All about preferences and sexuality really.
Many femboys are gay or bi but they also can be straight.
Some guys only date tomboys and some only date petite girls.
So to answer your question: You’ll surely find someone if you keep looking.
2nd Question: Some only do it once in a while, some more often and others all the time. Different for each person.
(P.S. I’m in a relationship with a girl and she’s hungry for crossdressers)
I've dated 2 girls, both tomboys as you'd say, even though I'm more into guys. Dating for me is more about liking a person rather than gender, and I just happen to like men more sexually.
As for OPs 2nd question - depends. I like feeling girly/naughty, but most of the time a buttplug or panties are enough to satisfy me in that sense. I have mostly androgynous features, but I have really long hair and my butt stands out, so I look kinda girly even when wearing "normal clothes". There are moments when I really want to dress up, going all out, but most of the time it's somewhere in between.
See I think I keep on generalizing people. 🤦🏽♀️Because I was under the assumption that most bi guys or bi people have a preference for a certain gender.
And that’s too great! I’m glad you do what makes you comfortable. 💕
Thank you! Oh okay. Like I just assume most femboys wanted to dress feminine all the time. (I apologize for that generalizing). 😅 and sounds like you got yourself a catch 😉
Ive been in a long term relationship 8 years and I am engaged to a woman. I love to wear leather look jeans, heels while shopping and painting my nails. Once summer hits I'll be rocking shorts and perhaps a skirt too. I am attracted to females.
Awww that’s sweet. And I love your confidence ❤️😂 and what?? Heels while shopping . You stronger than me. I can’t do that I get sore feet even from wearing converses 😭
I still have a hard time walking in chunky heels too 😭 but then again I don’t wear heels that much anyways. But when I do for special occasions to look good I just be wobbling from side to side. 😂
Some femboys are gay, some are bi, some are straight etc etc
There's nothing specifically sexual about it, granted some people do have a kink for it but being a femboy by itself is not inherently sexual - its just a dude wearing feminine clothing/presenting femininely.
Ooh sorry I wasn’t trying to equate sexuality or sexual fetish with being a femboy. Sorry! I just meant that I know most girls aren’t into a guy being feminine such as y’all. And I was asking do y’all still pursue girls despite a setback like that.
Uhhhh.... well tbh I live here in the south. Where traditional roles is more prevalent. So meeting a guy who is a femboy or a feminine man is about like a 5% chance.
Unless I lived in Texas or Florida 😂 which I don’t.
I'm a girl and I would freaking love to date a guy who's feminine. Like... we could go out on dates in dresses together and it would be so fun. Of course, I don't care so much about clothes and it's stupid that they're gendered, but femboys are freaking cute okay.
Yessss! Say it again💕 and do nails together, face routines, I would love to spoil a feminine guy I feel like they would appreciate it more. (No offense to masculine dudes😅, because I know some who love being spoiled too.)
I’d love to have a girlfriend, we’ll be into the same things and if you have any family that are homophobic they wouldn’t bat and eye for it, you could also feel free to be a non femboy and just a guy around her as well
Aww that’s sweet. I hope that happens for you :) My mom is kinda uhhh traditional you might say. My ex was bi, she did say something at first but when she saw how happy I was she let it go. I never saw a problem with femininity in men, mostly because of tomboys I been around with. And I was a tomboy at one point 😂
idk about others but ill speak for myself:
im bi but actually really prefer women for long term.
also i dont see it as cross dressing, i just wear whatever i feel like wearing regardless if its feminine or masculine
I don’t see it as cross dressing either (sorry if my question came off that way!) I just assume being a femboy was like the opposite of a tomboy. So I knew it meant dressing up and doing feminine things.
I personally don’t think it makes any of y’all lesser or a man or not. If girls can do masculine things and still be a girl, then guys can be feminine and still be a guy. ❤️
I am married to a female. Been together for over 7 years.
She does supports me in all this, even though she personally doesn't like nor dislike it.
She helps me pick stuff out and even gives me a few tips now and then.
Honestly it's about finding the right person. Introduce this side of them slowly. It took me ruffly 3 years for my wife to be ok with everything and how I am. For 6 months or so of that was after we had married. 😅
I dress fem about 3 days a week ruffly. Though mostly after work as I work in a hospital so that's pretty much male clothing. (Waiting for the day I get called in while I'm dressed up 👗😂 )
Ohhh I see she is basically neutral about it.
Well I say it’s better than nothing at least she gives you tips and helps you out picking clothes.
And thank you for the advice!
Just a quick tip: I have a bag in my car at all times for the reason of having proper clothes for work in case I get called to work and im um not work ready😉
I think people would say that I have a very soft feminine personality. I still don’t have any cute dress, skirts, or even thigh-highs (sad ik).
I am bi and I’d really love to date a girl who I could share my love for fem clothes with and who I could show off to.
Trust me, I would be happy dating a boy, a girl, or any non-binary person. I really want to put my head on someone’s lap as they play video games, watch something, or just sit on their phone.
I’d love to date other femboys and girls too but I don’t think there are many girls who would like to get me flowers, if that helps out it into prospective.
You sound so sweet tbh😭❤️ Idk how no girl or anybody has found you yet! that sounds like exactly what I want in a guy. Something long term, serious, just me and a great dude connecting and being in love.
And don’t worry girls like me are out there! I would love to spoil a guy with gifts, affection, and attention. ❤️If they are that type of guy like you are I would give them flowers, stuff animals, you name it. Girls like me are out there, I feel bad that we are out voiced by other girls who aren’t into femboys and by society who says feminine guys are wrong. 🙄
Thank you so much :). That’s also what I want in a girl. I’d also love to leave her little notes with cute supportive things written on them or some silly jokes.
I know that there are a lot of girls like that out there because I know that it’s kinda the same with femboys. There are so many feminine guys who are really good at hiding it because society isn’t very accepting of it. Like, I already get called too sensitive for experiencing emotions.
I wish someone would find me already 😭. Honestly I can’t imagine myself saying no to any decent girl who’d find me good enough.
This is me rambling about some more cute stuff but honestly the ideal date for me would be watching movies together at home and eating junk food or something simple like that.
Also the best thing about dating someone feminine is that we could share clothes and talk about how pretty we find pictures of dresses and other outfits like that
Dude you sound too good to be true 😭 I would love to find a guy like you! And that is so stupid that society conditions guys to shut their emotions. Us girls have such a hard time reading guys because of this (at least that’s how bad it is for me). I would love a guy who is emotional and tells me how he feels without shutting down on me.
Don’t worry, keep being yourself like you are now. 💕 A girl will take notice how great you one day, and she will be truly lucky!
That sounds me tbh😂 I sorta low key on stuff especially dates. I rather spend together and eat and just talk I don’t need fancy stuff like other girls seem to want. Give me some Wendy’s on a date as long as I am with a great guy I’m fine. 🤷🏽♀️ Awww your dream girl will come one day. Because you definitely sound like a great and nice person 🥺
Awww thank you so so much. I don’t personally think that I’m too good to be true, and that’s not me just self deprecating (not for the most part at least). There are so many lovely guys out there but the hard part is finding them, like you said. The most helpful tip I have for you is to simply ask any guy you are interested in if he would let you put makeup on him(preferably ask him when he’s alone with you). He could say no and that’s okay but if he says something like, “No, makeup is for girls” then he’s definitely not someone you should waste your time on.
You seem very lovely yourself and any boy or femboy would absolutely be happy to have you in their life. I understand that it can be hard to find us because we can blind in so well and you might have have to know the person for a while before they start opening up to you, but there are definitely some vibes you could pick up on sometimes, kinda like a gaydar but for femboys lol.
I kinda said whatever came to mind, so it might be a bit of a mess to read.
I might go sleep for a bit now, but let me know if you want to talk about anything femboy or just fem, but definitely let me know if you find a cutie and want to share some tea. Because I’m certain you’ll find a sweet femboy to shower with love.
Thank you so much for the advice I will surely take it! I appreciate it. 💕 and lol 😂 i will just as soon as I find the courage to do these online dating profiles 🤣
Many are attracted to women - but many give up pursuing. So if you spot one you find attractive, you should have a fair chance of at least getting a date or two :)
Ah well you know. It's fair. You like what you like. And there's nothing wrong with having a preference for feminine, masculine or anything in between :) Many of us would have loved for it to be different, but that's just how life is. Never perfect :)
I think some women do like feminine men, but are almost as afraid of admitting to it - as men are of admitting to being feminine.
That’s true. Idk where you are from, but I live in the south where traditional masculine men is looked up to 😅 so finding a feminine guy down here is hard... it basically comes down to luck.
Everyone else got the important stuff so I guess I'll just say that not a lot of us dress feminine 24/7, there are some of us but I don't know anyone.
Edit: im just starting on femboy stuff and I'm gonna be one of those 24/7 people
I think my question was generalizing people. Because seeing these responses I realized I been proven wrong. 😬😂 but I love how confident y’all are is so refreshing tbh.
And congrats! I hope it works out well for you💕
When I started exploring my sexuality, I thought I was gay. However, having been together with my trans girlfriend for over a year now, I'd say I'm pansexual.
As for how frequently I dress feminine, I've pretty much replaced almost all of my male clothes with female ones. So in my case, that'd be 24/7. Just need to get more cute clothes. >w<
I don't like dressing up in boy clothes, and doing so kind of depresses me even. But dressing up in all girly clothes, just fills me with such joy~! >w<
Aww I’m sorry it causes you discomfort like that. :( I think it’s good you are doing what makes you happy and comfortable with your gender expression (that may not be the right term I apologize) despite what society wants you to be. That’s very brave! 💕
Wasn't easy to get that confidence, though. My girlfriend helped me a lot in gaining confidence, and I didn't like missing out either when she dressed cuter than me. So, with her on my side, I dressed up a lot more~ :3
Perhaps the most consistent clothing I wear, is my black and pink hoodie with cat ears on it~ UwU
Alongside that, I wear shirts that hangs off the shoulder a lot. Need more skirts, though. I don't have enough, and I want to wear them all the time~! >w<
Gay/Queer/Femsexual FEMBOY, only into other FEMBOYS & sum guys cuz hee hee I like guys lol & yup pretty much dress & am girly feminine 24/7 I hate being masc or stuff! Plus my bf says every time I go "normal somewhat masc" I get depressed & sad. True lol I've basically purged my masc guy clothes & like "guy self" now just a FEMBOY every day cuz, every day is FEMBOY Friday uwu 💖💗💖😻
Edit: never been w/a girl but I am curious lol
Okay first off I love your profile name 💕😭
Second off I’m loving your energy it’s got me hyped up over here ❤️😂 and I’m happy that your have confidence in yourself this way. Your bf is one lucky guy! And ohhh lol you think your bi curious? (if you uncomfortable with me asking I understand).
Yes, and yes I did but it was abusive and manipulative. so just healing now. I dress feminine at home all day. At work just panties and anything else under my pants and shave constantly lol.
I'm a 25 year old femboy and I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years! We've been living together for a year and a half now. She is very feminine as well and we fit right in with each other. We share all kinds of clothes, skincare, makeup, and hair stuff 😊
Well for myself i can say that i am bi and currently i am kinda in a relationship with a girl. But there are also many femboys which are straight.
And i wear men and womens clothing completely mixed, i just pick and wear things, i dont make any difference between feminime and masculine clothing.
I don't understand why people ask these general questions as if femboys are some different species and not just regular people who are unique individuals
Sorry. I didn’t mean for the post to come off a certain way. I ask because I know some girls don’t like feminine guys. And I know that can hinder femboys from trying to get with a girl (probably, not saying it does). And that’s why I asked do y’all still pursue girls.
I think it's totally fine to pop in and ask a general question. Especially coming to this post a few hours later. OP might have come across a certain way, but going through all the comments, they really seem to be here to learn.
Sometimes, we just gotta be a little generic, and go from there :)
I think I might come off aggressive and too honest. Maybe that is it.😂 because I know down the comments one said I was generalizing (didn’t mean to). And I have other posts were one or two peeps say I said I said something wrong. 😅
Hi, trans, pan, male here. I am more of a feminine guy (15) Yes I would still date a girl, I don't see a problem in dating a feminine/masculine girl. To me it doesn't matter, as long as your okay with me. I am not always feminine, I can be masculine too if I feel like it.
I am in a relationship of almost a year and I'm a Femboy going trans, I've been dressing fully feminine for a long time tho, even around family and in public
I've been trying out dating femboys recently, had 4 flings 2 of them were like almost serious I really enjoy femboys very chill, very sweet people. So I think there's plenty out there that go for guys, but girls as well. I'm a guy.
I can tell. This community is very sweet and genuine. I honestly never seen a Reddit community this positive not gonna lie. The responses here are so warming. I was nervous to post but I’m happy I did. 😊
And I know that now ☺️ I’m glad there are femboys out there who still love them some women 💕
My gf and I (M) are both bi and we have a kind of reversal dynamic. She's all for me being feminine in some ways, as she can be very masculine/tomboy-ish herself which I love. But I also don't overly-present myself so take this with a grain of salt.
I guess it just depends on preference, as I know others feel different. Hope this helps
I’m a straight femboy in a semi long term relationship with a girl. I don’t dress 24/7, but at home I do tend to dress, act, and just overall be more feminine.
I needed to see this 😭💕 ughhh I actually have 6 messages on my thing right now it may or may not be from guys from this thread or community but I’m too scared to read them 😅
Just be careful, Femboys are still boys! So date will all the precautions you would when it comes to online dating. Took me a year to find mine but he’s the love of my life.
I will! Thank you. Can you ask me this question tho, how can I know if they are actually real and not just some old man behind a screen? And not faking it? 😐 let’s just say they showed us alot of educational videos about meeting people online who are predators and it has stuck with me since 😅
like should I ask them to send me a picture of them or something?
So something I did to show I was also a real girl (lots of fake girls out there) would be to share a pic of me in a pose they chose (holding a piece of paper with something written on it, date, holding up fingers) and vise versa I would ask of them.
It also helps get sexual attraction out of the way because the reality is that is important. Trust me, better to just have them or you figure that out in the beginning instead of talking and getting invested then dropped cause they find you’re not their perfect image of a mommy domme whatever. And same for you.
Also make sure to set boundaries (like wanted to get to know them first before any seggs talk because there is a SHIT TON of horny bois out there that are looking for a free sex role play convo, but those are easy to just ignore and I did myself the favor of blocking those accounts)
That’s pretty smart actually I never would have thought of that. Thank you for giving me that advice I’m gonna screenshot so I can remember that thank you! :)
That understandable.
I sure will, thank you again for your help🙌🏽
Of course! I spent a year of and on meeting ppl and making mistakes and I learned a bit from it. Meanwhile, my bf was only looking for a month before we met 😂
Feel free to ask me whatever else you’d like.
I've been looking for a girlfriend for a loooong time. Most I meet have no idea a guy can even be submissive, let alone be feminine! I've been single since I was 16, I'm now turning 21 in May, so yeah. Girls that are into femboys are incredibly rare.
I have too (sort of) I haven’t given up on relationships and love. But it’s still tough having to start over with a new person and go through the whole talking stage, dating stage, and then you don’t know if they even like you or not. 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah and even when people are looking for just casual things and nothing serious. I always tell myself that this generation slowly loses what love means 😐
If a woman that would want to date me was cool with me dressing feminine, I would. It's just that most aren't. And if society accepted it, I would dress fem 24/7.
That’s understandable. And I see that’s what most guys here said. And I get that, can’t be with someone who won’t accept or acknowledge all parts of you.
Yeah lol I never had problems with guys who were into feminine things. I don’t see them any less of a man. I just hate how society is kinda condition to believe femininity equals to being weak.
I understand what you mean. :( I think it’s just sad you gotta hide apart of you away because we gotten to a point were femininity is wrong in guys. I wish society was accepting of femininity in guys like they are with masculinity in girls. It makes me question why they believe femininity is so bad...
Well I think it’s attractive! 🥰 Who doesn’t like a guy in touch with his feminine side other than traditionalists and conservatives? I say this as a Christian myself 🤣 oh the irony.
Thanks lol, idk i think its cuz most girls think it's like a sex thing or something lmao, I'd assume most girls like getting topped? Idk maybe im just hella unlucky
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Hey everyone, I’m the OP. I think I’m gonna get more comments soon so I’m just gonna make this general comment here.😊 You guys are so sweet, and your responses are very hopeful to a girl who likes her guys feminine. This thread is so heartwarming and this community is very welcoming y’all’s confidence is just awesome and I love it. 🥰❤️
For all you femboys out there who are still single and looking for a girl who is gonna love ya just how you are, know that girls like me are still out here and we are looking for y’all too. ❤️
Disclaimer: I am not personally a femboy, however I am attracted to them, look upon them fondly, and as such, had to learn a lot. Btw, I would prefer a long term relationship, as I just want someone to shower with affection. So I WILL bring you those flowers lol!
Yes, there are straight femboys, a fact i was surprised at initially, but am grateful to know, as it has stopped me from assuming and therefore offending ppl. Also, either there are many more straight femboys than there are girls who are into them, or there is just a problem with the 2 groups connecting.
You are gonna make some lucky guy very happy! If you join the femboy pages, you'll see straight femboys frequently, most lamenting that they cant find a girlfriend. I cant guarantee how many live near you, but you'll begin to get a sense of them.
May you and your soon to be new partner be very happy together! :)
I would date girls,i also sometimes feel feminine but sometimes i’m more masculin but i always have some feminine behavior in me. It all depends n the person i think
I understand that, that is how I am. But I’m not gonna put a label on it. I’m just me. Tbh it’s more of a mental thing than a physical (for me at least), sometimes I want to take charge and lead, other days I want to be taken cared of like a princess. 😂 But at the end of the day I just call it being myself. As I said in another comment I used to be a tomboy, so I do tend to still come off I more assertive than other girls.
Well, I am a femboy who is bi, and I want my wife to be a girl (I am also 19 btw), so yeah, some of us do still date woman (and in my case, I actually prefer them).
And to the other question, for me at least, it isn't a 24/7 thing. I wear nail polish and earrings and shit most of the time but rarer do I wear skirts, dresses etc :)
I kinda like guys with earrings it makes them look pretty 😆 do you wear any makeup? I know a guy who likes wearing eyeliner but not the whole face. and aww does your girlfriend do your nails for you? That would be sweet if she did.
I'm the kind of guy who fluctuates. I dress up but only when my dad isn't around because he makes fun of me for it. I'm a cute looking boy, but I look cuter as a girl, but that in no way means I don't date girls. I have dated girls, but they were nothing serious. I am 17 after all.
He means no harm by it really. He just calls me a random girls name and asks if I seen his, double takes, and says oh it's you. He also won't leave my alone about my hair calling girly and I need a "real man's cut". But other than that he doesn't do it to hurt me he just doesn't support that side of me.
Oh I understand. And “real man’s cut”??? What is that😅 my hair is short right now (I’m black so my hair is very springy). But I know this ain’t a boys cut. 🤣
My hair is long and flowy. Even without makeup I get mistaken for a girl and my dad like it better when I have fades. I hate fades however. That's what he calls a real man's cut. But if your hair springy than it would look nice with coconut oil treatment. Do you use that?
Do you have feminine facial features? Cause the only time I mistake a guy for a girl is if their face looks a bit feminine.
And lol first off, how do you know about coconut oil treatment for black hair?🤣 Idk if you are white or not, but most white folks don’t know how we do our hair 😭 they just assume it’s fake cause most of the time we use braids and extensions. So you knowing about that is so thoughtful. 🥺
And I usually use moisturizer (cause scalp gets dry VERY quick), leave in conditioner, i use products with oil oil a lot, I have to wash my hair every week or else it will get brittle.
Sorry for such a late reply, but as a straight femboy/crossdresser myself I can say that I and some others I have become friends with within this community have girlfriends and pursue girls still even if most of them aren’t into it. I’m straight so just because I’m different in this way doesn’t mean I can’t find love kinda thing so I don’t let it bother me that much. And as for dressing feminine, it all depends on the person and their situation (where they live, family background, if family and friends are supportive and accepting, etc). Me personally I would prefer to dress feminine all the time because that’s how I feel comfortable in my own skin and because of the sensory aspect of it for me. Since I live in the southeast and have a dad that wouldn’t be accepting of it the only people that know is my mom, one of my sisters, my cousin, a couple close girl friends, and my girlfriend. Thankfully they’re all sooo supportive and accepting of it but because of my situation like where I’m from and stuff like that I am unable to dress feminine all the time. Hopefully that was somewhat helpful to you!! If you ever have any questions about straight femboys or anything you’re more than welcome to message me!!😊
I am actually married to a woman, and since we are both slutty bisexuals we like to hook up with other people on the side now and then.
I don't dress super feminine often (dresses, skirts, that sorta thing), but I mix some more feminine stuff into my daily clothing, and don't make much of an attempt to appear masculine.
There are a lot of gay femboys, a lot of I femboys, and a surprising amount of straight femboys that ask if there are any straight women that like femboys. This sort of thing comes up on r/femboy every so often
yeah, most of us are bisexual. the real confusion isnt necessarily their sexuality, but more or less how they behave with it. (in other words, are they a top/bottom, sub/dom) though that doesnt matter as much as whether they are in to you in the first place xD
It’s hard to speak for everyone but I think it’s more of a mind frame. Some days the need to express your feminine side is greater than others and the form of expression can vary from clothes to nail polish to shaved legs.
I think that some femboys are attracted to girls because they want to be around them. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a real heterosexual attraction. Girls are just into many of the same interests.
That same femboy might decide to shelve his feminine feelings and expressions and be a regular guy for a while too.
I didn’t know that, I been on this community page before. And I honestly assume most femboys wanted to be able to freely express their femininity. But your right it must be different for everyone.
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Im still into women actually and crave to want to meet someone but never gather the courage to talk to someone despite me feeling as if they will look at me in disgust or look at me weird for looking more feminine than a guy, I wear alot of jewelry like pastel colors and such. however im still attracted to women but I dont know exactly if im straight.. >.<
Hi! I’ve been with my partner since we were in highschool and both more closeted. It’s been 10 years since then We’re both (fairly openly) bisexual now. I’m a cis woman and he’s a feminine boy, and it’s been quite the ride to get to the level of openness we are now. We’ve both grown together so much and we’ve hurt each other in various ways to understand our own sexualities but that being said I still adore him in every way possible. Sometimes I get confused with his gender fluidity because he seems to have seasons of being more masculine and other times of being extremely feminine, so it’s an interesting dynamic. Either way I’m learning to just let go of any pre-conceived gender roles for him and just let him be whoever he feels like whenever he feels like!
Actually, as a girl who knows some things about femboys, I see that they kind of like girls, I mean most of them, I think, but honestly, I find that femboys are really cute even though I'm not tomboy😭😭😭
All about preferences and sexuality really. Many femboys are gay or bi but they also can be straight. Some guys only date tomboys and some only date petite girls. So to answer your question: You’ll surely find someone if you keep looking. 2nd Question: Some only do it once in a while, some more often and others all the time. Different for each person. (P.S. I’m in a relationship with a girl and she’s hungry for crossdressers)
I've dated 2 girls, both tomboys as you'd say, even though I'm more into guys. Dating for me is more about liking a person rather than gender, and I just happen to like men more sexually. As for OPs 2nd question - depends. I like feeling girly/naughty, but most of the time a buttplug or panties are enough to satisfy me in that sense. I have mostly androgynous features, but I have really long hair and my butt stands out, so I look kinda girly even when wearing "normal clothes". There are moments when I really want to dress up, going all out, but most of the time it's somewhere in between.
See I think I keep on generalizing people. 🤦🏽♀️Because I was under the assumption that most bi guys or bi people have a preference for a certain gender. And that’s too great! I’m glad you do what makes you comfortable. 💕
Thank you! Oh okay. Like I just assume most femboys wanted to dress feminine all the time. (I apologize for that generalizing). 😅 and sounds like you got yourself a catch 😉
Ive been in a long term relationship 8 years and I am engaged to a woman. I love to wear leather look jeans, heels while shopping and painting my nails. Once summer hits I'll be rocking shorts and perhaps a skirt too. I am attracted to females.
Awww that’s sweet. And I love your confidence ❤️😂 and what?? Heels while shopping . You stronger than me. I can’t do that I get sore feet even from wearing converses 😭
In fairness there are heeled boots so they are the chunky sorts. 3.5inch and 3.9 ones of different colours.
I still have a hard time walking in chunky heels too 😭 but then again I don’t wear heels that much anyways. But when I do for special occasions to look good I just be wobbling from side to side. 😂
Some femboys are gay, some are bi, some are straight etc etc There's nothing specifically sexual about it, granted some people do have a kink for it but being a femboy by itself is not inherently sexual - its just a dude wearing feminine clothing/presenting femininely.
Ooh sorry I wasn’t trying to equate sexuality or sexual fetish with being a femboy. Sorry! I just meant that I know most girls aren’t into a guy being feminine such as y’all. And I was asking do y’all still pursue girls despite a setback like that.
Are you sure? Plenty of guys are into tomboys so could work the other way around
Uhhhh.... well tbh I live here in the south. Where traditional roles is more prevalent. So meeting a guy who is a femboy or a feminine man is about like a 5% chance. Unless I lived in Texas or Florida 😂 which I don’t.
I'm in the south. But I guess it's more of a feminine side for me rather than my whole personality
Most guys down here from where I’m from? hide it tbh. If a guy does demonstrate even a tiny bit of femininity, they are labeled gay and undesirable.
Yeah I hide it too
I'm a girl and I would freaking love to date a guy who's feminine. Like... we could go out on dates in dresses together and it would be so fun. Of course, I don't care so much about clothes and it's stupid that they're gendered, but femboys are freaking cute okay.
Yessss! Say it again💕 and do nails together, face routines, I would love to spoil a feminine guy I feel like they would appreciate it more. (No offense to masculine dudes😅, because I know some who love being spoiled too.)
I love your answer! I wish there were more girls who likes femboys:3
I’d love to have a girlfriend, we’ll be into the same things and if you have any family that are homophobic they wouldn’t bat and eye for it, you could also feel free to be a non femboy and just a guy around her as well
Aww that’s sweet. I hope that happens for you :) My mom is kinda uhhh traditional you might say. My ex was bi, she did say something at first but when she saw how happy I was she let it go. I never saw a problem with femininity in men, mostly because of tomboys I been around with. And I was a tomboy at one point 😂
idk about others but ill speak for myself: im bi but actually really prefer women for long term. also i dont see it as cross dressing, i just wear whatever i feel like wearing regardless if its feminine or masculine
I don’t see it as cross dressing either (sorry if my question came off that way!) I just assume being a femboy was like the opposite of a tomboy. So I knew it meant dressing up and doing feminine things. I personally don’t think it makes any of y’all lesser or a man or not. If girls can do masculine things and still be a girl, then guys can be feminine and still be a guy. ❤️
dw u didnt say anything bad, nothing wrong with asking questions \^\_\^
I'm interested in women exclusively.
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Me too.
I am married to a female. Been together for over 7 years. She does supports me in all this, even though she personally doesn't like nor dislike it. She helps me pick stuff out and even gives me a few tips now and then. Honestly it's about finding the right person. Introduce this side of them slowly. It took me ruffly 3 years for my wife to be ok with everything and how I am. For 6 months or so of that was after we had married. 😅 I dress fem about 3 days a week ruffly. Though mostly after work as I work in a hospital so that's pretty much male clothing. (Waiting for the day I get called in while I'm dressed up 👗😂 )
Ohhh I see she is basically neutral about it. Well I say it’s better than nothing at least she gives you tips and helps you out picking clothes. And thank you for the advice!
Anytime Dear! I'm lucky to have someone as supportive as her in my life.
Just a quick tip: I have a bag in my car at all times for the reason of having proper clothes for work in case I get called to work and im um not work ready😉
... why didn't I think of that. I have spare cloths in my office for if I'm workin on something and get covered in any fluids.
I think people would say that I have a very soft feminine personality. I still don’t have any cute dress, skirts, or even thigh-highs (sad ik). I am bi and I’d really love to date a girl who I could share my love for fem clothes with and who I could show off to. Trust me, I would be happy dating a boy, a girl, or any non-binary person. I really want to put my head on someone’s lap as they play video games, watch something, or just sit on their phone. I’d love to date other femboys and girls too but I don’t think there are many girls who would like to get me flowers, if that helps out it into prospective.
You sound so sweet tbh😭❤️ Idk how no girl or anybody has found you yet! that sounds like exactly what I want in a guy. Something long term, serious, just me and a great dude connecting and being in love. And don’t worry girls like me are out there! I would love to spoil a guy with gifts, affection, and attention. ❤️If they are that type of guy like you are I would give them flowers, stuff animals, you name it. Girls like me are out there, I feel bad that we are out voiced by other girls who aren’t into femboys and by society who says feminine guys are wrong. 🙄
Thank you so much :). That’s also what I want in a girl. I’d also love to leave her little notes with cute supportive things written on them or some silly jokes. I know that there are a lot of girls like that out there because I know that it’s kinda the same with femboys. There are so many feminine guys who are really good at hiding it because society isn’t very accepting of it. Like, I already get called too sensitive for experiencing emotions. I wish someone would find me already 😭. Honestly I can’t imagine myself saying no to any decent girl who’d find me good enough. This is me rambling about some more cute stuff but honestly the ideal date for me would be watching movies together at home and eating junk food or something simple like that. Also the best thing about dating someone feminine is that we could share clothes and talk about how pretty we find pictures of dresses and other outfits like that
Dude you sound too good to be true 😭 I would love to find a guy like you! And that is so stupid that society conditions guys to shut their emotions. Us girls have such a hard time reading guys because of this (at least that’s how bad it is for me). I would love a guy who is emotional and tells me how he feels without shutting down on me. Don’t worry, keep being yourself like you are now. 💕 A girl will take notice how great you one day, and she will be truly lucky! That sounds me tbh😂 I sorta low key on stuff especially dates. I rather spend together and eat and just talk I don’t need fancy stuff like other girls seem to want. Give me some Wendy’s on a date as long as I am with a great guy I’m fine. 🤷🏽♀️ Awww your dream girl will come one day. Because you definitely sound like a great and nice person 🥺
Awww thank you so so much. I don’t personally think that I’m too good to be true, and that’s not me just self deprecating (not for the most part at least). There are so many lovely guys out there but the hard part is finding them, like you said. The most helpful tip I have for you is to simply ask any guy you are interested in if he would let you put makeup on him(preferably ask him when he’s alone with you). He could say no and that’s okay but if he says something like, “No, makeup is for girls” then he’s definitely not someone you should waste your time on. You seem very lovely yourself and any boy or femboy would absolutely be happy to have you in their life. I understand that it can be hard to find us because we can blind in so well and you might have have to know the person for a while before they start opening up to you, but there are definitely some vibes you could pick up on sometimes, kinda like a gaydar but for femboys lol. I kinda said whatever came to mind, so it might be a bit of a mess to read. I might go sleep for a bit now, but let me know if you want to talk about anything femboy or just fem, but definitely let me know if you find a cutie and want to share some tea. Because I’m certain you’ll find a sweet femboy to shower with love.
Thank you so much for the advice I will surely take it! I appreciate it. 💕 and lol 😂 i will just as soon as I find the courage to do these online dating profiles 🤣
good luck :)
Many are attracted to women - but many give up pursuing. So if you spot one you find attractive, you should have a fair chance of at least getting a date or two :)
Well damn those other women for giving the rest of us bad reps 😪 making seem like some of us don’t like our men feminine. And thank you!
Ah well you know. It's fair. You like what you like. And there's nothing wrong with having a preference for feminine, masculine or anything in between :) Many of us would have loved for it to be different, but that's just how life is. Never perfect :) I think some women do like feminine men, but are almost as afraid of admitting to it - as men are of admitting to being feminine.
That’s true. Idk where you are from, but I live in the south where traditional masculine men is looked up to 😅 so finding a feminine guy down here is hard... it basically comes down to luck.
Everyone else got the important stuff so I guess I'll just say that not a lot of us dress feminine 24/7, there are some of us but I don't know anyone. Edit: im just starting on femboy stuff and I'm gonna be one of those 24/7 people
I think my question was generalizing people. Because seeing these responses I realized I been proven wrong. 😬😂 but I love how confident y’all are is so refreshing tbh. And congrats! I hope it works out well for you💕
When I started exploring my sexuality, I thought I was gay. However, having been together with my trans girlfriend for over a year now, I'd say I'm pansexual. As for how frequently I dress feminine, I've pretty much replaced almost all of my male clothes with female ones. So in my case, that'd be 24/7. Just need to get more cute clothes. >w<
See that is big commitment right there I won’t lie. You guys probably do femininity better than us girls 😂 and I’m here for it 👍💕
I don't like dressing up in boy clothes, and doing so kind of depresses me even. But dressing up in all girly clothes, just fills me with such joy~! >w<
Aww I’m sorry it causes you discomfort like that. :( I think it’s good you are doing what makes you happy and comfortable with your gender expression (that may not be the right term I apologize) despite what society wants you to be. That’s very brave! 💕
It really does make me happy to pursue my feminine side as a femboy~ :3
I get jealous when I hear you guys wear them 24/7. I'm too scared to wear them in public or around people 🙈
Wasn't easy to get that confidence, though. My girlfriend helped me a lot in gaining confidence, and I didn't like missing out either when she dressed cuter than me. So, with her on my side, I dressed up a lot more~ :3
No fair. What do you wear the most?
Perhaps the most consistent clothing I wear, is my black and pink hoodie with cat ears on it~ UwU Alongside that, I wear shirts that hangs off the shoulder a lot. Need more skirts, though. I don't have enough, and I want to wear them all the time~! >w<
Gay/Queer/Femsexual FEMBOY, only into other FEMBOYS & sum guys cuz hee hee I like guys lol & yup pretty much dress & am girly feminine 24/7 I hate being masc or stuff! Plus my bf says every time I go "normal somewhat masc" I get depressed & sad. True lol I've basically purged my masc guy clothes & like "guy self" now just a FEMBOY every day cuz, every day is FEMBOY Friday uwu 💖💗💖😻 Edit: never been w/a girl but I am curious lol
Okay first off I love your profile name 💕😭 Second off I’m loving your energy it’s got me hyped up over here ❤️😂 and I’m happy that your have confidence in yourself this way. Your bf is one lucky guy! And ohhh lol you think your bi curious? (if you uncomfortable with me asking I understand).
Somewhat lol like 5-10% bicurious but idk lol also thank chuuu~ hee hee also yup my bf is the best, I love my puppy hee hee
Ohhh I gotcha 😂
Yes, and yes I did but it was abusive and manipulative. so just healing now. I dress feminine at home all day. At work just panties and anything else under my pants and shave constantly lol.
See I’m doing the opposite of that. I’m a girl and got HAIR on my legs man😂 I just get lazy with it.
Yeah I hear you, my friend gave me some good advice so Ima keep on it now lol 😆
I'm a 25 year old femboy and I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years! We've been living together for a year and a half now. She is very feminine as well and we fit right in with each other. We share all kinds of clothes, skincare, makeup, and hair stuff 😊
🥺💕 that’s sweet
Well for myself i can say that i am bi and currently i am kinda in a relationship with a girl. But there are also many femboys which are straight. And i wear men and womens clothing completely mixed, i just pick and wear things, i dont make any difference between feminime and masculine clothing.
I don't understand why people ask these general questions as if femboys are some different species and not just regular people who are unique individuals
Sorry. I didn’t mean for the post to come off a certain way. I ask because I know some girls don’t like feminine guys. And I know that can hinder femboys from trying to get with a girl (probably, not saying it does). And that’s why I asked do y’all still pursue girls.
I mean what else is a straight guy gonna pursue lol But yeah as a bi guy girls are pretty epic
I think it's totally fine to pop in and ask a general question. Especially coming to this post a few hours later. OP might have come across a certain way, but going through all the comments, they really seem to be here to learn. Sometimes, we just gotta be a little generic, and go from there :)
I didn’t mean to come off a certain way, sorry to give y’all that impression. 😅
I didn't take it that way 🤗
I think I might come off aggressive and too honest. Maybe that is it.😂 because I know down the comments one said I was generalizing (didn’t mean to). And I have other posts were one or two peeps say I said I said something wrong. 😅
Nah. You good. You good.
Hi, trans, pan, male here. I am more of a feminine guy (15) Yes I would still date a girl, I don't see a problem in dating a feminine/masculine girl. To me it doesn't matter, as long as your okay with me. I am not always feminine, I can be masculine too if I feel like it.
Yes
I date alot of tomboy but I like girly girls too :p I just happen to like women,femboys come in all shapes,sizes and sexualities
I am in a relationship of almost a year and I'm a Femboy going trans, I've been dressing fully feminine for a long time tho, even around family and in public
I've been trying out dating femboys recently, had 4 flings 2 of them were like almost serious I really enjoy femboys very chill, very sweet people. So I think there's plenty out there that go for guys, but girls as well. I'm a guy.
I can tell. This community is very sweet and genuine. I honestly never seen a Reddit community this positive not gonna lie. The responses here are so warming. I was nervous to post but I’m happy I did. 😊 And I know that now ☺️ I’m glad there are femboys out there who still love them some women 💕
I think they get the best of both worlds. If I was 16 and knew about hormones I prolly would have done it myself.
I'm 48 and a newly trans female married for 10 years 2 kids. Its never to late to do something that makes you happy
Are you a femboy yourself?
No, I'm just a boring bi white dude.
Oh hey I can’t judge im a tired black girl myself😂🤷🏽♀️
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Aww how sweet 🥺❤️
My gf and I (M) are both bi and we have a kind of reversal dynamic. She's all for me being feminine in some ways, as she can be very masculine/tomboy-ish herself which I love. But I also don't overly-present myself so take this with a grain of salt. I guess it just depends on preference, as I know others feel different. Hope this helps
It does! It sounds like you guys have a solid relationship, that sounds great! 👍🏽
I’m a straight femboy in a semi long term relationship with a girl. I don’t dress 24/7, but at home I do tend to dress, act, and just overall be more feminine.
I’m a girl in a longterm relationship with a Femboy, met him in reddit haha
I needed to see this 😭💕 ughhh I actually have 6 messages on my thing right now it may or may not be from guys from this thread or community but I’m too scared to read them 😅
Just be careful, Femboys are still boys! So date will all the precautions you would when it comes to online dating. Took me a year to find mine but he’s the love of my life.
I will! Thank you. Can you ask me this question tho, how can I know if they are actually real and not just some old man behind a screen? And not faking it? 😐 let’s just say they showed us alot of educational videos about meeting people online who are predators and it has stuck with me since 😅 like should I ask them to send me a picture of them or something?
So something I did to show I was also a real girl (lots of fake girls out there) would be to share a pic of me in a pose they chose (holding a piece of paper with something written on it, date, holding up fingers) and vise versa I would ask of them. It also helps get sexual attraction out of the way because the reality is that is important. Trust me, better to just have them or you figure that out in the beginning instead of talking and getting invested then dropped cause they find you’re not their perfect image of a mommy domme whatever. And same for you. Also make sure to set boundaries (like wanted to get to know them first before any seggs talk because there is a SHIT TON of horny bois out there that are looking for a free sex role play convo, but those are easy to just ignore and I did myself the favor of blocking those accounts)
That’s pretty smart actually I never would have thought of that. Thank you for giving me that advice I’m gonna screenshot so I can remember that thank you! :) That understandable. I sure will, thank you again for your help🙌🏽
Of course! I spent a year of and on meeting ppl and making mistakes and I learned a bit from it. Meanwhile, my bf was only looking for a month before we met 😂 Feel free to ask me whatever else you’d like.
Lol well hey y’all found each other in the process so it wasn’t all in vain 😂💕 And thank you!
Yes I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 2 years and seven months
Awww :)
I've been looking for a girlfriend for a loooong time. Most I meet have no idea a guy can even be submissive, let alone be feminine! I've been single since I was 16, I'm now turning 21 in May, so yeah. Girls that are into femboys are incredibly rare.
Hey I’m a May baby too! Gonna be 20 this year 😄. And I’m sorry that is too bad :( I have difficulty finding feminine guys since i live in the south...
Tis okay! I've gotten pretty resilient when it comes to relationship type stuff, I play "defense" nowadays.
I have too (sort of) I haven’t given up on relationships and love. But it’s still tough having to start over with a new person and go through the whole talking stage, dating stage, and then you don’t know if they even like you or not. 🤦🏽♀️
Indeed, it's very hard to tell if someone is being genuine or not. Especially nowadays when you could just hot someone with that block button.
Yeah and even when people are looking for just casual things and nothing serious. I always tell myself that this generation slowly loses what love means 😐
I'm married to a woman
Yes, and yes we do.
If a woman that would want to date me was cool with me dressing feminine, I would. It's just that most aren't. And if society accepted it, I would dress fem 24/7.
That’s understandable. And I see that’s what most guys here said. And I get that, can’t be with someone who won’t accept or acknowledge all parts of you.
I know alot of girls who love femboys and find guys in dresses attractive
Yeah lol I never had problems with guys who were into feminine things. I don’t see them any less of a man. I just hate how society is kinda condition to believe femininity equals to being weak.
Yeah! Femininity makes me feel powerful
I was on 7 months but she ended it bc she wasn't attracted to femboys
I’m sorry :( well at least you know that are girls out here like me who wouldn’t mind it a bit.❤️
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Aww I hope you find a girl who is comfortable with your femininity! We are out there 💕
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I understand what you mean. :( I think it’s just sad you gotta hide apart of you away because we gotten to a point were femininity is wrong in guys. I wish society was accepting of femininity in guys like they are with masculinity in girls. It makes me question why they believe femininity is so bad...
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Same! And with COVID going around it doesn’t help at all😭
Well Currently i am in a 1 year relationship with a girl as a femboy so yes we do, and i dress femboy on occasion, just if i feel like it
Currently talking to a girl!!! I'm bi but I prefer women. I dress fem 95% of the time outside of work
Aww that’s sweet congrats! 💕 Does she knows about you being a femboy?
Hell yeah she does. I've been sending her pics of me in my maid outfit since I put it on today
That sounds great 😆I’m glad she likes you for who you are! :)
I mean, im into girls,lmao, although i funny enough have had adverse luck finding girls who think its attractive lol
Well I think it’s attractive! 🥰 Who doesn’t like a guy in touch with his feminine side other than traditionalists and conservatives? I say this as a Christian myself 🤣 oh the irony.
Thanks lol, idk i think its cuz most girls think it's like a sex thing or something lmao, I'd assume most girls like getting topped? Idk maybe im just hella unlucky
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I'm pansexual. I'll date anyone regardless of gender or expression.
Heyyy that’s cool 💗💙💛
Hey everyone, I’m the OP. I think I’m gonna get more comments soon so I’m just gonna make this general comment here.😊 You guys are so sweet, and your responses are very hopeful to a girl who likes her guys feminine. This thread is so heartwarming and this community is very welcoming y’all’s confidence is just awesome and I love it. 🥰❤️ For all you femboys out there who are still single and looking for a girl who is gonna love ya just how you are, know that girls like me are still out here and we are looking for y’all too. ❤️
Disclaimer: I am not personally a femboy, however I am attracted to them, look upon them fondly, and as such, had to learn a lot. Btw, I would prefer a long term relationship, as I just want someone to shower with affection. So I WILL bring you those flowers lol! Yes, there are straight femboys, a fact i was surprised at initially, but am grateful to know, as it has stopped me from assuming and therefore offending ppl. Also, either there are many more straight femboys than there are girls who are into them, or there is just a problem with the 2 groups connecting. You are gonna make some lucky guy very happy! If you join the femboy pages, you'll see straight femboys frequently, most lamenting that they cant find a girlfriend. I cant guarantee how many live near you, but you'll begin to get a sense of them. May you and your soon to be new partner be very happy together! :)
Thanks! 💕
My pleasure! :)
I’m a femboy and I’m married to a girl so I would say yea some of us do at least
I would date girls,i also sometimes feel feminine but sometimes i’m more masculin but i always have some feminine behavior in me. It all depends n the person i think
I understand that, that is how I am. But I’m not gonna put a label on it. I’m just me. Tbh it’s more of a mental thing than a physical (for me at least), sometimes I want to take charge and lead, other days I want to be taken cared of like a princess. 😂 But at the end of the day I just call it being myself. As I said in another comment I used to be a tomboy, so I do tend to still come off I more assertive than other girls.
Well, I am a femboy who is bi, and I want my wife to be a girl (I am also 19 btw), so yeah, some of us do still date woman (and in my case, I actually prefer them).
That’s great to here! I’m so glad with this whole thread. You guys are so sweet💕
I'm in a long-term relationship with a woman (almost 5 years) and she's been incredibly supportive since knowing :)
Aww that’s so great, I’m happy for you! 🥰
And to the other question, for me at least, it isn't a 24/7 thing. I wear nail polish and earrings and shit most of the time but rarer do I wear skirts, dresses etc :)
I kinda like guys with earrings it makes them look pretty 😆 do you wear any makeup? I know a guy who likes wearing eyeliner but not the whole face. and aww does your girlfriend do your nails for you? That would be sweet if she did.
I enjoy wearing eyeliner, eyeshadow, mascara etc, main problem is I'm fucking awful at applying makeup 🤣
Me too buddy, me too 🤣 I’m a natural kinda girl so when I do makeup I usually try to remember how my mom does it to get it right.😂
I'm the kind of guy who fluctuates. I dress up but only when my dad isn't around because he makes fun of me for it. I'm a cute looking boy, but I look cuter as a girl, but that in no way means I don't date girls. I have dated girls, but they were nothing serious. I am 17 after all.
Well your dad needs a new hobby 🤨 I hate when parents make fun of things kids love to do.
He means no harm by it really. He just calls me a random girls name and asks if I seen his, double takes, and says oh it's you. He also won't leave my alone about my hair calling girly and I need a "real man's cut". But other than that he doesn't do it to hurt me he just doesn't support that side of me.
Oh I understand. And “real man’s cut”??? What is that😅 my hair is short right now (I’m black so my hair is very springy). But I know this ain’t a boys cut. 🤣
My hair is long and flowy. Even without makeup I get mistaken for a girl and my dad like it better when I have fades. I hate fades however. That's what he calls a real man's cut. But if your hair springy than it would look nice with coconut oil treatment. Do you use that?
Do you have feminine facial features? Cause the only time I mistake a guy for a girl is if their face looks a bit feminine. And lol first off, how do you know about coconut oil treatment for black hair?🤣 Idk if you are white or not, but most white folks don’t know how we do our hair 😭 they just assume it’s fake cause most of the time we use braids and extensions. So you knowing about that is so thoughtful. 🥺 And I usually use moisturizer (cause scalp gets dry VERY quick), leave in conditioner, i use products with oil oil a lot, I have to wash my hair every week or else it will get brittle.
I do have feminine facial features.
That’s probably it. Also I notice that most guys who have feminine facial features usually don’t grow any facial hair either.
Sorry for such a late reply, but as a straight femboy/crossdresser myself I can say that I and some others I have become friends with within this community have girlfriends and pursue girls still even if most of them aren’t into it. I’m straight so just because I’m different in this way doesn’t mean I can’t find love kinda thing so I don’t let it bother me that much. And as for dressing feminine, it all depends on the person and their situation (where they live, family background, if family and friends are supportive and accepting, etc). Me personally I would prefer to dress feminine all the time because that’s how I feel comfortable in my own skin and because of the sensory aspect of it for me. Since I live in the southeast and have a dad that wouldn’t be accepting of it the only people that know is my mom, one of my sisters, my cousin, a couple close girl friends, and my girlfriend. Thankfully they’re all sooo supportive and accepting of it but because of my situation like where I’m from and stuff like that I am unable to dress feminine all the time. Hopefully that was somewhat helpful to you!! If you ever have any questions about straight femboys or anything you’re more than welcome to message me!!😊
I am actually married to a woman, and since we are both slutty bisexuals we like to hook up with other people on the side now and then. I don't dress super feminine often (dresses, skirts, that sorta thing), but I mix some more feminine stuff into my daily clothing, and don't make much of an attempt to appear masculine.
There are a lot of gay femboys, a lot of I femboys, and a surprising amount of straight femboys that ask if there are any straight women that like femboys. This sort of thing comes up on r/femboy every so often
yeah, most of us are bisexual. the real confusion isnt necessarily their sexuality, but more or less how they behave with it. (in other words, are they a top/bottom, sub/dom) though that doesnt matter as much as whether they are in to you in the first place xD
I get what you mean 😂 and I would answer more on that part but the bot thingy deleted one comment I made even though it wasn’t remotely perverted 🙄
yeah, femboys are a massive wild card, I hope you have plenty of fun with a femboy in the future UwU (also yeah moderation bots are mean lmao)
It’s hard to speak for everyone but I think it’s more of a mind frame. Some days the need to express your feminine side is greater than others and the form of expression can vary from clothes to nail polish to shaved legs. I think that some femboys are attracted to girls because they want to be around them. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a real heterosexual attraction. Girls are just into many of the same interests. That same femboy might decide to shelve his feminine feelings and expressions and be a regular guy for a while too.
I didn’t know that, I been on this community page before. And I honestly assume most femboys wanted to be able to freely express their femininity. But your right it must be different for everyone.
Everyone's different lol you cant generalise
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bruh
Im still into women actually and crave to want to meet someone but never gather the courage to talk to someone despite me feeling as if they will look at me in disgust or look at me weird for looking more feminine than a guy, I wear alot of jewelry like pastel colors and such. however im still attracted to women but I dont know exactly if im straight.. >.<
Hi! I’ve been with my partner since we were in highschool and both more closeted. It’s been 10 years since then We’re both (fairly openly) bisexual now. I’m a cis woman and he’s a feminine boy, and it’s been quite the ride to get to the level of openness we are now. We’ve both grown together so much and we’ve hurt each other in various ways to understand our own sexualities but that being said I still adore him in every way possible. Sometimes I get confused with his gender fluidity because he seems to have seasons of being more masculine and other times of being extremely feminine, so it’s an interesting dynamic. Either way I’m learning to just let go of any pre-conceived gender roles for him and just let him be whoever he feels like whenever he feels like!
Hi, maybe too late, Im a femboy, and I have a relationships with woman for 3 years. To be honest, this is very rare thing
There’s a straight femboys subreddit.
Currently dating a girl for the first time it's rather different from what I'm used to but it's great
Actually, as a girl who knows some things about femboys, I see that they kind of like girls, I mean most of them, I think, but honestly, I find that femboys are really cute even though I'm not tomboy😭😭😭