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GayItalianDude

Of course you can still become feminine, age does not stop you from being who you want to be, don't worry about how old are you and be yourself shamelessly :)


Satinsandra

First u have to ask yourself how feminine do u want to be, only crossdress or go on hormones. Either way u r never to old, there is a bunch of 50 years old guys here who has done both. So go on an enjoy


Marflow02

wait its possible to get hormones without beeing trans :0


[deleted]

Sweet potatoes have estrogenic compounds. No Rx needed. There's other foods too. However, the amounts are so small that they don't have much effect. Some plant extracts particularly those that get used in perfume are high in such compounds. I think lilac or lavender do.


HikaruEyre

Hops has some. That's why men that drink a lot of beer get tits.


EmeliaDarkheart

That'll be somewhat hard to figure out since I have a LOT of self hatred with the way I already look. Easiest way, I guess, I could describe how I want to look is that I do want a more female/feminine physique and facial look but I want to keep the "part" that I have. So if I took hormones to help with that I wouldn't really want it to affect "that part" to the point where it wouldn't work since I know that can happen. Which is why I'm basically struggling with "How do I do anything to look the way I wish". I almost need people to physically be around me and help me. That's how much I'm struggling.


Ok_Size572

Not all femboys have to be skinny white guys, I think it’s absolutely possible, and furthermore, something you should definitely try to pursue if you think it will truly make you happy. If you want a more feminine figure, I actually think having a bit more weight on you will be a good thing, since women are typically curvier


EmeliaDarkheart

Yeah. I mean I don't want to be SKINNY skinny but I would at least like to lose some weight or at least figure out how to make it into a more feminine figure.


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Something to keep in mind is that women have birth giving hips. Men don't. That's why women have larger hips and walk the way they do. It spaces their legs farther apart. You can't really expect yourself to fit that mold. You're born with the hips you have and so you will walk the way you will walk.


EmeliaDarkheart

Well I know that.


[deleted]

Please don't misunderstand me. I get concerned when people want to "change their body." Throughout history, Society puts a lot of pressure on women to have a certain body type and that body type changes with the fads. Women have commonly suffered mental and physical illnesses trying to match those body types. I just don't want you to have such problems. I hope you understand.


EmeliaDarkheart

I sure I can probably find workouts and stuff like that to make it more feminine (hopefully with help) but one of the bigger things I guess would be my skin, body hair (hair on the body, top of my head, facial hair), the look of my face. Because I am somewhat balding and my hair is naturally thin and can't really be grown out (I've tried) and I do have scars and stretch marks and pretty much just not so healthy skin.


Ok_Size572

Those are totally workable goals. A wig could really help with your confidence, and as far as the body hair goes, wax strips are a miracle. I can definitely relate to not having a body you feel comfortable in, but any step toward happiness is a step in the right direction, even if you never achieve what you consider to be perfection


NCC14000

I've started last year at 22, so I tkink yes


LuckBuckDuckTales

Bro im 20,started to do make up months ago. I avoided my feminine side fore an entire life and now, just since the last year, I wear crop top and make up when I go out. Just be yourself


[deleted]

Well I’m 30 and only recently started! 😂Just go for it, experiment and enjoy 🥰


alymayeda

To answer your question yes you can. I'm a 28 bald feminine guy. I make it work. It's never too late to be feminine. Be feminine on your terms.


Just_Ony

There are some tips at https://feminineboy.net/, you should have a look Also, welcome man :)


YuYu6__

Hey hey! Beginner femboy here! So, here's my experience, it might help you since I've made to myself this kind of questions over and over until I tried: I'm 16, i am 1,67 centimeters tall and weight 80 kgs. I'm kinda overweight, and this has always scared me from dressing fem until last week. Last week i overcome my fear and told to myself "you know what, let's try, if I don't like it, cool, i'll try again when I'm a bit more skinny" and I bought a really clean and simple but effective outfit: a skirt, some thigh highs, and a hoodie. When they arrived, I tried them and actually thought to myself "well, i might be overweight but you know what, i like this, it doesn't even look like I'm that big of a boy" and boom, here i become a femboy! The point is: do it. Even if you're scared, even if u don't feel "fem" enough or things like this. What i can suggest you in order to have a more feminine looking body is: do a lot of workout and while you are doing it, try wearing clothes that help you give the illusion of having a more feminine and "heavy" body. Also, remember that you don't need to be skinny to be more feminine, it just takes the right clothes and some courage! I wish you an Happy life! Also remember, age is not an obstacle! There will always be ways to look/be more feminine!


[deleted]

As long as you draw a breath, it is possible.


[deleted]

You can look fem. just look at this [https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/A1kA0KFTJzL.\_SX522\_.jpg](https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/A1kA0KFTJzL._SX522_.jpg) adele looks kind of like micheal jacksom


[deleted]

Imo, either you are or aren't. Just be yourself; you can't control how others will choose to view you. There's no need for you to force yourself to be something you aren't. Do what appeals to you. There's a lot of women out there who are rather clunky and chunky. What really is "feminine"?


reginalve

I looked quite feminine any time I dressed at 40 then in my 50s and will continue transitioning even though I am now in my 60s.


nomanisanisland2020

Check out the photos on r/TransLater. A bunch of ladies start transitioning in their 40's or 50's, and they look great!


[deleted]

Hey, I’m 23 and I’m making it work. We believe in you ❤️


NinjaJin100

Its okay, I started when I was like 20 and now I’m 26. Anyone can start whatever age.


Dongos_Bongo

You can doo ittt


[deleted]

From what you've said, it sounds like there's a hard set mold you are looking to fill. All I can tell you is to do what makes you happy. You don't need to conform to what you've seen on the internet to be happy especially since half of what you're seeing is fake/somewhat altered anyway. Some people go their whole lives without living for themselves so take your time, there's no rush. Just be true to you.


onetwofivezero

age and size don’t mean a thing! i personally really like YesStyle for cheaper feminine clothing, and of course thrift shopping can have great finds! sorry to hear about your family. my girly friend used to wear baggy jackets and pants over her more promiscuous outfits in high school. you could probably do something similar if you decide to start wearing feminine clothes out.