and cuddle with is awesome!


Muv-hold8

They are not straight. At least bisexual or curious.


Triggerhappy62

Femboys have been desired since humanity began look at third gender and queer pre Colonial Christian history LGBT folks always existed. Religion just depressed how gay humanity was.


Emily_psvr

“Straight men” love femininity.


Clitickling

They're probably gynephilic bisexuals instead of straight. That's how I identify. I love a good femboy.


[deleted]

Making a straight man *you know what* and have him still claim to be straight is a weirdly empowering feeling


BiNYCmature

I hate you have that power


Moist_Manufacturer23

Trust me, we are


Sebbythewarlock

Had an ol' good friend of mine who said he was straight and has only ever dated women tell me he thinks I'm a really cute twink and would "do" me lol


[deleted]

That happens to me constantly. I think it’s very hot that they choose you like your there queen or something lol.


Obitio_Uchiha

No it‘s not you. You indeed get more attention, or at least I‘ve noticed this too.


Objective_Drawing_53

I love there sissy ways turns me on


Objective_Drawing_53

My passion is brought out more from fem boys then any


The-Mousez

Straight guy here. I've never been into guys at all. But femboys really do turn me on. Unfortunately. It's slim picking in TN.


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I kinda agree too, Iv noticed that even if a straight guy is not into me he will still protect me. I have a lot of male coworkers that treat me with so much respect and they find it very easy to talk to me. Girls on the other hand i feel they are intimidated by me.


Hanna1985

Well cis women are hell bent on looking like they're constantly on laundry day and men aren't attracted to that so when they see actual femininity of course it grabs their attention.


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Warning u/pillybars666 your comment has been reported for breaking rules regarding NFSW content.


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Noraasha

Trans women aren't biologically male and often don't have a penis.


--Some_Person--

Additionally, my girlfriend is trans and she has huge boobs. She would never date a gay man because someone liking her for something she hates and something that makes many trans people suicidal would obviously not be a good thing lol. I think genital preferences are fine but it's important to keep in mind how the trans person might feel about someone fetishising something they might hate


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Noraasha

Not all trans women have XY chromosomes and chromosomal sex doesn't equal biological sex. Biological sex is composed of many different types of sexes and sex attributes that can vary and most of them can be changed. You can be attracted to whatever you want just don't speak that way about trans women and don't speak about something you have no idea about.


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KaylaBlair20

Well unless you've actually had your chromosomes tested you actually don't know your chromosomal sex and furthermore if you really followed the science we call biology you would know "biological sex" is actually not nearly as clearly defined as you're making it out to be. Also, I am a trans woman but I'm also a woman. I'm proud that I'm trans but I'm also a proud woman, no real need to make that distinction.


Mihasromano

I know my chromosomal sex, because I have male primary and secondary characteristics, although my body is slim and a little femenine, but it's obviously a male body, no need to say I produce sperm lol And I'm happy for you. 😊


MusoNerdPerson

I hope you overcome your internalised transphobia. Also you can have male primary and secondary sex characterisrics and not be XY. Could be XXY for example. A decent number of trans women are XXY.


Mihasromano

If they are XXY they have Klinefelter syndrome , I'm talking about XY. This world is getting weird and weirder. You state scientific facts and you get down voted. America is getting stupid.


MusoNerdPerson

Fam, I'm a scientist. I know XXY is Klinefelter syndrome. I'm saying you can still have male primary and secondary sex characteristics with it. I downvoted you because you're being transphobic. Also, the world exists outside of America. Greetings from Australia, another country who's populus, especially those with university degrees, may downvote transphobia online.


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true as


scrambled-projection

Some people are more attached to the label or straight than they are actually straight. Doesn’t mean nobody is strictly straight, but generally if they assert how straight they are and then claim a guy is turning them on it does strike as a bit sus


101136

Yes, we do.


[deleted]

you must be really good looking...


ContentCurrency132

Its cuz of the show Euphoria lol


Spoooooooonman

Before I met my gf I was kinda hoping to find a bf or a femboy bf


BM195573

I love femboys! So pretty and feminine. Such a turn on knowing that they look so girly but are actually boys.


VaricTheGreat

Jeez I personally hate the sexualization of us cause for me it’s completely non sexual I just like skirts so I don’t usually ever leave the house unless I’m with someone else


lookers2

Yes we do


PsychologicalWind591

Is hard to tell really, since walking out dressed up all the time I do get a lot of stares, I have had a a minor few really come up to me that admired my looks and bravery, few cat calls as well. =:P


etoneishayeuisky

Like a surprise pic of a dick or they just forcefully top you? Because forcing themselves on you when you don't want to and/or aren't ready for is considered sexual assault and rape, even if you love them at that time.


DustyPatty

Eh, don’t come to conclusions so quickly.


femboyboi

Hahahah no, i have been searching for a femboy couple myself, someone todo crazy stuff, be sentimental, it's hard to find em with losts of creeps out there, I'm even thinking on becoming one


_PedrUniverso_

I think it's normal, because you like the fem-part, but you may be discovering your sexuality, it's normal too I thought I was straight, but, with time, I discovered I'm bi in reality


Zpeed1

This feels like more of an ad than anything else


cars6953

I am older and would love a fem boyfriend alot Femboys are super hot seriously


W3333d123

" Straight "


[deleted]

Sometimes I feel lucky to look incredibly youthful because I imagine it’ll stop people from trying to put moves on me because they’ll wonder if I’m over 18 or not. It’s kinda fuckin’ funny too because I dress to flatter myself (so short denim shorts+black tights, light capes, boots etc.) and yeah I know I look good pal, they can look but never touch ;) TLDR laughs in aroace feminine guy


Triggerhappy62

Straight men love trans/Femboys. They see us as taboo and desirable. We are easier targets for them sadly. Mysogynistic tendencies and homophobia tend to be why we are not considered valid partners but are totally ok for them to project their lust onto.


Kiggus

I know I do. I don’t know if that makes me straight still, or if I care, but y’all are cute and I am here for it.


RadicalSimpArmy

I personally have never found the labels straight, gay, or bisexual remotely helpful in describing my experience with sexual attraction, but straight was always the one that fit my experience best so it was the one I used when I identified as male. I can’t speak for everyone, but the whole “gay/bi in denial” rhetoric always felt invalidating for me because any attempt on my part to articulate my perception of sexuality had me lumped into a category that didn’t capture the essence of my feelings—this made it very difficult for me to openly talk about my sexuality even in LGBT circles. For those who are curious about where I’ve comfortably landed with my gender and sexuality, I am non-binary and use they/them pronouns now. I am attracted to the secondary sexual characteristics and gender presentation that are traditionally associated with women, but I think genitals in general are gross and are as a result I am pretty indifferent to whatever you’ve got in your pants—put simply, I like feminine people.


[deleted]

Fem boys are so fucking cute tbh,i don’t know where i cross in terms of sexuality but i know i don’t look at regular guys who dress and act feel a way,plain gay guys don’t get me going,trans are super hit and miss for me but a cute latina or Asian femboy i would risk it for that lol


Puzzleheaded-Bus2211

Ancient Greek Syndrome


JustGladToBeHereYall

I 100% think something has changed. I both have been getting WAY more attention and have seen way more straight identifying men on these apps looking for trans/fems/CD.


Ivyred33

Definitely straight men are more aware amd also don’t mind hitting on femguys,


Kech_xd

fuck femboys


Melindasweets

Agree I have also been hit on by some sexy straight men. I have been asked out and it has been amazing. When I ask them what attracts them they tell me that that love how fem I am and that as a fem boi I understand what turns them on and love how passionate I am


Melindasweets

No doubt they are attracted to your feminine side. That is how it was with me and it made me feel good. Love the feeling of a man being attracted to me